Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**MrPete** · 09-10-24 00:27

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

I kept talking to her a bit more and I asked her about the escort ads, there were others. I told her, and this is true, I google the phone number SA girls give me and that really was how I found her ads. She said she posts on Tryst "because it's like Seeking but they allow more, but it's basically the same thing. " So yeah, I didn't call her out on the BS, but we quickly determined that we weren't sexually compatible. Cool chic, just not the one for me.

As an asside, I think I have found my own EriMari and we getting together Thursday. And no, I will not be posting a review unless it is to warn you all off of her being a flake or a scammer etc. I think for now on I will limit my contributions to cautionary tales and warnings for the time being.

There is still some pretty serious value in cautionary posts IMO.

**DarkClouds** · 09-09-24 21:50

Here's what I had to say about sharing on another forum.

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

I have shared a lot of UTRs with mongers with mixed success. The big difference is that I don't usually repeat with the ladies because I can rarely ever reproduce the thrill of that first encounter. So, I am not trying to keep my relationship with UTRs (not trying to ruin it either mind you. I usually stay friends with them forever). And most UTRs understand that there are all kinds of mongers and it would be silly of them to blame me for the behavior of another monger over whom I obviously have zero control. However, broadly speaking, I have seen two types of problems with mongers. One, inexperience causes them to be overly cautious and ask too many questions, which ruins the fun of it for me and for the ladies. They need to grow some balls and take a few chances. Especially when it's a recommendation coming from a senior member. What more assurance do you need? Two, I find that most mongers on this site are very insecure. Perhaps that's why they are on this site in the first place. As soon as a lady they're trying to connect with rejects them or perhaps doesn't reciprocate in the way they had hoped, they lash out and retaliate. That's obviously very immature behavior. Anyway the world moves on. I have continued to share and will do so as long as I'm able. Finally, although I appreciate a trade, I am not usually looking for one and the trades I'm usually offered are not up to my standards. In my early days I would have benefited more. But with experience I've been able to find my own gems and then pass them on to mongers who have shown good behavior and appreciation in the past.

Originally Posted by GlenBenton [View Original Post]

It sucks that some asswipe ruined everything for all. Whoever is responsible should go play in traffic.

**GlenBenton** · 09-09-24 21:35

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

I kept talking to her a bit more and I asked her about the escort ads, there were others. I told her, and this is true, I google the phone number SA girls give me and that really was how I found her ads. She said she posts on Tryst "because it's like Seeking but they allow more, but it's basically the same thing. " So yeah, I didn't call her out on the BS, but we quickly determined that we weren't sexually compatible. Cool chic, just not the one for me.

As an asside, I think I have found my own EriMari and we getting together Thursday. And no, I will not be posting a review unless it is to warn you all off of her being a flake or a scammer etc. I think for now on I will limit my contributions to cautionary tales and warnings for the time being.

It sucks that some asswipe ruined everything for all. Whoever is responsible should go play in traffic.

**Tommy13** · 09-09-24 20:07

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

She took her TYRST ad down, was active Saturday.

I kept talking to her a bit more and I asked her about the escort ads, there were others. I told her, and this is true, I google the phone number SA girls give me and that really was how I found her ads. She said she posts on Tryst "because it's like Seeking but they allow more, but it's basically the same thing. " So yeah, I didn't call her out on the BS, but we quickly determined that we weren't sexually compatible. Cool chic, just not the one for me.

As an asside, I think I have found my own EriMari and we getting together Thursday. And no, I will not be posting a review unless it is to warn you all off of her being a flake or a scammer etc. I think for now on I will limit my contributions to cautionary tales and warnings for the time being.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-09-24 10:55

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

Her Tryst profile didn't come up for me but when I googled her number I didn find another listing for her using the same photos from her SA profile.

She took her TYRST ad down, was active Saturday.

**Sutigel2** · 09-09-24 09:13

Originally Posted by TSmithers24 [View Original Post]

I saw a woman from seeking a while back and reviewed her here the very next day, which I don't normally do. The review was mostly good but said she was drunk and annoying. Later that day she sent me some very angry texts with screenshots of my review that someone sent her. I felt horrible but was about to talk my way out of it. Took some crafty storytelling but she bought it. Ended up not seeing her again which sucks because she was 22, cute and not pricey. There is a very angry post of mine somewhere on here about it. I'll never understand why anyone would do that.

I never write reviews, even negative ones, until after a few days. And even then, I still leave out any details which would allow a girl to identify me as an author.

That's why I still haven't shared my review of a girl who had a couple of positive reviews, but whom I watched get so drunk (in front of me) that she was slurring her words, and clearly starting to lose motor control. I paid her and called her an uber and nicely asked her to leave my hotel room. She slurred her words a bit more on the way out, telling me I missed out on a good time. Oh well. I could see that date going really badly. Best to end it when I did. Especially since I got a little bit of an unexpected mean girl vibe from her.

**TSmithers24** · 09-08-24 22:39

I saw a woman from seeking a while back and reviewed her here the very next day, which I don't normally do. The review was mostly good but said she was drunk and annoying. Later that day she sent me some very angry texts with screenshots of my review that someone sent her. I felt horrible but was about to talk my way out of it. Took some crafty storytelling but she bought it. Ended up not seeing her again which sucks because she was 22, cute and not pricey. There is a very angry post of mine somewhere on here about it. I'll never understand why anyone would do that.

Originally Posted by GlenBenton [View Original Post]

Why did someone tell her she has reviews? What the fuck is wrong with you (whoever you are)?!

I reviewed her once then my inbox blew up with people asking me all about her. I saw her again last Friday night and she, straight-up, asked me if I'd seen a review she had on an "escort review site".

This is bullshit. If you suck at play the game and you stoop to "sharing inside intel" with girls to get them interested, you are a sad fuck. Pathetic really.

I've knocked it out of the park with CT's SA options by being normal and smooth, I suggest you do the same. If she passes on you, let it go. You are either a weird old man or ugly.

Moving forward, if (emphasis on IF) I review any more SA girls, they will be void of details.

Thankfully, them and I get along great and I'll continue to see her.

Fuck. Someone here is a sorry sack of shit. Keep your mouth shut.

**Tommy13** · 09-08-24 21:08

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

She is an escort.

https://tryst.link/escort/inky

Her Tryst profile didn't come up for me but when I googled her number I didn find another listing for her using the same photos from her SA profile.

**Berol Loz** · 09-08-24 15:20

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

Not sure about this one if I did a Google reverse or I just saw her profile on Tyrst.

Yes, some people would be surprised how many girls use some of the same photos on sugar sites as they do on their escort profiles. I guess if they're good photos why not.

One of the other forums I'm on has a whole thread of escorts on sugar sites. My question would be do guys get better service if you meet her through Seeking / SDM or Tyrst?

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-08-24 13:33

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

How do you cross search these SB to Escorts?

Sumosearch used to be very helpful, but that site went down.

Not sure about this one if I did a Google reverse or I just saw her profile on Tyrst.

**TopGun9** · 09-08-24 13:09

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

She is an escort.

https://tryst.link/escort/inky

How do you cross search these SB to Escorts?

Sumosearch used to be very helpful, but that site went down.

**Jutah501** · 09-08-24 10:52

Originally Posted by PoolPlayInTool [View Original Post]

She is an escort.

https://tryst.link/escort/inky

She is a fun time but not really worth the 4 quarters she asks for, if you could talk her down to 2. 5 it would be worth a trip. She has a bit of a GPS attitude for the asking amount.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 09-08-24 09:59

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-8bbf5099bf73

This one seems genuine and cool. Anyone familair with her?

She is an escort.

https://tryst.link/escort/inky

**Tikov** · 09-08-24 08:18

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-8bbf5099bf73

This one seems genuine and cool. Anyone familair with her?

She's also on tryst.

https://tryst.link/escort/inky

Was supposed to meet up once, I got a room and she didn't show. Then she stopped responding to comms.