"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Atlvoy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-767ed7a142b7

Has anyone seen gigi? If you have, please send a dm.

[Airmantroy]

She told me she just moved into town and forgot her meds (claims she's epileptic). Didn't come out and ask for $, but gave me the sob story. I just ignored her.

I saw thru that scam immediately, played along, told her I was epileptic had extra med and that my business partner was my doctor, I could be to her in 15 minutes with the life saving medication. All of a sudden she didn't know what pharmacy she was at. LMFAO.

[GoneForGood97]

So I have never head of this site and wow I was shocked. The site is the world largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink and Fetish community. So, how difficult it is the score on this site?

Fetlife used to be a great resourced. As someone mentioned the filtering / searching is the hard part, as the site just isn't well designed. But I met a few dates years ago and had some fun through the site. However when Onlyf*ns blew up, the site was overwhelmed with OF content creators, and those 1000's of wannabe content creators drown out the few legitimate girls looking to have fun.

[GoneForGood97]

Reenlisted on Seeking and had meets set up with a few babies and most are requiring a deposit before any meet.

Is this a new trend? I truly hope no one is making deposits.

No, it's just scammers doing scam things. You can safely block and move on.

[TravelinSD]

She told me she just moved into town and forgot her meds (claims she's epileptic). Didn't come out and ask for $, but gave me the sob story. I just ignored her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-f1fd9f6a52ca

[Member #6704]

1) https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-85b25eaa715b.

2).

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-eae3be31ad8f

[JunkSecond]

Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.

I looked up household income distributions in GA and there are not enough HOUSEHOLDS with the cashflow to regularly entertain all these girls at 1 k ppm weekly. My suspicion is that some simp paid that much one time, the girl started bragging about her worth and now ALL the influencers get that much or more REGULARLY, or so they claim. Most girls I talk to ask 1 K, I then follow up with how they came up with that number. They say a friend told them that's what they heard, Reddit or saw it somewhere as the amount that EVERYONE gets. Not a single one said they ever got paid that or had anything more than a $500 one night stand with a few random dudes. The concept of an Arrangement seems to have gone away.

[Member #6704]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-f1fd9f6a52ca

[Member #7133]

Never heard of anybody giving that amount of money, 400 is much more reasonable for a few hours.

Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.

[FarFarAway]

Did the OP report the extortionist to Seeking? He should. You can say that scammers will just set up a new profile once they get banned.

However, there are lots of guys who get banned (for different reasons. Being too explicit on the pay for play they are doing), and they often show up here moaning about how they can't establish a new profile because the site bans them again. Seeking has tools that can detect when the person is the same as someone who has been banned in the past.

Undoubtedly, extortion is illegal activity, and one would not have to divulge their own IRL info to report them. Just screenshot the messages demanding payment.

[Berol Loz]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-2d22d30253c7

Said she wanted $1 k ppm. No one is really paying that right? I've had absolute bombshell 20-25 yr olds for $400. Is anyone really paying $1 k?

Never heard of anybody giving that amount of money, 400 is much more reasonable for a few hours.

[Berol Loz]

STDcheck does do mycoplasma, I know because I just had the test done in addition to my full panel.

The typical treatment for Mycoplasma is a treatment of doxycycline followed by a treatment of azithromycin or moxifloxacin. Even after you get a negative test results, residual symptoms can last for a couple months.

Agree, on their website though they say you have to order it from "their sister site" https://www.healthlabs.com/mycoplasma-genitalium-test.

https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/mycopl...alium-new-std/

[MilfHunter818]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-2d22d30253c7

Said she wanted $1 k ppm. No one is really paying that right? I've had absolute bombshell 20-25 yr olds for $400. Is anyone really paying $1 k?

[Peter Johnson]

A. But with all the new AI tools and ransomware attacks in the news a good case could be made that the conversation and pics were AI generated fraud and you are the target of scam. .

We need some AI tools, where we can take our photo and will generate something that looks sort of like us, but not too much. I suppose that Fawkes tool is essentially similar to that though.

I haven't been on the site for a year, with no dating / sex, and wanting to get back on, but these horror stories are what keep me hesitant. Every time I get on there, I have some great experiences, but also some bad ones that turn me off for months, or longer.

[Peter Johnson]

It sounds like Frosty did the right thing, by paying this extorting scamming piece of sh*t theif, even though it could still not work. If he has a lot to lose, with his family and reputation, etc, then $1600 is not a high price to pay. It's not like you can go to the police or FBI and explain,. "Yes I was going to pay this girl $450 for. Ummm. Errr. Companionship and to let me mentor her, but then she blackmailed me. And all that sex discussion in the texts was just play. Didn't mean it. ".

Basically, the "girl" has you in a bad spot, if they know your personal info, name, address, etc and you know nothing about them. That puts them in the power position. You could agree to meet in person and give them the cash, but they probably aren't going to go for that, unless they are really stupid.

Anyway, you did make some mistakes, but was mainly just bad luck and with this facial recognition bullsh*t, it could happen o most any of us, at any time.

Big props for sharing your story, and helping to make us more aware of the risks out there. We know the, but we also forget sometimes how omnipresent they are. You can certainly feel frustrated for making a few slip ups, but nothing to feel embarrassed or ashamed about, for sure.