Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[PainWint]

Quoted 500 plus travel.

I don't see the value personally but others may find it interesting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...d-7da4b78d8952

[TooManyLadies8]

Hey Gents, a while ago my SA account was put "on hold" pending a verification step through a third party. Requirements are a phot of a government I'd and a selfie. I'm not super excited about that and have pretty much walked away from SA anyway since it's a bit of a shitshow with the ladies anyway.

I'm just curious if anyone else has been hit up with mandatory verification and if you did it, what the outcome was. Doesn't seem super discreet to me.

Thanks.

I wouldn't do it. SA themselves aren't very careful with personal information, who knows about the third party. There have been times where there have been scam sites that posted pics of men from SA, labeled them as sex offenders and demanded money to have it taken down or else have your name released, or something to that effect. I won't even put any pics of myself on there at all. I used to put one up as private and then show if I felt comfortable, well, one time I had a CS issue with them and they gave me some free time. When they reinstated me as a paid member my pics defaulted to visible. Their security sucks and they give zero fucks.

Not having a pic makes it a lot harder on their, but the risk doesn't seem worth it to me and I'm not married and have nothing to hide, but the scams are only going to get more sophisticated.

Was there a reason given they put you on hold in the first place? Makes me wonder if say a girl reports you for solicitation (usually not even true, they're just assholes sometimes), or their algorithm pics up on something in your communications to indicate something potentially illegal, that they then require personal information to be gathered. I'm asking because it could be a pre-emotive move by them to bolster their position as a legitimate dating site and agree or at least say to LE they're doing their due diligence and if subpoenaed will cooperate.

[CleGuy]

Yes, seeking is a tad bit of a shit show. I know when I signed up a few months ago there were a few ways to verify. I didn't like the gov't I'd option or anything that official. But you can use social media to verify as well. Just make a throw away Facebook, Instagram, or Linkd in, and use that for the verification. Should be good to go at that point.

This was different. They didn't give me an option. It's weird.

[Ivellios01]

Hey Gents, a while ago my SA account was put "on hold" pending a verification step through a third party. Requirements are a phot of a government I'd and a selfie. I'm not super excited about that and have pretty much walked away from SA anyway since it's a bit of a shitshow with the ladies anyway.

I'm just curious if anyone else has been hit up with mandatory verification and if you did it, what the outcome was. Doesn't seem super discreet to me.

Thanks.

Yes, seeking is a tad bit of a shit show. I know when I signed up a few months ago there were a few ways to verify. I didn't like the gov't I'd option or anything that official. But you can use social media to verify as well. Just make a throw away Facebook, Instagram, or Linkd in, and use that for the verification. Should be good to go at that point.

[CleGuy]

Hey Gents, a while ago my SA account was put "on hold" pending a verification step through a third party. Requirements are a phot of a government I'd and a selfie. I'm not super excited about that and have pretty much walked away from SA anyway since it's a bit of a shitshow with the ladies anyway.

I'm just curious if anyone else has been hit up with mandatory verification and if you did it, what the outcome was. Doesn't seem super discreet to me.

Thanks.

[SR7D1]

Her profile is gone, do you have any pics of her? Contact info to share? Can exchange if you want thanks =).

Maybe she blocked you? Or deactivated her profile?

[JohnnyBoy2543]

That is one huge ass. Great figure is questionable. LOL.

Thats not her. Think blonde MILF pornstar look. She used and burner number and like I didn't screenshot any pics.

[BestDjInOhio]

Simonee

I think I was texting back and forth but her ask was too high for me. It was long ago and I have no idea what she was asking or I would tell you. LOL.

I have been messaging Dakota as well, we have something set and I'll let you know how it goes.

Her profile is gone, do you have any pics of her? Contact info to share? Can exchange if you want thanks =).

[SR7D1]

Nope, she is still there and ready to scam the rest of us you're just blocked- as you can imagine. For the rest considering her or wondering pic attached.

That is one huge ass. Great figure is questionable. LOL.

[BuckENaked]

So I just had a meetup yesterday with someone named Bella from what's your price. She agreed to 200 and said we should meet at coffee shop first. I went thinking it was a meet and greet then we would schedule something at a later date. I went and she looked like pics. Late 40's early 50's fake tits and a great figure she emmilediatly starts asking if I brought the money. I tell her what I thought the meeting was about and she says if you don't have time I will get a hotel for tomorrow just pay me for it now. Stupidly I gave her money mostly cause of the was she looked and she seemed good to go. I texted her this morning to confirm and she said yes but for double the original amount. It was my own fault for giving up the cash I should have known better. She went by Bella but her profile has now disappeared. For as long as I've been doing this its a wonder theis is the first ripoff.

Nope, she is still there and ready to scam the rest of us you're just blocked- as you can imagine. For the rest considering her or wondering pic attached.

[TheEndlessEdge]

Tell me I am wrong, Based on past experience I pretty much give up on any of them that ask to communicate via telegram or what's app.

Your hunch is right for the most part. It's not something most women in the states would be on. I usually give them the benefit of the doubt if they mention Snapchat or Kik though, although Kik is being more and more infrequent as the years go by. It's mostly the older women that use it.

[JohnnyBoy2543]

Ya, she seems real and we had a long-ish call on the phone as she was going to be traveling for a while. Seems to have done these before but our schedules were not the best and I was not sure of her body type for the $ we discussed and as usual has a kid and can't host, needed evenings. She did not send any pics so I assume she is more curvey but could be wrong. Take the plunge and let us know.

So I just had a meetup yesterday with someone named Bella from what's your price. She agreed to 200 and said we should meet at coffee shop first. I went thinking it was a meet and greet then we would schedule something at a later date. I went and she looked like pics. Late 40's early 50's fake tits and a great figure she emmilediatly starts asking if I brought the money. I tell her what I thought the meeting was about and she says if you don't have time I will get a hotel for tomorrow just pay me for it now. Stupidly I gave her money mostly cause of the was she looked and she seemed good to go. I texted her this morning to confirm and she said yes but for double the original amount. It was my own fault for giving up the cash I should have known better. She went by Bella but her profile has now disappeared. For as long as I've been doing this its a wonder theis is the first ripoff.

[PainWint]

StunningAngel - https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-4787d33e070b - replied back saying she wanted to talk on Telegram. Strong scam vibes, at least so far.

Jade - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-1a168069652b - Hit or miss as far as communication goes.

CeliaInTheCity - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-b3e945641d43 - Same issue as Jade.

CulturedPlayer - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-ab72a35405b7 - Same issue as well. Interested, but slow to reply..

Tell me I am wrong, Based on past experience I pretty much give up on any of them that ask to communicate via telegram or what's app.

[TheEndlessEdge]

StunningAngel - https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-4787d33e070b - replied back saying she wanted to talk on Telegram. Strong scam vibes, at least so far.

Jade - https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-1a168069652b - Hit or miss as far as communication goes.

CeliaInTheCity - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-b3e945641d43 - Same issue as Jade.

CulturedPlayer - https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-ab72a35405b7 - Same issue as well. Interested, but slow to reply.

KaylaEmm - https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-a3f0025d0fc6 - DTF and wants to meet. Just have to make sure our schedules align.

[PainWint]

Did she run a scam on you?

I wouldn't say that. It becomes obvious pretty quick that she is a player and not looking for what you and I are. A little observation and a little research reveals her other less than desirable traits.