Sugar Daddy Sites

[Gidden Lade]

I have provided my solution to posting photos that are safe. Someone who looks like you, with also some parts cut out as if they really are you and you are trying to stay discreet. There is even a new approach to locating photos on the web who look like you. Facial recognition sites.

Tried this & came up with what I thought was a good match. Site came back with a message saying the "image appears not to be you. " Will try finding another one. Guess not that many poor bastards are cursed enough to look like me.

[FarFarAway]

Its YMMV for sure. Not everyone can post pictures for obvious reasons. Tons of men on there are married I read somewhere.

I have provided my solution to posting photos that are safe. Someone who looks like you, with also some parts cut out as if they really are you and you are trying to stay discreet. There is even a new approach to locating photos on the web who look like you. Facial recognition sites.

[FarFarAway]

Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.

I will say stuff like 'I am sure some girls on the site get that', but qualify that isn't something I'd be able to do. And that if all they care about is that one allowance payment, they should try to track that guy down again. Meaning, yeah, history is fine, but you are here and now talking to me, and what you got before isn't that relevant. If you just want to say 'bye' without pissing her off and risking her reporting you to the site (however invalid) you can always go with HG's "I'll keep that in mind".

I don't think it is very fruitful to really haggle, people tend to have their numbers in mind. Think of it the same way you would about car prices. The phenomenon of pinning. I never never discuss $ online, only face to face. People are brave behind a keyboard, they fear rejection when face to face, and when they have invested in the meeting. Their ask will be less.

I emphasize I want an ongoing arrangement, where they'll get paid multiple times and they don't have to be on the site meeting someone new all the time, who might be nice or not really.

I have also had girls claim they were getting like 1-2 K per meet in past arrangements. Some I even believed that. Of course, they are ruined forever by that. A guy who does that, his mind is in a funny place, and he is fucking up the sugarbowl for most. I would not believe that a girl who had once gotten that kind of dough would ever be satisfied w / the 3-500 that I could do. I heard this at a M&G w / someone I thought had real potential for a friendly relationship, but I declined to pursue further.

[Murrican]

Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.

I use that line. "You are worth that amount and more, and some guy is going to be lucky to get you. It's just beyond my budget but best of luck. ".

Translated into SA speak: " You think I'm a Splenda daddy but I'm complimenting your shallow ass on the way out so you don't block or report me because of your own unjustified GPS. ".

[HeyDuhman]

Wow, I was on Rover.com looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.

I've met several girls on SA who actually do have profiles on rover.

Go for it!

[Large Ess]

Anyone try her out?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-50403ea3367e

[MidnightDabber]

Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.

[SBlover]

Not the Alena I was familiar with haha.

Yea it was a disappointment because she looked good in her photos. Asked if she was on BC, said no. Asked if she'd take the plan b and she started on a rant on how it's terrible for woman's health.

Currently working on this one, if anyone has any intel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-71c87fa53751

[Dsteezy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-56c7c3fcf554

1 k for a dinner date. Wouldn't consider anything less, doesn't leave the house for less than 1 K apparently.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-c9f79a10bd97

700 condom only. Probably could've talked her down but BBFS are a no go so I lost interest.

Not the Alena I was familiar with haha.

[SBlover]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-56c7c3fcf554

1 k for a dinner date. Wouldn't consider anything less, doesn't leave the house for less than 1 K apparently.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-c9f79a10bd97

700 condom only. Probably could've talked her down but BBFS are a no go so I lost interest.

[UltraCreamy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-818cc25e77d1

Asking 1 k. Think I've seen her profile on HX before but unsure.

https://www.humaniplex.com/profiles/Sinderelllla

[HollywoodGuy]

Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.

I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.

This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.

I mean she wants you to know she is pricey. Good for her, not so good for you. In my case if I say to them I'll take you anywhere, they usually say something like olive garden, wingstop or even del taco. Gotta love it. Different demographic.

[PleasantOnSun]

Wow, I was on Rover.com looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.

Interesting so how would you approach here if you find anyone interested.

[FarFarAway]

Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.

I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.

This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.

[FarFarAway]

Has anyone pursued SBs who are in the same industry? I had a meet and greet with a POT and it turns out she's in the same profession. I didn't tell her what I do but am afraid that it's a matter of time before she figures out who I am since it's a small world. Thoughts?

Sorta, not exactly. I work in a large organization. Thousands of people at this location. There are definitely some girls who are also here who are candidates to show up on SA. I have for the most part been careful about this, figuring if I was seeing someone from my organization, there is a much greater chance of her coming across my IRL identity (of course I have a sugar story that doesn't involve my working here). So once those POTs divulged that they were here, I just blocked them and went on. Too many fish in the sea and all.

However, I am just now sorely tempted to violate my rules. I have a hankering to bang an Indian-American girl, and there is a POT right now who really floats my boat. And in my organization. Absolutely gorgeous. She is in a department far from mine (subject-wise and physically). We've spoken by phone and she is interested, though I am above her age range. Hence she wants to see full pix. Even those that have been sanitized to avoid facial recognition, someone at this organization upon seeing them could recognize me. Of course, this girl likely doesn't want anyone knowing that she is active on the site either.

She says her last arrangement ended about a month ago. She is hot enough she won't have to wait long to get some new offers. Carpe diem.