Arrangement Reports

[UnsureDarwin]

All: As of Wednesday I ended this arrangement with Rose (Not real name). I have been in this game a long time and had many great arrangements. However, with Rose this was a special one. We first met in Milwaukee for drinks. It was just platonic but I had never had a better first meet. From the start rose let me into her life. She is very beautiful and makes you feel like you are the only person in her life. It just felt so special. I have been roped into this before and fell for the "Love bug" once before so I had my radar up for the first month. But every time we met (Weekly) it kept getting better. Staying over, physical aspects of the arrangement were amazing. She opened up her life to friends and everything. She is a party girl and goes out almost every evening. Each evening she would snap me her wereabouts, tell me when she made it home and was just so perfect at everything. All of these things I never asked for. She just did them. After about two months things started to change. She was still going out but instead of being back and messaging at a reasonable time, it suddenly became 3-4 am and her not messaging, she was loosing weight and becoming more irritable, arguing and canceling to go with "New" friends. I had my suspicions she was into drugs and it started showing more. Well it came to a head on Tuesday this week. We went out as usual for dinner and drinks. On the way back to the hotel she said lets go to a strip club. I was hesitant but did. What a mistake that was. We went in and shortly after she met this random sleezball guy and started talking to him. Within the hour he invited us to his hotel room at the casino for a party. I told her no way. She told me she is going even if I do not. I went to protect her as the whole situation was just not safe. So two guys, one dancer, Rose and myself get to the room. He brings out his stuff and Rose just dove in. I was so shocked how she just didn't care about myself or the danger she might have been in. She does more and turns to the dealer and starts making out with him. Right in front of me. I asked her to stop and she told me just to leave. Obviously I left. I am very confident she slept with that sleeze and it just shocked me. She was a teacher not long ago with a routine schedule to now sleeping with drug dealers in a matter of months. Anyway, I ended it as encourage her to get help but she got so mad at me and in denial of her issue. I am curious if I was just missing things in the beginning or was this something that came about.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-127e05f5fa90

I am so sorry that you had to experience this but I don't see anything wrong here. It is clear you and her did not clearly discuss boundaries. I do not know your age, but a lot of girls go threw such a phase in life. Clearly, you had grown a connection to her, but I don't think she was trying to deceive you at any point. You did not have to go out to a strip club with a known Party Girl. That is a high energy and very fast environment. Clearly, she just switched into that mode and you were not ready for the duality of the girl you had came to know vs what you saw. Worse things could have happened besides your feelings getting hurt (and I assume you paid for everything. Singles, drinks, drugs etc. That might play a factor as well.).

My advice is to decide if your ok not speaking with her anymore because the spell has been broken, then do it totally. Block everything and when she reaches out agaom (she will in time becauee you clearly are a friend of hers), don't let her back in. Move on.

Or wait a little so you can get out of your emotions and always control every situation you and her are in when you are together. That way, you don't have to run into that version of her. But you will have to tell her you were displeased about that night and the path she seems to be on. Her response to that is hers and hers alone but it will keep you both in good standing foe a while.

Communication is key. But you do have to have a grasp on your own emotions and expections to be transparent with her.

I hope this helped.

[Pau Ford]

None of us can answer your question we don't know you or her from a hole in the wall. Old issues or new behavior doesn't matter either way does it?

But don't be so surprised that a girl who fucks for money was something other than what she pretend to be. Most of us in this game (guys included) have something off kilter about them (some more than others).

I had an SA girl I'd known for 2 years. She lived in another city but would come to Chicago for modeling gigs regularly and we'd always hang out. She'd stay over blah blah just like your girl then one day when I was in the shower she stole my wallet and $1000 in cash I had stashed in a drawer. I never saw it coming. She was tall, beautiful, good head on her shoulders (seemingly anyway) but for whatever reason she decided to do me dirty.

Nothing you can do other than not be shocked about it.

All: As of Wednesday I ended this arrangement with Rose (Not real name). I have been in this game a long time and had many great arrangements. However, with Rose this was a special one. We first met in Milwaukee for drinks. It was just platonic but I had never had a better first meet. From the start rose let me into her life. She is very beautiful and makes you feel like you are the only person in her life. It just felt so special. I have been roped into this before and fell for the "Love bug" once before so I had my radar up for the first month. But every time we met (Weekly) it kept getting better. Staying over, physical aspects of the arrangement were amazing. She opened up her life to friends and everything. She is a party girl and goes out almost every evening. Each evening she would snap me her wereabouts, tell me when she made it home and was just so perfect at everything. All of these things I never asked for. She just did them. After about two months things started to change. She was still going out but instead of being back and messaging at a reasonable time, it suddenly became 3-4 am and her not messaging, she was loosing weight and becoming more irritable, arguing and canceling to go with "New" friends. I had my suspicions she was into drugs and it started showing more. Well it came to a head on Tuesday this week. We went out as usual for dinner and drinks. On the way back to the hotel she said lets go to a strip club. I was hesitant but did. What a mistake that was. We went in and shortly after she met this random sleezball guy and started talking to him. Within the hour he invited us to his hotel room at the casino for a party. I told her no way. She told me she is going even if I do not. I went to protect her as the whole situation was just not safe. So two guys, one dancer, Rose and myself get to the room. He brings out his stuff and Rose just dove in. I was so shocked how she just didn't care about myself or the danger she might have been in. She does more and turns to the dealer and starts making out with him. Right in front of me. I asked her to stop and she told me just to leave. Obviously I left. I am very confident she slept with that sleeze and it just shocked me. She was a teacher not long ago with a routine schedule to now sleeping with drug dealers in a matter of months. Anyway, I ended it as encourage her to get help but she got so mad at me and in denial of her issue. I am curious if I was just missing things in the beginning or was this something that came about.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-127e05f5fa90

[Natefarwell]

All: As of Wednesday I ended this arrangement with Rose (Not real name). I have been in this game a long time and had many great arrangements. However, with Rose this was a special one. We first met in Milwaukee for drinks. It was just platonic but I had never had a better first meet. From the start rose let me into her life. She is very beautiful and makes you feel like you are the only person in her life. It just felt so special. I have been roped into this before and fell for the "Love bug" once before so I had my radar up for the first month. But every time we met (Weekly) it kept getting better. Staying over, physical aspects of the arrangement were amazing. She opened up her life to friends and everything. She is a party girl and goes out almost every evening. Each evening she would snap me her wereabouts, tell me when she made it home and was just so perfect at everything. All of these things I never asked for. She just did them. After about two months things started to change. She was still going out but instead of being back and messaging at a reasonable time, it suddenly became 3-4 am and her not messaging, she was loosing weight and becoming more irritable, arguing and canceling to go with "New" friends. I had my suspicions she was into drugs and it started showing more. Well it came to a head on Tuesday this week. We went out as usual for dinner and drinks. On the way back to the hotel she said lets go to a strip club. I was hesitant but did. What a mistake that was. We went in and shortly after she met this random sleezball guy and started talking to him. Within the hour he invited us to his hotel room at the casino for a party. I told her no way. She told me she is going even if I do not. I went to protect her as the whole situation was just not safe. So two guys, one dancer, Rose and myself get to the room. He brings out his stuff and Rose just dove in. I was so shocked how she just didn't care about myself or the danger she might have been in. She does more and turns to the dealer and starts making out with him. Right in front of me. I asked her to stop and she told me just to leave. Obviously I left. I am very confident she slept with that sleeze and it just shocked me. She was a teacher not long ago with a routine schedule to now sleeping with drug dealers in a matter of months. Anyway, I ended it as encourage her to get help but she got so mad at me and in denial of her issue. I am curious if I was just missing things in the beginning or was this something that came about.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-127e05f5fa90

[Shorty58]

Links are bad, they include.

Looks like he copied and pasted links from another posting, they are incomplete. Try his original post: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...orts&p=6926260 It's down the page, post 34280. Links there work.

[Jayp80]

None of the accounts you linked are active. Did you post this from a time capsule?

Links are bad, they include.

[RusselJimmies]

None of the accounts you linked are active. Did you post this from a time capsule?

I posted on the wrong thread accidently. Sharing here as relevant. Some more info from recent meets / interactions:

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[Diaosi]

I posted on the wrong thread accidently. Sharing here as relevant. Some more info from recent meets / interactions:

Alanalynn.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...0-ac28ccced7f9

Plenty of reports on her. She's batshit, and really pushing for a meet. Starts at 800, down to 500 cfs, 600 bb. If you're into snow she's trying to chuck that into the deal. Not beating the crackhead allegations unfortunately so not going for it.

ANH456.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-24afcf00f349

Short, not as attractive as her pics. Nice, chatty, normal person. Dtf and easy to arrange as others have said here so went with it. Gets super wet, feels great. BBFS 315.

Moriumak.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-363fdc8dd2f4

Scammer. Avoid.

Jen2023.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-1b0356f0be6c

Private pics show her fully, she's pretty hot but asking for 1 k lmao.

Sarahlily.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-74bdb10bc70d

Absolute gem. Get in there before she gets GPS as you guys say. Used to be a bottle girl. Not super super fit but still an amazing body. Great at head, great at sex. Really easy to arrange to come to mine. One thing I noticed though is that she might have been trying to hide being on her period by stuffing TP in there. I don't know if that's a thing tbh but I felt something while fingering her. Ignored it anyway and sex still felt great. Super nervous energy at the start but eased into it. BBBJ + cfs - 300.

Sweet baby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-e655b0095bfa

Seems DTF, can't get schedules right but planned to come over for 300 - didn't chat details.

M_suss.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...8-0089132d1429

Avoid, not even really a scammer just extremely flakey and odd. Shame though as exactly my type (alt, weird, skinny).

Angelica.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...2-742413152615

Any info? Seems like a scam profile but acting quite normal over messages.

Starsmafia.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-4ddeb279346f

Down to come through for 300 - no details discussed. Was really pushing for same day so felt a bit off.

Brionna.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-7e676837a523

Any info. Trying to get a meet in. Ass looks good.

SensualMuse.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-4b3d98f4e2cc

Nice girl and pics look good. Wants 600-700 for a meet, public first date and cfs if intimate.

Msredhead.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...c-2dd400d42afe

Wants to dom as per her profile. Thought I might try something different. Even bigger than pics and not as pretty. Didn't go forward with anything after meeting for a quick drink.

Pam.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-85e16610e989

Feels like a scam or catfish. Pushing for a meet at 300 but I think can get her lower. Sent pics on snap and I swear different to the one in profile so didn't move forward.

Any other tips (PM ok) appreciated.

[Meddic80]

Has anyone seen her lately? Care to share your experience. PM is fine. Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...f-4ef792aa9ed1

[Piper2005]

I started to chat with her, but I am in the burbs and she couldn't drive, so that usually does not work out well.

Her account has been deactivated. Anyone get to see her? Carmen, age 22, says she lives in old town.

[Shorty58]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-32c761a2cbe2 Meeting this one tonight, anybody have some experience with her?

Her account has been deactivated. Anyone get to see her? Carmen, age 22, says she lives in old town.

[Shorty58]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-32c761a2cbe2 Meeting this one tonight, anybody have some experience with her?

[Meddic80]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-77d07ef5afbf

No intimacy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-7c00de9c6d02

700 must meet in the south loop area, plenty of attitude. Pass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-74bdb10bc70d

Made plans, confirmed at 350. Then moved back the time and ended up ghosting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-ea5dc82af695

Started chatting late Saturday night, seemed cool. All over fetlife with gangbangs. She is freaky.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-262c9aa00bd3

Seemed cool. But in wrigleyville withe no car, so not realistic for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-28459e8db3c5

Wants 300 at the beginning of a meet, then another 300 as a tip at the end.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-6e15ed839e93

Chatting a lot. Seems like a time waster.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-60b13a38c7f0

Complete time waster. Started chatting, showed interest in meeting up but went silent when started talking about details of time and location. Asked for money for dinner before we met.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-a9a5255ee887

Saw her a while back, use to be in the west suburbs. A little bigger than her pics (last time I saw her). Definite train wreck of a life with a drinking issue. But she was a freak, open to anything you wanted to do. Saw her a few times, it was fun.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-eeb788b01431

Another one I saw a while back, not as attractive and a little bigger in person, but very freaky and open to everything. Did not repeat.

Started checking SDM, but have had zero success on there so far. Hope you all are doing better than I am.

Therese is definitely fun and open to whatever. She's been around, might have to make a trip to IN.

[Piper2005]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-77d07ef5afbf

No intimacy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-7c00de9c6d02

700 must meet in the south loop area, plenty of attitude. Pass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-74bdb10bc70d

Made plans, confirmed at 350. Then moved back the time and ended up ghosting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-ea5dc82af695

Started chatting late Saturday night, seemed cool. All over fetlife with gangbangs. She is freaky.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-262c9aa00bd3

Seemed cool. But in wrigleyville withe no car, so not realistic for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-28459e8db3c5

Wants 300 at the beginning of a meet, then another 300 as a tip at the end.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-6e15ed839e93

Chatting a lot. Seems like a time waster.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-60b13a38c7f0

Complete time waster. Started chatting, showed interest in meeting up but went silent when started talking about details of time and location. Asked for money for dinner before we met.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-a9a5255ee887

Saw her a while back, use to be in the west suburbs. A little bigger than her pics (last time I saw her). Definite train wreck of a life with a drinking issue. But she was a freak, open to anything you wanted to do. Saw her a few times, it was fun.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-eeb788b01431

Another one I saw a while back, not as attractive and a little bigger in person, but very freaky and open to everything. Did not repeat.

Started checking SDM, but have had zero success on there so far. Hope you all are doing better than I am.

[FruitNinja]

Or OnlyFakes. So many time wasters now. Takes a while to find someone real. Used to be easy, you could find a date or two every day.

I had one recently ask $600.30 something with a body that looked like a tube. Zero curves. Years back that would have been $200 tops and she would have been grateful that someone actually wanted to do her.

[Al Melrose]

It use to be State / Same State (Illinois, Illinois) as City, State.

Now I see State / Different State (Ohio, Illinois).