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[HeyDuhman]

Since my gorgeous teenie babie left me for her vanilla bf I've been struggling to find anyone halfway comparable on seeking.

So I signed up (free) for secret benefits.

Seem to be a lot more active HOT and verified profiles (I only go for 18-24, slim / athletic, 8+, white / middle eastern type) on secret benefits.

BUT I hear the app is a shit scam. Paying for credits anwhere from $3 to $6 per contact depending on the package you purchase. Problem is seems like response rates are just as bad if not worse than on seeking.

Guys. Any tips for secret benefits in our area?

Should I drop $$ on it? What is the best strategy to get a better response rate? Can we "favorite / like / wink" at profiles for free to see if they look before dropping the $$$ credits to msg them?

I've pretty much contacted and fucked every girl on seeking that I want (and who responded back LOL) so I'm taking a longggg hiatus from seeking until. Oh I dunno. Spring?

Also any idea on sugardaddymeet site specificially for our area?

[Dkayz]

Not terribly hot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-4b96522a5150

This is a new profile. She had been discussed a decent amount on her last profile. Used to go by Froyo.

[Max #01]

Persianbaddie_2000.

Wants 3 k for the first meet. Bad attitude.

Not terribly hot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-4b96522a5150

[Dimples572]

I did do a search and nothing came up. I used Alicebby. Probably should have just used Alice in the search. Lesson learned the hard way.

There's dozens of posts on how to search in this forum. You don't search by username, you search by those first 8 characters in the URL after the / member /.

[FabGnale]

You should have search before seeing her. I think half the forum plowed her already. I was an early one.

I did do a search and nothing came up. I used Alicebby. Probably should have just used Alice in the search. Lesson learned the hard way.

[NeedXtra]

Persianbaddie_2000.

Wants 3 k for the first meet. Bad attitude.

Blocked and cannot provide link.

LovingItGirl.

Want 3-4 k per month allowance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-ee02af04452a

[TheBarbarian]

She's a pro.

https://www.eros.com/washington_dc/f...1606.htm?cat=1

[TomFordModel]

Will not repeat. Set up for dinner and back to the room. 2 hours before dinner, wants to meet in the lobby of the hotel, no dinner. I should have known then. I cancelled dinner reservations. Shows up 30 minutes late. It is the girl in the pictures. Very petite and pretty. Great attitude. We have good convoy. Then she says she wants to wash her hands. She literally washed her hands for 3 minutes. Guys do know how long that is. Come out and says do you want to wash your hands. Sure. Out to the bed and she is completely naked. She says she doesn't like to kiss. Even her boy friends. No blow job! It is part of her clean thing. I am exploring all those tattoos and trying to find those spots that drive her crazy. She keeps trying to get me to put on a condom. I think she thinks wants to get this over fast. I put on the condom backwards. She asked me not to use it because it has precum on it. Went Mish. And she kept giving rules. I finally lost my erection. Got a expensive hand job. Said that was a lot of cum. Goes to restroom and washes her hands longer than before. She used 2 different towels to dry her hands.

You should have search before seeing her. I think half the forum plowed her already. I was an early one.

[TheBarbarian]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...b-52721e998947

Any info on this one? PM or respond in open forum. Thanks.

[FabGnale]

Will not repeat. Set up for dinner and back to the room. 2 hours before dinner, wants to meet in the lobby of the hotel, no dinner. I should have known then. I cancelled dinner reservations. Shows up 30 minutes late. It is the girl in the pictures. Very petite and pretty. Great attitude. We have good convoy. Then she says she wants to wash her hands. She literally washed her hands for 3 minutes. Guys do know how long that is. Come out and says do you want to wash your hands. Sure. Out to the bed and she is completely naked. She says she doesn't like to kiss. Even her boy friends. No blow job! It is part of her clean thing. I am exploring all those tattoos and trying to find those spots that drive her crazy. She keeps trying to get me to put on a condom. I think she thinks wants to get this over fast. I put on the condom backwards. She asked me not to use it because it has precum on it. Went Mish. And she kept giving rules. I finally lost my erection. Got a expensive hand job. Said that was a lot of cum. Goes to restroom and washes her hands longer than before. She used 2 different towels to dry her hands.

[TomFordModel]

Said the same for me. I wish people were more upfront vs at the last minute.

Did you hit it? Some one do it! It will be interesting.

That face looks like a mutant so I'll not sample it.

[GhorMail]

I had a date set up, but an hour before we were to meet, she told me she was trans. Use that information as you wish. Not sure if the pics are all legit.

Said the same for me. I wish people were more upfront vs at the last minute.

[Member #6951]

What you're experiencing / experienced is happening all over. It's still a viable option if you travel frequently or have the ability to expand your search range 2 hours or so from your home location.

2017 was the last year it was any "good", IMO. The pandemic really put the brakes on our society.

It's funny. I went back and was rereading my old posts and laughed at a post I had from the 2017-2018 timeframe saying I thought we were at the top of the market. Turns out I may have been right. Okay for me now — I'm less about penny stocks and volume trades. Just give me a solid blue chip and I'll take my steady dividends. (Jesus, I've settled for the equivalent of marriage in sugar, haven't I?

[Member #6951]

I had never heard of Feeld before today. I got on the web, read their website. It is an app available for both OSs. Why do you say being an app (not a website) is more dangerous? I have put the SA app on my burner phone before. I don't see too big a risk there.

Oh, it isn't the app itself; it's more that the app-based dating services are all organized around photos first and foremost. I've never used a photo on seeking and it's never been an issue since I can approach first and a good screen name and detailed profile do the rest. Admittedly, Feeld is even tougher because its strength (a community of generally open and like minded folks that understand poly and non-monogamous dynamics) also generally don't see the need for discretion.

Separately, though, I also find apps to be a challenge because once you download them, they are always "part of" your history. Sure you can turn off notifications and avoid subscription-based ones, but they are lurking there in the background and I just find they infiltrate so many things more and more these days. For example, Snapchat notifications showing up on your watch even when you turn off banners and such (there's a workaround) or unexpected banner notifications because you accidentally scrolled into a naughty subreddit.

Plus, if you're a married dude, it hard enough to explain away Snapchat or Telegram or a texting app, but it is possible. There's no explanation for a dating app.

[FarFarAway]

My theory is the true hot, young, Babies with banging bodies & open to posing nude, toying or posting vids of them "coupling", are making more money on Only Fans. Without having to make believe they enjoy doing us old, out of shape and in many cases married guys. Especially if they have a following on IG to steer traffic to their OF account.

Say it ain't so, Bro!

My bowl buddy, Shampoo55, knows all about this. Almost all girls on only fans are making less per month than they could make in one date on SA. There are a few, of course, who are making thousands, but they are like the top 1-3%. Ask him if you really want to know.