"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**MacLuvin** · 09-23-24 08:40

Originally Posted by Coldgin499 [View Original Post]

Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.

If that's your thing. I had a girl reach out to me once about wanting me to be a paypig to her. Not my thing so declined. Not really in to weird stuff though. I just want something mutually beneficial / fwb. So they are out there but honestly if you want that just put that in your profile and see who bites?

**Roddee** · 09-23-24 05:31

Originally Posted by CrazyRocket [View Original Post]

When a good looking girl is very eager to meet after a few messages, it's almost always a scam. Especially if she shares unsolicited nudes.

Red flags:

1- An attractive girl should be receiving tons of messages, why insist on meeting ME?

2- No meet&greet. Any sane woman would require to meet in public to be safe.

3- No discussion of limits. Any sane woman would ask your expectations before wasting time with meeting.

4- Important: Trying to rush you. Scammers usually try to rush you so you don't have a moment to stop and think.

5- Important: Sending you nudes and other sexually influential material so that your little head takes over the thinking process.

Idk, but I've had many arrangements / meetings with ladies that were eager to meet my old fat ass. I assumed, it was because that's when they would get paid. (money is always the answer to a question you can't figure out).

I've never don't a meet and greet. This is with ****** and GND's. I assumed because I have a sense of humor and can carry on a stimulating conversation.

I get rushed by almost all the women I've met. I assumed it's because they've met many men who bs them for pix and never really meet. They only get paid when they meet. Just like any job, you don't get paid till after you start working. I don't want to start in 2 weeks. Let me start a new job. . . Now.

I get nudes from scammers and real possibilities. To me it ensures we are on the same page or at least reading from the same book.

**CrazyRocket** · 09-22-24 23:10

Originally Posted by VoraraMesh66 [View Original Post]

ArtsyPrincess 26 is fake. Had a date yesterday but she did not show up. No communication at all. It was waste of my Friday evening. Lost total 4 hours.

She was so eager to meet. She was telling me all kind of made up stories like she can not host as she live with her grandma to take care of her. She has busy schedule but how she is eager to meet me and very excited. Many messages exchanged and we decided to meet. Time and location both she decided and I agreed. I drove for 50 min in Friday's traffic to Emory druid hills area to meet her at Coffee place. She did not show up. Since then no communication. Radio silence. So I do not recommend her at all.

Please share some genuine SA profile that you have good experience with. DM is welcome.

When a good looking girl is very eager to meet after a few messages, it's almost always a scam. Especially if she shares unsolicited nudes.

I spoke to this petite blonde blue eyed late 20's single mom (my weakness) in Lawrenceville once. Facecheck returned a facebook profile which had some of SA photos. I was curious where it would lead to so I gave her my GV number. After greetings, I got busy with something else and didn't reply for a while. Then I received a short masturbation video from her with some really exciting moans. She quickly agreed to meet up the following Monday at a location I recommended. This whole thing evolved within 3 hours.

Red flags:

1- An attractive girl should be receiving tons of messages, why insist on meeting ME?

2- No meet&greet. Any sane woman would require to meet in public to be safe.

3- No discussion of limits. Any sane woman would ask your expectations before wasting time with meeting.

4- Important: Trying to rush you. Scammers usually try to rush you so you don't have a moment to stop and think.

5- Important: Sending you nudes and other sexually influential material so that your little head takes over the thinking process.

**Coldgin499** · 09-22-24 17:32

Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 09-19-24 12:09

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

You linked to messages.

My bad. Here's Tarrica's link - https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-ab18eac63d47.

**MacLuvin** · 09-19-24 08:06

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

SunKissedCurves - https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-10b44e35754a.

Tarrica - https://members.seeking.com/messages...4-aed2e9e45d69.

The second one seems pretty familiar. I think she's been around a while.

Every single time I reactivate my profile, she immediately messages me and shares her private photos. Reeks of desperation and honestly she's not even remotely cute for what type of arrangement she's looking for. Read her profile, she's a very BBW and she wants a boyfriend that pays her basically to go out to fancy restaurants, shows, etc, not really a SB IMO.

Not sure about the second one.

**Jims2321** · 09-18-24 16:17

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

SunKissedCurves - https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-10b44e35754a.

Tarrica - https://members.seeking.com/messages...4-aed2e9e45d69.

The second one seems pretty familiar. I think she's been around a while.

You linked to messages.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 09-18-24 12:51

SunKissedCurves - https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-10b44e35754a.

Tarrica - https://members.seeking.com/messages...4-aed2e9e45d69.

The second one seems pretty familiar. I think she's been around a while.

**MacLuvin** · 09-17-24 16:30

Originally Posted by Vader5 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...b-7764fdb503ec

This girl has had numerous accounts. Currently it's "bankerbarbie", but previously it was "mandyatl" if I remember correctly. Anyways, she is probably my second worse seeking experience of all time.

She met me at my hotel. I'm outside and she pulls up and rolls the window down and smoke starts billowing out like in a Cheech and Chong movie. I wanted to dip, but I was invested and wanted to try to make it work. She gets to the room with me and gets undressed. She's very unattractive in person, at least to me. She looks worn out. Her skin is saggy and she's skinny so it's like a soft bag of bones. Her body looks firm in her pics but I assure you it's not. I could also smell a metallic smell to her and it made me think I was smelling meth. I don't know what meth smells like, but if I had to guess, that would be it. And she acted like she was on something very strong. She proceeds to give a CBJ even though that's not what we agreed to. It was absolutely terrible. No suction and I couldn't even feel it. Even the face she made when doing it turned me off and it actually pissed me off because she was tweaking or something. Never felt so catfished before in my life and I couldn't stand her presence and the way she carried herself in general. At that point I told her to stop and get out of my room. I paid her a small amount of what we agreed to so she wouldn't pitch a fit. In my opinion she's a catfish and she doesn't know or at least act like she knows what she's doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't attempt a repeat if she paid me.

This is why we need to review these girls gentlemen. She actually just reached out to me today and the first thing I did was come here. Really disappointed to read it but glad I dodged a bullet. Her profile makes her seem pretty fun and she is very nice on the eyes on her pics. Shame her body isn't really like that. Maybe it used to be but she's destroyed it with meth or whatever else.

**Airmantroy** · 09-17-24 09:24

Originally Posted by PussyChatGPT [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-67a1e6e2d684

Nice enough girl, but not a repeat. She's been mentioned before, did a stint in the gray bar motel for posession, but that's in her past. Stills hits me up trying to meet all the time and it just wasn't good enough to warrant another shot. CFS, BBJ doesn't like DATY (I call bs on that) asked for 6 settled on 3. 5 doesn't host and isn't exactly like her pics, although not too far off. Just a wild guess but she may be more open with BBC more so than BWC as she did have a little hood to her.

**Peter Pan** · 09-16-24 20:38

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-67a1e6e2d684

**BrownSugaTwo** · 09-15-24 10:37

Originally Posted by LGSeeking [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-a87ae5ac22c7

Just started chatting with this woman. My M. O. Is a bit more long term. Just want any reports that you all may know about.

I never got her to commit to a day / time, but we did talk. Someone else here spoke of significant baby damage, but I don't necessarily mind that if she has a shirt on, etc. Sounds like she might have other problems (habits? Though, so maybe I dodged a bullet.

**Vader5** · 09-14-24 21:52

Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]

That sub is overrun with escorts, if you click on a few of the main contributors you'll find them also posting in the.

https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/

They will also talk about how much they hate men & how to get every $ you can out of us.

My research indices the same. I looked into the posters profiles as well. A large majority of them were pros.

**Machintosh** · 09-14-24 21:16

Originally Posted by LGSeeking [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-a87ae5ac22c7

Just started chatting with this woman. My M. O. Is a bit more long term. Just want any reports that you all may know about.

She has some serious problems. Proceed with caution.

**LGSeeking** · 09-14-24 17:44

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-a87ae5ac22c7

Just started chatting with this woman. My M. O. Is a bit more long term. Just want any reports that you all may know about.