NoVA SugarBabies

**ProCatHunter** · 10-02-24 09:15

Ai and social media are becoming increasingly smart.

I noticed that snap was suggesting friends that looked familiar. Realized many of the suggestions were girls from seeking. I am guessing the following is occurring:

Once you add enough user ids from girls you meet on seeking; snap is identifying overlaps. So when snap sees that I'm friends with girls X, why, and Z; it is suggesting that I add some of you mongers and girls A, B, and C (which you mongers have added, but I didn't because I ended up being left on read when I messaged the same ladies and never reactivated my account).

Been messaging some of these ladies and will report back if this new technique pays off. Would be a fun way to maximize room usage (eg sugar babies 1 and 2 get scheduled) and then rando from Snap fills time in between.

**Gourmand56** · 10-01-24 18:33

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

Generally. It's like dating. The girls in the sugar bowl run the gamut. They don't operate off of a more or less uniform set of standards like escorts do. You got girls who want you to pay them for platonic dates and nothing else. You got girls who double as escorts and want to be paid by the hour or the night. You got girls who want a financially secure relationship that leads to marriage. You got girls that want a boyfriend who'll buy them nice things. You really have to treat each one on a case by case basis and feel them out. Then once you find her.

The best thing to do is to be as anonymous as possible and state your intentions up front. Tell them you're married and intend to stay that way. Be brutally honest and reinforce it if need be. Don't assume that they're OK with married men. Don't assume that they're going to continue to be OK with married men as things progress. The biggest threat to your marriage is a girl who feels like you played her or lead her on. Being honest and upfront about your marriage is the best protection.

And you have to maintain boundaries too. That means letting her live her life outside of whatever arrangement you have with her. If you break the contract by trying to encroach on her life, you invite her in to do the same to you. Do not overstep if you intend to stay married. Do not let jealously wreck things.

To start.

**CuriousVaMan** · 10-01-24 17:44

You sure cast that net far and wide. You posted this question in the forums for about 10 different cities. Why? My spidey senses are activated.

Originally Posted by Xcvxxx [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**Xcvxxx** · 10-01-24 13:27

Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.

As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

**FrankCastle6** · 10-01-24 06:54

These two profiles have the exact same text, must be cut and paste spammers:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-fae39a12d69d

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...0-89b01e727d66

Fake, this is a porn star whose name I do not know:

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...5-c94f8cabb5c2

**VictorSmitham** · 10-01-24 02:48

Originally Posted by Shinshi [View Original Post]

Already been reported on a handful of times (see below). In fact, you were the one asking about her last year. Personally, I reached out twice around that time. But I was left on read in both instances so I gave up.

Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.

**ProCatHunter** · 09-30-24 15:25

And the other offers, but truly not sure if I am ready to give her up just yet.

Not going to respond to all the individual PMs I received, but didn't want you all to think I was ignoring you. Going to have to empty my inbox again soon. Fml.

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.

She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.

I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.

Fml.

**ProCatHunter** · 09-30-24 11:08

Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.

She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.

I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.

Fml.

**LikItFun** · 09-29-24 10:51

For those of you who enjoyed her last time.

Originally Posted by NovaNova [View Original Post]

A Few for the board:

Jessica (aka Franchesca).

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...7-1b71956866fe

She has been reviewed before with the same profile and different username. Finally got to meet her as she is back in town and picking up the pro or at least semi-pro vibes. Really nice person and her English is good though not perfect. Easy to communicate and setup meeting with. Head game was awesome with DT and sloppy. She really gets into the act. Would repeat at some point. Damage was $400.

**InternNew** · 09-28-24 18:58

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Once upon a time, not any more.

Does anyone have a new link to her profile? Couldn't find anymore.

**FrankCastle6** · 09-28-24 17:30

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-5798252039c0

Seems real, private pics are attractive, slim, vaguely Eastern European. Wants 5 k / mo or 1200/ meet.

**FrankCastle6** · 09-28-24 15:56

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

I've noticed over the past week or so probably a half dozen profiles that all have that phrase "love circuit" in their profile. Clearly the same person making all these profiles and just recycling the same words, just too lazy to come up with better verbiage.

"Love circuit" or LOVE in the title is a particular scam. They tell you that they only date through an exclusive 3rd party site or chat room called LOVE. You have to pay to get in. Once they have your money, they block you.

LOVE scammer:

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-357af15e1a0d

Who wants to tell her that her friends are lying when they say they aren't fucking their SDs?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-b50ad36af7c5

Hannah is back (never met her myself).

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-719857300ea2

**Dimples572** · 09-28-24 11:29

Originally Posted by SteveStone123 [View Original Post]

Another fake one as the location is showing as UK.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-357af15e1a0d

I've noticed over the past week or so probably a half dozen profiles that all have that phrase "love circuit" in their profile. Clearly the same person making all these profiles and just recycling the same words, just too lazy to come up with better verbiage.

**SteveStone123** · 09-28-24 00:05

Another fake one as the location is showing as UK.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-357af15e1a0d

**Rudy Wellz** · 09-27-24 20:00

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

There is a SB that I'm am currently seeing more "on than off" and have for the last 3 years. During this time, she disappeared. No breakup, just silence. Then, out of nowhere, several months later, she texted and wanted to see me. Told me she went back home to the midwest to help her family. Fast forward to several months ago when I ran her face through FaceCheck and her mug shot for child endangerment (assuming they were her own) popped up. Now I realize that she was away either locked up or getting her act together (or something else), but definitely not visiting family.

I know this young lady had a few of us as SD's. She was in my rotation for a long time as stated above. Last saw her 2 months ago for our usual great time. Left with a hug and a smile with plans to meet up again soon. Then radio silence, no response to my texts, and now her phone number is disconnected. Perhaps one of you made her an exclusive offer? Just hoping that she is OK.