"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Loop285** · 06-08-23 12:39

Thanks to everyone who answered my question and provided advice. I have one additional question. I had a friend about 5 years ago tell me if I was ever interested in creating a SA profile one day to never use my real pictures. They said people normally use pictures that look reasonably close to them. Is this true?

Originally Posted by Loop285 [View Original Post]

Looking to transition from Eros, LC and Strippers to SA. I don't like listcrawler because a majority of chicks have bad hygiene, drug problems, pimps, catfishes, and bad attitudes. Eros isn't bad but the women are robotic a majority of the times and I sense many don't like what they do. I have a great rotation of strippers I see otc, but it can be a lot of work at times to get an outside of the club thing going.

Any do's or don't s before I start?

**2me4Looking2** · 06-08-23 12:31

This one was showing as in Atlanta when I messaged her, but she is actually in Tennessee. I didn't pursue because of the distance, but she keeps sending me very explicit videos on Snap. I don't reply and she doesn't chat anymore, but the videos are still coming. Fair warning, sometimes they may be something you don't want to see though. She sent one of her sitting with legs spread and a bloody pussy with a little tube coming out and the caption said she had a catheter in. A week later I get a vid of her masturbating in the bath so I guess the pussy recovered LOL. I'm pretty sure she is legit and has never asked for any money or anything like that.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-4405ed5fe556

**TylerDurden07** · 06-08-23 11:57

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-41f58c007cac

SA apparently has no maximum age limits. Anyone care to fly this, um, "mature" lady here for fun?

Have at it!

**TylerDurden07** · 06-08-23 11:55

Originally Posted by Forxpp1 [View Original Post]

Hi! Guys, what is the normal expectation if you take them on a trip? Covering trip cost is a must. Do you still pay them? And how much normally. Thanks!

I can only relate what I've done. But I've generally found that if you offer them one of 2 choices: 1) stay at a 5-star resort for a few days with luxurious amenities but no allowance; or 2) yes, you get an allowance but it's going to be a mid-level hotel with "modest" amenities, they almost always choose option #1.

That assumes you've been seeing them awhile & already have a rapport with them. I'd never take one on a trip until there's been a few months of sugar dating beforehand. Too much could go wrong if you're out of town with a newcomer / unknown to you.

Just my 2 cents.

**MacLuvin** · 06-08-23 09:27

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-bcf170ecf649

Another one to avoid. Chat started off fine. Then she went in to the whole I'm a broke single mother sob story. Said she'd do "whatever is required" to help with that. OK cool, I said lets discuss arrangement options to meet up and have some fun. She replied back with "I'm not a hooker". I said well when you say "whatever is required" that's pretty wide open to interpretation. She responded with "I don't want to do anything like that" but she is willing to have somebody buy her food and stuff for her kids. Long story short, she just wants somebody to help her with her bills and in return you get to just take her out on a date or something, and pay her for the privilege. LOL.

**Forxpp1** · 06-07-23 23:59

Hi! Guys, what is the normal expectation if you take them on a trip? Covering trip cost is a must. Do you still pay them? And how much normally. Thanks!

**TravelinSD** · 06-07-23 22:39

Unfortunately, another pics / video seller:

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...3-29b6da54289b

**Steel Wolf** · 06-07-23 19:59

Originally Posted by AtlJohn [View Original Post]

It appears there are many probably fake profiles all sharing similarities. Usually one picture and names in this format-AlluringEnthusiast. Anyone found someone real like that?

AdjectiveNoun or Adjective_Noun is how Seeking's randomized name system works. It doesn't necessarily mean it's fake, but it's a warning sign.

**LouisHernandez** · 06-07-23 19:14

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-a9e83834ee1f

This one ghosted me on day of meet. She seemed real, passed all the checks via text / snap. Couldn't host but willing to come to me. Worked out all the details and kept occasionally texting through the day yesterday and last night. Meet was today at 12:30 since she said she needed a sitter for her kids. Texts this morning confirming address and says she can't wait to see me. Last communication from her was around 11 ish. Then at 12:30 nothing. I text around 12:50 asking her if she was coming, and nothing. Texted again 20 minutes later and still nothing. She's been online today.

I am assuming she either got cold feet or found another sucker willing to pay her more. But based on how old her profile is I don't think it's cold feet. We agreed to a full afternoon of fun, BBBJCIM, BBFSCIP, etc for $3. So I assume it's the later because she was pretty engaging via text up until about an hour before our meet which tells me she found someone else.

Oh well. Good luck out there.

Happens more often than not to me too these days.

**DArrow404** · 06-07-23 17:41

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

Yes. Same here.

Try clearing your browser SA cookies and / or cache. I saw a similar issue a few days ago.

**SavageThing** · 06-07-23 15:50

Originally Posted by Antioch [View Original Post]

Judging from her tryst page, it's going to be very expensive.

https://tryst.link/escort/jennajustine

This lady is a b word. Unkind / unfriendly. No GFE. And expensive for a mediocre service. Avoid. ?

**Peter Johnson** · 06-07-23 15:16

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

Anybody wants to try a BBBJ from her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-2b5195a93607

Yikes, that is scary. These women who are overly tatted or metal all over their face always have some major psychological problems.

**MacLuvin** · 06-07-23 13:54

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-a9e83834ee1f

This one ghosted me on day of meet. She seemed real, passed all the checks via text / snap. Couldn't host but willing to come to me. Worked out all the details and kept occasionally texting through the day yesterday and last night. Meet was today at 12:30 since she said she needed a sitter for her kids. Texts this morning confirming address and says she can't wait to see me. Last communication from her was around 11 ish. Then at 12:30 nothing. I text around 12:50 asking her if she was coming, and nothing. Texted again 20 minutes later and still nothing. She's been online today.

I am assuming she either got cold feet or found another sucker willing to pay her more. But based on how old her profile is I don't think it's cold feet. We agreed to a full afternoon of fun, BBBJCIM, BBFSCIP, etc for $3. So I assume it's the later because she was pretty engaging via text up until about an hour before our meet which tells me she found someone else.

Oh well. Good luck out there.

**AtlJohn** · 06-07-23 13:20

It appears there are many probably fake profiles all sharing similarities. Usually one picture and names in this format-AlluringEnthusiast. Anyone found someone real like that?

**LogJammin18** · 06-07-23 12:00

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

Haven't been able to log in since last yesterday evening. I get a "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content" with an option to try again. But it never works.

Still down as of afternoon Wednesday. WTF?