Alternate Sugar Sites: Secret Benefits, WYP, Etc. Not Seeking or SA

**BamBam** · 08-16-24 13:17

Claims she wants to chat online to get comfortable. Eventually tried to sell pictures. Her story has all kinds of holes. Said she going to Xavier for pre-law. Then says she starts "in a few weeks. " Later says she may not attend if she can't get enough money to buy a beater. No PII but pics appear to be local. That's what sucked me in.

My normal rule is that I do not spend credits unless I can establish they are real. I deviated from that rule twice now and wasted my credits. Learn from my mistakes and ignore this person.

BAM.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...46f04459405069

**BamBam** · 08-16-24 13:09

Says her name is Kirina. Uses a TextNow number. I was unable to find any PII. Insists on the allowance before meeting but will compromise for you by getting only half. Don't waste your credits.

BAM.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...3766c1c598c983

**D Nut** · 08-14-24 19:41

Originally Posted by Ginzo666 [View Original Post]

Let's assume for a second that "online only" is a real thing. Why should a SD seeking "only online" pay US prices for an "online only" SB? Might as well go Philippines or whatever then. No reason at all to pay US prices.

That is a very valid point that you can use when negotiating the terms of the relationship, IF you're open to an online only relationship. "You expect X cash, and provide Z online services. I can get the same Z for (X/5) by using an international call center or through OnlyFans."..

**Member #6847** · 08-14-24 18:47

Originally Posted by DNut [View Original Post]

Oh, I'm sure that have thought about the transactional nature of the SD / SB relationship. They thought about it enough to know they don't want trade physical intimacy for cash. That shows they are aware of what they're not willing to do; the glass ceiling they won't go past.

With that, the bidding starts at "not sex" for a wad of cash. What is their offer?

Let's assume for a second that "online only" is a real thing. Why should a SD seeking "only online" pay US prices for an "online only" SB? Might as well go Philippines or whatever then. No reason at all to pay US prices.

**D Nut** · 08-14-24 16:25

Originally Posted by Ginzo666 [View Original Post]

Do you think they've even thought that much about it? I suspect some influencer is blowing smoke up their asses as to the possibilities of online-only arrangements.

Oh, I'm sure that have thought about the transactional nature of the SD / SB relationship. They thought about it enough to know they don't want trade physical intimacy for cash. That shows they are aware of what they're not willing to do; the glass ceiling they won't go past.

With that, the bidding starts at "not sex" for a wad of cash. What is their offer?

**Member #6847** · 08-13-24 21:58

Originally Posted by DNut [View Original Post]

Has anyone actually asked these "online only" girls what it is they think they're bringing to the table that's worth the money they expect to receive? I'm genuinely curious.

Do you think they've even thought that much about it? I suspect some influencer is blowing smoke up their asses as to the possibilities of online-only arrangements.

**BamBam** · 08-13-24 18:27

Originally Posted by DNut [View Original Post]

Has anyone actually asked these "online only" girls what it is they think they're bringing to the table that's worth the money they expect to receive? I'm genuinely curious.

I have a lawyer on retainer and what he has to say keeps me out of jail, makes sure any and all contracts I sign says exactly what I think it does, and lowers my tax liability without breaking the law. What does an online only sugar baby retainer get me?

This is a questions that often gets asked here. I pledge to henceforth ask it every time I encounter this attitude. I invite you all to join me!

BAM.

**D Nut** · 08-12-24 15:39

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

She claims to have just reently moved from Cinti to Memphis. She wants an online only arrangement. I wished her good luck.

BAM.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a44a413cab47fc

Has anyone actually asked these "online only" girls what it is they think they're bringing to the table that's worth the money they expect to receive? I'm genuinely curious.

I have a lawyer on retainer and what he has to say keeps me out of jail, makes sure any and all contracts I sign says exactly what I think it does, and lowers my tax liability without breaking the law. What does an online only sugar baby retainer get me?

**BamBam** · 08-12-24 14:14

Pregnant, Nando1, no sex. Don't waste your credits.

BAM.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...63f5788b06f714

**BamBam** · 08-10-24 15:43

Scammer. Can only communicate via What'sApp. Phone does not work. Wifi only. Etc.

Bam.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...VO62w5RdDOxW4n

**BamBam** · 08-10-24 15:40

Scammer. Asked me for money in exchange for her phone number. Not a lot: $15 but nope.

BAM.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...L7apZ06jWqempk

**Irl Fan** · 08-08-24 19:26

This seems like a generational thing, but these girls need to realize that guys in a position to be a SD ain't going for that.

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

She claims to have just reently moved from Cinti to Memphis. She wants an online only arrangement. I wished her good luck.

BAM.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a44a413cab47fc

**BamBam** · 08-08-24 16:25

She claims to have just reently moved from Cinti to Memphis. She wants an online only arrangement. I wished her good luck.

BAM.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a44a413cab47fc

**BamBam** · 08-05-24 13:17

She is not here. She is in Columbia. Don't waste your credits.

BAM.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...PdQZO5ozpZgVeD

**Zeotch2** · 07-31-24 22:03

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

Second this, especially on Seeking there are girls looking for "virtual" (isn't that OnlyFans?) or "platonic" dates and in some cases have a boyfriend / girlfriend. Honestly I prefer the ones who are up-front, long time ago I did get suckered into girls who would comes for drinks, then had to dash to "meet friends" right after. Guess it's one way to get some free drinks and money for the club.

When I contact someone and get to communicating off the site, I make my intentions clear. Of all the ones I've chatted with, there were only a few who said they didn't want anything physical. And I make my intentions known up front so it's not a shock to them. The ones who don't want sex, I respect their decision and move on. But a few who I've been with when I told them that I've run into this have remarked that they were incredulous because they were also looking for intimacy as part of our arrangements.