Sugar Daddy Sites

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-31-23 11:47

Originally Posted by AceMcNasty [View Original Post]

Agree 100% whether it is sugaring or escorting. My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL.

Yes they learn rather quickly and even girls that "like" you will suddenly start copping an attitude of non gratitude. If you ever want to know just how much they "like" you, try advancing a solid regular a few extra dollars and see if she ever makes good on it.

**Ace McNasty** · 10-31-23 10:59

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

I had some thoughts I would like to add. Before doing so, I wish to credit Hollywood Guy.

BAM

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Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Ideally you want someone new to sugaring if you are looking for the biggest bang for your buck. Once these girls start taking cash for pussy they wisen up rather quickly. Add two years to that girl and she is not the same girl anymore. Add four years and she is basically not even worth the effort. Just my 2 cents. I rarely respond to any girl whose profile is more than a few months old. For me a year old is already too long.

You newbies and aspiring daddies thinking of jumping in the bowl should subscribe to this guy. He is cursed with knowledge. One of 4-5 members here that I respect and enjoy reading. The rest of the angry male Karens, jealous drama queens, and brilliant Einsteins are nothing but static and a constant source of daily laughter for me.

Agree 100% whether it is sugaring or escorting. My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL.

Perfect example is one of my current SB below, a 22 yo hot asf brunette. Let's just call her Becca, because she looks like the young Rebecca Hall from the Iron Man movie. Brand new to the bowl, and still naive and innocent. Lets me do whatever I want to her body, and her PPM is so cheap, sometimes I don't even pay her and we just hang out. Once you establish a connection and it becomes organic, the amazing sex follows. But I am experienced enough to know the shelf life is not very long, so enjoy your regulars as much as you can. It's fun until it isn't.

No condom. CIP and CIM as much as I can give.

**Murrican** · 10-31-23 10:32

Originally Posted by MidnightDabber [View Original Post]

I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.

Totally. I have a lot of money to spend now but I'm older and less attractive. I used to be a stud. I can only imagine the shit I could have pulled if I made a lifestyle out of the at 30 instead of 50.

**Murrican** · 10-31-23 10:31

Originally Posted by NutritionFacts [View Original Post]

I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.

I have done this with a few.

In all 3 cases they were very happy to hear from me. All he dropped out due to bad experiences. But it's not like they didn't need money anymore or their lives had gotten materially better. One is now a regular. Honestly I don't even find her super attractive anymore. She's put on a few pounds and lost a molar I can see when she smiles. (Again, not rich people here). But she's so accommodating and sends me photos and is so excited when we meet that I just keep doing it.

**MidnightDabber** · 10-30-23 23:10

I read that SA is requiring I'd verification more often now? Any of you guys seeing that.

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-29-23 21:35

One thing I noticed since signing back up. There are no foreign profiles hitting me up. Used to be like 6 a day. Now it's zero. Big improvement.

**BamBam** · 10-29-23 19:54

I had some thoughts I would like to add. Before doing so, I wish to credit Hollywood Guy. I learned most of my skills / technique from following the advice he shared starting back when he was active on the Richmond thread. Those were truly in the early days.

First, the Bowl is past its' peak but it is still the best way to find fresh young GFE action. The early days were "early" days. Everybody was new at it. Most especially the girls and they had much different expectations than today. All the nasty action was over on Backpage, Craigs List, etc. Today, those people are muddying the Bowl and scaring away some innocent young things we might have found earlier. There are now Reddit, FB, YT and TT forums and videos offering women advice on how to use the Bowl. Even if the numbers rebound, the innocence will not.

Second, people who are new even then complained about lack of success. It was always thus and thus it always will be. It takes practice, patience and discipline to achieve success in the Bowl. However, with those virtues and some game, *anyone* can get laid off the Bowl. To start, newbies need to learn to avoid getting "buck fever" over the first few thirst traps you see. Too many guys zoom in on the first few profiles (often even a single profile) that look likely. Most of the time these are actually scammers or, if real, out of their league/GPS. HG has always said: it's a numbers game. Never, never, ever! Get too invested in any one profile. Cast the net wide then cast it wider. Try A-B testing different approaches, different personal pictures and profile language. Keep chasing even after you build a rotation. Women move on or you get bored; you need to stay in practice.

Next, be prepared to overpay in the beginning. Be prepared to lower your standards in the beginning. Look at some of the wisdom posted by the high count posters on this thread. Sugar babies aren't like escorts. They tend to very selective and ask to be wooed. They rarely are seeing multiple guys in a week or month or at the same time. (It happens but that is not what I consider a true Sugar experience.) When you approach the highest quality profiles, you very likely will find yourself in competition with guys who have far more experience. It will tough to outperform them in gaining a chick's interest. Therefor, you must either offer a higher allowance or aim for someone not getting as much attention. Don't get discouraged.

Final tip, remember that it's a numbers game. Just work the numbers and ignore rejection or failure. Women can smell and despise desperation; they are attracted to confidence and indifference. If you understand that, like a city bus, another profile is always coming along, you can avoid the former and use the latter.

BAM

**Dsteezy** · 10-27-23 13:06

Honestly I'm young I'm talking barely 30 and was in there late 20's. Can't recall how many situations ended up where nothing was exchanged and they'd continue to reach out. Felt much easier than bumble / tinder / hinge. Though that was relatively easy as well.

Currently have 2 and 1 lives with me and asks for nothing, the other is this gorgeous person who just enjoys being treated out and nothing more.

Currently found myself the unicorn I've been looking for since I've been on SA. A little person and I'm not talking about someone that's 4'11 or 4'10 what ever the technical height is for what someone deems as a little person.

This one is like 4'3 and life is good.

Also have these college girls that live together it's 3 of them and went out with them last night out here in OC. Cute group of white and two Asian girls. All they want is dinner which I can see how it might be more but no allowance exchanged.

SA can truly be a great place still. It's not as frequent but it's still there and I'll check in every 3 months or so to see if there's anyone that intrigued me.

Originally Posted by MidnightDabber [View Original Post]

I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.

**RanManCan** · 10-26-23 21:40

Originally Posted by Egor2011 [View Original Post]

I have noticed a bunch of girls with "love" in their header. Gives the impression they are pros all with the same booker. Anyone have any experience with them?

Examples:

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...a-077827af1533

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-ee741f18a4ba

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-b228e0a0307c

I'm curious about this too! This is the closest I could find, short for "Live Laugh Love Girl" - but could just as easily be a booker.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/defi...%20Love%20Girl

**MidnightDabber** · 10-26-23 20:52

I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-26-23 18:13

Ideally you want someone new to sugaring if you are looking for the biggest bang for your buck. Once these girls start taking cash for pussy they wisen up rather quickly.

Add two years to that girl and she is not the same girl anymore. Add four years and she is basically not even worth the effort. Just my 2 cents. I rarely respond to any girl whose profile is more than a few months old. For me a year old is already too long.

And all that guarantees nothing. Because she could have been renting herself out long before she ever found seeking. But I hedge my bets to the best of my ability.

**FarFarAway** · 10-26-23 13:52

Originally Posted by NutritionFacts [View Original Post]

I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.

I keep an amazingly long list of all those I have been in touch w / from the site, their info, etc. Sometimes I will see a profile on the site I recognize, someone I had been interested in but never moved forward with. But also at a time (mostly) that I don't have a paid membership, so I can't message them on the site. If I am lucky, I will recall enough info I can go back and get their phone # from my records, and then I can say something like "I saw your profile on seeking recently, we were in touch there earlier" and re-introduce myself.

**Lexx1** · 10-25-23 12:33

Originally Posted by NutritionFacts [View Original Post]

I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.

Heck yes do it! I've done this. My issue sometimes was not having enough time to meet up with all the babies I had lined up. I had everything all discussed with them, amounts, what they liked and open to in the sack, etc. Just to much pussy ready to go and literally not enough time to see them.

It's easy just reach out to them and say I'm so and so from Seeking. And just wondering if you might still be interested and needing help. And make up something like your schedule was hectic busy and sorry you couldn't meet up. It's 50/50 whether they are still interested and I've had luck being able to hook up with some. Just don't be surprised if some are married now and have kids. Or some have gained weight and are not as hot as they used to be. That's life. No biggie. So I'd suggest doing some reverse searches on any contact info you have for them. Phone #, reverse face searches, so that maybe you can find them on Facebook or Insta and see where they may be at in life and if you still want to reach out. A lot could have changed since 2015 for them.

**NutritionFacts** · 10-25-23 02:24

I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.

**Lexx1** · 10-24-23 21:09

Originally Posted by NutritionFacts [View Original Post]

Think its a cyclical or pattern that will get better sometime?

Not sure. I stick to trying to find fresh young sugarbabies. And right now that pool is tiny compared to before covid. Even the overall pool is small. If I remember correctly the overall pool without any search filters used to be at 100,000+ before covid. Now it's only 10,000+ for all sugarbabies of any age. So that's a considerable drop. I'm hoping more younger honeys will give it a try but it's going to be a slow climb.