Philly Sugar

**PhillyChris86** · 07-16-23 22:30

Originally Posted by BurbsMonger [View Original Post]

I don't believe your assessment is correct. Once a red flag goes up, doesn't matter if it is beginning, middle, or towards the end, the scammer is exposed. Not a lot of red flags are as big as asking for a deposit. Those mongers that choose to RTFF will see the lady asked for a deposit and is a scammer. I don't need to know that she asked and then RECEIVED the deposit to not talk with her. One red flag is enough for me to say next.

You fed the habit and positively reinforced it and made the scam profitable to her. You are definitely part of the few who ruin it for the many. Not trying to pick a fight, just giving my opinion and politely asking to not feed the habits of scammers. It does a disservice to the board.

Be Safe.

Of course, this all goes without saying. I didn't mean to make it sound like I planned on doing it again. I definitely don't. I'm experienced in a few areas of hobbying, but new to SA. Lesson learned.

**PhillyChris86** · 07-16-23 21:51

Sorry, no photo here. Went back to her profile to grab it right after we were supposed to meet, and of course profile deactivated. She was a cute Black girl wearing blue lingerie, braids in her hair. Said her name was Maya and people call her My.

Started messaging a week ago, everything seemed legit, really nice and cool. We exchanged numbers, talked some more and agreed to meet. She was the one who actually reached out to me because of the fact that I had a kinky profile pic posted and she said she was interested in that. So we went from there and decided on $$$ for a few hours of play. It was assumed there would be kink / fetish play but no other details were discussed so there was no explicit terms stating that would be the only thing we did. Everything was open to make up as we went along. I asked if she had a place we could go and she said no, I'd have to book a room. 3 days later I come up with a solid date for me, she agrees to it, and I use some rewards points to book a room 15 minutes from where she lives. She says she's glad about that. We talk a little more the next day or so. Still totally cool, no red flags, never asks for money, never says anything weird.

The couple days leading up to the date we don't talk too much. Morning of, she texts me early to confirm. Says some guys ghost the day of, so she was just checking. I said of course not, I booked a room. I tell her check in time is 3, so I can be there then. She says no, she's busy until 4 and then needs to get ready, so 6 or 7 is better for her. I say that's fine. I realized this was cutting it close for my schedule. I get my stuff ready, grab something to eat on the way, check in by 4. I hang out and get stuff set up.

Finally at 6:24 she texts me, say getting dressed. Remember she lives 15 minutes away. Time goes by and I realize it's getting late, so we can't do any kink / fetish play tonight, too time consuming. I wait until 7:39 (a whole 1 hr and 15 mins after she said she was getting dressed), and finally I text her and say we can't do any roleplaying and so on tonight because it's getting late and I have to leave soon. No answer. Wait until 8 pm before leaving my wasted hotel room (which luckily I used points to book). I get all the way home, still no answer. Go to her profile, deactivated. Not sure if she decided she was going to ghost me during that time she was "getting dressed" or after I texted her no kink play and she realized she was going to have to fuck. In either case, total time waster.

Not having a great week. I think I might have to make M&Gs mandatory at this point.

**Mythbuster** · 07-16-23 13:44

Originally Posted by BigStig860 [View Original Post]

Absolute time waster pic collector all in the aim for "her" safety. I couldn't delete and block fast enough.

Plenty of fun ones on there with ZERO dramas.

I think she? Wants people to block her. I played a little with her on my perfect account. The one that gets tons of favorites a day. She was insulting me within 5 messages!

**EpicSD** · 07-16-23 12:27

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-b781f7383631

Hit "her" up. She mentioned the beach is her happy place. Asked her about where she likes to go down the shore but she said she likes a couple in Florida and Cali. Asked to chat off the site and she suggested Snap. She's bullshit for sure. I called her out and she called me a clown! LMAO.

**EpicSD** · 07-16-23 10:57

Originally Posted by JDRedBull [View Original Post]

Sorry no links or NO numbers on a different device. Very easy to fine on your own. Search for her age and location on seeking. She burred her profile pic. So ask her for her pics and not me.

College educated. Has a regular job. Did whatever I asked. Hosts near Rittenhouse Definitely not on anything. Clean shaven very big melons. Tight and very responsive. Below 4 $. Issues a little too big. Kind of plain. Her AC is kind of weak for me. I like it cold. Too much traffic for me. LOL car traffic to be a regular for me. Not a fan driving down town.

Got het pics and she seemed eh at best. Definitely chunky. Thanks for the info though. If you don't like CC traffic maybe park somewhere like S Philly and take an Uber- not sure if there's a spouse monitoring your bank account though. Even jumping on a bus for 5 bucks round trip can be easier than parking in CC.

**JDRedBull** · 07-16-23 08:18

Sorry no links or NO numbers on a different device. Very easy to fine on your own. Search for her age and location on seeking. She burred her profile pic. So ask her for her pics and not me.

College educated. Has a regular job. Did whatever I asked. Hosts near Rittenhouse Definitely not on anything. Clean shaven very big melons. Tight and very responsive. Below 4 $. Issues a little too big. Kind of plain. Her AC is kind of weak for me. I like it cold. Too much traffic for me. LOL car traffic to be a regular for me. Not a fan driving down town.

**UninhibitedFla** · 07-15-23 22:11

Originally Posted by EpicSD [View Original Post]

Fun Hottie- scammer wants 100 up front and then the rest in cash when we meet. Fuck off.

Members. seeking.com/ member /0083 d20 f-8 e49-4 e9 f-943 f-58 a8 fa75 b32 c.

Fitzalan- Seems real but wants to be abused. Like very into painful punishment. A little much for me.

Members. seeking.com/ member / fd9 f3580-6278-44 ef-bcdd-da47 f5 e8 a80 c.

Americanbeautee- I think she's just on for attention or something. Anyone?

Members. seeking.com/ member / f6282 e44-00 d0-4781-a1 b1-3 cd2 a5 be0 aa1.

Thanks for the intel.

**SdPhilly** · 07-15-23 20:50

Originally Posted by EpicSD [View Original Post]

Fitzalan- Seems real but wants to be abused. Like very into painful punishment. A little much for me.

Members. seeking.com/ member / fd9 f3580-6278-44 ef-bcdd-da47 f5 e8 a80 c.

I commented on her back in November. She is real, but she's stuck up, asking for 6, and not that attractive. If you like intellectual chicks who are average looking but like to get beaten, and you're willing to pay big money for it, then she may be your type.

**EpicSD** · 07-15-23 12:50

Fun Hottie- scammer wants 100 up front and then the rest in cash when we meet. Fuck off.

Members. seeking.com/ member /0083 d20 f-8 e49-4 e9 f-943 f-58 a8 fa75 b32 c.

Fitzalan- Seems real but wants to be abused. Like very into painful punishment. A little much for me.

Members. seeking.com/ member / fd9 f3580-6278-44 ef-bcdd-da47 f5 e8 a80 c.

Americanbeautee- I think she's just on for attention or something. Anyone?

Members. seeking.com/ member / f6282 e44-00 d0-4781-a1 b1-3 cd2 a5 be0 aa1.

**Big Stig 860** · 07-14-23 19:30

Originally Posted by Mythbuster [View Original Post]

Anyone talk to this one? Seems to talk a lot but goes nowhere! Less attractive every time I look at the pictures. Time waster.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-377e0097c7bc

Absolute time waster pic collector all in the aim for "her" safety. I couldn't delete and block fast enough.

Plenty of fun ones on there with ZERO dramas.

**Mythbuster** · 07-14-23 17:18

Anyone talk to this one? Seems to talk a lot but goes nowhere! Less attractive every time I look at the pictures. Time waster.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-377e0097c7bc

**PhillyChris86** · 07-14-23 16:40

Watch out for this one. Started messaging with her, exchanged numbers, started talking. She seemed cool, no signs of anything weird, drug use, etc. We set up a date. The night before the day we're supposed to meet she gives me some sob story and says she needs $30. Honestly, I sent it just to see what she would do. Partially I did feel she was legit, but a part of me isn't scared to lose a small amount just to see the full picture. Better than walking into a potentially sketchy situation. So I send the $30.

The next day she texts good afternoon, etc, etc. I text back, no response. A few hours go by and she texts me saying things like "Hey haven't heard from you". So I figured her scam was she pretends her phone wasn't getting any texts in order to skip the meetup. I immediately call bullshit, and because I was overly annoyed by her childish attempts at lying, I sent her a redacted screenshot of my bank account amounts just to show her what she fucked up, and told her to enjoy her $30. This was petty and reactive LOL. However, she responds with a text that says "huh? Which tells me she sees everything I'm sending.

Skip to the next day she waits until the middle of the day to start texting me saying she just got all of my texts and so on, trying to salvage the conversation. She sends me a bunch of screenshots of our text thread in which she clearly deleted the texts because she also deleted her own text, the one where she responded "huh?" LOL. I call bullshit immediately, there's some back and forth. Finally I say whatever, let it slide, we can try to meet up again when I have time. As soon as I agree to let it slide, she automatically assumes I believed her bullshit and starts sending me voice messages asking me to send her $100 with some sob story about feeding her kids LOL. Told her nope, I can give it to you after we meet. And I made sure to use the word after because now you're not to be trusted. She responded with something rude implying that I'm stupid for thinking she's scamming. So with that, even if we did get to the point where she gave me her address and it was go time, I'm more than likely not going. Even though there are no signs of hard drug use, she's showing clear signs of a possible cash and dash or boyfriend hiding in the apartment type of shit.

It goes without saying I should've blocked her just for asking for the original $30, but the good news is I get to report here just how far she's willing to go to steal from you. You've been warned.

**HenryT458** · 07-14-23 11:24

This lady (or dude) wants a 200 deposit before meeting. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...0-6da972ea4bda

**JDRedBull** · 07-14-23 07:46

I am curious. Has anyone ever upgraded to diamond on seeking. I know wouldn't. I am sure it would attract a lot of chick's.

Everyone is going to use a different approach. I am a low key guy that takes my time. I used to be that guy who reached out to a bunch of girls and it was fun. Also time consuming. I just don't have time for all that now. Plus with these girls asking a little more too and I still see a few. So I signed back and the same stuff. I would say most of the girls are asking about 100 more now. The ratio seems to be about the same. Anywhere from 8/6 to 1. I know seeking or somewhere it says it's like 10 to 1. Girls to men. I will try to share some links of these girls that are hard asking 400 of more. I have a strict ceiling.

**UninhibitedFla** · 07-13-23 17:24

I went to text with this one last month when I was working in Philly. Her conversation seemed legit and she sent some additional photos that appeared to match the ones on her profile. When she said she needed to get her hair done before meeting and requested a $ advance I declined. I'll be back in Philly soon and have considered reaching back out to see if she will M&G without the advance. Current Seeking profile name is Loverboo. She had another profile under the name of something like "raverbabe".

Anyone have any experience with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-60bffc1abfc1