"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[DrSummer]

Thanks JD. You bring up a good point, patience. My experience in the hobby / mongering spans more than a decade. In the hay days of backpage, I was doing back to back 15 min QVs for 40 a pop. After a close call, I decided to quit that life forever, and focused solely on sugar since then. I have met great girls over the years, made happy memories, great sex, can't complain at all. While it could be my luck, I believe my approach and certain rules I follow religiously help me finding the girls I look for. I wanted to share some of those if that helps anyone.

First, I am looking for an SB, not a hooker or a PRO (I know, you are going to say they all are hookers, they are not exclusive, I get it). I don't expect them to be exclusive, but I don't want them fucking 5 guys in a raw one day. I am after certain type of girls. My target age group is 20-30. College girls, graduate students, professionals who are not doing this out of desperation, but to have some supplemental income. Not a big fan of single moms. In my early screening I weed out all others.

I guess certain aspects of myself gives me an edge in this game. First, I am divorced and single, no SO. This gives me freedom. While I am over 60, I am in good physical and mental shape. I am no George Clooney in any stretch of imagination, but I take care of myself well, appearance, health and manners. Clean shaven, makes sure my teeth, nails, hair etc in good shape. Although I like casual clothes, I present myself well, I guess. Not just first meet up, every meet, I take time to prepare for every meet up so that the girl finds me attractive. My profession is considered somewhat prestigious, that may help too (I don't bring it up with them first unless they ask). Basically I project myself to girls that I could be a long term, stable, and safe SD for them.

Few rules I follow. Always meet up for a coffee before heading to FC, no direct hotel visits. No money exchanged (under no circumstance whatsoever) until panties hit the floor. Only ask her if she is open for intimacy before we meet for coffee, but I don't go into details like how many pops, sex acts, covered or not etc. Allowance will be discussed if they are adamant, but only vaguely. Always ppm, no monthly allowance. I don't treat the girl as a piece of meet. Being respectful, friendly, and funny go a long way. But, I don't try to be a simp. I will be assertive, and no-nonsense when needed.

Regarding patience, I always have one or two girls in rotation, so I go to a meet up with a new girl not in a position of desperation, but more in an adventurous mood. Girls sense that so they are not going to play games with me. I am always ready to walk away if something doesn't feel right. Once I find the right girl, I treat them well, and seal the deal quickly. Typically the coffee will be followed by a dinner at a good restaurant, then fun in a hotel room. I spent money on a good hotel room not trying to be cheap (at least Hilton, Holiday In level, not Motel 6).

Hope this information is of some help to you guys. But, I have to tell you, finding a good SB is much harder these days. It is a numbers game. Before COVID, I would find a good match after messaging about 10 to 20 girls. Now it takes at least 100 girls. Yes, it is lots of work. But once you find them, it is a blast. If you have time and energy, you can do it. Don't give up.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Thanks for posting the update. It sounds like you've found a really good one that checks all your boxes, congrats!!

JD.

[ReffingMan94]

I've seen her a few times over the last year. She's very sweet, very thin with fake boobs but a pretty good lay. When I saw her she hosted at her place which was nice.

Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...8-1a106f688f85

[JoyDrop]

Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight.

Thanks for posting the update. It sounds like you've found a really good one that checks all your boxes, congrats!! There are definitely some high quality women out there waiting to be found on the SB sites if you have the patience to find them (and the game to catch them when you do)! I know for my part the experiences I've had have surpassed all of my expectations and then some. Good luck with your new girl and keep us updated!

JD.

[2me4Looking2]

Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...8-1a106f688f85

I just messaged her as well and would like to know how it goes if you go through with it.

[LittleMonster]

Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...8-1a106f688f85

[HK Guy]

Check post #14537 http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post6958082.

She's a thief.

Thanks. You saved me.

[Christian Troy]

Has anyone tried? Is she real?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-23589e4013d3

Check post #14537 http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post6958082.

She's a thief.

[HK Guy]

Has anyone tried? Is she real?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-23589e4013d3

[DrSummer]

Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight. I have been on the sugar hobby for more than 5 years, and have taken closer to 100 girls to FC. Hands down this is the best experience of all. She was all I wanted from a SB. Easy to get alone, clean, and great sex. After 3 rounds, I was so tired I fell asleep. Then 2 rounds in the morning. She left around 10 AM. Never mentioned about the ppm again. But I gave 600. Worth every penny. After 5 minutes I got the text thanking me and and wanting to see me again soon. That tells me she was happy with the allowance. Keep up the hopes, good girls are out there, but I know it is hard to find them.

Play safe.

Dr. S.

Thank you all who responded to my post. I scheduled a coffee meet with her this Friday evening. Depending on the vibe I get in person, I will decide on going on for overnight or not. So far all the vibes I am getting are very very positive. She didn't mention about the ppm anymore and I didn't ask either. My gut says this is going to go well. But I will of course try to use my big head. LOL. I will report back the outcome.

Play safe.

Dr. S.

[LGSeeking]

This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.

Good to know as I have been talking with her for a year or so and was looking to have her to my place overnight (with cash and some valuables locked in my gun safe). I will now delete her.

[Leep12]

Hey gents -.

I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?

DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice!

I agree with 2 me. Think you would be at a big disadvantage without any pics, these girls complain about all the fakes etc. Many will think you are a waste of time.

I used my own pics on SA. I did use some "borrowed" photos for a Tender dating account. Find someone reasonably close to your look and build.

It's not easy, I ended up stealing some FB photos from a guy I went to HS with. I figured no harm since we aren't in the same state.

[BumbaCloth]

She is nice and has a nice apartment. But she wants you to get in and get out. She used her mouth less than a minute and started asking if I was ready. I said no, keep going, and she wouldn't keep a rhythmkept stopping and spitting. Then after a couple minutes she started complaining that her mouth hurt and she was dizzy and all kinds of other stuff. I couldn't even get hard, so I left. Her breath is just terrible.

You're the second or third person that said she's an in & out bandit and a complainer either you're taking too long to bust or you're going too hard. Plus her pics are outdated someone else said.

[2me4Looking2]

Hey gents -.

I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?

DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice!

I used to have very blurry pics, but Seeking seems to not allow that anymore. My suggestion is to do a photo search and find someone that isn't famous, but has somewhat similar age and physical characteristics. You can sometimes get lucky and find someone that has multiple pictures you can use. I will share a real pic once we start chatting off the site, but make sure it's not a pic you have ever used online just to make image searching a little harder. Most women are not surprised when a guy doesn't use real pics, but I have had a couple of instances where they were pissed and ended it as soon as I told them.

[LuvitAtl]

Hey gents -.

I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?

DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice!

[Niterider450]

It tells me I have to purchase with bitcoin and contact support.