Stupid Shit In San Diego

[HonkyDonk]

That sucks. I recently found a provider out here in El Centro but managed to convince my little head to not eat where I poop, this is a small community and who knows what kind of psycho she might be afterwards so I've so far stayed away, do all my playing when I'm working in San Diego or SF.

I think if I was in your situation I'd tell her to go to hell and then block her, and hope she doesn't carry out her threat. Perhaps if she knows she can't intimidate you she will move on.

Yea. I gotto be more cautious with this. Learnt it the hard way, now I regret indulging with this.

I have blocked her for now. I am thinking of meeting her in person and arranging for a buy out. Provided she would delete the chats etc.

[SanDiegoNbr1]

Who. Is it? Expose her on this site. Maybe some are willing to flood her phone with messages to help drive her away.

Let us all know who she is so we know not to contact her. Also maybe some of us who arent married or in relationships will put her on blast and maybe make her feel uncomfortable. Some of them have no street code. Or don't seem to be worried about what a real one would do to them for causing problems in their life.

[Will008]

Hi all, I have been seeing providers in SD for 6 months now. And recently I had a outcall with one of the local providers here. Now that she knows my address she is blackmailing me that she would show up on my foorstep and expose chats etc. I don't to disclose anything to my family. Is there any way out of this. I am unable to to think and any help is appreciated.

Who. Is it? Expose her on this site. Maybe some are willing to flood her phone with messages to help drive her away.

[Tendancer]

Hi all, I have been seeing providers in SD for 6 months now. And recently I had a outcall with one of the local providers here. Now that she knows my address she is blackmailing me that she would show up on my foorstep and expose chats etc. I don't to disclose anything to my family. Is there any way out of this. I am unable to to think and any help is appreciated.

That sucks. I recently found a provider out here in El Centro but managed to convince my little head to not eat where I poop, this is a small community and who knows what kind of psycho she might be afterwards so I've so far stayed away, do all my playing when I'm working in San Diego or SF.

I think if I was in your situation I'd tell her to go to hell and then block her, and hope she doesn't carry out her threat. Perhaps if she knows she can't intimidate you she will move on.

[MaximusKahn]

Especially if you can't see what you're buying!

Especially the GH.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comme...yp4/gloryhole/

[HonkyDonk]

Hi all, I have been seeing providers in SD for 6 months now. And recently I had a outcall with one of the local providers here. Now that she knows my address she is blackmailing me that she would show up on my foorstep and expose chats etc. I don't to disclose anything to my family. Is there any way out of this. I am unable to to think and any help is appreciated.

[TheFishsd]

Sometime in the late 80's I hung out there a lot. Sadly before the private booths. Used to party with Karen and a few of the other girls.

I'm a long time monger in San Diego having started when in my first year at State and spent hours oogling girls at The Body Shop and visiting massage parlors. That was the early '70's. I found this article on San Diego Reader and found a nice affinity to the article. It's centered on the Body Shop and escorts of the days. It's a true nostalgia piece and I'm sure the older mongers on this board will find it accurate. For the younger guys, back in the '90's we didn't have the Internet and easy ways to hook up. I spent many hours in the Body Shop talking with men of all ranks of life in between dances. We were all there for that fantasy. The girls were there for our eyes. It wasn't until the booths were installed that we had actual on-site hidden entertainment. Enjoy the read. Let's hear what you mongers remember and WHO you remember. I'll start. She's a 5'4" blonde, DDs, and I dated her 45+ times after hooking up in the shop.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/...orld-you-want/

[Nick4]

Especially the GH.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comme...yp4/gloryhole/

Pretty much what I'd expect from any GH. If m-M or M -TS isn't your thing, better bring a date. LOL.

[NudeBeachPerv]

Especially the GH.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comme...yp4/gloryhole/

[RChangDatyKing]

I'm a long time monger in San Diego having started when in my first year at State and spent hours oogling girls at The Body Shop and visiting massage parlors. That was the early '70's. I found this article on San Diego Reader and found a nice affinity to the article. It's centered on the Body Shop and escorts of the days. It's a true nostalgia piece and I'm sure the older mongers on this board will find it accurate. For the younger guys, back in the '90's we didn't have the Internet and easy ways to hook up. I spent many hours in the Body Shop talking with men of all ranks of life in between dances. We were all there for that fantasy. The girls were there for our eyes. It wasn't until the booths were installed that we had actual on-site hidden entertainment. Enjoy the read. Let's hear what you mongers remember and WHO you remember. I'll start. She's a 5'4" blonde, DDs, and I dated her 45+ times after hooking up in the shop.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/...orld-you-want/

I love the Body Shop. I think I still have that red lifetime membership card stashed away somewhere. LOL. I started going there in the early 90's before AMPs. I had lots of fun in the private booths. Two of my favorites come to mind at the Body Shop; Eva Bliss and Mia Rose or Rose. Rose was a hot Filipina with tattoos between her breasts that makes a butterfly. Both became top rated escorts in San Diego. Eva was known on SDASP was a moderator on there I believe. Rose advertised on various platforms.

[Sir Bishop]

I'm a long time monger in San Diego having started when in my first year at State and spent hours oogling girls at The Body Shop and visiting massage parlors. That was the early '70's. I found this article on San Diego Reader and found a nice affinity to the article. It's centered on the Body Shop and escorts of the days. It's a true nostalgia piece and I'm sure the older mongers on this board will find it accurate. For the younger guys, back in the '90's we didn't have the Internet and easy ways to hook up. I spent many hours in the Body Shop talking with men of all ranks of life in between dances. We were all there for that fantasy. The girls were there for our eyes. It wasn't until the booths were installed that we had actual on-site hidden entertainment. Enjoy the read. Let's hear what you mongers remember and WHO you remember. I'll start. She's a 5'4" blonde, DDs, and I dated her 45+ times after hooking up in the shop.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/...orld-you-want/

[Tijuaniko]

Hey TJN! I was 1 of the guys here who tried reaching out PM-ing you. First & foremost- Everyone here knows your character, that you're truly 1 of the really solid trusted good guys here. I'm certain that a lot of other places / MMS use this same B&S tactics as a means to lot let potential $$ walk out the door. FWIW: I sent a strongly worded text message to the A-Z number letting the owner / MMS / whomever know in no uncertain terms, that if you ever want / expect me to make the long drive down to your business, then I want recent accurate pics of both Baby, & lily. They didn't bother responding to my text. So as far as I'm concerned, they can F- off and I'll continue taking my business elsewhere. If I miss out on a rocking hottie, that so be it.

Bottom line: We're all big boys here and we can all make our own decisions. Personally, it really doesn't matter to me (they hype / reviews posted for certain girls) l, because when I show up at an AMP and I don't like what I see, or I'm not feeling it, then I'm bailing, regardless. Yeah, B&S sucks and it's an unacceptable tactic in which I have zero tolerance for. B&S aside, it's always a calculated risk with these girls, whether you find 1 you can click with on a hot porn star level with with true GFE Passion.

I disagree, TJN, and I for 1 hope you keep sharing!

I've had some very enlightening conversations with a few of the really hot AMP ladies here in SD County over the past 3 years. & It's no surprise to me, why, some of these ladies don't click with some of the bland, grotesquely out of shape, unhygienic guys here (sorry but it's the harsh truth). I personally really enjoy sharing and writing long romance novels, after fucking some of these hot sexy ladies I've connected with- Mina, Cici, Sophia, Cici (Erma) Lily, just to name a few. If some of the guys here think I'm exaggerating with the reviews I write. And are unable to make the same type connection, there isn't much I can do about that, that's on you. And I don't really give 2 F's. The sad reality is, that some of guys, no lady is ever going to connect with, or feel any deep true GFE passion for.

I actually enjoy this hobby feel good about sharing / receiving Intel, and the bonus are the guys who posted reviews here or sent me PM's thanking me with the deepest gratitude for either helping them or sharing my expereinced / reports. The guys here who've read my review novels, and then been able to connect with say Sophia. Mina and Cici on the same level, and then can truly relate that these ladies / experiences are as hot as I say they are.

It's no wonder to me, why the person you quoted, struggles with some of these ladies in the PSE / GFE department and is a pessimistic doubter (I mean I agree with some the RM shills and some of the shills here). The reality is, that there are some of us guys who have just been truly blessed / lucky and have been able to genuinely GFE connect with some of these hot sexy special ladies. And when we do- We want to shout it from the mountain tops for all to hear! LOL.

Hey PTJ! I just want to thank you, brother. You know I always appreciate your reviews and PMs sharing information on some of the magnificent finds you've made and, unselfishly, shared. I can already hear some of our fellow mongers ticking away at their keyboards about how we're stroking and sucking each other off, but nothing is further from the truth. There is no shame in saying, "I appreciate you" to someone who has impacted this hobby so positively for me. Speaking of which, I don't try to ever knock anybody here, even when the shills ran rampant, I knew there was at least some value for me in what they were saying. I never had a bad experience when I visited one of the locations they shared. I tried to stay away from the personal attacks and steered clear as much as I could from the drama. I don't come here to $hit talk or berate and demean my fellow mongers. I try to make the best of the forum and my fellow mongers. I don't need drama. That's the reason why I decided, earlier, to take a break. I just don't want to put myself in a situation to have to defend my reviews, be they romance novels or not, defend my taste, or defend my decision making. Like you said, we're all big boys and capable of making decisions. So, maybe I folded too quickly because some gentlemen posted reviews, after mine, to give a different account of their experiences but I will never deny my experiences are accurate, true, and not exaggerated. Perhaps I have a more eloquent writing style that seems to give off a romance novel vibe but I won't apologize for that either. Again, nothing I said was an exaggeration.

I genuinely do appreciate the feedback from Reds, but I must say I do not agree that a review should only consist of "physical looks, services received, money spent, and maybe a few lines on personal experience". With the exception of money spent, all those criteria are just as subjective as my romance novels are to someone else. For example, what good is someone's rating of physical looks to me when your 10 could be my 7, or vice versa. The same goes services received and personal experience. It's not like we're just listing the service we received, 99% of reviews discuss not just the service but it's quality. That is a other example of subjective opinion creeping into the review as your "phenomenal blowjob" could be a "meh blowjob" to me.

Everyone should be free to post the review, the criteria, the writing style that they choose. I don't make this argument in defense of myself or my posts. I make this argument to support the variety of communication that we choose to believe or not. You all get to choose how you write reviews. You all get to choose what reviews you believe. You all get to choose when you walk into an AAMP, and when you walk out. That's what I like about the forum. It's a gathering place for like minded gentlemen. It's a place to share experiences and ideas. It's a place to learn about aspects of the game you may not have explored.

Lastly from one romance novel author to another, thanks again PTJ. I appreciate you. You'll see my reviews again, just don't know when quite yet.

Good luck to you all.

-TJNiko.

[Reds101]

It's no wonder to me, why the person you quoted, struggles with some of these ladies in the PSE / GFE department and is a pessimistic doubter (I mean I agree with some the RM shills and some of the shills here). The reality is, that there are some of us guys who have just been truly blessed / lucky and have been able to genuinely GFE connect with some of these hot sexy special ladies. And when we do- We want to shout it from the mountain tops for all to hear! LOL.

Instead of pessimistic doubter, I prefer "realistic" Mina is definitely my top 2 of all time in San Diego and I saw her maybe a dozen times while she was active at spring valley with plenty of great "GFE" times.

I just treat the hobby as a business transaction moreso than a lifestyle. You will never see me bring bottles of champagne, lingerie, chocolate from my recent vacation spot, etc. To a spa / provider. I'm perfectly happy with the physical connection and don't need or even want the additional baggage that comes with being actual friends with the providers. You will never see my hanging out in a lobby of a spa just because I have free time.

If you do, more power to you and I actually appreciate the fact that you mentioned not going back to AtoZ because of the lack of communication, etc. Unlike some of the mongers / reviewers get too personal with the spa / providers and then start defending them as if it's their personal business.

I guess that's the main difference in personalities though. When I have PSE / GFE providers, the last thing I want to do is shout it from the mountain tops for all to hear because I know that 99% of the other people will not get the same experience.

It's just seems lately I don't know if I'm reading a chapter from fifty shades of gray or a review of a prostitute LOL.

[PoonTangJohnny]

Good day gentlemen. Many of you who have read my reviews of late will know that I have stayed close to home and focused my visits to a single AMP. This AMP has been good to me most recently in that they have provided an array of new talent to try and some of them have become favorites of mine. Recently, a number of respected forum members have reported very different experiences to mine, not so much in the type or quality of services they received, but specifically with management taking advantage of them and performing the universally hated Bait and Switch. As a fellow monger, I completely understand the terrible taste that a BandS leaves in the mouth. I hate a BandS as much as everyone here. I feel a bit of responsibility in the terrible customer service that my fellow mongers experienced because I repeatedly extolled the quality and service that I received. In doing so, some of these affected mongers may have been influenced to try this AMP. Because of that, I've made two decisions that I will share.

Hey TJN! I was 1 of the guys here who tried reaching out PM-ing you. First & foremost- Everyone here knows your character, that you're truly 1 of the really solid trusted good guys here. I'm certain that a lot of other places / MMS use this same B&S tactics as a means to lot let potential $$ walk out the door. FWIW: I sent a strongly worded text message to the A-Z number letting the owner / MMS / whomever know in no uncertain terms, that if you ever want / expect me to make the long drive down to your business, then I want recent accurate pics of both Baby, & lily. They didn't bother responding to my text. So as far as I'm concerned, they can F- off and I'll continue taking my business elsewhere. If I miss out on a rocking hottie, that so be it.

Bottom line: We're all big boys here and we can all make our own decisions. Personally, it really doesn't matter to me (they hype / reviews posted for certain girls) l, because when I show up at an AMP and I don't like what I see, or I'm not feeling it, then I'm bailing, regardless. Yeah, B&S sucks and it's an unacceptable tactic in which I have zero tolerance for. B&S aside, it's always a calculated risk with these girls, whether you find 1 you can click with on a hot porn star level with with true GFE Passion.

Appreciate the feedback, Reds. It was never my intention to submit reviews such as you mentioned. I was just excited to share my finds and experience. Had the other mongers gotten the right girls, I'm confident they would have similar experiences to mine.

-TJNiko.

I disagree, TJN, and I for 1 hope you keep sharing!

I've had some very enlightening conversations with a few of the really hot AMP ladies here in SD County over the past 3 years. & It's no surprise to me, why, some of these ladies don't click with some of the bland, grotesquely out of shape, unhygienic guys here (sorry but it's the harsh truth). I personally really enjoy sharing and writing long romance novels, after fucking some of these hot sexy ladies I've connected with- Mina, Cici, Sophia, Cici (Erma) Lily, just to name a few. If some of the guys here think I'm exaggerating with the reviews I write. And are unable to make the same type connection, there isn't much I can do about that, that's on you. And I don't really give 2 F's. The sad reality is, that some of guys, no lady is ever going to connect with, or feel any deep true GFE passion for.

I actually enjoy this hobby feel good about sharing / receiving Intel, and the bonus are the guys who posted reviews here or sent me PM's thanking me with the deepest gratitude for either helping them or sharing my expereinced / reports. The guys here who've read my review novels, and then been able to connect with say Sophia. Mina and Cici on the same level, and then can truly relate that these ladies / experiences are as hot as I say they are.

It's no wonder to me, why the person you quoted, struggles with some of these ladies in the PSE / GFE department and is a pessimistic doubter (I mean I agree with some the RM shills and some of the shills here). The reality is, that there are some of us guys who have just been truly blessed / lucky and have been able to genuinely GFE connect with some of these hot sexy special ladies. And when we do- We want to shout it from the mountain tops for all to hear! LOL.

[Tijuaniko]

This is the reason why I don't pay too much attention to AMP reviews that give tooooo much detail (99% of the reviews on the "top" popular places on rubmaps are like this). I don't think your reviews fell into the same exact categories of reviews that I just assume are greatly exaggerated or even completely fake, but there are some members (some have been banned as shills) that post erotic novels instead of a reviews. As you mentioned, most of these reviews set up false expectations for 99% of the mongers that are not regulars of a parlor. IMO a review is sufficient with physical looks, services received, money spent, and maybe a few lines on personal experience. But when people start posting about a "minute-by-minute, play-by-play" reviews with a provider that you have chemistry with, most people will not receive that type of service.

Erma is approaching (or passed tbh) the point of useful reviews on this site for these reasons for me LOL.

Appreciate the feedback, Reds. It was never my intention to submit reviews such as you mentioned. I was just excited to share my finds and experience. Had the other mongers gotten the right girls, I'm confident they would have similar experiences to mine.

-TJNiko.