Non Pro's

**DelToro** · 10-14-23 19:44

Not sure if my latest bragging posts were considered BS, but well. I will try to contribute with some original thoughts, my opinion not saying these points are absolute truths or anything, just trying to contribute given my experience and that I have been having an awesome run. Just to put some context, I wrote close to 200 reviews on TNA, after tasting the goods on SA, I never went back.

* Be direct but respectful.

There are a lot of girls that do not know what they want, many do think that sex is not involved, etc.

In my experience the best way to weed out undecisive women if for you to be decisive. Express what you want in your profile.

I for one not only want sex, I want several hours of non vanilla sex. And I communicate that on my profile, again being respectful and tactful.

I do hint PPM without being openly explicit.

Many women do not reply to my initial contact, but the ones that do, kind of know of what they are getting into.

Even some women that have been reported here as DTF, do not reply to me because are not interested in long sessions.

* Put private photos.

What I did was to search extensively on the web for free photos until I found a guy that sort of semblance me and use his photos.

If I don't feel like writing much I initiate contact by just giving her access to my photos, if they reply or look at my profile a couple of times after that, then I do write to them.

* Don't expect escort behavior right away, be patient.

Its true SA takes a lot more time and patience.

True newbies are not going to jump right away into doing BB and anal, some would but most are anxious about having risky behaviors with a complete stranger.

Getting a newbie to where you want takes a lot of patience, and trust building. Again this is only worth it if you do want to establish a sort of regular relationship, for me if the sex is wild at first I do not mind putting up with condoms for example as later on, with test results they tend to go away. I prefer to wait and have unprotected sex with somebody I know is not fucking bare right away with any stranger.

That's why most of us do not share the hidden gems, one, because it took effort to get there and two because most likely people are not going to put the same effort and are going to ruin a good thing.

* Treat them well.

I bring wine to all my meetings and flowers every now and then. Listen to them and be nice.

* Be patient.

Here I mean, stay around for a while, yes there are a lot of scammers, but after a while they would figure you are not an easy target and they would leave you mostly alone, but true the first couple of months the contacts by scammers are a bit tiresome, you would also develop a sense of who would be legit and who would not, so you would waste less time with bogus profiles.

* SA is not for everybody.

- The YMMV factor in SA is huge, you do need some social skills and not be completely hideous.

- If you are spending more than $1000 a month in escorts, prefer longer sessions and like to repeat, then the time and effort needed for SA is worth it for you and you could get a lot more for your money if you have some game (see the last point).

I do have some actual intel on some girls to avoid but I would write that later.

**Mamouna** · 10-14-23 12:30

Originally Posted by PriceIsRight39 [View Original Post]

I'm finding Austin, TX a decent spot! 2 for 2 on trips. Both women were Latinas (Brazil / Mexico). 7 on looks the MX lady was a strong 7. Both PPM.

One asked for 1 k all covered, to which I replied, " for that service 1 k is a lot of money for a short stay plus Uber ($15 each way). About 30 minutes later she agreed to half that. If I lived there she's be regular material (with more vetting). I gave her more as she was top tier 23 yo with no Ho nails and arrive to my spot modestly dressed for the occasion.

The rest was easy. She was really good looking in person, I was impressed. Most don't look anything like the pics with all the dumb ass filters!

Phoenix I get lucky a bunch too.

If y'all get out that way, the hunting is good. The economy is getting soft. I saw one profile (Austin) where she openly says she's got student loans to pay. She was wayyy too boss ***** for my taste anymore so I searched on. I only deal with submissive was much as possible. But you can see where we are.

Happy hunting.

I'm sorry, why does this belong here? Not Seattle, there are literally forums for these cities on this site.

You paid $600 for a hookup in Austin, yeah. Not the brag you think, bro. LOL.

**DrtyHarry** · 10-14-23 11:45

Originally Posted by PriceIsRight39 [View Original Post]

I'm finding Austin, TX a decent spot! 2 for 2 on trips. Both women were Latinas (Brazil / Mexico). 7 on looks the MX lady was a strong 7. Both PPM.

One asked for 1 k all covered, to which I replied, " for that service 1 k is a lot of money for a short stay plus Uber ($15 each way). About 30 minutes later she agreed to half that. If I lived there she's be regular material (with more vetting). I gave her more as she was top tier 23 yo with no Ho nails and arrive to my spot modestly dressed for the occasion.

The rest was easy. She was really good looking in person, I was impressed. Most don't look anything like the pics with all the dumb ass filters!

Phoenix I get lucky a bunch too.

If y'all get out that way, the hunting is good. The economy is getting soft. I saw one profile (Austin) where she openly says she's got student loans to pay. She was wayyy too boss ***** for my taste anymore so I searched on. I only deal with submissive was much as possible. But you can see where we are..

Could not agree more. I have been to TX many times (Houston and Austin both are incredibly well priced. I have not hobbied much in Dallas, but I can bet they too have decent competition. I have had some extremely memorable days in Austin. Thanks for sharing brought back a flood of good memories and thoughts.

**PriceIsRight39** · 10-13-23 13:58

I'm finding Austin, TX a decent spot! 2 for 2 on trips. Both women were Latinas (Brazil / Mexico). 7 on looks the MX lady was a strong 7. Both PPM.

One asked for 1 k all covered, to which I replied, " for that service 1 k is a lot of money for a short stay plus Uber ($15 each way). About 30 minutes later she agreed to half that. If I lived there she's be regular material (with more vetting). I gave her more as she was top tier 23 yo with no Ho nails and arrive to my spot modestly dressed for the occasion.

The rest was easy. She was really good looking in person, I was impressed. Most don't look anything like the pics with all the dumb ass filters!

Phoenix I get lucky a bunch too.

If y'all get out that way, the hunting is good. The economy is getting soft. I saw one profile (Austin) where she openly says she's got student loans to pay. She was wayyy too boss ***** for my taste anymore so I searched on. I only deal with submissive was much as possible. But you can see where we are.

Happy hunting.

**DelToro** · 10-13-23 08:27

Originally Posted by KnoxNenters [View Original Post]

Longshot request, but I have a girl from Bellingham with only a few hours during the day available while her kid is in daycare, willing to meet me halfway down to Seattle.

I'm looking for the equivalent of a dayuse option, which don't exist in Marysville, as far as I can tell. Hotel check-in / out times usually don't work for mid-day activities.

Looking for ideas. I know AirBnB / VRBO can be looked at, but are there any spas with private rooms, like in Federal Way with the private tub suites, or something along those lines?

Thanks in advance. The date is early next week, so hoping to coordinate this asap.

Guess you already know as it is on DayUse, the closest is their option on Mukilteo. I had used it several times.

**Nilats** · 10-13-23 00:43

Originally Posted by KnoxNenters [View Original Post]

Longshot request, but I have a girl from Bellingham with only a few hours during the day available while her kid is in daycare, willing to meet me halfway down to Seattle.

I'm looking for the equivalent of a dayuse option, which don't exist in Marysville, as far as I can tell. Hotel check-in / out times usually don't work for mid-day activities.

Looking for ideas. I know AirBnB / VRBO can be looked at, but are there any spas with private rooms, like in Federal Way with the private tub suites, or something along those lines?

Thanks in advance. The date is early next week, so hoping to coordinate this asap.

If it's worth the effort just book two nights at Holiday Inn should be around $200 ish but leaves no issues. Dayuse wasn't honored once for me which was awkward.

**Nilats** · 10-13-23 00:42

Originally Posted by Darkhosis [View Original Post]

If you're willing to do the work, there is valuable info here. You just have to read lots of backlog posts, haha. DelToro and Michael1967 are members that I have to thank for getting my best non-pro experiences. Good advice, no BS.

The issue I have with spreading good intel on here is it becomes fair game for everyone. Including the creeps and assholes. I just ended an arrangement with a girl after 4 mos who is back on seeking. She was a total freak in bed and did not beg for $. Honestly I don't know how I'll be able to find another that will compete. But no way I'm going to promote her here, she's already had a SA "gentleman" beat her down and spit on her.

Totally agree, and there are amazing women who are really unicorns out there, having met a few, had to sort through a few dozen. The stories I have heard about some SA SD stalking, and beatings, and other issues like rape are pretty daunting. It is worth sharing the info maybe in PMs as I have with a few and have a solid rep.

**KnoxNenters** · 10-12-23 15:44

Longshot request, but I have a girl from Bellingham with only a few hours during the day available while her kid is in daycare, willing to meet me halfway down to Seattle.

I'm looking for the equivalent of a dayuse option, which don't exist in Marysville, as far as I can tell. Hotel check-in / out times usually don't work for mid-day activities.

Looking for ideas. I know AirBnB / VRBO can be looked at, but are there any spas with private rooms, like in Federal Way with the private tub suites, or something along those lines?

Thanks in advance. The date is early next week, so hoping to coordinate this asap.

**Member #6729** · 10-11-23 23:00

Originally Posted by Darkhosis [View Original Post]

If you're willing to do the work, there is valuable info here. You just have to read lots of backlog posts, haha. DelToro and Michael1967 are members that I have to thank for getting my best non-pro experiences. Good advice, no BS.

The issue I have with spreading good intel on here is it becomes fair game for everyone. Including the creeps and assholes. I just ended an arrangement with a girl after 4 mos who is back on seeking. She was a total freak in bed and did not beg for $. Honestly I don't know how I'll be able to find another that will compete. But no way I'm going to promote her here, she's already had a SA "gentleman" beat her down and spit on her.

Care to share (insert IPhone eye emoji) you can check my post, I share info. This board is definetely helpful if you look for info, it is annoying when someone shares and then people try to make an appt with said lady and text her, "yea but so and so said on USASG that you do bare" when clearly the post said, "YMMV". Happened to me a couple times. Some of the providers show me texts sometimes and say, "look at this idiot texting me" LOL cracks me up every time. Realistically the texts they've shown me is like, a lot of people have zero game. Anywho, no more rants, if I could get a link through the PM that be awesome though. If it works out, it works out.

**Mamouna** · 10-11-23 20:36

Originally Posted by HBadger [View Original Post]

I've done that before with verified members on the board who actually contribute, I toftt on SA but not on TNA for the bb forum. On the bb forum I mostly verify girls again, which is hopefully still helpful to some. This forum has still been a good contribution, a little less in the past 2-3 years but still helpful, kinda LOL but yes mostly complaining about simps, white knights, not getting bb, or thots overcharging haha.

If you're willing to do the work, there is valuable info here. You just have to read lots of backlog posts, haha. DelToro and Michael1967 are members that I have to thank for getting my best non-pro experiences. Good advice, no BS.

The issue I have with spreading good intel on here is it becomes fair game for everyone. Including the creeps and assholes. I just ended an arrangement with a girl after 4 mos who is back on seeking. She was a total freak in bed and did not beg for $. Honestly I don't know how I'll be able to find another that will compete. But no way I'm going to promote her here, she's already had a SA "gentleman" beat her down and spit on her.

**Member #6729** · 10-11-23 18:23

Originally Posted by PoonHound1969 [View Original Post]

SA works best when you have a homie or two who likes the same type of woman for the same price range, then you can share info and occasionally, even do intros.

This has worked well for me.

This site is more about bitching, everything is to expensive, or all the guys who spend more then me are simps, or about writing stories on how great their dics are.

I've done that before with verified members on the board who actually contribute, I toftt on SA but not on TNA for the bb forum. On the bb forum I mostly verify girls again, which is hopefully still helpful to some. This forum has still been a good contribution, a little less in the past 2-3 years but still helpful, kinda LOL but yes mostly complaining about simps, white knights, not getting bb, or thots overcharging haha.

**3Putt** · 10-11-23 11:00

Originally Posted by CogelonSeattle [View Original Post]

Yeah, I used to follow this thread a lot in the past when people shared info, not anymore these days. I hope you find it useful. I have more to report but will do once I get some free time.

SA works best when you have a homie or two who likes the same type of woman for the same price range, then you can share info and occasionally, even do intros.

This has worked well for me.

This site is more about bitching, everything is to expensive, or all the guys who spend more then me are simps, or about writing stories on how great their dics are.

**Pawghtr16** · 10-10-23 23:25

Just seeing if anyone's given this a try? Don't want to over donate, want to keep prices low so all can enjoy and benefit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-148e220d9fbb

**CogelonSeattle** · 10-06-23 19:33

Originally Posted by Darkhosis [View Original Post]

Thanks for contributing actionable info. This forum is getting overrun with BS stories and whining as of late.

Yeah, I used to follow this thread a lot in the past when people shared info, not anymore these days. I hope you find it useful. I have more to report but will do once I get some free time.