"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Sgt Soros]

So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.

I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.

A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.

I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.

Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.

Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.

In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.

Stay safe out there.

Oh, I guarantee she'll be back for more. These fuckers are like parasitic leaches and will try to bleed you dry.

[Member #6704]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-9bc9627fb097

Asks for WhatsApp then I said no. We connected on Snapchat.

Her location shows Atlanta. But can you guys spot anything from the.

Profile that would help avoid these? So we skip their profile.

[GokuBoy420]

Anybody seen this one? Her profile comes and goes, seems she goes fishing and then deactivate her profile for a while then comes back months later. I am sure somebody reported her before. PM.

Faaaaaaaaar from her pictures, that's for sure. I met her and was like was I catfished? LOL. But DTF and she'll host if she likes you. I dropped her home and left.

[ElPerron]

Anybody seen this one? Her profile comes and goes, seems she goes fishing and then deactivate her profile for a while then comes back months later. I am sure somebody reported her before. PM.

[SpaceCoast99]

So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.

I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.

A few hours later, she springs her trap.

I've had a few ask for a face picture, so I downloaded one from my ex-wife new boyfriends Facebook page and use that. Then when we meet I just tell hem I was being safe.

[BrownSugaTwo]

Any info on this baby?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-589e7881dbbe

She wouldn't respond to any of my messages. I'm curious to know if she's real.

[LovePunnany]

Any info on this baby?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-589e7881dbbe

[Pasture Finder]

So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.

And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.

I had a very similar experience, but went the route of saying "fuck you. ".

Basically, I met for a M&G. She was real and hot and chemistry was there. We decided to get a room later that week.

The night before she asks me to send her $100 because she was stressed about XYZ. I tried to kick it until cash when we meet, but she was stressed. I sent a MoneyGram.

I learned NEVER to send digital funds.

She got my real name from the transfer looked me up and started threatening.

I said, "you're a dumb ass. You could have had me ongoing making your life better. Now you can figure out life with out me. I'm a grown ass adult and fine living with my decisions but won't let her threaten me. ".

She instantly was saying how she messed up and was sorry. She was just stressing about money.

Certainly a shitty experience. I luckily did decide before I started that I would do what I could to prevent someone finding out, but would live with my punishment if I fuck up. That has let me be bold when bad players come around.

10 years in and I've stayed hidden. Just a few "I think you'd be better off if I told your wife" comments from SBs I got close with. Which I quickly squashed.

[LouisHernandez]

I am super left wing myself I don't think that has anything to do with anything.

Then don't complain about reddit, you should love it.

[BrownSugaTwo]

She's been around for a while:

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-20f6c6c46ee1

Hopefully, someone has met her and can give an opinion.

[Roddee]

Is it me or is there something going on with her eyes?

That being said, I'd still bang her in the puscy.

GLHF.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72851117

Got a meet with this one if anyone has any info.

[LoriTruck]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72851117

Got a meet with this one if anyone has any info.

[LovePunnany]

Have a meet with the baby next week. She has been on Seeking for a while, any insight on this baby would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-63468082fc46

Anyone, anyone??

[Member #6718]

Alot of those same women on the.

https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/

https://old.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/

Are also escorts & post on the.

https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/

So don't believe the reddit hoes, a lot them are hardened pro's.

Oh I definitely do not believe them, and the couple of chicks that are active in slf that I am actually friends with and have met irl I make it clear I think slf is mostly dominated by escorts.

Are there any good tools that can compare users who have posted in one reddit with another? Would be useful. The sb only one is pretty close to the sex worker one tbh, it is all just about how to scam guys.

[Member #6718]

Reddit forums are complete leftwing censored trash. Full of delusional overweight feminists who hate men and everything else. You'd be too if you looked like them and had to look at yourself in the mirror every day.

I am super left wing myself I don't think that has anything to do with anything.