The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[ChasingPuppy]

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

Hi. I met with her a couple of times last August. She is a nice girl and seems to want to find someone but is really difficult to actually see regularly. Her schedule is all over the place so she can't easily plan. She's not the best at texting either. I think someone who can be really flexible might be able to make it work. But it didn't work for me. I saw no signs of demons but she did ask for wine for our first date (which ended up being cancelled). Overall a really nice girl though.

[LikesGirls]

Saw her a while back and had some fun. She's got an alcohol problem and it's a turn-off for me. Originally found her SA profile on here a couple years back and others seemed to have the same opinion of her.

Face and body have changed a bit since her profile pictures, likely due to some weight gain and loss. Attached the one I could find. Terrible comms. Decent date if you can catch her on a day she's not been drinking.

Yes, that's her. There were definitely alcohol daemons present as you mentioned, but I found her to be a good person. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Just wondering if she might still be active in the SD scene. You can PM details if you prefer. Thank you.

[SomeBabysRent]

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

Saw her a while back and had some fun. She's got an alcohol problem and it's a turn-off for me. Originally found her SA profile on here a couple years back and others seemed to have the same opinion of her.

Face and body have changed a bit since her profile pictures, likely due to some weight gain and loss. Attached the one I could find. Terrible comms. Decent date if you can catch her on a day she's not been drinking.

[LikesGirls]

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

[SomeBabysRent]

What kind of info are you looking for? You are listing all the red flags and I see no reason for you to want to pursue. FYI, if the profile is not available for you to view it is either deactivated or she blocked you. Go with what you see for what it is and move on.

See post 4370 for context.

Vivacious_vixen texted me pretending to be Dolly. I had contacted SA support and submitted Dolly's profile link as attempting to extort me, so I want to follow-up with SA support as to not erroneously report Dolly as a scammer.

Both profiles for Dolly and Vivacious_vixen are unavailable to me now. I think I had blocked Dolly's before (not really what I'm looking for) and Vivacious_vixen blocked me (she's the one acting scammy).

Basically, I was asking for someone to confirm if the pictures I posted here (post 4367) matched Dolly's profile I linked there as well.

Having been in this line of dating for 6+ years now, I'm not looking to continue anything with either of these women as this is already way beyond the level of drama I'm willing to put up with.

[AkaToneloc]

What kind of info are you looking for? You are listing all the red flags and I see no reason for you to want to pursue. FYI, if the profile is not available for you to view it is either deactivated or she blocked you. Go with what you see for what it is and move on.

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

[SomeBabysRent]

SA Profile tagline: "a sadistic beauty".

I had written down all my thoughts on this one to help me process what happened, but decided to post a TLDR instead for the sake of privacy. May post the full writeup at a later time.

- Connect about a week ago and conversation goes well. Decide to meet for lunch
- Lunch date goes well and leads to hooking up
- Unenthusiastic BBBJ, rushed covered PIV
- Immediately starts texting about money every few hrs, daily
- Poses as a different person (Dolly profile I posted the other day) and texts from a different phone number and threatens to "expose" me
- I report Dolly account to SA support as an extortion attempt
- Trace both numbers back to Vivacious_vixen, find her real name, address, birthday, etc.
- Find her socials and she's got a kid and a deadbeat boyfriend/baby daddy

Letting this one die on the vine and won't repeat. If she tries to bring drama, I'll show her what all I found on her and send her a C&D letter.

Do NOT recommend. Stay safe and good luck.

[FireMan32]

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

Profile has been deleted.

[MmceStep]

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

I had her in my message history, but I think she must have blocked me, or just deleted her profile. I can't really recall her.

[SomeBabysRent]

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-dacf8afd5c7b

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

[SomeBabysRent]

I've actually had better experiences with SugarDaddyMeet than with Seeking. Don't get me wrong, you won't avoid the fakes and scammers altogether. Just make it clear you don't send money in advance of meeting, don't buy content, etc. However, I have met quite a few great girls from there and I felt it was far less scammy than Seeking. Plus, you can get a 3 month membership for $90. I don't think you can even get a month on Seeking for that.

Thank you for the suggestion. I'll give SDM a look next time I plan to re-sub a site.

[MmceStep]

First I never met or even reached out. But sometimes there is no need as all the evidence why to avoid is already there in their profile. I copied just a couple lines from the paragraphs of what she is looking for.

Looking for gentleman daddy that's willing to $ for my time & my bills since I am struggling and mental health is up and down but mentorship is needed too but importantly happy to do so online wen away + in person wen we can. Looking for benifital compensative drama / stress free platonical relationship and go from there, unless we vibe well. Don't txt me to waste my time I'm not looking to be used as a s e x you a l outlet for why'all.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-cef83d54eb64

Yeah, I generally stay away from any of them with Findom in their profile. I don't find "Give me money now NOW" erotic.

[FunGuyInDurham]

I decided to give her another try since she's petite and just adorably cute. Last time I was not able to fit inside her but she said that it should be better this time around. She came over and I was able to fit about halfway in. I am above average size. The experience was great and I will definitely be calling her again.

And if so is she going all in now? Would love to find out and if so hear about how the experience is.

[Member #6718]

I've actually had better experiences with SugarDaddyMeet than with Seeking. Don't get me wrong, you won't avoid the fakes and scammers altogether. Just make it clear you don't send money in advance of meeting, don't buy content, etc. However, I have met quite a few great girls from there and I felt it was far less scammy than Seeking. Plus, you can get a 3 month membership for $90. I don't think you can even get a month on Seeking for that.

SDM seems to have less scammers but it also just has less people in total. I have had some limited success there but there is not a lot to choose from.

[SmallAsianCock]

I was chatting with her a while back, got her digits and got to the negotiation part. I ask for more pics and never heard from her again. She must be oversized.

She did send me her private pics. And I cut off communication immediately.