Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Steve 99]

No side effects for me. I take it year round. 100% covered by insurance and 40 dollar copay on the std test / blood work 4 times per year. Makes it easy to show your partners the std results and it costs less, at least for me. Mark cubans drug company also offers PrEP for almost free. But you still need to get a prescription / regular lab work. So best bet is to go through plushcare or mistr because they make it easy.

I have used services like plushcare before, but mistr is another. I prefer going in person for the lab tests, so mistr isn't an option for me. I've heard that in some major cities like NYC there are nonprofits that you can go to that make it easy. Of course you can always ask your regular doctor. It is 2024, but you still could run into them not being as informed.

You don't have to say your gay. You just tell the truth. You have frequent unprotected sex with other people that are potentially in high risk categories. You can say escorts, gangbangs, bar hookups, swinger parties, adult theaters. Or not. But you can just be pretty direct. You are talking to your doctor.

Good stuff thanks. I can't see taking every day. Damn you are a sluuuuttt. LOL.

There is also now Doxyprep. Doctors have approved taking 2 doxycyclines after raw sex day after to prevent chylmidia and Gonnereah. So us mongers are now bullet proof. Might be little overboard but better than getting a STD. I will always remember my dick turning red on way to Cuba and had to run to clinic to get shot in the ass for gonnerea. LOL. You aint livin unless you get an STD. Haha.

[JackTaggart]

Do you take prep consistently? Or just on monger trips? How are the side effects? I have started looking into that. Though the chances of getting HIV are very low regular sex. You still have that peace of mind. Especially if you going raw dog high high risk areas.

Did you get it presciped online? Your insurance covered? Yeah guy told him he went through mistr. Guess you could tell them you are gay. LOL.

No side effects for me. I take it year round. 100% covered by insurance and 40 dollar copay on the std test / blood work 4 times per year. Makes it easy to show your partners the std results and it costs less, at least for me. Mark cubans drug company also offers PrEP for almost free. But you still need to get a prescription / regular lab work. So best bet is to go through plushcare or mistr because they make it easy.

I have used services like plushcare before, but mistr is another. I prefer going in person for the lab tests, so mistr isn't an option for me. I've heard that in some major cities like NYC there are nonprofits that you can go to that make it easy. Of course you can always ask your regular doctor. It is 2024, but you still could run into them not being as informed.

You don't have to say your gay. You just tell the truth. You have frequent unprotected sex with other people that are potentially in high risk categories. You can say escorts, gangbangs, bar hookups, swinger parties, adult theaters. Or not. But you can just be pretty direct. You are talking to your doctor.

[Steve 99]

I was browsing the latest SA money suckers. I said I remember her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-c97c8e1ba389

She is a STRONG BIG girl. Not fat or anything. Just strong. Went the usual meet at restaurant. Then I think next meet fuck motel.

She was pretty good but got pro vibes. She been around. She could fuck you silly if you can handle it. Covered but think if you met bunch of times you could get raw.

She from NYC I think. Up in Hartford. New Britain area now.

[Steve 99]

++ On the unplanned pregnancy. That was my main concern that I mitigated finally last year. It cost me like 50 bucks maybe to get it done with insurance. I've fucked 250+ bareback the last 3 years and no STDs. I'm on prep and tested 4 times per year. Not trying to convince anyone or suggest STDs don't happen. But I can't imagine not getting a vasectomy if you are done having kids. It's such a big relief. And prep largely mitigated hiv risk when taken consistently.

With this in mind, I never bring bareback up except for escorts outside usa. It typically just happens. At an international bothel I usually will to avoid misunderstanding and since most will say yes.it just saves a bunch of time.

Do you take prep consistently? Or just on monger trips? How are the side effects? I have started looking into that. Though the chances of getting HIV are very low regular sex. You still have that peace of mind. Especially if you going raw dog high high risk areas.

Did you get it presciped online? Your insurance covered? Yeah guy told him he went through mistr. Guess you could tell them you are gay. LOL.

[JackTaggart]

Kinda how I look at it too. I won't fuck a girl who is high volume raw, and there have only been a few (all in the last few years) whom I have gone bare with. The first one was a very well educated professional and provided a recent test. There have been a few others as well, but I have to get the right vibe.

Ill say this. Unplanned pregnancy scares me more than a lot of stds. I had an sb about 5 years ago. Absolutely stunning. Like model material after she dropped the baby fat she had on her when I met her. Nice girl but a bit mentally unstable. I saw her for a couple years. Never once did I go bare, even though she would have let me every single time. I was nervous that she would intentionally get pregnant.

++ On the unplanned pregnancy. That was my main concern that I mitigated finally last year. It cost me like 50 bucks maybe to get it done with insurance. I've fucked 250+ bareback the last 3 years and no STDs. I'm on prep and tested 4 times per year. Not trying to convince anyone or suggest STDs don't happen. But I can't imagine not getting a vasectomy if you are done having kids. It's such a big relief. And prep largely mitigated hiv risk when taken consistently.

With this in mind, I never bring bareback up except for escorts outside usa. It typically just happens. At an international bothel I usually will to avoid misunderstanding and since most will say yes.it just saves a bunch of time.

[DonnnyBravo]

I don't talk about it.

When it's time to slide it in, after foreplay and making out, I always do it raw unless they they stop you and ask for a condom. Some might ask you to bring the condom before the meet, but during the meet and after a few drinks and conversation, a lot of them will let you fuck raw once they see you in person.

I fuck probably about 80-90% of my babies raw, very rarely do they require condoms.

I'm with TP9. No need to bring up unless that's a show stopper. I've only had one that was adamant about it but the second time and there after was raw. I'm snipped so pregnancy is not an issue.

As far as ppm. 400-600 seems to always be the starting point. I've never had an issue getting it down to 200 or less after the first meet. I've had one girl that we were going to talk ppm at the meet but we never discussed. I know what a friend paid which was half of asking, so I went in with intel. I was surprised she never brought it up even at drop off. Looking back that was probably cold hearted of me not to provide something as a gift. She's a model but too much fake manmade attributes to bother repeating.

[Sutigel2]

I don't talk about it.

When it's time to slide it in, after foreplay and making out, I always do it raw unless they they stop you and ask for a condom. Some might ask you to bring the condom before the meet, but during the meet and after a few drinks and conversation, a lot of them will let you fuck raw once they see you in person.

I fuck probably about 80-90% of my babies raw, very rarely do they require condoms.

Kinda how I look at it too. I won't fuck a girl who is high volume raw, and there have only been a few (all in the last few years) whom I have gone bare with. The first one was a very well educated professional and provided a recent test. There have been a few others as well, but I have to get the right vibe.

I’ll say this. Unplanned pregnancy scares me more than a lot of stds. I had an sb about 5 years ago. Absolutely stunning. Like model material after she dropped the baby fat she had on her when I met her. Nice girl but a bit mentally unstable. I saw her for a couple years. Never once did I go bare, even though she would have let me every single time. I was nervous that she would intentionally get pregnant.

[TopGun9]

Kind of a rookie / dumb question but when talking about details. How do you ask if BB is on the menu without sounding too off putting?

Any subtle suggestions of asking directly but in a more welcoming (not creepy) manner?

I don't talk about it.

When it's time to slide it in, after foreplay and making out, I always do it raw unless they they stop you and ask for a condom. Some might ask you to bring the condom before the meet, but during the meet and after a few drinks and conversation, a lot of them will let you fuck raw once they see you in person.

I fuck probably about 80-90% of my babies raw, very rarely do they require condoms.

[JtKim]

Kind of a rookie / dumb question but when talking about details. How do you ask if BB is on the menu without sounding too off putting?

Any subtle suggestions of asking directly but in a more welcoming (not creepy) manner?

First bring up when was your last STD test results then ask when was her last test. Even bring out BB on the table, most of times the lady bring up the condom use as soon as when I brought up the STD test. If she couldn't provide test results, you probably don't want to fuck her bare anyway.

[Sutigel2]

Kind of a rookie / dumb question but when talking about details. How do you ask if BB is on the menu without sounding too off putting?

Any subtle suggestions of asking directly but in a more welcoming (not creepy) manner?

Bring condoms so you are prepared. See what happens in the heat of the moment.

[Zinn2008]

Kind of a rookie / dumb question but when talking about details. How do you ask if BB is on the menu without sounding too off putting?

Any subtle suggestions of asking directly but in a more welcoming (not creepy) manner?

[CtSpoilGuy]

200 ppm is becoming increasingly hard to find.

300-400 is where the typical ppm lies these days.

Yeah and I remember when 200 was on the higher end of things! I still get a reasonable number of dates for 200 though but I'll settle for 3. Above that I've really got to want it.

[TopGun9]

I don't want to give specifics because I don't want anything potentially getting back to me but unless I say something like more than I usually do, they range from 2-3 with the occasional 4.

200 ppm is becoming increasingly hard to find.

300-400 is where the typical ppm lies these days.

[SR Only]

Kristina: https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-e2855fb10550.

Meh. 5. 5/10.

Kristina was one of my first meetings off seeking. Car date in a mini mall. So-so BJ. I think I blew my load just to get it done and went on my way. It was too much work, The short version is I wouldn't repeat.

As I think about it she wanted a lot of money for a so-so BJ. I have others can bang BBFS or CIM at a lot lesser money. Kristina was cute which is what brought me in, but I want my dick inside for reasonable money. That's my private stock these days.

I did lose a woman I had been hooking up with for 12+ years. We enjoyed each others company. We were friends. Then a month ago she was MIA for a week+. For some reason I checked Facebook and a family member posted about her donating body parts to three separate people. I was floored. She's gone. We'd always climax together or pretty close to it. Pet names for each other. Yes, she did the dark arts. I think I could say I loved her as it still pains me she is gone. I cannot say goodbye. I have no closure. It breaks my heart.

If she knew she was going to die, would it be any better with advance notice? I am not so sure about that. I would have been torn part if she said "it's our last time. " If she had a BF and moved on that would be one thing. But I think it was an OD or heart attack / aneurism.

I miss my Jessica.

[DarkClouds]

For some reason, RoseGold just won't load for me. I get a forever spinning circle. But oddly, the only one I made the mistake of getting too close to was a bit like her. Not much fun in bed (didn't care to put in the effort. If I got hard on my own then fine, she will let me put it in). But we did everything else. Go to bars, restaurants, casinos, zoos, play basketball. I was at her place (her parents' place) every other day. She would hound me daily to come pick her up. Or we would just hang at her place and she would cook. She was cute af (21 yo Portuguese) and loads of fun with public nudity and what not. Oh and I never gave her any cash - just bought her cigs, booze, clothes, toys, food, groceries, etc. But all good things must eventually come to an end. I had to cut it off cold turkey. Hope she doesn't read this.

RoseGold19: https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-b4cf72668bcf.

Sometimes I am interested in going out on dates and sometimes I just want to get together for some fun. This one is the type I call when I'm looking for a nice dinner companion. The conversation is better than the bedtime fun but sometimes there is value in that too. 7. 5/10.