"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[WiseTraveler]

No matter how hot she is, 500 is too much to have that many rules. Needs to be full GFE, bare, and anal, CIM, CIP, or COF better all be options at that price point.

I was banging out a 27 year old model this time last year for 300 a pop every week for a few months, and she hosted.

Can't speak to Atlanta but Minneapolis, Miami, Orlando, SF / Bay, LA, Phoenix SB rates have gone way up. The newbies think they'll get designer bags, shoes, dresses, and trips by sending emojis and providing chat and dinner companionship. For intimacy, which they always want to work their way up to, they want 500-1000 PPM or 4-6 k / monthly. They're also sharing intel, checking pics against facecheck and other sites, and following TikTok / IG influencers who are filling their heads with BS.

You can still find some more reasonable options, especially if you are decent looking / fun, but it's much tougher and the GPS is rampant. And of course there are endless scammers / rinsers who need gas money, advances to show you are serious, or 300 just to meet. It's a numbers game and I no longer have the patience to regularly play.

[GoneForGood97]

Let me get some of questions out of the way.

She does not like butt stuff. She will kiss, but without tongue she had on a lot of lip gloss. I did not ask for any bareback services or a BJ at all. I was honestly too stunned at how hot she was to even think about that. I told her I do like to please and asked her what she liked, she pretty much told me to fuck her, so I did.

No matter how hot she is, 500 is too much to have that many rules. Needs to be full GFE, bare, and anal, CIM, CIP, or COF better all be options at that price point.

I was banging out a 27 year old model this time last year for 300 a pop every week for a few months, and she hosted.

[MilfHunter818]

Let me get some of questions out of the way.

She does not like butt stuff. She will kiss, but without tongue she had on a lot of lip gloss. I did not ask for any bareback services or a BJ at all. I was honestly too stunned at how hot she was to even think about that. I told her I do like to please and asked her what she liked, she pretty much told me to fuck her, so I did.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-7f20d1ddb169

Holy shit guys! Usually at first look on a profile of a woman of this caliber it screams scam or fake. I went ahead and made contact and I'm here to say she is REAL. Of course the model pics are filtered but she looks better than the pictures in person. She just got out of a 3 year arrangement and is visiting atl until the 23rd of this month. She wanted $500 ppm which after she walked in the door, I had no problem giving. She has huge natural breasts. Pierced nipples, shaved kitty. She's very easy to talk to, outgoing and giggles a lot but not in a ditzy way. It was a very pleasant time. I'm trying to attach a photo but it's giving me an error. Any questions just DM me.

[MilfHunter818]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-7f20d1ddb169

Holy shit guys! Usually at first look on a profile of a woman of this caliber it screams scam or fake. I went ahead and made contact and I'm here to say she is REAL. Of course the model pics are filtered but she looks better than the pictures in person. She just got out of a 3 year arrangement and is visiting atl until the 23rd of this month. She wanted $500 ppm which after she walked in the door, I had no problem giving. She has huge natural breasts. Pierced nipples, shaved kitty. She's very easy to talk to, outgoing and giggles a lot but not in a ditzy way. It was a very pleasant time. I'm trying to attach a photo but it's giving me an error. Any questions just DM me.

[Atlvoy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-045c67e59cc8

Rose.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...0-8b5dd73adf16

FunKorean.

Has anyone met?

[Bross]

Here are some "let's do some online content first" time wasters.

Classy Duchess.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-94a311a4eeb4

Funny Gorgeous.

She blocked me when I called her out.

Start Loving.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-9b480cb6035c

This one is using porn star Anastasia Rose's pictures.

Traveled Mizz.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-d261619a2af7

Good luck out there.

[LoriTruck]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-b06cead774c1

Met this one not to long ago for a a fun time with 2 other girls I brought along. We all played a card game to break the ice, took a few shots and all had a great time.

[LoriTruck]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-fd384885094e

Chatted with this one for a while and we set up a meet. 1st time something came up on her end and we rescheduled. Second time I got busy and things didn't work out. Wondering if anyone has had any luck.

[Jims2321]

Link seems to be to your message not her profile.

Yeah, she blocked me, so I can't grab her profile link.

[Turtman]

Anyone tried? Seems like a great girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-85294cb780d6

Same here. Latina.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-c084bd37bffb

College Girl. Mmm is she legit?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-3e7a50d98039

Loving Queen. Any experience?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-76d5acf01be7

Lilly B.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-fc2a7ea41617

Mei -Anyone had experience? She honestly seems worth it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-b00d809172a6

Thanks in advance!

She is a nice girl and little flaky on the things you receive. On a good day you get the best and worst day, you just get pro vibes. Treat her good and she will come around the next time with better things for less allowance.

[WiseTraveler]

Yes, we know about those facial recognition sites. The more we are the only ones who know about them, and the POTs don't, the better. We know that some girls on SA read these very threads. Someone should go on the SB threads on Reddit, etc, to see if the girls are yet talking about facial rec.

When SBs, cuddlers, etc. Mention these threads I ask them to send a link. I wait a few days then say it's good to be cautious and paranoid (to a degree), to have a burner / secondary #, and to follow reasonable safety protocols. I then question the GPS rates for just chatting / flirting / hanging out, reinforce that 'the market is the market' - if you are being offered $$$ PPM, that's your range. You can hold out for the ideal but consider that it'll more likely be a Harvey Weinstein type ahole with BO and skid marks who will move on after he's used you.

If they're serious about sugaring I even help them with their profiles / pics and coaching but expect a lower rate and flexibility. It's worked well for me.

[CarmelFight]

I'm talking to this one now and we moved to snap. So far so good but something seems off. Has anyone else talked to her before?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-79fba3b140c1



Either way, TIA and I'll report back.

I talked with her when she had a different name. She's is a time waster, she will be asking for help soon for some BS story. Mine was she just got into a car accident shows a picture of her hand bruised and asking for money to go to a clinic. Never met in person etc. All the red flags. Than when you don't send she just stops communicating and moves on to seek another sucker.

[BobeSugar]

In November 2023, my sugarbaby named Amy from last year asked me to come back to her. We've been dating about once a week since. The dates last 5 to 8 hours, $300 per date, and we do various things in addition to the hot sex like visit a museum, have a meal, or (her favorite) shopping. The shopping is for essential items, not luxury items. Amy wants me to take her camping sometime (cabin or RV) or on a trip to Europe. Amy is a tall, slender, beautiful and intelligent student at a community college with a solid career plan. She is poor and has a menial job. She appears to be exclusive to me.

While I'm writing, let me offer some general comments about sugarbabies. I know that everyone is different, so this may or may not work for you.

I keep it simple and light, with 1 to 3 texts per week to show I'm interested. If you're only seeing them once a week, like I do, you should leave her alone for 1-3 days at a time. Texts are short, for example "Happy Groundhog Day". A fraction (about 1/3) of the texts are accompanied by small amounts of money ($50 to $100). This is gas money. Words are nice, but money says more.

I explained to Amy that there are different kinds of love, like the love you have for your dog, which is different from the love you have for your grandmother or your boyfriend or your eventual husband. "An SD is somewhere between dog and grandma", I said. That made her laugh.

I'm always positive and keep the relationship moving forward. Because it's nothing serious. As an example of how I interact with Amy, once she had me take her to run an errand, she was away for 20 minutes and apologized for keeping me waiting. I said "No problem. By definition, a sugarbaby can never do anything wrong. " She laughed and said "You're adorable. ". But what I meant by that is that a SB / SD relationship is a light-hearted affair. If things were to go wrong, you can simply end the arrangement.

It's funny that while medical doctors and health books give lots of advice on how to stay healthy (exercise, diet, sleep, etc) they never advise to take on a sugarbaby. Why? Largely because of morality, and there's a risk that things go wrong. However, I've found a SB super beneficial to my health: makes me happy and it provides a strong incentive to do the diet and exercise regime to keep my body looking "good for my age".

I would say your experience is an exception and I'm glad for you. Most SB are not like that. They have one goal in mind: rip us off until the last dollar and move on to the next target. I just got tired from all the BS and withdrew from the scene.

[Snake27]

In November 2023, my sugarbaby named Amy from last year asked me to come back to her. We've been dating about once a week since. The dates last 5 to 8 hours, $300 per date, and we do various things in addition to the hot sex like visit a museum, have a meal, or (her favorite) shopping. The shopping is for essential items, not luxury items. Amy wants me to take her camping sometime (cabin or RV) or on a trip to Europe. Amy is a tall, slender, beautiful and intelligent student at a community college with a solid career plan. She is poor and has a menial job. She appears to be exclusive to me.

While I'm writing, let me offer some general comments about sugarbabies. I know that everyone is different, so this may or may not work for you.

I keep it simple and light, with 1 to 3 texts per week to show I'm interested. If you're only seeing them once a week, like I do, you should leave her alone for 1-3 days at a time. Texts are short, for example "Happy Groundhog Day". A fraction (about 1/3) of the texts are accompanied by small amounts of money ($50 to $100). This is gas money. Words are nice, but money says more.

I explained to Amy that there are different kinds of love, like the love you have for your dog, which is different from the love you have for your grandmother or your boyfriend or your eventual husband. "An SD is somewhere between dog and grandma", I said. That made her laugh.

I'm always positive and keep the relationship moving forward. Because it's nothing serious. As an example of how I interact with Amy, once she had me take her to run an errand, she was away for 20 minutes and apologized for keeping me waiting. I said "No problem. By definition, a sugarbaby can never do anything wrong. " She laughed and said "You're adorable. ". But what I meant by that is that a SB / SD relationship is a light-hearted affair. If things were to go wrong, you can simply end the arrangement.

It's funny that while medical doctors and health books give lots of advice on how to stay healthy (exercise, diet, sleep, etc) they never advise to take on a sugarbaby. Why? Largely because of morality, and there's a risk that things go wrong. However, I've found a SB super beneficial to my health: makes me happy and it provides a strong incentive to do the diet and exercise regime to keep my body looking "good for my age".

[Member #6704]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...6-05ff832216c1

Supposed to meet for lunch and then adjourn to the FC, but she ghosted me right after I got to the restaurant. Oh well, at least I got some decent cuban food.

Link seems to be to your message not her profile.