Non Pro's

[YoloGuy0001]

I think 400 is fair. Most of my meetings last the whole evening or overnight and we go for seconds or thirds. And condoms are rarely used.

Also, I have an extremely low tolerance for girls who flake out or are constantly late. Yes, everything gets fucked up once in a while but if it happens every time I dump 'them like toxic waste. And as I've said in the past I gladly pay extra for girls who can be on time. It is honestly weird to me that a lot of guys put up with piss poor time management and the massive disrespect that is being shown to them when they play silly games.

Sorry if this is a dumb question. Do you need to explicitly explain it to them that the meeting is for the whole evening / overnight or do they just know?

[YoloGuy0001]

Zhouzhou.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...d2d42cec389e9f

Told me that 500 was not enough. Has anyone met her yet? She is also on SA.

Went on a m&g with her. Pictures that she is using are either not her or her from lots of years ago. Her body was a lot chubbier than the pics and her looks are not as cute / pretty as the pics.

[HelloThar]

I've had it happen quite a few times.

Did you get there number and then they blocked you? The few times that happened to me the women were total nut jobs. Never met one or wanted to.

Yeah, I know some on both sides block after getting numbers to prevent cases of jealousy if they're seen on SA. I think many don't realize though that it doesn't delete messages and you can tell the difference between being blocked, a deleted profile, or a deactivated profile. Not to mention just having another account and manually checking if you still have their SA link.

[MilfHunter66]

Is it common for women you've already met to block you on SA just to try and hide their activity? I imagine they want to hide the fact that they're not exclusive (not like many on both sides are).

Funny part is that I wouldn't care to expect exclusivity, but I guess it's embarrassing to talk about so they block instead.

I know random blocks / ghostings are part of the game in this scene at least, though I've come across some headscratchers.

I've had it happen quite a few times.

Did you get there number and then they blocked you? The few times that happened to me the women were total nut jobs. Never met one or wanted to.

[HelloThar]

Is it common for women you've already met to block you on SA just to try and hide their activity? I imagine they want to hide the fact that they're not exclusive (not like many on both sides are).

Funny part is that I wouldn't care to expect exclusivity, but I guess it's embarrassing to talk about so they block instead.

I know random blocks / ghostings are part of the game in this scene at least, though I've come across some headscratchers.

[3Putt]

I have fucked over 70 women from SA, my demographic is 28+ so not much experience with College girls. In my experience they have hosted from the begining like 20-25% From there another 15-20% have hosted after the second visit but I have not visited all them more than one time. I do tell them the hotel fee comes from their allowance. I do a max of 400 if the host, 300 if they dont. Lots of 9am to 2:30pm fucking

I never go to their place as I like them to come to me, and my company pays for my rooms LOL, and just like DT lots of morning fucks before checkout!

[3Putt]

Wants 700 and to meet right meow!

Um nope.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-0a77f5033813

[DelToro]

how often have you vets here been able to go to your SB's place for hosting if they initially said they couldn't? Debating not even bringing up my own inability to host until after meeting as that's the hard part over with and they determine you aren't a creep. I know discretion is a big issue for most of them as been discussed already.

I have fucked over 70 women from SA, my demographic is 28+ so not much experience with College girls. In my experience they have hosted from the begining like 20-25% From there another 15-20% have hosted after the second visit but I have not visited all them more than one time. I do tell them the hotel fee comes from their allowance. I do a max of 400 if the host, 300 if they dont. Lots of 9am to 2:30pm fucking

[RichardQ]

Zhouzhou.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...d2d42cec389e9f

Told me that 500 was not enough. Has anyone met her yet? She is also on SA.

[Marko Ramius]

She looks really cute and has good conversation skills, haven't met her. Asking prices for PPM are kind of rich but she **might** be worth it. I probably won't pull the trigger because Tacoma is too far away from me and I rarely am down that way.

I think she is also known as "Quinn Plantmama".

[Marko Ramius]

Since I've been single, I just have them come over. There has never been any issues with that. ....

I have had a problem with one girl who was coming over and making trouble at my home after I cut her off.

Right now where I live it is generally too far out in the sticks for any of them to come to me. And a lot of them don't have reliable transportation.

[HelloThar]

Since I've been single, I just have them come over. There has never been any issues with that. I've never had a person afraid to come over. As far as going to their place, the younger ones had roommates and the older ones had children, so it was never an option. I did get hotel rooms when I wasn't single and think that sketched a few out. I think a combination of getting a hotel room and being paid for it made them feel like hookers (and the whole SB thing is based on them making a few bucks. But not being an actual hooker).

Yeah, the only younger ones I've seen that could host had decent paying jobs while having a studio apartment or something similar, but it's rare. Then the older ones have to find a sitter for their children like you say. Hotels adding $100-150 isn't a fun option either though sometimes you have no choice. I've similar come across some that were uncomfortable with how that looked, especially if they were new to the scene.

Definitely in one's favor just to host yourself, or at least meet somewhere before you do, as I've found it very limiting.

[FarFarAway]

Since I've been single, I just have them come over. There has never been any issues with that. I've never had a person afraid to come over. As far as going to their place, the younger ones had roommates and the older ones had children, so it was never an option. I did get hotel rooms when I wasn't single and think that sketched a few out. I think a combination of getting a hotel room and being paid for it made them feel like hookers (and the whole SB thing is based on them making a few bucks. But not being an actual hooker).

I used to get hotel rooms, until my SO found a receipt. Now I ask my SBs to book the room, and I reimburse them. That seems like a comfortable thing to most. A couple have thought it made them look like sluts to the desk clerk, that they were checking in and going to check out in like 3 hours, but I get them to book the room through apps for daytime use only. It ought not to be an issue, but some individuals can make it one.

[Michael1967]

My personal feeling is that meeting up at a hotel is the very best bet, both from a discretion standpoint and to make sure everybody feels safe. So probably 99 percent of my encounters are at hotels.

A minority of the girls prefer (or insist) that you meet up at their place. To be honest most of those situations either seriously weirded me out or made my shoulderblades twitch. And inevitably in those situations something ends up getting at least a bit fucked up.

So no, nobody who ever said they couldn't host changed their mind. Unless we had been seeing each other for like a year or so. I've had a couple of situations where somebody I saw for a long time wanted to see me on very short notice. Usually I just don't do that (see someone on short notice) but sometimes I have and will tell them I can't get a decent hotel on short notice and can't do the meetup, and they will graciously offer their own bed for the activities.

Since I've been single, I just have them come over. There has never been any issues with that. I've never had a person afraid to come over. As far as going to their place, the younger ones had roommates and the older ones had children, so it was never an option. I did get hotel rooms when I wasn't single and think that sketched a few out. I think a combination of getting a hotel room and being paid for it made them feel like hookers (and the whole SB thing is based on them making a few bucks. But not being an actual hooker).

[Marko Ramius]

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With that rant over, how often have you vets here been able to go to your SB's place for hosting if they initially said they couldn't? Debating not even bringing up my own inability to host until after meeting as that's the hard part over with and they determine you aren't a creep. I know discretion is a big issue for most of them as been discussed already. Kind of even surprised some can find college age ones willing to host and not care about being found out.

My personal feeling is that meeting up at a hotel is the very best bet, both from a discretion standpoint and to make sure everybody feels safe. So probably 99 percent of my encounters are at hotels.

A minority of the girls prefer (or insist) that you meet up at their place. To be honest most of those situations either seriously weirded me out or made my shoulderblades twitch. And inevitably in those situations something ends up getting at least a bit fucked up.

So no, nobody who ever said they couldn't host changed their mind. Unless we had been seeing each other for like a year or so. I've had a couple of situations where somebody I saw for a long time wanted to see me on very short notice. Usually I just don't do that (see someone on short notice) but sometimes I have and will tell them I can't get a decent hotel on short notice and can't do the meetup, and they will graciously offer their own bed for the activities.