Arrangement Reports

[WisRealMan]

I had her over to my place for a blowjob for only $100 about 5 years ago. The BJ was great, it was bare and she took her time with it. I blew it in her mouth and she went and spit. I didn't repeat cause I wasn't very attracted to her in person. She is extremely thin it's almost unsettling to see. Plus, one time I asked for her to come over again to do the same thing and she was on some GPS bullshit.

She is currently looking for $500.

[DionysusII]

They're few and far between and you'll have to sift through a lot of scammers to find an active and attractive one.

Or they're posting in Chicago to be considered by the ultra rich SD's down there.

Couple young strippers from Madison told me they get 500-600 ppm down there so they stopped seeing WI guys or expect us to cough up the same dough.

[RusselJimmies]

Where are the 18-22 yr olds seeking arrangement women posting these days?

Checked out SA and filtered for this age-group and nothing came up recently active. It's the same women from 3-4 years ago who got older and are still available in the pool. Are the younger women not interested in sugar dating anymore or are they using another site / app?

They're few and far between and you'll have to sift through a lot of scammers to find an active and attractive one.

[BeNewAgain]

Anybody have experience with this one? Newer user, seems plugged into the partying lifestyle. I think her brunette friend and her do bottle service at Room Seven or whatever the lone night club in Milwaukee is called these days. I'm chatting with her and she seems legit, allowance seems in-market value.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...0-6b480593b9ce

[GeekAuto]

I don't think she posts on escort sites at all, but definitely seems high volume. Pretty sure she came over the same day we started talking, so she was definitely eager for money.

That's what I was thinking too, she's either a semi pro or high volume at this point.

I guess I won't pull the trigger.

Thanks for sharing, man.

[DieselMike]

Eventually I'll get to a question but a little background. I work in an industry where I encounter a TON of black women. I've had a few that have come on to me, one was completely aware of my situation and offered me a "sugar baby" arrangement. I must admit that I was intrigued, but the levels of drama in her life completely turned me off and I was able to turn her down with some grace.

I'm currently interacting with a woman who is smart, funny, cheerful and pretty. Normally I'd be turned off by the number of tattoos she has but the rest of the package has me seeing past that. She has been VERY flirtatious and always asks me to do small "favors" for her. Nothing that would get me in trouble but things that are unethical. I get the feeling that her lack of ethics and her flirtatious nature would make her open to a proposition of an "arrangement".

I don't want to "defecate where I work" so it leads me to hesitate but, I'm leaning towards asking her if she would be open to something. She knows I'm married and I'm old enough to be her grandfather, but she is sexy as all get out and seems like she would be open to it.

What do you think would be the best way to go about this? Should I continue to beat around the Bush and hope that a conversation turns into something more, or should I just come out and ask her?

I also don't know what the going rates are. I imagine that it varies from woman to woman, but a ballpark figure will help me decide if I want to go through with something like this.

I can understand the temptation but that is a very dangerous situation. Best to step back, way back. Even a whisper to management about "old white guy / young black girl" will have you out the door in a heartbeat. People are probably already taking notice. Be careful even in casual conversation with her. The problem now is that she might start some shit if you give her the cold shoulder. You're already in a bad position on this, tread carefully and don't make it worse.

And stop doing "small favors" for her, especially if it's "unethical" stuff. That will bite you in the ass like a pitbull.

[DionysusII]

Where are the 18-22 yr olds seeking arrangement women posting these days?

Checked out SA and filtered for this age-group and nothing came up recently active. It's the same women from 3-4 years ago who got older and are still available in the pool. Are the younger women not interested in sugar dating anymore or are they using another site / app?

[BeNewAgain]

Eventually I'll get to a question but a little background. I work in an industry where I encounter a TON of black women. I've had a few that have come on to me, one was completely aware of my situation and offered me a "sugar baby" arrangement. I must admit that I was intrigued, but the levels of drama in her life completely turned me off and I was able to turn her down with some grace.

I'm currently interacting with a woman who is smart, funny, cheerful and pretty. Normally I'd be turned off by the number of tattoos she has but the rest of the package has me seeing past that. She has been VERY flirtatious and always asks me to do small "favors" for her. Nothing that would get me in trouble but things that are unethical. I get the feeling that her lack of ethics and her flirtatious nature would make her open to a proposition of an "arrangement".

I don't want to "defecate where I work" so it leads me to hesitate but, I'm leaning towards asking her if she would be open to something. She knows I'm married and I'm old enough to be her grandfather, but she is sexy as all get out and seems like she would be open to it..

Based on how you describe her, tatted up young black woman who seems open minded with morals, she most definitely would be interested it sounds. I've had good luck with civilian types who hadn't done a sugar arrangement yet. All of them have heard of it so she won't be shocked by the idea. Civilian types you can sometimes get for less, so I would see if $200 per meet works. Just bring it up to her that some girl at the gym propositioned you about it and although you told her no, it made you think about the concept of it and you want to work something out with her.

[BeNewAgain]

You think she's a pro?

I don't think she posts on escort sites at all, but definitely seems high volume. Pretty sure she came over the same day we started talking, so she was definitely eager for money.

[NewtonBomb]

Eventually I'll get to a question but a little background. I work in an industry where I encounter a TON of black women. I've had a few that have come on to me, one was completely aware of my situation and offered me a "sugar baby" arrangement. I must admit that I was intrigued, but the levels of drama in her life completely turned me off and I was able to turn her down with some grace.

I'm currently interacting with a woman who is smart, funny, cheerful and pretty. Normally I'd be turned off by the number of tattoos she has but the rest of the package has me seeing past that. She has been VERY flirtatious and always asks me to do small "favors" for her. Nothing that would get me in trouble but things that are unethical. I get the feeling that her lack of ethics and her flirtatious nature would make her open to a proposition of an "arrangement".

I don't want to "defecate where I work" so it leads me to hesitate but, I'm leaning towards asking her if she would be open to something. She knows I'm married and I'm old enough to be her grandfather, but she is sexy as all get out and seems like she would be open to it.

What do you think would be the best way to go about this? Should I continue to beat around the Bush and hope that a conversation turns into something more, or should I just come out and ask her?

I also don't know what the going rates are. I imagine that it varies from woman to woman, but a ballpark figure will help me decide if I want to go through with something like this.

[GeekAuto]

I had her over to my place for a blowjob for only $100 about 5 years ago. The BJ was great, it was bare and she took her time with it. I blew it in her mouth and she went and spit. I didn't repeat cause I wasn't very attracted to her in person. She is extremely thin it's almost unsettling to see. Plus, one time I asked for her to come over again to do the same thing and she was on some GPS bullshit.

You think she's a pro?

[BeNewAgain]

Anyone met this one? Is she legit?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...9-a1221ed57a7a

PM is fine too..

I had her over to my place for a blowjob for only $100 about 5 years ago. The BJ was great, it was bare and she took her time with it. I blew it in her mouth and she went and spit. I didn't repeat cause I wasn't very attracted to her in person. She is extremely thin it's almost unsettling to see. Plus, one time I asked for her to come over again to do the same thing and she was on some GPS bullshit.

[GeekAuto]

Anyone met this one? Is she legit?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...9-a1221ed57a7a

PM is fine too.

TIA.

[LoveSmallPerky]

Exact same filter criteria gets the exact same results. Doesn't mean you aren't having good luck there, but they are definitely the same site posing as separate sites.

Another factor many may not remember or know is that the main companies own multiple sites. I remember a few years back while reading the terms it listed over 10 different websites they own and openly stated they would use profiles to generate profiles on their other sites. Some of the lesser known sites don't show when they are online, last time online or if messages are read which helps to hide the fake profiles not logging on. One app I tried showed a little more than 100 profiles in WI but only 11 of them rotated order to show they logged on. All they care about is the money.

[Alabamalon]

If you have an account here (or make one if you don't), check out this blonde woman's profile pic, profile pictures, then her verification video. Remember, this is the same exact woman in the pics and verification video.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...c13ebb6a77bab4

I really don't want to go through the hassle of creating an account here and even on SA. Used to be easier, now it's too much work going back and forth to find a date and there's not as much profiles on SA lately. I was tempted to pay the least expensive Secretbenefits credit option, and throw the coins back in the ocean wishing that I'll meet the one. After that blonde woman's photos, my hope is gone and I no longer have faith that anyone would reply back to me there.