Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**ManBj123** · 10-10-24 20:56

Hi Brothers,

There was a drama when I met the girl Kayla from SA today. I have been talking to her for a couple of days and pulled the trigger after seeing a brother's post. I thought she was just wacky, but I was wrong she is crazy.

We met at her place, 8 Afton Terrace in Middletown, this afternoon. When I freshened up in the restroom, the girl acted crazy. She suddenly came in and said, "You have to leave. " She ended up using a knife and pointing it at me. A lot of drama happened, and the police were called. Four police cars came swiftly within a couple of minutes.

3 police officers came to me separately, asking what happened? (wanted to meet a friend, but ended up with a knife pointing at me), how did you guys meet? (online), who called 911? (by me, safety comes first); Did you pay her money in any sort of cash / card? (Definitely No No No, the important thing needs to be repeated 3 times. A trap for arrest?

The senior policeman among them eventually came to me and said she was most likely acting as a prostitute. There is a big risk of meeting someone online (Yes, now I know it). Sometimes, there might be sort of boyfriend rushing out from another room in other cases. (I agree, but I haven't met yet).

At last, I came out as a freeman, but a huge lesson was learned.

She asked for the ducks right when we had just met. (Normally, this is a big red flag; I don't know why I ignored it). Not sure what happened to the girl after.

Her account on SA is already gone. I've attached the pictures. The car at 8 Afton Terrace Middletown might not be hers; it might be her roommate's. So, I covered the plate#.

Warning!

**DarkClouds** · 10-09-24 21:17

I filter those out. There's a setting to do that. This is why I don't switch platforms from SA to SB to whatever at the drop of a hat. It takes time to learn a platform. And switching creates a whole new learning curve.

Originally Posted by ManBj123 [View Original Post]

She has platonic in her profile.

**ManBj123** · 10-09-24 21:12

Originally Posted by BuckCock [View Original Post]

Should have told her "Great, I want to go in hard and fast ooray".

She has platonic in her profile.

**Buck Cock** · 10-09-24 03:07

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

After chatting a bit she said, no intimacy will be there in the arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-9c121abab998

Should have told her "Great, I want to go in hard and fast ooray".

**Chudakkad** · 10-08-24 15:35

Don't waste your time on this one, scammer alert.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-bcaa406ff2be

**Chudakkad** · 10-08-24 15:27

After chatting a bit she said, no intimacy will be there in the arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-9c121abab998

**Zinn2008** · 10-08-24 11:41

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-492c3b7f194f

Hosts out of her apartment in central CT.

She's a little wacky but is a lot of fun in bed.

Saw her a few times and might repeat at some point again.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-1125a5e92067

Requires a deposit for meet + greets and dates so passed.

**Zinn2008** · 10-08-24 11:34

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-710f9f7419e4

Agreed upon the price $$$ and met at her place just over the MA border.

Right as things were started. She switched the menu to a BBBJ only and said we can do more during the subsequent visits.

Pictures are more flattering than in person.

There will not be any subsequent visits.

**Chudakkad** · 10-07-24 16:37

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

This approach works with pros and if you are ready to haggle, haggle, haggle. Amateurs are not used to throwing numbers out so with them I usually throw out a number. As long as it is not insultingly low they will usually accept and we can move on. True amateurs are not in the game for long and if you wait too long they may be gone forever. As for the OP's situation, she sounds like a pro. If you're still interested put her on the back burner for now and try her in a few months. If her situation is different she might accept your offer. I once had a girl who was in one of those notorious GDP movies quote me $2k. A year or so later I met her at the high end of my usual gift range.

Makes sense, I rarely see pros, or at least I would like to believe that, probably that's why in most cases it has worked.

**DarkClouds** · 10-07-24 07:44

This approach works with pros and if you are ready to haggle, haggle, haggle. Amateurs are not used to throwing numbers out so with them I usually throw out a number. As long as it is not insultingly low they will usually accept and we can move on. True amateurs are not in the game for long and if you wait too long they may be gone forever. As for the OP's situation, she sounds like a pro. If you're still interested put her on the back burner for now and try her in a few months. If her situation is different she might accept your offer. I once had a girl who was in one of those notorious GDP movies quote me $2k. A year or so later I met her at the high end of my usual gift range.

Originally Posted by GlenBenton [View Original Post]

Sounds like your game needs some work. It's okay, I'm not knocking you, and I don't know your situation or how long you've been talking to that west Hartford dime, but you it sounds like you mentioned money first.

Never never never be the first one to throw out #'s.

Let her tell you what she's looking for and then negotiate. It her# is way above your pay-grade, bounce. You can always check-in with her in a month or so to see if she reevaluated her perceived worth.

Just my 2 cents.

**Zinn2008** · 10-07-24 07:44

Originally Posted by Jarred [View Original Post]

Her profile says she's in Groton. Which is NOWHERE NEAR Central Connecticut. What's the story with your post? Are you referring to someone else?

Interesting.

Perhaps she moved. I haven't seen her in a few months so maybe she's along the shore now.

**Chudakkad** · 10-07-24 07:20

Originally Posted by GlenBenton [View Original Post]

Sounds like your game needs some work. It's okay, I'm not knocking you, and I don't know your situation or how long you've been talking to that west Hartford dime, but you it sounds like you mentioned money first.

Never never never be the first one to throw out #'s.

Let her tell you what she's looking for and then negotiate. It her# is way above your pay-grade, bounce. You can always check-in with her in a month or so to see if she reevaluated her perceived worth.

Just my 2 cents.

Appreciate the tip, I admit I have had no success initially then went with this new approach of telling them about the allowance I am offering first to cut to the chase and have met some gems with this new approach, so that has been my style for a while and in lot of cases it has worked great but may not be the optimal way of doing it. Also, I noticed that I have had more success in MA or even in RI than in CT.

**Jarred** · 10-06-24 23:49

Originally Posted by Zinn2008 [View Original Post]

She's cool.

Hosts out of her house in central Ct on a quiet presidential road.

A little older but very much into sex and is a lot of fun.

Treat her well. She's a good person.

Her profile says she's in Groton. Which is NOWHERE NEAR Central Connecticut. What's the story with your post? Are you referring to someone else?

**GlenBenton** · 10-06-24 16:16

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...8-8e26e293aa48

I offered her the maximum allowance that I give but she said it won't work.

Sounds like your game needs some work. It's okay, I'm not knocking you, and I don't know your situation or how long you've been talking to that west Hartford dime, but you it sounds like you mentioned money first.

Never never never be the first one to throw out #'s.

Let her tell you what she's looking for and then negotiate. It her# is way above your pay-grade, bounce. You can always check-in with her in a month or so to see if she reevaluated her perceived worth.

Just my 2 cents.

**Echoniner** · 10-06-24 14:59

I use SB sometimes, but lately, I haven't been getting any views, responses, or pretty much anything, despite being verified, having a bunch of pics, the whole nine yards.

I recently learned of SD, which is pretty much the same site as SB but with a palette swap: same profiles, same credit-based system, etc. I made an account there with no pics, no verification, and no profile information, and I'm getting slammed with messages. Sure, some of the messages could be from bots, but I try to stick to verified girls if I can; and what I find most annoying is that some of the girls I'm trying to reach out to through SB haven't even gotten so far as to look at my profile, yet they've viewed and messaged my garbage SD profile.

Now, I have this conspiracy theory that the girls that signed up through SD cannot see messages from people that use SB, and possibly vice-versa. Is anyone else experiencing the same thing?