Stupid Shit In San Diego

[Lion1]

Do they think we're stupid, or just way too horny to care?

Don't they know that it makes me less likely to check out a new girl?

I'm not talking about their ads. I'm talking about when they text me about a new lineup (in other words, things are slow) and I ask about the new girl's body type. Seriously, I'm a repeat customer otherwise they wouldn't have my number. Can't they just be honest with a slim vs. Curvy?

End of rant, for now.

[DrPornDawger]

I would fuck her. Anyone else's thoughts.

https://youtu.be/LUwj1-1-M1Q?si=bQv_JMS851Jmj0tN

[Canuck6234]

If you want to help the members of the forum, post good honest reviews, good and bad, completely anonymously.

We know the women read these. If you tell them you post, you've boxed yourself in and are obviously posting for your own benefit.

Yes you are "helping" your favorite spa, or girl get business, but we all know when they know you post and read your glowing positive post they treat you better.

The sex novels, and the bragging posts are always subject to laughter, and summarily ignored, but in each there is usually a thread of useful information even if they are obviously self-serving to the monger. If nothing else you learn not to go where they like to go, so you don't have to ever bump into them.

The guys who really want to help fellow mongers should also post their negative experiences. They don't have to be mean spirited, but simply factual as to why it was negative. This helps mongers decide where maybe they don't want to go. It could also help a Spa trying to improve business learn what needs to be changed.

When women know you on this or other post sites, you can't post true reviews because you'll always be influenced by the fact you know they read them. And we will always be suspicious of your posts.

Yep, MaxK has some good thoughts here. I never tell the ladies my screen name. There are some sites where you contact them through a DM direct from the site so of course those escorts know what name I review under on that site but the AMP ladies do not know. I generally get good service at the AMPs, because if I seeca lady who does a good job and I want to see her again, I will let her know I appreciated her beauty / skils / effort (whatever is appropriate) as I hand her an extra $20 bill in addition to the standard tip. This is how you can get good service without the girls knowing who you are on the boards.

MaxK, how do you handle the escort sites like HX and PD?

[Reds101]

The guys who really want to help fellow mongers should also post their negative experiences. They don't have to be mean spirited, but simply factual as to why it was negative. This helps mongers decide where maybe they don't want to go. It could also help a Spa trying to improve business learn what needs to be changed.

When women know you on this or other post sites, you can't post true reviews because you'll always be influenced by the fact you know they read them. And we will always be suspicious of your posts.

Agree with everything you said. I remember the super shill and now banned curiousjo always talked shit about mongers that left mediocre reviews to his favorite spa. Even tried to argue with me to remove my review because I mentioned blood stains on the sheets in a room of his favorite spa. Reached out to me multiple times saying it was my fault for not asking the spa to change the sheets (which I did, just shared info so others could keep an eye out and stay safe / clean). At that point you lose all credibility.

Typical behavior of white knights also include blaming mongers or spamming overly positive reviews of a provider any time there is a non perfect review by someone else. Oh you must have not showered before you went, the provider was probably having a long day, maybe you didn't have chemistry.

- how about maybe the service wasn't as expected and someone is just sharing that information?

It's like the spas raise the alarms and ask their white knights to bury useful information with 8 paragraphs of copy pasted fantasy novels any time one of their providers gets a non 5 star review.

[Jarven4]

If you want to help the members of the forum, post good honest reviews, good and bad, completely anonymously.

We know the women read these. If you tell them you post, you've boxed yourself in and are obviously posting for your own benefit.

Yes you are "helping" your favorite spa, or girl get business, but we all know when they know you post and read your glowing positive post they treat you better.

The sex novels, and the bragging posts are always subject to laughter, and summarily ignored, but in each there is usually a thread of useful information even if they are obviously self-serving to the monger. If nothing else you learn not to go where they like to go, so you don't have to ever bump into them..

I do want to start out by saying that I don't feel attacked at all by you at all. I feel like I've read this same review so many times over, but I'm happy to share my thought on the matter anyways as I believe more people should have this insight. So I thank you for posting this random though here.

While I do agree with some of what you say. To your point. By posting negative reviews, we are also sort of holding these women hostage and putting them in a position where they say / do / don't could be detrimental to themselves for fear of negative review. People should be able to freely share both positive and negative as you say, but imagine this:

If you only post the good reviews of the providers (meaning they contain both positive and negative aspects of that person) then only those providers will be sought after. There would be no need for negative reviews in most cases.

I don't agree with your anonymous statement though as I feel too many people try to hide behind that and use it as an excuse for slander. I write reviews, in a way that IS COMPLETELY HONEST regardless of what you may or may not believe based on your post and I stand behind my reviews, answer questions / messages from mongers and have no problems letting the women know I write them. There's nothing wrong with that. If the women know they are doing a good job. Won't that make them do a better job to continue to get good business? Isn't that what we all want? The issue is really that we don't trust the people writing reviews. I get that. That's why I write my own. So instead of complaining about it, that's what I did.

[Hoota]

If you want to help the members of the forum, post good honest reviews, good and bad, completely anonymously.

We know the women read these. If you tell them you post, you've boxed yourself in and are obviously posting for your own benefit.

Yes you are "helping" your favorite spa, or girl get business, but we all know when they know you post and read your glowing positive post they treat you better.

The sex novels, and the bragging posts are always subject to laughter, and summarily ignored, but in each there is usually a thread of useful information even if they are obviously self-serving to the monger. If nothing else you learn not to go where they like to go, so you don't have to ever bump into them.

The guys who really want to help fellow mongers should also post their negative experiences. They don't have to be mean spirited, but simply factual as to why it was negative. This helps mongers decide where maybe they don't want to go..

I wish there was something as simple as a 'like button' because there is not much more I can add to this response. I am in complete agreement and I hope most here are as well.

[MaximusKahn]

If you want to help the members of the forum, post good honest reviews, good and bad, completely anonymously.

We know the women read these. If you tell them you post, you've boxed yourself in and are obviously posting for your own benefit.

Yes you are "helping" your favorite spa, or girl get business, but we all know when they know you post and read your glowing positive post they treat you better.

The sex novels, and the bragging posts are always subject to laughter, and summarily ignored, but in each there is usually a thread of useful information even if they are obviously self-serving to the monger. If nothing else you learn not to go where they like to go, so you don't have to ever bump into them.

The guys who really want to help fellow mongers should also post their negative experiences. They don't have to be mean spirited, but simply factual as to why it was negative. This helps mongers decide where maybe they don't want to go. It could also help a Spa trying to improve business learn what needs to be changed.

When women know you on this or other post sites, you can't post true reviews because you'll always be influenced by the fact you know they read them. And we will always be suspicious of your posts.

[EH09M3]

Well for me in Chicago I got my ass chewed once for leaving a negative review, LOL. I told her it was not me but she did not believe me. I really didn't care that much. Another time a lady I knew for 10 years came into the room and showed me a review that I posted. I told her it was not me and she believed me.

I'm unclear why they are putting cross post from RM. I paid for a year there 10 years ago and I did not renew. No moderation, Trolls on the threads and every thread turned into I get more than this guy, she makes me dinner, she invites me to her place and all that immature nonsense.

I'm actually glad to hear that you have the same nonsense occurring in Chicago. We too have trolls in the SD forums who do the same immature nonsense like " for what you paid $* I can get 3 sessions out of that same provider. Or you won't get the same service that I get because you're not me".

It is hilarious to hear these hobbyist brag about services provided to them (that they know you are not getting) when the bottom line is it is a paid for service.

[BKane80]

I'm unclear why they are putting cross post from RM. I paid for a year there 10 years ago and I did not renew. No moderation, Trolls on the threads and every thread turned into I get more than this guy, she makes me dinner, she invites me to her place and all that immature nonsense.

That's too funny. That's what I feel like some (not all) of these romance novel reviews are on this thread. I feel like they are trying to one up each other by mentioning how much more service they get. For me, and I say for me as others may find more descriptive reviews helpful, but it does not help me knowing how much a particular monger has made a provider orgasm or how much cum he shot in her mouth or much his ass has been licked. To each his own.

[DMichaels69]

Well for me in Chicago I got my ass chewed once for leaving a negative review, LOL. I told her it was not me but she did not believe me. I really didn't care that much. Another time a lady I knew for 10 years came into the room and showed me a review that I posted. I told her it was not me and she believed me.

I'm unclear why they are putting cross post from RM. I paid for a year there 10 years ago and I did not renew. No moderation, Trolls on the threads and every thread turned into I get more than this guy, she makes me dinner, she invites me to her place and all that immature nonsense.

It's pretty insane the traffic that these forums and rubmaps brings to spas. Any positive mention of a new spa / provider seems to bring a lot of traffic for at least a couple weeks. I noticed this even with non popular places like F spa on el cajon Blvd. I saw a provider relatively easily a couple times and once someone mentioned her on rubmaps it was impossible to see her without an appointment for several weeks until she was gone.

Which is why I've gotten into (what I think are peaceful) back and forths with members on these forums about my pessimism for romance novel type reviews.

Every time I read a review, I ask myself. Is this person giving details that help out users here? Or is this person helping out the spa's business?

I think this is one of the main problems. Not to sound like a monger hipster LOL but when these forums were less popular and relatively unknown to parlors, reviews also never were over the top like they are these days.

It's almost like a chicken and egg problem. Are parlors giving better service to people that identify themselves as reviewers? Or are people leaving overly positive reviews and letting parlors know to receive better service in the future?

I have had providers ask me to leave reviews after sessions as if they just assume everyone is on here / rubmaps and I usually act like I don't know what they are talking about because I want to stay anonymous not just to parlors.

Knowing that the spas read these forums, if spas know that you are a reviewer, I imagine it would be difficult to leave negative reviews for a spa to potentially get blacklisted by sister spas, etc.

I've also seen obsessive members here (that have been banned, ty admin2) try to identify mongers that leave negative reviews to their favorite spas and admitting to talk to the provider to try and identify people which is some 40 year old virgin behavior.

[Reds101]

I went to Erma the other day to see Cathy and I kid you not about 3 other mongers came in asking for her the first 15 minutes I was with her. I was still able to get the job done because she is just that good, but damn, that place is getting out hand. Good for business I suppose.

It's pretty insane the traffic that these forums and rubmaps brings to spas. Any positive mention of a new spa / provider seems to bring a lot of traffic for at least a couple weeks. I noticed this even with non popular places like F spa on el cajon Blvd. I saw a provider relatively easily a couple times and once someone mentioned her on rubmaps it was impossible to see her without an appointment for several weeks until she was gone.

Call me old school but I've been on the forum long enough to remember people complaining about all the shilling and fake reviews going on RM and that's why they left. Now lately I've been seeing a lot of this "Crosspost from RM" stuff going on and my spidey senses are going off that these might be shill accounts trying to infiltrate our (relatively) peaceful and non-biased forum. I'm not saying they are shills but all of them seem to be these glaringly over the top reviews that are never negative. Maybe I'm going crazy?

Which is why I've gotten into (what I think are peaceful) back and forths with members on these forums about my pessimism for romance novel type reviews.

Every time I read a review, I ask myself. Is this person giving details that help out users here? Or is this person helping out the spa's business?

the spa owners are aware that I do reviews and the service usually reflects that.

I think this is one of the main problems. Not to sound like a monger hipster LOL but when these forums were less popular and relatively unknown to parlors, reviews also never were over the top like they are these days.

It's almost like a chicken and egg problem. Are parlors giving better service to people that identify themselves as reviewers? Or are people leaving overly positive reviews and letting parlors know to receive better service in the future?

I have had providers ask me to leave reviews after sessions as if they just assume everyone is on here / rubmaps and I usually act like I don't know what they are talking about because I want to stay anonymous not just to parlors.

Knowing that the spas read these forums, if spas know that you are a reviewer, I imagine it would be difficult to leave negative reviews for a spa to potentially get blacklisted by sister spas, etc.

I've also seen obsessive members here (that have been banned, ty admin2) try to identify mongers that leave negative reviews to their favorite spas and admitting to talk to the provider to try and identify people which is some 40 year old virgin behavior.

[MaximusKahn]

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comme..._leaving_your/

I think this guy is what is known as a "cuck" and this was his fantasy. Kind of weird and silly.

And that reads like a cuck fantasy. But to each their own.

As for the reality of Thads. Most of the experiences I've seen are couples playing together. Getting to take a woman off from her man to have your private way with her, while he waits by the fire, isn't too common. It's usually shared fun in a mfm or mmf situation in one of the private rooms. Guys beware, some men who share do so to get some gay action, so if that ain't your thing, do as I do. Politely say no thanks and exit.

A guy might find a single female to play with, or a woman who comes with a "friend" but seldom do couples split up completely.

And the chances of sex bare with cum in pussy privileges are even more rare.

Just to note, as of late I've seen more of the regulars forming cliques, more TS, and even some open gay action which seems to be the new crowd that is attracted to Thads. I would be careful using the Glory Hole unless you personally saw who went in and she was alone.

It is a highly competitive environment with young well hung studs all over the place who have experience charming the women. If you don't show up with confidence, charm, and a friendly attitude your chances of real fun goes down.

If you go, good luck, and happy hunting.

[NudeBeachPerv]

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comme..._leaving_your/

I think this guy is what is known as a "cuck" and this was his fantasy. Kind of weird and silly.

[JayLake]

Yes that sucks for sure. Every time there is a knock on that door I shit in my pants. Its funny how I dig my own grave. Lucky for me, I made a payment via cashapp. I got to know her name from her handle and could track down ahead. Now I know a lot more about her. Frankly I was panicking before, now it is pretty much well. A lot of guys here said before she is just threatening and playing games, she is never going to show up. And if she does, we will see.

Thanks everyone for offering help and support.

I highly doubt she will ever show up, it's just empty threats and extortion. You can't be the only one she does this to so she is prob playing the numbers game fishing for a sucker.

[HonkyDonk]

Jesus man, that sucks. I would never ever have a provider to my place for any number of many reasons, even if I was single.

Yes that sucks for sure. Every time there is a knock on that door I shit in my pants. Its funny how I dig my own grave. Lucky for me, I made a payment via cashapp. I got to know her name from her handle and could track down ahead. Now I know a lot more about her. Frankly I was panicking before, now it is pretty much well. A lot of guys here said before she is just threatening and playing games, she is never going to show up. And if she does, we will see.

Thanks everyone for offering help and support.