Married & mongering

[HandsOfMidas]

I'm in a different boat for mongering. Married for almost 2 years but I've had sex maybe like 20 times? It's a long story.

But do you guys do BBFS? I prefer it and have done it and considering how infrequently I have sex with my wife, I can get tested in time but was just wondering what the rest of you do.

Thanks for this thread and for sharing.

[SuperFlee]

I've been doing escorts here and there (hx, Tijuana) since 2008 but since the pandemic I've really ramped up seeing providers on a weekly basis. I noticed in the last few years I do not get turned on by my wife anymore even though she does everything these providers do. She is still hot and sexy and in her late 20's but for some reason the thrill of getting an escort just seems more fun to me. When my wife and I do do it, my mind is running thru some of my favorite providers instead of thinking about her LOL.

She started thinking I am having ED but my libido drive with her is is low. Maybe it's because we've been together for 8 years.

I was wondering if anyone else had these issues or any similar stories? Would love some feedback. Thank you brothers!

I think part of the excitement has to do with the fact that the provider is a new person you have never seen before and your wife is the same person you've been with since marriage so boredom is partly to blame. It's the same with porn how you will get excited for new porn as opposed to porn you have already seen a couple times.

On a side note, I've been kind of dealing with similar issues to you where I've been seeing escorts on and off and losing interest in my wife. We recently rekindled our intimacy again by going through the 34 questions every couple should answer by Arthur Aronson. Not trying to be a marriage counselor or anything, but if you have any interest in being more intimate with your wife, maybe you should give it a try. You can do a quick Google search to pull up the questions.

[PayPalMakesMon]

Sounds pretty normal to me. There's always extra excitement with something new.

And there is something new everyday! It's tough to stay excited with the wife when there are new toys posting up daily 😂 thanks for sharing.

[PayPalMakesMon]

I get what you're saying about the excitement. I used to run through tinder dates faster than I could really keep up with. It was similar costs and bb was typically my go to if the girl was comfortable but it's so boring compared to the convenience of getting a provider for me. Idk what it is as I have no trouble getting it up with a provider but I realize I need a bit of foreplay or build up for civies. Not sure what the cause of it is or what mental block I have with the sheer primal behavior I have with escorts but know you're not alone.

So glad you guys are sharing this with me as well! Appreciate you.

[JDog1234]

I've been doing escorts here and there (hx, Tijuana) since 2008 but since the pandemic I've really ramped up seeing providers on a weekly basis. I noticed in the last few years I do not get turned on by my wife anymore even though she does everything these providers do. She is still hot and sexy and in her late 20's but for some reason the thrill of getting an escort just seems more fun to me. When my wife and I do do it, my mind is running thru some of my favorite providers instead of thinking about her LOL.

She started thinking I am having ED but my libido drive with her is is low. Maybe it's because we've been together for 8 years.

I was wondering if anyone else had these issues or any similar stories? Would love some feedback. Thank you brothers!

Sounds pretty normal to me. There's always extra excitement with something new.

[LoveFromFrank]

I've been doing escorts here and there (hx, Tijuana) since 2008 but since the pandemic I've really ramped up seeing providers on a weekly basis. I noticed in the last few years I do not get turned on by my wife anymore even though she does everything these providers do. She is still hot and sexy and in her late 20's but for some reason the thrill of getting an escort just seems more fun to me. When my wife and I do do it, my mind is running thru some of my favorite providers instead of thinking about her LOL.

She started thinking I am having ED but my libido drive with her is is low. Maybe it's because we've been together for 8 years.

I was wondering if anyone else had these issues or any similar stories? Would love some feedback. Thank you brothers!

I get what you're saying about the excitement. I used to run through tinder dates faster than I could really keep up with. It was similar costs and bb was typically my go to if the girl was comfortable but it's so boring compared to the convenience of getting a provider for me. Idk what it is as I have no trouble getting it up with a provider but I realize I need a bit of foreplay or build up for civies. Not sure what the cause of it is or what mental block I have with the sheer primal behavior I have with escorts but know you're not alone.

[PayPalMakesMon]

I've been doing escorts here and there (hx, Tijuana) since 2008 but since the pandemic I've really ramped up seeing providers on a weekly basis. I noticed in the last few years I do not get turned on by my wife anymore even though she does everything these providers do. She is still hot and sexy and in her late 20's but for some reason the thrill of getting an escort just seems more fun to me. When my wife and I do do it, my mind is running thru some of my favorite providers instead of thinking about her LOL.

She started thinking I am having ED but my libido drive with her is is low. Maybe it's because we've been together for 8 years.

I was wondering if anyone else had these issues or any similar stories? Would love some feedback. Thank you brothers!