SeekingArrangement DC area

[PapiChulo11]

So meet with this Native American / Mexican girl. She's very "Want it my way type of girl" She was bugged when I was like 3 mins late haha but I just played it off, and then didn't want to see me and refused to see me until later. Luckily I had some work in the area and was able to set something up later in the day, she tried to go up on what we originally agreed to 2. But I never agreed just played off the convo as if we were continuing to meet. Got there and she then asked me to wait a couple minutes 10 mins later she let me in her basement which she is moving out of supposedly sometime soon. Looks great naked. Young firm but soft natural breast, and nice tight kitty. She was up charging for raw at 4. But hell no! Gents you can't be dishing out that much that's why these girls get GPS. Has a small booty, its fit and a bit firm for my liking but it is nice. She doesn't get too into it. But definitely feels it and gets wet quickly. Pretty easy going in person just over the phone is a bit bitchy and demanding. I won't be repeating after hitting 3 visits, I couldn't get her to budge for less then 3. For BB. So I stayed at my comfy 1.5 CC. Happy Hunting Gents and please control these GPS don't be dishing out so much bens like crazy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-72969ef573c8

[SugarLifeNow]

New SLN Girl, Benjii 27.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/BenjiiBby

[Troy2295]

Gents just debriefing of my findings. First of all I've always said that we can control and hold the power on how we want to guide everything. If we choose to give to much and inflate there head and they tell everyone or keep it controlled. Some of these definitely got GPS. At that their amounts an Agency or Tryst is much better. Better quality looks and experience.

*VB14.

Not even going to link anything cause they talked about here a lot. She's requesting 4 of my good old friends Benjamins, to go out solely to dinner and in that dinner we can discuss a second another meet up. I laughed and said no thanks.

*Elena.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...d-d33989184a35

She requested to send her Benjamin to help her find a baby sitter. Then requested I send her 5 Franklins she I could host. GPS. Smh.

*Genesis..

I've spoken with princess before, might jump the gun this time. Blowing with a cover sucks though.

[Kaifas]

I figured I'd start posting and try to contribute This one is from secret benefits, and unfortunately, she is a time waster in my opinion. She won't say what kind of rules she has. She will not give a definitive amount. All I got from her is that she's a stripper. This one was a bust for me maybe you guys will have better luck.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...19911879fe1f7c

[Bran2025]

Same here in the Boston area, for sure. Your history lesson is 100% accurate.

I was fortunate to be in the SA game starting in the early 20-teens. As you wrote, a mix of undergrads, grad students, young professionals, and single moms; all happy for some casual sex and some ca $h. And when traveling for business it was a pretty reliable way to find a hookup; I had some fantastic experiences like that in San Diego, San Antonio, South Florida, NYC, Chicago, Richmond, and of course DC.

Hope springs eternal, and since covid I've been on and off and on and off the site so many times. A few hits but it's just way too much work now. And OMG there are So Many scam profiles; they are so easy to spot, with very recent created dates and "unknown" location data. And the same tired prose in the profiles.

I thought I'd try one more time this fall with the students coming back to Boston. . . But they just are NOT on the site. 'Tis a shame. And I think this time I'm finally "out" for good.

You're not wrong, unfortunately. From what I understand, Seeking was wildly fun from its inception through 2017. Lots of college co-eds, broke moms, strippers, nurses, junior partners, government employees, secretaries, etc decided to test the waters of "sugar dating. " Around 2018, OF began to really surge in popularity, which essentially ended Seeking's heyday. Then COVID came along and fucked with everyone's wallet (except Pfizer's) with the ensuing lock down causing a slight resurgence in Seeking membership. After everything tapered off and returned to normal, the downward slide picked up steam again from 2022 to present. Now, it's basically a wasteland of disappointment with many accounts either being scam artists, bots, or jaded and delusional women looking to maximize the benjamins with little to no effort on their part in actually earning them.

Case in point, this year has been quite the trainwreck for me. Not counting the messages left on read, of course (which is perfectly fine as women have their types just like us), I've encountered more time-wasters in the last six months than in the prior three years combined! To try to offset some of this craziness, I started setting up multiple M&Gs for the same day on a weekend just to see what sticks. Last Saturday was supposed to be a first meet with three different SBs--and take a wild guess what happened? One demanded gas money the hour before we were supposed to meet, another said she had second thoughts about sugaring in general, and the third just ghosted then blocked.

[Max #01]

Any advice or girls anyone can share? Traveling from Central / North Florida to DC for work.

There's a pretty active board in both the Northern Virginia and Baltimore forums.

[TRowePrice]

Any advice or girls anyone can share? Traveling from Central / North Florida to DC for work.

[PapiChulo11]

Gents just debriefing of my findings. First of all I've always said that we can control and hold the power on how we want to guide everything. If we choose to give to much and inflate there head and they tell everyone or keep it controlled. Some of these definitely got GPS. At that their amounts an Agency or Tryst is much better. Better quality looks and experience.

*VB14.

Not even going to link anything cause they talked about here a lot. She's requesting 4 of my good old friends Benjamins, to go out solely to dinner and in that dinner we can discuss a second another meet up. I laughed and said no thanks.

*Elena.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...d-d33989184a35

She requested to send her Benjamin to help her find a baby sitter. Then requested I send her 5 Franklins she I could host. GPS. Smh.

*Genesis.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-ded830a761c2

7 Franklins! Make sure you have a Hat and you got to provide the place. And her Uber ride. Completely refused less, even after a day of going back and forth with her.

Princess.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-1a94bd8ee7da

Quick response, started off at 5. I was able to bring her down to 2. She finally budged after a day or two of back and forth and was able to seal it. She actually in Gburg not in Rockville. So you'd have to get a place up there she's not driving. Not that into it but responsive. Blew with a cover. Looks like pics a bit more tummy but honestly its noting. Wanted to keep her UTR but. I prefer you guys know so you all don't start offering crazy amounts, and messing me up. Haha.

[Tyrex2]

Antonia.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-6ae50dac9292

New to the game, and has a "friend" who is guiding her through it. She is firm at 500, and covered FS.

Lily.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-bcb8adbce9e3

$600 firm. With a bunch of restrictions. Everything covered, and she does not give head.

Literally two major agencies employ women looking the same at 200 cheaper and no hotel costs with less restrictions. I have to consider the bowl is getting damn dusty and smelling of day old fish.

[Honey Butter]

You're not wrong, unfortunately. From what I understand, Seeking was wildly fun from its inception through 2017. Lots of college co-eds, broke moms, strippers, nurses, junior partners, government employees, secretaries, etc decided to test the waters of "sugar dating. "

2017/2018 were incredible years on SA. I had the pleasure of seeing two stunning, tight goth Latinas in their mid-20's who visited for $250+ each time. They had no boundaries whatsoever, everything uncovered, staying for hours with a completely open menu. One would visit on Tuesdays, and the other on Thursdays. Despite being in my early 50's, one of them was genuinely interested in dating me. I had many other opportunities on SA, but I chose to focus on these two. Unfortunately, they've since disappeared, and SA is a dumpster fire.

[Shinshi]

I have been on and off sa since 2011. Is it just me, or have your normal working women types seeking some extra cash disappeared or are on much less frequently. In the past I came across teachers, a flight attendant, financial planner, sommelier, nurse, and a few other professions. The numbers of users still seem fairly high but the scam percentage is much higher, with the the legit users being much more gps or streetwalker types. Diamonds in the rough can still perhaps be found but it just seems like much more work. Any other users experiencing this? I'm thinking the stark warnings against overt escort, ppm, scared off a lot of the normal gals. Kind of a bummer.

You're not wrong, unfortunately. From what I understand, Seeking was wildly fun from its inception through 2017. Lots of college co-eds, broke moms, strippers, nurses, junior partners, government employees, secretaries, etc decided to test the waters of "sugar dating. " Around 2018, OF began to really surge in popularity, which essentially ended Seeking's heyday. Then COVID came along and fucked with everyone's wallet (except Pfizer's) with the ensuing lock down causing a slight resurgence in Seeking membership. After everything tapered off and returned to normal, the downward slide picked up steam again from 2022 to present. Now, it's basically a wasteland of disappointment with many accounts either being scam artists, bots, or jaded and delusional women looking to maximize the benjamins with little to no effort on their part in actually earning them.

Case in point, this year has been quite the trainwreck for me. Not counting the messages left on read, of course (which is perfectly fine as women have their types just like us), I've encountered more time-wasters in the last six months than in the prior three years combined! To try to offset some of this craziness, I started setting up multiple M&Gs for the same day on a weekend just to see what sticks. Last Saturday was supposed to be a first meet with three different SBs--and take a wild guess what happened? One demanded gas money the hour before we were supposed to meet, another said she had second thoughts about sugaring in general, and the third just ghosted then blocked.

In worst-case scenarios like that, I bring a laptop to work on & chill at a coffee shop or grab food at a place I've never visited just so the trip's not a complete bust. As for this weekend, I'm supposed to meet two new ones. If both show up when they say they will, then that will be a fantastic problem to have indeed! However, I'm not holding my breath and have learned to have lower expectations from Seeking these days. Perhaps it'll be different when I travel overseas next month, but I highly doubt I'll be needing Seeking's help finding some strange over there.

All that to say this: it's a huge bummer for sure how far they've fallen. It's a lot tougher to find real, amateur, diamond-in-the-rough, girl-next-door-type SBs--even more tricky to find any among that number who won't ask for prices normally associated with that of a professional escort. And if they look like supermodels who just want to supplement their lavish lifestyle with another Gucci bag or a new BMW, then you can forget about trying to bargain with the overwhelming majority of them! Chances are those types will stick to their guns & quit Seeking if no one takes them up on their demand, or they'll find a well-off john here who doesn't mind making it rain for an average CFS time.

If things continue the way they are, I'll likely just let my subscription expire & go back to Asian agencies. But we'll see how the rest of this shitshow of a year goes down. One can only hope that Seeking's competition picks it up and competes so as to offset the market.

[DCowboy77]

I have been on and off sa since 2011. Is it just me, or have your normal working women types seeking some extra cash disappeared or are on much less frequently. In the past I came across teachers, a flight attendant, financial planner, sommelier, nurse, and a few other professions. The numbers of users still seem fairly high but the scam percentage is much higher, with the the legit users being much more gps or streetwalker types. Diamonds in the rough can still perhaps be found but it just seems like much more work. Any other users experiencing this? I'm thinking the stark warnings against overt escort, ppm, scared off a lot of the normal gals. Kind of a bummer.

[DRaj123]

Does visa gift card still works?

If yes which ones.

Thanks.

[BugsyInnc]

Goddessitica wanted 800. Crazy rates. GPS.

Was visiting D. C. And was able to find the following:

Sophia100 x.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-17551436944f

Wanted 5. Open minded, but did not prefers not too rough.

Chelsea.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-3a92478f1a15

Wanted 6, but could be talked down. Semi-pro vibes. Did not take the plunge.

Anayeli.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-fc927c228f26

Wanted 350. Safety and no anal.

Goddessitica.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-535c65057ce9

Wanted 6, was pretty firm on that. Safety, but everything else on the table.

Steep rates out there.

[RainySeattleGu]

Antonia.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-6ae50dac9292

New to the game, and has a "friend" who is guiding her through it. She is firm at 500, and covered FS.

Lily.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-bcb8adbce9e3

$600 firm. With a bunch of restrictions. Everything covered, and she does not give head.