Arrangement Reports

**Wndrngbldr** · 05-06-24 16:53

I got a friend who told me about the sugar bowl. Two sites he recommended were sugardaddymeet and seeking. Anyone have experience with SDM, as I've seen quite a bit on seeking.

**Dbomb** · 05-06-24 13:51

Short version: sugardaddy sends you fake message notices and fake online status to get you to waste your money. Longer version below.

We all know about Seeking, but fewer know about Sugardaddy. The latter is a site which has you buy credits and spend them to unlock messages. Depending on the tier / package you buy, it works out to as much as $5 worth of credits to unlock messages you receive. You can also spend them to unlock private pics and other stuff.

I know a woman who is on both Seeking and Sugardaddy. I received a message from her on SD, which I would have to spend credits to open. She's been seeing someone else in a pretty committed baby / daddy relationship. She's a kept woman and she won't risk losing it by breaking their monogamous deal. Anyway, I texted her and told her she messaged me on Sugardaddy and asked if she split with her man, or if she was finally bored enough to cheat. She was surprised and said she hasn't been on there since last autumn, when she found her current man, and did not send a message despite the site saying she was currently online and sent me a message.

I believe her, because it's clearly me in my public pics and she knows what I look like, and sending a message on a site is a moot point because we can just text any time. Just letting you guys know.

**FafaFooey** · 05-06-24 10:13

Very true, but it'd be interesting if anyone's had success channeling this kind of vibe into negotiations for an arrangement vs just having the girl think you want to hook up for the night (obviously not a horrible thing) or that you're trying to ask her out for vanilla dating (probably not what most of us are shooting for). Maybe if you've become enough of a familiar face with them where they work and they've started to share things about their life in general, you'd get a feel for if they'd be open to something regular in exchange for help, but its definitely awkward to bring up directly at almost any point in a casual conversation, even its it gotten flirty.

Originally Posted by BaltoMan66 [View Original Post]

I'm sure the difference between having the person consider the offer and reporting you is whether there is any attraction there. You know when something is harassment? When it's unwelcome. But if you have a great conversation with a vibe and you ask, then it's just a proposal, an opportunity. And I would say to the OP (if in fact there is a chance of a real vibe) that you miss all the shots you never take. You can bring this up and get kindly shot down (which is what the bartender does one million times a day). But at least she knows you're interested. If she is interested too, well, then it gets interesting.

Be smart, and good luck.

**SamFlood123** · 05-06-24 08:21

I am in the midst of a SB / SD relationship with a young single mom. Did not find her on the site or through an online dating app. I'll say this, it's a much slower process. It takes longer to get to the regularity and allowance and its a greater investment of time and $. Its also less transactional than a girl from SA. On SA, you get to a number (PPM or monthly) quickly and the girls are ready for what comes next. In the vanilla world, if they are not experienced, you'll have steer the situation more.

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

Get them to talk about bills, how expensive stuff is now, inflation, the expensive trip she wants to go on, how many hours she's working, whatever the context until she agrees that more money or less work would be nice. Then you say "what you need is a sugar daddy!" Then watch her reaction. Agreement, fu*k yeah, hell no, indifferent. Then you'll have a sense of her mindset on the topic.

**BaltoMan66** · 05-05-24 23:34

I'm sure the difference between having the person consider the offer and reporting you is whether there is any attraction there. You know when something is harassment? When it's unwelcome. But if you have a great conversation with a vibe and you ask, then it's just a proposal, an opportunity. And I would say to the OP (if in fact there is a chance of a real vibe) that you miss all the shots you never take. You can bring this up and get kindly shot down (which is what the bartender does one million times a day). But at least she knows you're interested. If she is interested too, well, then it gets interesting.

Be smart, and good luck.

Originally Posted by Jayp80 [View Original Post]

An attractive bartender or waitress is getting 3-5 offers like this a day minimum so they've either become a semi-pro or are gong to report you to the mgr for harassing them.

**Jayp80** · 05-05-24 22:53

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

An attractive bartender or waitress is getting 3-5 offers like this a day minimum so they've either become a semi-pro or are gong to report you to the mgr for harassing them.

**Tunacan Sam** · 05-05-24 22:18

Sent PM about tattoobaby.

BrokeBeauty I messaged with a while back and she said was in Chicago. Then when I mentioned a free date she said Joliet area so we never met up. After that, she probably texted me 20 times just saying "hi" and "we going to meet".

Originally Posted by UnsureDarwin [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-ad1ca3be660b

She reached out to me first. Super easy to work out details for a meet. She is in Joliet. She arrived not made up. For sure her, but these pictures are her. No filter. Just basic. Anyway, we try and talk but that was dry. I can tell she is fairly new and was a little uncomfortable. I lay down the PPM conversation and she was open to it. But made it clear, she wanted a regular arrangement. I knew I would most likely not see her again because we had very little chemistry. She was not shaved or prepped for the deed. She is fairly tall and standard in the sack. Gave her $250 we agreed. But as she was leaving, I could tell she warmed up. I don't think I will see her again but she might be a good time for the guys here in the burbs.

160 for CFS isn't bad if her body is that hot.

Best of luck this weekend.

Originally Posted by UnsureDarwin [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-1b6bf6c490a9

She was hard to get a hold of. Had to uber her but once I got her, I could tell she was a pro. Lazy BBBJ within the first 10 mins. Her body is banging. No kissing or DATY. She kinda smelled so I stopped and made her shower. Came back with a attitude. That made me slightly horny. I banged her for 20 mins as she did not make any sounds. She was a dead fish but pulled out my phone because her bolt ons are real nice. CFS, but I got to bust on her nice ass. $160. Does not have a car, be ready to uber. I might see her again because of the price point but not really a SB experience.

Meeting with a few girls this weekend, hope everyone else does as well. This is prime SD / SB time.

Seniors can PM me.

**ChiGuy27** · 05-05-24 21:54

Any info?

Got a message back but then radio silence.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-758ccb9533dd

**Pau Ford** · 05-05-24 21:36

Get them to talk about bills, how expensive stuff is now, inflation, the expensive trip she wants to go on, how many hours she's working, whatever the context until she agrees that more money or less work would be nice. Then you say "what you need is a sugar daddy!" Then watch her reaction. Agreement, fu*k yeah, hell no, indifferent. Then you'll have a sense of her mindset on the topic.

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

**LikeMike1963** · 05-05-24 19:51

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

**Aake7** · 05-05-24 02:59

Originally Posted by Asstronot69 [View Original Post]

She's real, and so is the price tag. She come over to my place once, snorted a bunch of coke, let me play with her ass, then said she was too tired to fuck but wanted my money anyway. I gave her something just to get her out of my apartment.

If you get her cashapp her profile pic is her ass if you want a preview.

She's not even a "pawg. " Average girls think they have phat asses just because they're slightly overweight LOL.

**LittleVegas** · 05-04-24 00:04

Originally Posted by HitMan1783 [View Original Post]

She still has her profile up, she just blocked whoever LOL I passed because of convos we had.

She sent me a couple pictures and vids for a tip. Pretty girl! Vids were her getting fucked doggy and her giving a BJ. PPM she asked 500 BBBJ and covered FS.

**UnsureDarwin** · 05-03-24 20:41

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-f81d3fb5668b

I have reviewed her before and I recently spoke with her. She said she is looking for her old friends from here because her phone dried up. Still cat piss crazy but a great lay if you find her attractive. She has been hitting the gym and her body is firmer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-40a15748677c

I reached out to her and it the conversation went well. We planned a time to meet, then she went dark. Still have not heard from her but her account is active. She seems new but that was 2 days wasted for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-ad1ca3be660b

She reached out to me first. Super easy to work out details for a meet. She is in Joliet. She arrived not made up. For sure her, but these pictures are her. No filter. Just basic. Anyway, we try and talk but that was dry. I can tell she is fairly new and was a little uncomfortable. I lay down the PPM conversation and she was open to it. But made it clear, she wanted a regular arrangement. I knew I would most likely not see her again because we had very little chemistry. She was not shaved or prepped for the deed. She is fairly tall and standard in the sack. Gave her $250 we agreed. But as she was leaving, I could tell she warmed up. I don't think I will see her again but she might be a good time for the guys here in the burbs.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-1b6bf6c490a9

She was hard to get a hold of. Had to uber her but once I got her, I could tell she was a pro. Lazy BBBJ within the first 10 mins. Her body is banging. No kissing or DATY. She kinda smelled so I stopped and made her shower. Came back with a attitude. That made me slightly horny. I banged her for 20 mins as she did not make any sounds. She was a dead fish but pulled out my phone because her bolt ons are real nice. CFS, but I got to bust on her nice ass. $160. Does not have a car, be ready to uber. I might see her again because of the price point but not really a SB experience.

Meeting with a few girls this weekend, hope everyone else does as well. This is prime SD / SB time.

Seniors can PM me.

**CraigClaire** · 05-03-24 19:35

Originally Posted by LittleVegas [View Original Post]

I created a profile and upgraded to premium. Let's see how things go. I'll be in Vegas early June so might help with adventures there too although I'm happy with rotation. I messaged 3 girls who were mentioned here. Thanks! Would love to find some kinkier more taboo and personal adventures.

I love Vegas! Lots of freaky girls there for sure.

**CraigClaire** · 05-03-24 19:34

At mari_s7146 on Snapchat. Feel free to PM me for her cell number (but I think real time videos on Snap are more fun).

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-a1e73e6bd4ba

She's in between Chicago and Milwaukee and says she's open to commuting.

Her tits are basically non-existent but she makes up for it in open-mindedness and enthusiasm. Decent ass. Not gorgeous or anything but cute and could pass for younger. She'll probably beg you to put her on her knees in public or do CNC play or get out pretty much anything you want.

She texted me a kind of intimidating paragraph of her sexual limits and how much she was looking for and stuff she often does. Caught me off-guard but saves time for sure.

She said "a couple of hours" for 700 with a condom or 1000 without for full three-hole access and extreme kink options if you want it. For longer than a couple of hours such as all day or a full overnight, 1500 with a condom or 2000 without. She made me get tested to creampie her. I've been meeting her over a few months now and she's legit. I've given her money to go book a room so it's not under my name and had zero issues with her following through. This girl wants to be fucked.

She listed these as some common things she does:

Vanilla play, sensuality, cuddling.

Extreme and graphic CNC (rape play).

Age play like DD / lg (as young as desired- no taboos off-limits).

Slave / brat / **** training.

Public play (no limits. As public as you want, as long as I can wear a COVID mask to hide my face).

Bondage and suspension.

Extreme degradation / humiliation / dollification / objectification.

Group play and bukkake.

And more. Just ask! I want to hear what you're into!

Again: if you're looking for big bouncing tits, this is not the girl for you. She's basically flat. If you're looking for a skinny nympho ****, you're in luck.