Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

[DarkRoomDaddy]

I got to know several hundred young Asian women in my professional life and I absolutely agree, not weak or compliant. You have to look below the surface-level Confucious proper etiquette.

And then, to build on the first part of Dark's paragraph, I think another cultural difference is the acceptance of men's sex drive. In China, women think that's just how men are, accept them for what they are. In the US, if you want more sex than your White wife wants, well, that just proves how bad you are, thoughtless, selfish. Also, in the US it seems like a lot of White women look down on other women who really enjoy sex, and that's an inhibiting influence. Just my 2 c worth, could be wrong.

Lift Her Up.

I was in Japan in a convenience store and my American friend was showing me some anime that was fairly x-rated. At that point, a Japanese guy came in to look for a magazine, and I felt a little embarrassed that we were looking at soft-porn, but my friend said "hey in Asia there is no shame about this". And it then became clear why so many American guys end up in Asia but relatively few American women. On the other hand, places like Paris or Italy, you see American women or older people, but not single guys hanging out and teaching English.

Taking even a broader perspective even of Western culture going back to kings and emperors going back 2000 years, its clear that even married men have an appetite for some side honey. Its natural, and going back to cave man days, then men who loved'them-and-leaved'them had more offspring than stodgy guys who stayed with one woman. Of course it was better for the woman to have a big guy protect her and the kids, and to bring home a mastodon steak every once in a while. This is one theory as to why, we as dudes are horny 365 days a year, but most other animals are only horny when they encounter a female in heat. If a woman can dangle some tuna and keep us interested all year, we are better providers and will keep coming back for more. Or in our parlance, we become "regulars".

[Encino Chad]

When you say "American" are you referring to those who are American citizens, or are you referring to something else? If the former, how do you know the Latinas and Asians you've seen weren't American citizens?

American provider = provider that grew up here in the states.

The providers I've seen all told me that they're from other countries, they also knew little to no English.

I have to break out my Spanish for most of my visits.

[HoDough]

I've seen many SWs in my first year of mongering so far, and I just realized that I haven't seen a single American provider: thinking_emoji:.

I mainly been seeing latinas and sometimes asians.

The thing is. . . I feel like I'm not missing out on much loll.

But a thick curvy white MILF is definitely on my wishlist.

Side note:

I wish more MPs and even escorts have 45 min sessions as a provided service.

30 min can be too fast, and 1 hour can be a bit too long for me sometimes.

But 45 minutes is that sweet spot for me. Angela Spa in Santa Ana has 45 min sessions, and shit was so clutch.

When you say "American" are you referring to those who are American citizens, or are you referring to something else? If the former, how do you know the Latinas and Asians you've seen weren't American citizens?

[Lift Her Up]

I got to know several hundred young Asian women in my professional life and I absolutely agree, not weak or compliant. You have to look below the surface-level Confucious proper etiquette.

And then, to build on the first part of Dark's paragraph, I think another cultural difference is the acceptance of men's sex drive. In China, women think that's just how men are, accept them for what they are. In the US, if you want more sex than your White wife wants, well, that just proves how bad you are, thoughtless, selfish. Also, in the US it seems like a lot of White women look down on other women who really enjoy sex, and that's an inhibiting influence. Just my 2 c worth, could be wrong.

Lift Her Up.

I tried to add a note of informality by writing as one word "g o t t a," but the site rewrote that as "got to," and somehow that didn't seem right, so I gave up and wrote "have to". Also just now I see it won't let me but the period inside the quotes. Jes' sayin'.

Otherwise this site is wonderful.

Lift Her Up.

[Lift Her Up]

I think the misunderstanding comes from a cultural difference. Many American women speak of any kind of sex with an older man as if its disgusting, and almost a form of sexual abuse if there is a 20 year age gap in a marriage. There is disgust with men's sexual needs and satisfaction, and an anti-male anti-boomer attitude in many quarters. So the idea of a woman doing sex work, and doing her job happily is unimaginable. Most of these Chinese women working the shops do not seem to be nymphomaniacs, they are just women who are ok with the job, and making more money than they ever dreamed possible. There is also some simple-minded racist views of Asian women as weak and compliant. Which comes from people who have not been around Chinese or Korean women much.

I got to know several hundred young Asian women in my professional life and I absolutely agree, not weak or compliant. You have to look below the surface-level Confucious proper etiquette.

And then, to build on the first part of Dark's paragraph, I think another cultural difference is the acceptance of men's sex drive. In China, women think that's just how men are, accept them for what they are. In the US, if you want more sex than your White wife wants, well, that just proves how bad you are, thoughtless, selfish. Also, in the US it seems like a lot of White women look down on other women who really enjoy sex, and that's an inhibiting influence. Just my 2 c worth, could be wrong.

Lift Her Up.

[Oc Amper]

Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?

I'm sure you have found, the sites in question are not down. Lots of good troubleshooting advise already given, so hopefully you've tried those.

I would try side by side, your cell phone and another device. That will tell you, that in fact you can reach site a / b or if its your phone / provider.

As others have said, isolate the issue. Is it your phone or your mobile service provider. You can turn on wifi, turn off cell service, etc.

If you find its the device, then you'll need to work thru the settings. If the issue seems to be the carrier, I don't think you stand a chance of getting it corrected. IF it is the carrier, they've blocked it for whatever reason they have. Getting that issue communicated, well that might be humbling as well.

True story, a friend worked for a wireless carrier in IT. Their IT department had issues with devices connecting from their own carriers wireless network, Some required ports for the application were blocked, where any other carrier was not blocked. Totally common app. The internal IT team tried to reach out to the wireless team that would be responsible. Not sure they ever got to the correct team.

[Encino Chad]

I've seen many SWs in my first year of mongering so far, and I just realized that I haven't seen a single American provider: thinking_emoji:.

I mainly been seeing latinas and sometimes asians.

The thing is. . . I feel like I'm not missing out on much loll.

But a thick curvy white MILF is definitely on my wishlist.

Side note:

I wish more MPs and even escorts have 45 min sessions as a provided service.

30 min can be too fast, and 1 hour can be a bit too long for me sometimes.

But 45 minutes is that sweet spot for me. Angela Spa in Santa Ana has 45 min sessions, and shit was so clutch.

[DarkRoomDaddy]

Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?

Did you try purging all your cookies and history? Sometimes a browser will remember a page and its subpage. So if something changed on their end, your browser might be trying to go to a dead page. Or try a different browswer or different computer. Also, some public places have wifi, and there are sites which are black listed from use. Which is a good idea so a bunch of high school kids go to the public library to watch porn online.

[DWaits]

Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?

If you're using an iPhone, check this post:

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...336&viewfull=1#post6937336.

[BSouthgate]

I'd say if you seek them out thinking that they are men, then yes. If you enjoy getting your cock sucked by someone who looks like a woman, but it turns out they are a man of any degree, then no.

But sexuality is a spectrum, not a lot of people are completely straight or gay based on long-standing studies. In our society there's a lot of stigma so some of the most gay people of all swear up and down they are totally straight. You will never get past that issue here in the US, so any conversation is a non-starter.

Whereas in Thailand there's very little stigma. Ladyboys are common and generally don't consider themselves male or female (there are trans people in Thailand, but they aren't ladyboys). Either you like your dick sucked by them or you don't. No profound questions necessary, obviously you aren't completely straight if you do but neither is almost anybody. It is quite normal for a "straight" woman to find other women attractive, but not enough to want sexual relationships with them. Same for men. There are a lot more 1's and 2's on the Kinsey scale than 0's. Most of the 0's are extremely closeted due to religion. I have a best friend that to this day is a 6 who pretends to be a 0 because of religion, he won't leave it.

I agree with Wally on this. Good discussion.

[Grimmy23]

Like Grimmy said, using WiFi should use the rules of the WiFi provider instead of the cell provider. If that doesn't work try using a free VPN just to check if something is filtering web IP addresses. If that doesn't work look up changing your DNS on your phone and use a public DNS.

It's also possible (just trying to exhaust everything because I don't know how techie you are) that you are trying to connect to the site while you're also connected to the WiFi network of wherever you are. Disable the WiFi and try connecting through the cell network. I think it is extremely unlikely that the cell network is keeping you out. Cell networks allow you to log into porn sites, escort sites, and all kinds of stuff, so there's no reason they'd try to keep you off of bedpage.

[VoltronX]

Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?

Like Grimmy said, using WiFi should use the rules of the WiFi provider instead of the cell provider. If that doesn't work try using a free VPN just to check if something is filtering web IP addresses. If that doesn't work look up changing your DNS on your phone and use a public DNS.

[FreeWally]

Trans women, like Dylan Mulvaney, were gay guys before they transitioned. A large proportion reverse transition to again become gay men. Those trannies on Beach Blvd like to suck cock. They are gay men. If you enjoy them sucking your cock, knowing that they are biological men, then you are bi or gay. Is that not true?

I'd say if you seek them out thinking that they are men, then yes. If you enjoy getting your cock sucked by someone who looks like a woman, but it turns out they are a man of any degree, then no.

But sexuality is a spectrum, not a lot of people are completely straight or gay based on long-standing studies. In our society there's a lot of stigma so some of the most gay people of all swear up and down they are totally straight. You will never get past that issue here in the US, so any conversation is a non-starter.

Whereas in Thailand there's very little stigma. Ladyboys are common and generally don't consider themselves male or female (there are trans people in Thailand, but they aren't ladyboys). Either you like your dick sucked by them or you don't. No profound questions necessary, obviously you aren't completely straight if you do but neither is almost anybody. It is quite normal for a "straight" woman to find other women attractive, but not enough to want sexual relationships with them. Same for men. There are a lot more 1's and 2's on the Kinsey scale than 0's. Most of the 0's are extremely closeted due to religion. I have a best friend that to this day is a 6 who pretends to be a 0 because of religion, he won't leave it.

[James D 2004]

Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?

You can test on downforeveryoneorjustme.com.

Maybe the parental blocking is on. Otherwise it's easier to switch than deal with it.

[Grimmy23]

Trying to figure out if it's coincidence or me.

I changed mobile providers yesterday, and I'm unable to get onto bedpage. Not sure if it's blocked by the new provider, or by the account by default with the new provider, or might just be that page is coincidentally down just as I switch.

I guess first question, is it really down? Second question would be, how do you address this with the cell company?

Bedpage isn't down. I can get in easily from all devices and networks.

Try accessing via WiFi instead of over the cell network and see if that makes a difference. I've never heard of cell networks blocking sites like that but I guess it's not outside of the realm of possibilities. If you can get in via WiFi then it's something related to the wireless network. If not, then it's something on your device that's preventing it. Maybe try a different browser.