Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[BuckENaked]

I passed due to the pictures I got from her so I'm guessing she is not your type. Mainly due to distance she wouldn't budge on the 400 and given the size I didn't follow through (despite her numerous texts). I never discussed what was on the menu but if I had known that what the other guy listed was open I might've followed through.

Yeah, similar to others here I found her much bigger than her pictures on the site. We had a few dates, and she is absolutely a freak BCD, but it got old quick, given her body type. She wasn't the worst for hounding for dates and was supposed to get in shape for a new job but doubt it will happen, she kind of took the hint after a while. I don't recall what I offered but I know I didn't come close to 400 and still only saw her for a little while. There are just so many fish in the pond lately but if you want someone with very few rules, she's probably your best bet.

[Tf777]

So she is not athletic? Shocked I tell you! A woman thinking she is slim or fit and actually not? Sacrilege. LOL.

PM me her pic or post it here, I would love to see it.

I'd also love to see it if you feel like sharing LOL.

[Boonniee99]

At seeking arrangements and other similar sugar sites, what do the girls usually charge per meet?

[SR7D1]

I passed due to the pictures I got from her so I'm guessing she is not your type. Mainly due to distance she wouldn't budge on the 400 and given the size I didn't follow through (despite her numerous texts). I never discussed what was on the menu but if I had known that what the other guy listed was open I might've followed through.

So she is not athletic? Shocked I tell you! A woman thinking she is slim or fit and actually not? Sacrilege. LOL.

PM me her pic or post it here, I would love to see it.

[SR7D1]

Alright fellas, I'll have a few more reports soon but I figured I'd share a little more generally speaking at the moment. I've been on seeking since the third week of October, and I feel I've had decent success. So here's my thoughts and what has been working for me. Maybe it can help you or maybe you can point out something I could change for better success.

1- This is a numbers game, no matter what you do there is not a one size fits all approach and what works for one might not work for another.

2-GPS, my definition is anything over 3. Though mostly the girls who do this ask for much more. I have no problem compensating fairly but I won't give into delusion and pay a subpar 6 the rate of a 10. Especially when I make it clear I'm only looking for about 1.5-2 hours of their time.

3-I have a few photos set to private that are not on any other socials.

4-I generally try to leave the site open on my pc and click something a few times a day. You need to understand that your status shows as online for 60 minutes after your last click. Since the site. Orders. By last online, this ensures I'm always towards the top of the search results.

5-I usually spam the same message to every chick unless after reading her profile it seems like a custom one might yield better results. "Hey there (insert name), I'm looking for a nsa casual encounter that based on chemistry could be weekly or develop into something more. Is that something you might be interested in?

6-I then request any private photos of there's, then finally I share mine. This way when they look at their inbox, the thing they see before clicking open is that I shared with them. I've noticed if you. Reverse the order and the first thing they see is your request for theirs, they are less likely to open and respond.

7-If I've seen they've read but not responded, after a day or two I'll reach out and say "not interested then I take it?" I'd say about 40% of the time they then get the convo started and mention how. They just got overwhelmed with messages.

8-Assuming conversation ensues, I try to move to text as soon as possible. At that point I ask them if it's okay to be super direct. Never had one say no. I then get specific about what I want. Then I. Immediately send a follow up text that reads like this. "Oh and apparently because I'm learning this is a thing, I am not interested in nor will I ever ask for greek. I find it gross. " They seem to. Absolutely love it. Personally I'm not really interested but I have no doubt if I wanted it, I could get it from anyone I've seen.

9-Once we meet, I make sure to be clean and showered. Now I'm sure they are blowing smoke up my ass, since I'm no brad pitt looking mf'er and I don't know what they generally have to deal with. But every woman I've met has been surprised and happy with my appearance. You can literally see the sigh of relief when we first meet. Guys if this is in anyway true, just put a little effort in and. The experience from her will be much better. For context I'm only 5'5 , bald and bearded, and in average shape. Finally the last thing I can say here is just treat them like they are a human being. Every one of them has always been shocked and happy with how nice I treated them, and I literally don't think I do anything special, they literally say this to me which leads me to believe they deal. With a lot of scumbags. Maybe true, maybe not. Though I can say, while there are some I won't see again, any that I would, would do so in a heartbeat and will see me for less on subsequent visits. And have.

I think that's about it for now. I'm sure I've forgotten something. Hope this helps you guys out and I'm happy for any tips or strategies you might have that you have found successful. Attached is a snippet of my profile to give you an idea of what they see.

These are good tips. I have been in the bowl a short time myself, February will be 4 years. I would never send a follow up msg about anal because I like it every once in a while and I have only met 3 so far that were up for it. I do see why you do mention it though and glad that is working for you.

Other tips I use that may or may not work for you.

1) I place a radius in my profile, 60 miles. I'm not interested in anyone farther. It's hard enough to schedule with ones that live 15 min away.

2) I am hidden on the dashboard. I got sick of being favorited / messages from other countries and other states I don't live in. I figured I don't want them seeking me anyway, I will do the hunting and seeking. I have had curvy, overweight women and non binary profiles reach out and waste my time.

3) Women with younger kids rarely work well for me. Scheduling is compounded with sitters and them asking you to pay for sitters and desperation is more abundant. I don't engage desperate women. Or women that are unemployed or don't have a car. I don't Uber women. As long as I can find women that have a car, I won't need to. If they want to Uber or get a sitter, that is on them. See # 5.

4) Avoid strippers and other women that look high maintenance. Strippers are often beautiful but way more self entitled due to dancing and come with a host of other bad habits. Their expectations are also higher because guys in the clubs pay them money just to have a dance and nothing else. So in turn, they expect you to be like those desperate guys in the club.

5) Women that have a full time job, can already make ends meet and have life in order usually don't hit you up for $ between meets. They appreciate the benefits you provide and are usually more laid back.

So in conclusion (and there are always exceptions to every rule):

No Strippers.

No Uber.

No Sitters.

No Desperate women.

No Professionals.

Use a text app

[TheEndlessEdge]

Rorybaby - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-e81ea8285027 - She's been around before. She pops up every now and then but is a great time. DTF and willing to please. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, BBBJCIM.

Fayefaye - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-a193105c90ef - Seems interested, but we haven't met yet. Slow texter.

Romarie - https://members.seeking.com/member/b...0-a3422e98acbc - No response. Did a follow-up, no response either.

Jazzy - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-488a067c4ca5 - If I recall, she used to be Ms. Sessa's friend. DTF but won't meet anywhere but her place. Didn't partake due to lack of time.

Tess - https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-54c903700205 - Surprisingly, actually got a text back from her today. She usually never responds so YMMV. Perhaps someone might have better luck but I don't see this going anywhere.

Sweetnvicious23 - https://members.seeking.com/member/d...9-7aa224846928 - She's interested, but slow to respond / text.

Nikkicute4 u - https://members.seeking.com/member/c...4-b9bb55694c5c - She's interested, but slow to respond as well.

Myra1988 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-290ba6911936 - Wants to be Cashapped in advance.

Lainyybugg - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-2b53dca8a933 - Saw her once last year but lost contact. Nice girl and nice body. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, BBBJCIM.

WisePrincess - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...4-d0e29f6ebf6b - Avoid like the plague. Just a really mean-spirited person and blows up your phone.

Littleforyou - https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-47076c1d2647 - Seems legit and wants to meet, but GPS.

[Bikjik69]

I wish she would return a msg from me, I have been trying for a while. Hah. Is her body average or athletic? Says she is a PT so I would imagine pretty tight. And she's down for anal? You're killing me!

I passed due to the pictures I got from her so I'm guessing she is not your type. Mainly due to distance she wouldn't budge on the 400 and given the size I didn't follow through (despite her numerous texts). I never discussed what was on the menu but if I had known that what the other guy listed was open I might've followed through.

[Ivellios01]

Alright fellas, I'll have a few more reports soon but I figured I'd share a little more generally speaking at the moment. I've been on seeking since the third week of October, and I feel I've had decent success. So here's my thoughts and what has been working for me. Maybe it can help you or maybe you can point out something I could change for better success.

1- This is a numbers game, no matter what you do there is not a one size fits all approach and what works for one might not work for another.

2-GPS, my definition is anything over 3. Though mostly the girls who do this ask for much more. I have no problem compensating fairly but I won't give into delusion and pay a subpar 6 the rate of a 10. Especially when I make it clear I'm only looking for about 1.5-2 hours of their time.

3-I have a few photos set to private that are not on any other socials.

4-I generally try to leave the site open on my pc and click something a few times a day. You need to understand that your status shows as online for 60 minutes after your last click. Since the site. Orders. By last online, this ensures I'm always towards the top of the search results.

5-I usually spam the same message to every chick unless after reading her profile it seems like a custom one might yield better results. "Hey there (insert name), I'm looking for a nsa casual encounter that based on chemistry could be weekly or develop into something more. Is that something you might be interested in?

6-I then request any private photos of there's, then finally I share mine. This way when they look at their inbox, the thing they see before clicking open is that I shared with them. I've noticed if you. Reverse the order and the first thing they see is your request for theirs, they are less likely to open and respond.

7-If I've seen they've read but not responded, after a day or two I'll reach out and say "not interested then I take it?" I'd say about 40% of the time they then get the convo started and mention how. They just got overwhelmed with messages.

8-Assuming conversation ensues, I try to move to text as soon as possible. At that point I ask them if it's okay to be super direct. Never had one say no. I then get specific about what I want. Then I. Immediately send a follow up text that reads like this. "Oh and apparently because I'm learning this is a thing, I am not interested in nor will I ever ask for greek. I find it gross. " They seem to. Absolutely love it. Personally I'm not really interested but I have no doubt if I wanted it, I could get it from anyone I've seen.

9-Once we meet, I make sure to be clean and showered. Now I'm sure they are blowing smoke up my ass, since I'm no brad pitt looking mf'er and I don't know what they generally have to deal with. But every woman I've met has been surprised and happy with my appearance. You can literally see the sigh of relief when we first meet. Guys if this is in anyway true, just put a little effort in and. The experience from her will be much better. For context I'm only 5'5 , bald and bearded, and in average shape. Finally the last thing I can say here is just treat them like they are a human being. Every one of them has always been shocked and happy with how nice I treated them, and I literally don't think I do anything special, they literally say this to me which leads me to believe they deal. With a lot of scumbags. Maybe true, maybe not. Though I can say, while there are some I won't see again, any that I would, would do so in a heartbeat and will see me for less on subsequent visits. And have.

I think that's about it for now. I'm sure I've forgotten something. Hope this helps you guys out and I'm happy for any tips or strategies you might have that you have found successful. Attached is a snippet of my profile to give you an idea of what they see.

[SR7D1]

I've dreamt about this girl a couple of times, she is a pretty good time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-10ce1aab08ea

Menu is fairly open. BBFSCIP and BBFSCIA.

Cost about 350-400.

I wish she would return a msg from me, I have been trying for a while. Hah. Is her body average or athletic? Says she is a PT so I would imagine pretty tight. And she's down for anal? You're killing me!

[JohnMong]

I've dreamt about this girl a couple of times, she is a pretty good time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-10ce1aab08ea

Menu is fairly open. BBFSCIP and BBFSCIA.

Cost about 350-400.

[PainWint]

OK suprise update.

7- Destinyxx9, https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-ebdbabdb942b.

She actually reached out last night and we ended up getting together about an hour and a half later. Not sure where she lives but was only an hour from me (Akron area). Likes to meet for a drink first which we did, not one of those girls that runs up the tab on you. More just wants to make sure you're not a creep or anything first. Went back to my place, BBBJ and cfs. Some baby damage but not bad and I've seen way worse. Tits are a little deflated and small but otherwise body is fairly solid. Honestly she's not sickly skinny but if she could put on probably a solid 10 healthy pounds, I'm willing to bet her body would be way better. Fairly chatty, not a clock watcher and all and all, not a bad time. I've had better and I've had way worse. Date went from 735-just after midnight, total dmg 250.

Sounds like a winner to me. Like the days when all the Kent State Fashion students had profiles. They were brilliant and fun. They recognized and appreciated that it was more fun and more lucrative to hang out for an evening than to work a double shift at Chipotle.

[SR7D1]

OK suprise update.

7- Destinyxx9, https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-ebdbabdb942b.

She actually reached out last night and we ended up getting together about an hour and a half later. Not sure where she lives but was only an hour from me (Akron area). Likes to meet for a drink first which we did, not one of those girls that runs up the tab on you. More just wants to make sure you're not a creep or anything first. Went back to my place, BBBJ and cfs. Some baby damage but not bad and I've seen way worse. Tits are a little deflated and small but otherwise body is fairly solid. Honestly she's not sickly skinny but if she could put on probably a solid 10 healthy pounds, I'm willing to bet her body would be way better. Fairly chatty, not a clock watcher and all and all, not a bad time. I've had better and I've had way worse. Date went from 735-just after midnight, total dmg 250.

That is good to hear you two finally met and thanks for the update. I'm about 45 from Akron so that would be a really long haul for her and with the BD and the comment of "fairly solid" I am sure the juice isn't worth the squeeze for me.

[Ivellios01]

OK suprise update.

7- Destinyxx9, https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-ebdbabdb942b.

She actually reached out last night and we ended up getting together about an hour and a half later. Not sure where she lives but was only an hour from me (Akron area). Likes to meet for a drink first which we did, not one of those girls that runs up the tab on you. More just wants to make sure you're not a creep or anything first. Went back to my place, BBBJ and cfs. Some baby damage but not bad and I've seen way worse. Tits are a little deflated and small but otherwise body is fairly solid. Honestly she's not sickly skinny but if she could put on probably a solid 10 healthy pounds, I'm willing to bet her body would be way better. Fairly chatty, not a clock watcher and all and all, not a bad time. I've had better and I've had way worse. Date went from 735-just after midnight, total dmg 250.

[Clion]

Don't contribute as much as I should and am trying to change that. So here's a report on a few and I'll post more in the following few days. As always everyone's mileage may vary. Any feedback or additional info on any of these would be greatly appreciated especially this first one.

1- Cara Mia, https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-1aa42115cd13.

Currently seeing? Gotten together a few times. Absolutely great in the moment, everything else is red flag central. Could be phenomenal or maybe once was but chooses not to be, seems beaten by life. At the moment. Possible substance issues, can't 100% confirm but highly suspect. Most likely going to end it as the drama isn't worth it, any info greatly appreciated. Reasonably priced.

2- Blueayes78, https://members.seeking.com/member/8...c-41f52f2a28b6.

In current rotation. Not mobile, so you either need to pick up or have her uber. Great time, reasonably priced and generally chill person. Worth seeing..

Met her once for a dinner meet and greet. She said all good and she's interested in moving forward with me.

At the end she asked for some money, for gas and for her son's babysitter.

Sent her some money and that's it! Never replied to my messages.

[SR7D1]

Don't contribute as much as I should and am trying to change that. So here's a report on a few and I'll post more in the following few days. As always everyone's mileage may vary. Any feedback or additional info on any of these would be greatly appreciated especially this first one.

1- Cara Mia, https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-1aa42115cd13.

Currently seeing? Gotten together a few times. Absolutely great in the moment, everything else is red flag central. Could be phenomenal or maybe once was but chooses not to be, seems beaten by life. At the moment. Possible substance issues, can't 100% confirm but highly suspect. Most likely going to end it as the drama isn't worth it, any info greatly appreciated. Reasonably priced.

2- Blueayes78, https://members.seeking.com/member/8...c-41f52f2a28b6.

In current rotation. Not mobile, so you either need to pick up or have her uber. Great time, reasonably priced and generally chill person. Worth seeing.

3- Bella Mia, https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-5a8cdc783b0d.

Current rotation. Search Brittany in the Akron forums. Worth it if you know what to expect in my opinion. Banging body, total pleaser.

4- Monikivy, https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-448e4b6ed3c3.

Saw twice. Negotiated hard to a reasonable price. Cute body, subpar performance. Shows up late always has an excuse to bail early. Talks about how much she was getting in the past to try to make.

You feel cheap. But for someone who supposedly gets so much, she's online looking a lot so take that for what it's worth.

5- BlueeyedBambi, https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-12fc1a66d7f6.

Tried and would love to set something up, but no response. Probably doesn't like my photos or approach.

6- aloevera, https://members.seeking.com/member/6...c-25d0cbcbf924.

Got close, Stripper I think? Hot but total GPS.

7- Destinyxx9, https://members.seeking.com/member/7...3-ebdbabdb942b

Tried a few times, schedules didn't align. Possibly seeing next week so any info ahead of time would be great.

8- SweetLauren1, https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-8b466ed4101e

Total gps, lost her mind when I told her what she was asking for was ridiculous.

9- Neveah, https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-b152b5cd365d

Wants money upfront, screams scam to me.

10- Harley2645, https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-32ab793f6375

Wants platonic only.

For what I can gather, Destiny is real. I have DM off the site, her ask is high and she is 90 min from CLE but willing to drive if compensated additionally. Our schedules never lined up for a meet. Seeing her new pics, I'm ok with that. For some reason I was thinking she was a solid D cup, but now I'm not sure?


Good to hear I’m not missing anything with Cara Mia. I was trying to get her attention a couple of months ago but never got a response.