NoVA SugarBabies

**Shier** · 07-27-23 12:27

Apologies as this may not be the appropriate thread to ask this. Is anyone else experiencing random logout from Seeking? No warning, all of the sudden, *poof* and you're at the login screen. ALWAYS when composing a message. Other than that, no rhyme or reason and it's not based on a time limit, because sometimes it will be hours or even days between occurrences, and sometimes multiple times per hour.

**DickLongwood** · 07-27-23 09:21

Located in Fredericksburg. Her profile may be gone.

She ask for money for photos. The photos are of Aidra Fox.

**DickLongwood** · 07-27-23 09:14

Any intel on this voluptuous Latina?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...9-662e3a147af2

**Ichrequiend** · 07-27-23 08:11

Any intel in these two? Profile seems sketchy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-6e52f623c64e

**Arty33** · 07-26-23 22:23

AstuteLady, 25, Washington, has just one picture. Can't link as I blocked profile.

Quick to respond, went to text fast, said want to meet at hotel or my place straight up. Red flags all over, so asked if she (assuming it is a she, could be a guy) want to get a M&G first, replied okay then went on to send sexy pictures, looks great but not perfect either to suspect stolen model pictures, she asked for $$. 4, then said want to hookup. I ignored all those and continued asking if we can meet and see if connection is there first, then said okay, agreed to meet at place I suggested without trouble even though her location was further away. All red flags. I was at this point thinking they'll ask money for travel, nothing. Then agreed on a time and I asked if we can talk an hour before, agreed. Fast forward, and I asked if she can talk, says can't talk only text, then follow up question should she start to come there, I said need to talk first as need to make sure, then she ask you think I am wasting time, and I said need to be sure. Then I get a call from that number, pickup and get some jumbled sound, like coming through a machine, all red flags confirm at this point as fake. Hang up, then comes message that my line was bad, should she come there, I don't respond. Fast forward, 30 minutes later ask me if I have reached there? Did not respond. I had blocked the profile already.

Question is why all this trouble? No money was asked and no booking done, place was of my choosing, what's the upside? Just send people on a wild trip wasting their time and gas money? For what gain. I don't get all these weirdos on the site.

This one below is straight up ask for M&G money scam, says want long term connection, then ask $$. 15 for meeting. I decline and convo stopped.

KindVenus.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-78a93c9f8117

In between all this, hit upon a real one, straight up ask me to come to hotel she was at, and knew she was real, went there and had a good time, kind of big girl but cute, nice mouth with good suction and BBFS offered. She says will be back again and want to see again, so will wait before sharing. But some of you may have found her, she's been talked about in another areas forum.

**Joe1278** · 07-26-23 10:19

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Yes, that's her and below is her text.

This may be some dude sitting in the basement. The profile has "True Love" tag; that always puts me on a high alert.

**JonFisher** · 07-25-23 21:29

Originally Posted by FrankCastle6 [View Original Post]

She's most likely full of shit.

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-9b281af60622

Yes, that's her and below is her text.

**JonFisher** · 07-25-23 21:26

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

It is to keep their business model working and not violate FOSTA / SESTA. Evidently, this is important enough to them that they are willing to pay girls a bounty. I have never heard this before, I would check w / a few more POTs. It is one way a girl could make dough from the site, but likely much less than an allowance. Or perhaps it wasn't even a girl, just that proverbial guy in his basement. A crafty enough idea, a monger might have come up with it.

The fact is, PPM is clearly a violation of the TOS of the site, regardless of where you have the convo you are vulnerable. The site does not want guys who will get them in trouble w / the Feds. I am sure there are informal conversations between prosecutors and the site about this all the time. The percentage of people (or number / month) who get banned is something the site surely knows and a prosecutor might ask about. I want the site to persist, because what I want I can't find on backpage or its descendants.

I have never discussed money on the site, or by text. I always find it better for me to defer that to a M&G. If you are negotiating money w / a girl you have never met, you aren't really a SD. And, you are going to pay the rate that a girl would charge if she were an escort (even if neither you nor she want to call her that).

I recently met a lovely young woman, who is obviously totally into sex. IK that only after meeting her though. She and I have great interactions, and she readily agreed to 1 K / month for 3 meets. I am happy to have someone like her locked down for an ongoing arrangement, what I seek on that site. Win-win.

Totally agree. Seeking will show that they are auditing and share the audit results which will show that they are diligent and catching people. So they are clear from authorities.

I am also very careful. But sometimes I do slip up. Even though I know what you said, I needed a wakeup call. So thanks. Some thoughts along these lines.

1. I used to give my number on the site and so when we are off the site texting. She can screenshot you and the seeking can use the phone number to tie you to the profile and convo. Maybe better to ask for her number.

2. They ask who is this and if you reply profile name. That can be used to tie the convo to the profile.

So I think its best to get them to the meet and greet and agree with your advice. If someone has a better fool proof way, please share.

**KidFarian** · 07-25-23 20:49

Originally Posted by CireSire [View Original Post]

She is a cool chick. Had a great time. She is bigger than the pics posted. She is still attractive and turned heads when we were out on the town. BB but YMMV. Didn't repeat but might again.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

She is A LOT BIGGER than pics. Like at least 30-50 lbs bigger. Cute face but that is it. Deflated top, wide / BIG hips, a lot of stomach. Her BBBJ is meh (great effort but she needs to DT more), she can take a pounding and give msog. It was worth a shot. ONCE. But never again.

**TomFordModel** · 07-25-23 20:48

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-f0fc08d444c9

https://www.reddit.com/user/amberleighhh/

A pro?

**Rudy Wellz** · 07-25-23 18:41

Originally Posted by BoobsGalore1 [View Original Post]

I have read some other posts yet, I have not seen anyone actually meet with her.

I communicated with her. She seems to know the DMV area well and she did ask for upfront $ (which I said NO). She apologized for asking.

W have been texting for a few days now and it seems to be leading to a meeting, or a disappointment. I don't want to put anymore energy into this one if it is going to lead to "gas money / sitter money" ask.

If anyone has actually met with her, I would love to hear the story.

Thanks for all of your help!

Link por favor!

**Rudy Wellz** · 07-25-23 18:39

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

It is to keep their business model working and not violate FOSTA / SESTA. Evidently, this is important enough to them that they are willing to pay girls a bounty. I have never heard this before, I would check w / a few more POTs. It is one way a girl could make dough from the site, but likely much less than an allowance. Or perhaps it wasn't even a girl, just that proverbial guy in his basement. A crafty enough idea, a monger might have come up with it.

The fact is, PPM is clearly a violation of the TOS of the site, regardless of where you have the convo you are vulnerable. The site does not want guys who will get them in trouble w / the Feds. I am sure there are informal conversations between prosecutors and the site about this all the time. The percentage of people (or number / month) who get banned is something the site surely knows and a prosecutor might ask about. I want the site to persist, because what I want I can't find on backpage or its descendants.

I have never discussed money on the site, or by text. I always find it better for me to defer that to a M&G. If you are negotiating money w / a girl you have never met, you aren't really a SD. And, you are going to pay the rate that a girl would charge if she were an escort (even if neither you nor she want to call her that).

I recently met a lovely young woman, who is obviously totally into sex. IK that only after meeting her though. She and I have great interactions, and she readily agreed to 1 K / month for 3 meets. I am happy to have someone like her locked down for an ongoing arrangement, what I seek on that site. Win-win.

Great points and I will certainly change my tactics. Like you, have enjoyed the site for it's unique offering and want it to remain a viable option for quite some time. All future negotiations will be face-to-face.

**FarFarAway** · 07-25-23 14:24

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

This really sucks and I'm sorry to hear that. You've done nothing different than most of us here which is to get off the platform and negotiate. Curious, did this SB send screenshots of your texts to Seeking? And if it's true that Seeking is paying women to report us, what's their end game?.

It is to keep their business model working and not violate FOSTA / SESTA. Evidently, this is important enough to them that they are willing to pay girls a bounty. I have never heard this before, I would check w / a few more POTs. It is one way a girl could make dough from the site, but likely much less than an allowance. Or perhaps it wasn't even a girl, just that proverbial guy in his basement. A crafty enough idea, a monger might have come up with it.

The fact is, PPM is clearly a violation of the TOS of the site, regardless of where you have the convo you are vulnerable. The site does not want guys who will get them in trouble w / the Feds. I am sure there are informal conversations between prosecutors and the site about this all the time. The percentage of people (or number / month) who get banned is something the site surely knows and a prosecutor might ask about. I want the site to persist, because what I want I can't find on backpage or its descendants.

I have never discussed money on the site, or by text. I always find it better for me to defer that to a M&G. If you are negotiating money w / a girl you have never met, you aren't really a SD. And, you are going to pay the rate that a girl would charge if she were an escort (even if neither you nor she want to call her that).

I recently met a lovely young woman, who is obviously totally into sex. IK that only after meeting her though. She and I have great interactions, and she readily agreed to 1 K / month for 3 meets. I am happy to have someone like her locked down for an ongoing arrangement, what I seek on that site. Win-win.

**FrankCastle6** · 07-25-23 11:01

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

The girls name is Victoria, 26 years, Vienna Virginia. Talked on the site and then went offline and texting. Everything was good and she seemed DTF, so started chatting about allowance on text. She complained and got me banned. After I got banned I texted her and told her that she did not have to do this and she could have told me "no" at the outset. She tells me that the "site pays us to report men like you". Just thought I will share.

She's most likely full of shit.

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-9b281af60622

**BoobsGalore1** · 07-25-23 08:29

I have read some other posts yet, I have not seen anyone actually meet with her.

I communicated with her. She seems to know the DMV area well and she did ask for upfront $ (which I said NO). She apologized for asking.

W have been texting for a few days now and it seems to be leading to a meeting, or a disappointment. I don't want to put anymore energy into this one if it is going to lead to "gas money / sitter money" ask.

If anyone has actually met with her, I would love to hear the story.

Thanks for all of your help!