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**ChrisCarr** · 02-15-24 18:27

Originally Posted by Squatty2 [View Original Post]

I'm consistently amazed at how much men in here are willing to overpay for what are very average looking women. Escorts are often significantly more attractive and a guarantee.

Is it the allure of semi-exclusivity (which is likely a lie)?

Also the higher possibility of BBFS and / or in some cases they stop asking for money. Either are very unlikely to happen with pros.

**ShortMan22** · 02-15-24 12:58

Originally Posted by Emesdee [View Original Post]

I did not counter. The concern around her being bigger than her photos didn't motivate me to pursue this one that hard. She seemed like a nice girl personality wise, so didn't know why else someone would ditch her at the FC.

From looking at her social media, she's definitely gained some weight. Not worth 700 in my book.

**Squatty2** · 02-15-24 12:27

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Wow, $700 for her? I mean she's not unattractive but she's not "hot" either. The $300 range. ? Sure, I could see it as a last resort type of thing. But $700? Sheesh! She wasn't willing to consider anything less? Or did you even counter?

I'm consistently amazed at how much men in here are willing to overpay for what are very average looking women. Escorts are often significantly more attractive and a guarantee.

Is it the allure of semi-exclusivity (which is likely a lie)?

**Member #7156** · 02-15-24 11:23

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Wow, $700 for her? I mean she's not unattractive but she's not "hot" either. The $300 range. ? Sure, I could see it as a last resort type of thing. But $700? Sheesh! She wasn't willing to consider anything less? Or did you even counter?

I did not counter. The concern around her being bigger than her photos didn't motivate me to pursue this one that hard. She seemed like a nice girl personality wise, so didn't know why else someone would ditch her at the FC.

**Dimples572** · 02-15-24 10:03

Originally Posted by Emesdee [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-a3bd185f572b

Real and DTF. Had a M&G with her. She seemed nice enough and generally looked like her photos, though she was wearing a jacket and to me, seemed a bit larger than her photos. However, ultimately she wanted 7, which was a no for me. She also told me about meeting a guy at a hotel and him making an excuse to go to his car and never coming back, so that wasn't a good sign.

Wow, $700 for her? I mean she's not unattractive but she's not "hot" either. The $300 range. ? Sure, I could see it as a last resort type of thing. But $700? Sheesh! She wasn't willing to consider anything less? Or did you even counter?

**Tophat31** · 02-15-24 07:13

Originally Posted by Emesdee [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-a3bd185f572b

Real and DTF. Had a M&G with her. She seemed nice enough and generally looked like her photos, though she was wearing a jacket and to me, seemed a bit larger than her photos. However, ultimately she wanted 7, which was a no for me. She also told me about meeting a guy at a hotel and him making an excuse to go to his car and never coming back, so that wasn't a good sign.

Wanted 7 but over text said she was willing to do 4. She has weird availability times so stopped talking.

**Member #7156** · 02-15-24 02:13

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-a3bd185f572b

Real and DTF. Had a M&G with her. She seemed nice enough and generally looked like her photos, though she was wearing a jacket and to me, seemed a bit larger than her photos. However, ultimately she wanted 7, which was a no for me. She also told me about meeting a guy at a hotel and him making an excuse to go to his car and never coming back, so that wasn't a good sign.

**Mandane** · 02-14-24 16:14

Originally Posted by Itfcd [View Original Post]

She looks a little different than her old face photo. She also listed herself as Middle Eastern before, wonder what the truth is.

She's Nepalese and Jewish if I remember correctly. Definitely has straddling the line between the two. I wouldn't put any stock into it. If you hadn't seen the old listing it probably wouldn't even cross your mind if you met her. She probably just did it to not get pigeon holed as ethnic.

**ShortMan22** · 02-13-24 15:13

Originally Posted by FunnyMoney [View Original Post]

I felt the same. She was quite freaky but then got major gps.

Yeah! She's not worth anything above 300. Anything above that could be disappointing.

**Funny Money** · 02-13-24 13:42

Originally Posted by ShortMan22 [View Original Post]

I've reviewed her in the past, maybe like 2-3 years back. She's definitely the girl in the pictures. She became very high volume and Is a heavy weed smoker. Damage at the time was 250 and it was very easy to set up meet and greet. During the meet and greet it was very easy to convince her to slob on the knob. BBBJ was 7/10. She was decent at taking a pounding as well. As time progresses and her volume increased she became lazy and everything was done half-ass. That why I dropped her.

Some one elses experience might be different from mine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-af12efce004b

I felt the same. She was quite freaky but then got major gps.

**DrSummer** · 02-13-24 13:22

I take all good precautions mentioned (no explicit convo on the site, respectful to the girls, never reported anyone on the site etc. Etc), but I still got suspended. Even on offline convo, if I don't like where the conversation is heading, I either drop the convo nicely saying there is no match, or just block them and move on. I never get back arguing with them. But the site is full of nut cases. It just takes something trivial for them to go off and get all hyped up. Most likely one of those nut cases reported me. The site believes them rather than us. Just how it is. We need the pussy, and they know that. LOL.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by Stealfist [View Original Post]

I was banned once last year. So I just made another account. No problem since (touchwood). Idea is to never discuss any gift, gas money or any financial amount. If they insist of discussing money on the site. Just block them. Trust me it's not worthed.

As for as sending messages. Most men including me send a lot of messages hoping something sticks. I travel a lot for business so can't help it. I don't think seeking cares about how many people you message in a day.

I report 3-4 fraudulent profiles in a week, take a screen shot from my google messages and attach it "upload evidence" (not sure if they ever check it). So far so good.

Happy cautious mongering friends.

**Stealfist** · 02-13-24 09:12

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I had an experience just after re-activating my account. I also sent out a lot of messages, and they were my standard opener, so a lot of the same verbiage. I don't think I needed to do anything, or if I did email customer service, I just explained what I just said, and within 24 hours, the profile was fully functioning. I believe they keep track of such things as demerits against your profile. If you truly did not do anything wrong, I would ask them if they could expunge the demerits, because if you did something in the future (by accident or just skirting the rules), you could get banned. ANd from everything I read, you really don't want that to happen.

I also suggest unless you are really covering your ass that you Do Not report girls for anything, even when they are clearly in the wrong. I had a girl message me w / all sorts of inappropriate financial talk, I reported her, and my OWN profile was suspended.

I was banned once last year. So I just made another account. No problem since (touchwood). Idea is to never discuss any gift, gas money or any financial amount. If they insist of discussing money on the site. Just block them. Trust me it's not worthed.

As for as sending messages. Most men including me send a lot of messages hoping something sticks. I travel a lot for business so can't help it. I don't think seeking cares about how many people you message in a day.

I report 3-4 fraudulent profiles in a week, take a screen shot from my google messages and attach it "upload evidence" (not sure if they ever check it). So far so good.

Happy cautious mongering friends.

**Rudy Wellz** · 02-12-24 17:33

Originally Posted by TheBarbarian [View Original Post]

She doesn't look Ethiopian / East African in her photo. But then again, it's only one photo.

You are correct in that the photo doesn't have traditional Ethiopian / East African features. However, in person, you can definitely see it and the accent is a certain give away. In grad school, I had an Ethiopian roommate and dated an Ethiopian woman for over a year. Still recognize that accent.

**FarFarAway** · 02-12-24 02:35

I had an experience just after re-activating my account. I also sent out a lot of messages, and they were my standard opener, so a lot of the same verbiage. I don't think I needed to do anything, or if I did email customer service, I just explained what I just said, and within 24 hours, the profile was fully functioning. I believe they keep track of such things as demerits against your profile. If you truly did not do anything wrong, I would ask them if they could expunge the demerits, because if you did something in the future (by accident or just skirting the rules), you could get banned. ANd from everything I read, you really don't want that to happen.

I also suggest unless you are really covering your ass that you Do Not report girls for anything, even when they are clearly in the wrong. I had a girl message me w / all sorts of inappropriate financial talk, I reported her, and my OWN profile was suspended.

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

Guys,

After 5 years on seeking, my account got suspended few days ago. The email says "suspension" not a ban. Does anyone know if there is a difference between a suspension and a ban or all get the same e-mail? The following is what the e-mail says.

"We have detected some unusual activity on this account, resulting in suspension. During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services.

Please note that account suspensions are issued for either of the following reasons:

A violation of our Terms of Use.

Actions that trigger our automated security system".

It gives me an option to e-mail customer service if I want to provide further details. Just wondering if I should e-mail or not. Anyone with any experience, would like to hear. I am usually careful what I discuss there, but it is possible a girl I declined reported me. Another possibility is that I sent a lots of messages a day before my subscription ended, it may have triggered something.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

**TheBarbarian** · 02-11-24 22:52

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-b12dc02555d6

She's real and and requested a phone call prior to meeting. We discussed her $800 PPM and I countered with $500 (or $600 if she hosts). Despite the PPM difference, I invited her for a M&G figuring that I could charm her off the high ask. We had a couple of glasses of wine. She is a pretty Ethiopian with a nice rack, professional, with a desire to travel and have fun. Didn't take off her large overcoat, so the remainder of her body remained a mystery. She's had 1 other arrangement which was organic and not through Seeking. She indicated that we should get together again, is definitely DTF, and followed the M&G with a with a request for dates. Agreed to meet for lunch and fun in a few days. On the day of, she confirmed the meeting and $800 PPM. Again, I countered with $500/$600. She never responded.

She doesn't look Ethiopian / East African in her photo. But then again, it's only one photo.