"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LouisHernandez** · 08-06-24 18:01

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

The info being spouted on slf on reddit is utter bullshit. There are a group of people who post with the intent to deliberately inflate expectations of allowance and ppm rates. They are having a negative impact for both men and women, as women who follow these expectations don't find any guys willing to meet them. I have chatted with below average looking black chicks on that forum in atlanta who don't understand why they cannot get 600+ppm. Like erm lady go look outside and see that you are a dime a fucking dozen.

Some cities have a lot of money swirling around and the truly hot 8+ chicks can get great ppms. A hot 9+ I have been seeing off and on over 2 years who does 400 with me has done trips to Miami where she gets 800-1 k a time. Atlanta rates are more normal though.

Reddit forums are complete leftwing censored trash. Full of delusional overweight feminists who hate men and everything else. You'd be too if you looked like them and had to look at yourself in the mirror every day.

**SeekingHead** · 08-06-24 15:40

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

The info being spouted on slf on reddit is utter bullshit. There are a group of people who post with the intent to deliberately inflate expectations of allowance and ppm rates. They are having a negative impact for both men and women, as women who follow these expectations don't find any guys willing to meet them. I have chatted with below average looking black chicks on that forum in atlanta who don't understand why they cannot get 600+ppm. Like erm lady go look outside and see that you are a dime a fucking dozen.

Some cities have a lot of money swirling around and the truly hot 8+ chicks can get great ppms. A hot 9+ I have been seeing off and on over 2 years who does 400 with me has done trips to Miami where she gets 800-1 k a time. Atlanta rates are more normal though.

Alot of those same women on the.

https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/

https://old.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/

Are also escorts & post on the.

https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/

So don't believe the reddit hoes, a lot them are hardened pro's.

**Member #6718** · 08-06-24 07:38

Originally Posted by JMAbacus [View Original Post]

Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.

The info being spouted on slf on reddit is utter bullshit. There are a group of people who post with the intent to deliberately inflate expectations of allowance and ppm rates. They are having a negative impact for both men and women, as women who follow these expectations don't find any guys willing to meet them. I have chatted with below average looking black chicks on that forum in atlanta who don't understand why they cannot get 600+ppm. Like erm lady go look outside and see that you are a dime a fucking dozen.

Some cities have a lot of money swirling around and the truly hot 8+ chicks can get great ppms. A hot 9+ I have been seeing off and on over 2 years who does 400 with me has done trips to Miami where she gets 800-1 k a time. Atlanta rates are more normal though.

**Atlvoy** · 08-05-24 20:38

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-767ed7a142b7

Has anyone seen gigi? If you have, please send a dm.

**Airmantroy** · 08-05-24 14:47

Originally Posted by TravelinSD [View Original Post]

She told me she just moved into town and forgot her meds (claims she's epileptic). Didn't come out and ask for $, but gave me the sob story. I just ignored her.

I saw thru that scam immediately, played along, told her I was epileptic had extra med and that my business partner was my doctor, I could be to her in 15 minutes with the life saving medication. All of a sudden she didn't know what pharmacy she was at. LMFAO.

**GoneForGood97** · 08-05-24 14:11

Originally Posted by LovePunnany [View Original Post]

So I have never head of this site and wow I was shocked. The site is the world largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink and Fetish community. So, how difficult it is the score on this site?

Fetlife used to be a great resourced. As someone mentioned the filtering / searching is the hard part, as the site just isn't well designed. But I met a few dates years ago and had some fun through the site. However when Onlyf*ns blew up, the site was overwhelmed with OF content creators, and those 1000's of wannabe content creators drown out the few legitimate girls looking to have fun.

**GoneForGood97** · 08-05-24 14:08

Originally Posted by LovePunnany [View Original Post]

Reenlisted on Seeking and had meets set up with a few babies and most are requiring a deposit before any meet.

Is this a new trend? I truly hope no one is making deposits.

No, it's just scammers doing scam things. You can safely block and move on.

**TravelinSD** · 08-05-24 12:00

She told me she just moved into town and forgot her meds (claims she's epileptic). Didn't come out and ask for $, but gave me the sob story. I just ignored her.

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-f1fd9f6a52ca

**Member #6704** · 08-04-24 21:50

1) https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-85b25eaa715b.

2).

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-eae3be31ad8f

**JunkSecond** · 08-04-24 20:21

Originally Posted by JMAbacus [View Original Post]

Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.

I looked up household income distributions in GA and there are not enough HOUSEHOLDS with the cashflow to regularly entertain all these girls at 1 k ppm weekly. My suspicion is that some simp paid that much one time, the girl started bragging about her worth and now ALL the influencers get that much or more REGULARLY, or so they claim. Most girls I talk to ask 1 K, I then follow up with how they came up with that number. They say a friend told them that's what they heard, Reddit or saw it somewhere as the amount that EVERYONE gets. Not a single one said they ever got paid that or had anything more than a $500 one night stand with a few random dudes. The concept of an Arrangement seems to have gone away.

**Member #6704** · 08-04-24 19:49

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-f1fd9f6a52ca

**Member #7133** · 08-04-24 13:28

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

Never heard of anybody giving that amount of money, 400 is much more reasonable for a few hours.

Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.

**FarFarAway** · 08-04-24 13:22

Did the OP report the extortionist to Seeking? He should. You can say that scammers will just set up a new profile once they get banned.

However, there are lots of guys who get banned (for different reasons. Being too explicit on the pay for play they are doing), and they often show up here moaning about how they can't establish a new profile because the site bans them again. Seeking has tools that can detect when the person is the same as someone who has been banned in the past.

Undoubtedly, extortion is illegal activity, and one would not have to divulge their own IRL info to report them. Just screenshot the messages demanding payment.

**Berol Loz** · 08-04-24 00:10

Originally Posted by MilfHunter818 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-2d22d30253c7

Said she wanted $1 k ppm. No one is really paying that right? I've had absolute bombshell 20-25 yr olds for $400. Is anyone really paying $1 k?

Never heard of anybody giving that amount of money, 400 is much more reasonable for a few hours.

**Berol Loz** · 08-03-24 23:49

Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]

STDcheck does do mycoplasma, I know because I just had the test done in addition to my full panel.

The typical treatment for Mycoplasma is a treatment of doxycycline followed by a treatment of azithromycin or moxifloxacin. Even after you get a negative test results, residual symptoms can last for a couple months.

Agree, on their website though they say you have to order it from "their sister site" https://www.healthlabs.com/mycoplasma-genitalium-test.

https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/mycopl...alium-new-std/