NoVA SugarBabies

**FairFight** · 07-31-23 18:13

How do you deal with girls asking for upfront deposits to show you aren't playing games? Seems like if I avoid these women. There aren't any interested in a sugar baby situation.

Ive tried offering like 300 the first meet when they ask for 1k. And they say its 1k or nothing.

**Tyrex2** · 07-31-23 17:48

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Are you married? Ever been married? Twice for me. I can say without a doubt, there is no pussy that is free. If I calculated the effective "pay per meet" rate for the amount of sex I had w / my wives, it would be way higher than what escorts charge.

Too damn true. Especially toward the end, where you can start to count the "meets" on your hands LOL.

**DickLongwood** · 07-31-23 17:06

Originally Posted by DasHottCalla [View Original Post]

Anyone with experience with flying a SB out to you? If you're doing that and covering hotel stays are you also paying ppm and if so, is it at the same rate?

Good luck! This has both risks and rewards. I wouldn't do it unless you know her well and trust her. She could cancel the flight and get a credit in her name. I would assume you pay the regular rate on top of airfare and hotel. Will she be trying to see other guys while staying at the hotel you chose, or will she be spending most of the day with you?

**DasHottCalla** · 07-31-23 06:13

Anyone with experience with flying a SB out to you? If you're doing that and covering hotel stays are you also paying ppm and if so, is it at the same rate?

**Rudy Wellz** · 07-29-23 09:44

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...6-e47ecafccb9b

Her tagline now shows her rate, $1,000: "One Kayyy 4 2 night" She's hot, but that's too much.

I should write and tell her she left of an "s". One Kayyy 4 2 nights, then I'm all in!

**FarFarAway** · 07-29-23 09:21

Originally Posted by OldChineseGuy [View Original Post]

They are all prostitutes, LOL! Definition of prostitute is someone who has sex for money. All SBs have sex for money so they are by definition prostitutes. They may not think of themselves as prostitutes but it does not change the fact that they are. So if the price is right and she's hot, you should got for it. However $700 is quite steep.

Are you married? Ever been married? Twice for me. I can say without a doubt, there is no pussy that is free. If I calculated the effective "pay per meet" rate for the amount of sex I had w / my wives, it would be way higher than what escorts charge.

**Old Chinese Guy** · 07-28-23 21:09

Originally Posted by VictorSmitham [View Original Post]

I contacted her and she came back with $700. She is hot but I'm not looking for a prostitute.

They are all prostitutes, LOL! Definition of prostitute is someone who has sex for money. All SBs have sex for money so they are by definition prostitutes. They may not think of themselves as prostitutes but it does not change the fact that they are. So if the price is right and she's hot, you should got for it. However $700 is quite steep.

**Dimples572** · 07-28-23 18:23

We've been texting oh and off for like 2-3 months but just hasn't happened yet for whatever reason. Does anyone have any info on her? Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-4277f7cc2d00

**Arty33** · 07-28-23 16:20

Lovebunny2.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...4-b6a4ecd00715

She's real, may look like her pictures although did not meet. Her name is Amani, she is looking for money for meeting, says she wants to build long term connection and will usually know after 2nd date, but that her dates usually gives gas money. I take that as she's a professional dining partner who also gets paid for it. Hard pass. Sadly there may be enough simps out there who will pay a good looking girl just for a chance to sit with her and think about her dropping her panties one day for them, truth is you never get them to drop panties thinking like that.

Sadie 8778.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-0384485282ed

She's around Frederick, and may be talking to a few guys, probably not her first rodeo, I didn't pursue too hard since distance and sort of out of the age range I prefer.

Crimsonpeach.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-804ed9b0c636

Real, was texting, lives in DC. Agreed to meet & greet, sounded promising for something of real, but then she got cold feet. I figure in two minds and unsure of what she wants, again age may be the reason. Once they're past 30, it gets hard honestly.

Hxneebee.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-485f75f7bd51

Not sure what to make of this, sounds too good to be true, probably fake pictures, and fake claims, or just curious what this is all about and very unlikely to go anywhere, just some small talk and then nothing.

FunGambler.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...9-6405402cff03

She's been talked here, and I DM'd the last person who met her but unfortunately he didn't respond, could've saved me money for drinks and food. She's fine, but not in the same category of women I have been with or want to be with, also the interaction was sort of weird, strange, awkward, and she may have done M&G with a lot of guys with a lot of rejection after which may be playing on her behavior too. I have no clue what she'll be like in bed, and don't want to test it out since I didn't get a feel we'd vibe well under the sheets.

Still looking for one good SB and possibly the one met last week may be it, sounds like a great gal, a rare gem, she's playing for the long game though which I am fine, will see how that turns out.

**Arty33** · 07-28-23 15:58

1 K ppm for meet up in person, will spend 2 hrs, over that higher $$. I am sure she will be lame in bed, will complain sore kitty kat after 10 minutes, no or limited kissing, turn her face away, then still claim the allowance. Bad idea overall. Usually the money hungry ones are lame and not interested at all in the other person, and they make it known. Then they wonder why no one will see them second time. Had a very bad experience with another girl of similar background recently, the red flags were all there when I met her in the bar, still decided to get into FC location, bad idea, if your gut feeling is telling no then always skip. This one is just bad.

Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]

Evergreen.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-fbda1d17887b

Not sure if she's real or not. Was texting her and she concluded with something about "booking her time" (red flag #1). She texts me out the blue tonight and wants to know if I'll purchase spicy pics / vids (red flag #2). Of course I ask for a freebie, which she refused to provide. When I asked if she actually does meetups, she asks me what I pay for ppm. I responded with $400 which she thought was "crazy". Realizing she's not my cup of tea, I responded with "Crazy good, yes?" No response from her. YMMV. Curious if anyone has intel on her.

**VictorSmitham** · 07-28-23 12:10

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

This one's heartbreaking, she's just an escort posting as an SB. 800 for one hr in Tysons. Fml.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...a-450bdcb76caa

I contacted her and she came back with $700. She is hot but I'm not looking for a prostitute.

**FarFarAway** · 07-28-23 12:05

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...6-e47ecafccb9b

Her tagline now shows her rate, $1,000: "One Kayyy 4 2 night" She's hot, but that's too much.

YK, it is sort of annoying, that is clearly putting a pay for play into their profile, and these girls aren't getting banned. The site knows they are essential to its business model, bait for our subscription $. And as tempting as it is to report profiles like this, resist the temptation. I got a demand to Venmo $ to a girl when I asked to see her private photos. I reported her for this. And the results was that *I* got suspended for a TOS violation, soliciting $ for sex. WTF! I had to watch a video for 2 min and answer a bunch of questions. And I was put on notice that a future violation would cause my profile to be banned.

This is ridiculous, I sent a message to CS asking to appeal this, they have never gotten back to me.

If someone has this in their SOP, just ban them and move on. There is no upside to engaging them in any way, and you take a big risk.

**DickLongwood** · 07-28-23 11:59

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...6-e47ecafccb9b

Her tagline now shows her rate, $1,000: "One Kayyy 4 2 night" She's hot, but that's too much.

**DickLongwood** · 07-28-23 11:51

Originally Posted by SteveStone123 [View Original Post]

This girl said she is looking for 10 k initiation, then 5 k a month and she will be available to meet 3-5 x a month. LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-4d52c56f5c3a

Initiation fee? Is this a country club? What's next, seat licenses??

**SteveStone123** · 07-28-23 10:37

This girl said she is looking for 10 k initiation, then 5 k a month and she will be available to meet 3-5 x a month. LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-4d52c56f5c3a