Non Pro's

**Twister100** · 07-17-23 18:23

Pretty friend.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-7107a7b7d845

GPS 200 for meet and greet.

Dream co-pilot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...4-029e28239851

GPS said 500 ppm was too low.

Aprilxo.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-47bd2b8734b7

GPS wanted 1 k / week.

Molly4 fun.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...f-3059031c83bb

500 cfs, 1500 for BBFS.

Nerdybby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...c-bd74e12ff21e

Sketchy. Only wanted to meet if I was available the same day.

CleverBelle.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-c69bc72e729d

Scammer. Waits till the last minute then ask for money to buy groceries and toiletries.

**AnthonyAnthony** · 07-16-23 15:42

She looks familiar. Anyone have her digits or IG / Twitter? I'm curious about this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...a-5548af20fe42

**HelloThar** · 07-13-23 14:06

After a couple months on SA so far, I would have to say my experience has been fairly mixed overall. I definitely prefer it over pros and I actually see myself spending less time in the hobby because of it, but it takes much more of a toll both time-wise and mentally. While I've met some nice people, I've noticed that even the same ones can also be pretty ruthless when it comes to cutting you off even after a few dates or asking for money unprompted. Hell, I would say they're even more ruthless than the ones on the other board surprisingly. And it makes sense in some ways, otherwise they wouldn't be on SA. My inability to host doesn't help things either.

I think the thing that annoys me the most is the piss poor communication by most women though. I can't count the number of times someone would say they would text or want to meet up and then not follow through. I'd rather they just ignore me entirely if that was the case, but my guess is they just get a ton of messages and respond the same to many. I suppose they filter themselves out this way though as they're likely not the ones you'd want to see.

All in all, I think it's really a game of patience and I think it pays off to be particular about who you see, even if it means having a drought here or there. Having the right perspective also helps to avoid getting too attached while also not being emotionless either.

**Marko Ramius** · 07-10-23 18:06

Originally Posted by YoloGuy0001 [View Original Post]

Sorry if this is a dumb question. Do you need to explicitly explain it to them that the meeting is for the whole evening / overnight or do they just know?

I make it very clear. Typically I say something like:

I gift around 400 for an evening. That includes dinner and private time afterwards where we can get better acquainted. If you want a short meet-and-greet over coffee or a quick meal
that is a different discussion.

Maybe it is just me, but the reason I play it this way with the arrangement girls is that if I just want to show up, unzip, and get off usually it is a better and more reliable deal to just go to an MP or an escort. I also am pretty fussy about whom I choose to see and definitely about whom I choose to see more than once. The good ones tend to stick with me for a couple years.

**YoloGuy0001** · 07-10-23 16:36

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

I think 400 is fair. Most of my meetings last the whole evening or overnight and we go for seconds or thirds. And condoms are rarely used.

Also, I have an extremely low tolerance for girls who flake out or are constantly late. Yes, everything gets fucked up once in a while but if it happens every time I dump 'them like toxic waste. And as I've said in the past I gladly pay extra for girls who can be on time. It is honestly weird to me that a lot of guys put up with piss poor time management and the massive disrespect that is being shown to them when they play silly games.

Sorry if this is a dumb question. Do you need to explicitly explain it to them that the meeting is for the whole evening / overnight or do they just know?

**YoloGuy0001** · 07-10-23 15:54

Originally Posted by RichardQ [View Original Post]

Zhouzhou.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...d2d42cec389e9f

Told me that 500 was not enough. Has anyone met her yet? She is also on SA.

Went on a m&g with her. Pictures that she is using are either not her or her from lots of years ago. Her body was a lot chubbier than the pics and her looks are not as cute / pretty as the pics.

**HelloThar** · 07-10-23 02:03

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

I've had it happen quite a few times.

Did you get there number and then they blocked you? The few times that happened to me the women were total nut jobs. Never met one or wanted to.

Yeah, I know some on both sides block after getting numbers to prevent cases of jealousy if they're seen on SA. I think many don't realize though that it doesn't delete messages and you can tell the difference between being blocked, a deleted profile, or a deactivated profile. Not to mention just having another account and manually checking if you still have their SA link.

**MilfHunter66** · 07-09-23 21:16

Originally Posted by HelloThar [View Original Post]

Is it common for women you've already met to block you on SA just to try and hide their activity? I imagine they want to hide the fact that they're not exclusive (not like many on both sides are).

Funny part is that I wouldn't care to expect exclusivity, but I guess it's embarrassing to talk about so they block instead.

I know random blocks / ghostings are part of the game in this scene at least, though I've come across some headscratchers.

I've had it happen quite a few times.

Did you get there number and then they blocked you? The few times that happened to me the women were total nut jobs. Never met one or wanted to.

**HelloThar** · 07-09-23 15:20

Is it common for women you've already met to block you on SA just to try and hide their activity? I imagine they want to hide the fact that they're not exclusive (not like many on both sides are).

Funny part is that I wouldn't care to expect exclusivity, but I guess it's embarrassing to talk about so they block instead.

I know random blocks / ghostings are part of the game in this scene at least, though I've come across some headscratchers.

**3Putt** · 07-07-23 11:05

Originally Posted by DelToro [View Original Post]

I have fucked over 70 women from SA, my demographic is 28+ so not much experience with College girls. In my experience they have hosted from the begining like 20-25% From there another 15-20% have hosted after the second visit but I have not visited all them more than one time. I do tell them the hotel fee comes from their allowance. I do a max of 400 if the host, 300 if they dont. Lots of 9am to 2:30pm fucking

I never go to their place as I like them to come to me, and my company pays for my rooms LOL, and just like DT lots of morning fucks before checkout!

**3Putt** · 07-07-23 11:04

Wants 700 and to meet right meow!

Um nope.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-0a77f5033813

**DelToro** · 07-06-23 19:36

Originally Posted by HelloThar [View Original Post]

how often have you vets here been able to go to your SB's place for hosting if they initially said they couldn't? Debating not even bringing up my own inability to host until after meeting as that's the hard part over with and they determine you aren't a creep. I know discretion is a big issue for most of them as been discussed already.

I have fucked over 70 women from SA, my demographic is 28+ so not much experience with College girls. In my experience they have hosted from the begining like 20-25% From there another 15-20% have hosted after the second visit but I have not visited all them more than one time. I do tell them the hotel fee comes from their allowance. I do a max of 400 if the host, 300 if they dont. Lots of 9am to 2:30pm fucking

**RichardQ** · 07-06-23 12:44

Zhouzhou.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...d2d42cec389e9f

Told me that 500 was not enough. Has anyone met her yet? She is also on SA.

**Marko Ramius** · 07-06-23 11:19

She looks really cute and has good conversation skills, haven't met her. Asking prices for PPM are kind of rich but she **might** be worth it. I probably won't pull the trigger because Tacoma is too far away from me and I rarely am down that way.

I think she is also known as "Quinn Plantmama".

**Marko Ramius** · 07-06-23 11:17

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

Since I've been single, I just have them come over. There has never been any issues with that. ....

I have had a problem with one girl who was coming over and making trouble at my home after I cut her off.

Right now where I live it is generally too far out in the sticks for any of them to come to me. And a lot of them don't have reliable transportation.

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