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[FarFarAway]

First arrangement? Yes, I agree. I don't always trust the answer. I tend to ask if they've "met anyone from the site" . . . People often will tell partial truths or admit to smaller things. There are a ton of "tells" that pros give off. I am very confident it was her first meet.

Responsibility for nervous girl. . . Yes, I totally agree it's our responsibility. I'm pretty decent / practiced at this and I did everything in my repertoire to calm her, and feel I did as good as job as could be done. However, this was more like "acute disabling nervosa disorder" (not a real thing). I'm not a shrink, but I'm sure she had a diagnosable mental disorder. I knew it was going to be a fucked up date and bad lay from the first moment meeting in person, but it's hard to turn away a willing chic who drove an hour to see you.

Haha, I challenge any Rico Suave on here to meet her and try to have a different experience. . . Not going to happen.

Did you talk to her by phone beforehand? I mean, if she was that bad in person, surely that would have been something you could have detected in a call. I have definitely gotten into convos where a POT was just off, or hostile, or whatever, and it just saved me a world of time and frustration. I recall one recently, I've got her on the phone and I have already figured out it was DOA, I am blocking her profile on the site as we're chatting, I get off the call and block her on Google Voice. I sometimes view girls on my backup profile, I haven't seen her. Sometimes people realize that they aren't cut out for sugaring.

[RanManCan]

Have met with plenty of women who say this would be their first arrangement. You don't truly know until you see their body language and how they approach the date / conversations before hand and of course after the date.

Over all there's still uncertainty and this isn't a complete reflection of you but I feel more often then not the person you're going out on a date with us and stays nervous through out the date because of you. Once again it's not always the case but if you can recognize she's nervous then I believe it's on you to ease their thoughts and make it feel more natural.

Some people connect with that person and it makes it easier, or they seem to have a genuine approach and it helps. There's also people that are just charming / easy people to be around and it helps whom ever they are with.

Might be on you / might not be. Though from my experience, you definitely have some control of whether someone feels comfortable around you and that most of the time eases someone's nerves within the first 5-10 minutes of a "date".

First arrangement? Yes, I agree. I don't always trust the answer. I tend to ask if they've "met anyone from the site" . . . People often will tell partial truths or admit to smaller things. There are a ton of "tells" that pros give off. I am very confident it was her first meet.

Responsibility for nervous girl. . . Yes, I totally agree it's our responsibility. I'm pretty decent / practiced at this and I did everything in my repertoire to calm her, and feel I did as good as job as could be done. However, this was more like "acute disabling nervosa disorder" (not a real thing). I'm not a shrink, but I'm sure she had a diagnosable mental disorder. I knew it was going to be a fucked up date and bad lay from the first moment meeting in person, but it's hard to turn away a willing chic who drove an hour to see you.

Haha, I challenge any Rico Suave on here to meet her and try to have a different experience. . . Not going to happen.

[Dsteezy]

Have met with plenty of women who say this would be their first arrangement. You don't truly know until you see their body language and how they approach the date / conversations before hand and of course after the date.

Over all there's still uncertainty and this isn't a complete reflection of you but I feel more often then not the person you're going out on a date with us and stays nervous through out the date because of you. Once again it's not always the case but if you can recognize she's nervous then I believe it's on you to ease their thoughts and make it feel more natural.

Some people connect with that person and it makes it easier, or they seem to have a genuine approach and it helps. There's also people that are just charming / easy people to be around and it helps whom ever they are with.

Might be on you / might not be. Though from my experience, you definitely have some control of whether someone feels comfortable around you and that most of the time eases someone's nerves within the first 5-10 minutes of a "date".

I'm starting to agree that we need:

1. a national forum for sugar strategy and other non-local issues.

2. regional / city forums for specific girls, both positive and negative.

This chic is certifiably kookoo! I don't mean to pollute the forum with negativity, but I went with her because she was a newbie (non-pro as HG would say). Um, not worth the price of nutso!

Ellelolxo - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-d440f87b747c.

Haha, she looks normal enough, and was normal if a bit nervous about first-ever meet via voice call. . . In person, she was a bundle of nerves.

Anyone ever have a good fuck that was a bundle of nerves?

[FarFarAway]

I'm starting to agree that we need:

1. a national forum for sugar strategy and other non-local issues.

2. regional / city forums for specific girls, both positive and negative.

This chic is certifiably kookoo! I don't mean to pollute the forum with negativity, but I went with her because she was a newbie (non-pro as HG would say). Um, not worth the price of nutso!

Ellelolxo - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-d440f87b747c.

Haha, she looks normal enough, and was normal if a bit nervous about first-ever meet via voice call. . . In person, she was a bundle of nerves.

Anyone ever have a good fuck that was a bundle of nerves?

You just need to look around a bit. The Richmond, VA sugar thread has served as that before, to the extent they have a huge archive of all of their most useful posts over the years. A great place for newbies to start. I have also found that the Atlanta thread has gotten a lot of out of town posts lately so I have started reading it. I could also post a pic safely in a place like that, and have.

That is a very very good prospect. Someone who is nervous will want guidance, don't you think? It is your job as her POT to put her at ease. IDK how / why you ended up M&G her, was it just appearance? This goes to show that even in sugar dating you can't rely on that. Anywho, I approach girls differently because I have to, I am a 60's bald guy with a limp. But I know women and what their needs are, and if you want to have a great time w / a SB, you have to have that as well as a decent purse.

[RanManCan]

I'm starting to agree that we need:

1. a national forum for sugar strategy and other non-local issues.

2. regional / city forums for specific girls, both positive and negative.

This chic is certifiably kookoo! I don't mean to pollute the forum with negativity, but I went with her because she was a newbie (non-pro as HG would say). Um, not worth the price of nutso!

Ellelolxo - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-d440f87b747c.

Haha, she looks normal enough, and was normal if a bit nervous about first-ever meet via voice call. . . In person, she was a bundle of nerves.

Anyone ever have a good fuck that was a bundle of nerves?

[RanManCan]

Anyone have the skinny on SweetAphrodite?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...0-bef09c80e608

[RanManCan]

Anyone have the skinny on Breanna?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-546223f52347

[FarFarAway]

Was her name kim, by any chance?

It was not. This gal worked as an office manager in a law firm.

[FarFarAway]

Has anyone recently renewed their sa membership? I am hearing that they are requiring you to submit a govt I'd now.

I am 3 weeks in to a 1 month renewal. So, that long ago I was not asked for this. I am a veteran there, with a seasoned profile, and even got asked to be on their user committee. YMMV.

[LolBoat]

Has anyone recently renewed their sa membership? I am hearing that they are requiring you to submit a govt I'd now.

[LolBoat]

I was chasing road babies in Chicago last year. I laid a lot of ground work beforehand w / a 30's MILF. Met me at the bar of my hotel, we drank and ate apps, then up to the room. She went to stare out the window at the view, I came up from behind, hand under the skirt and panties, and started to finger her. I got her off, but both of us noticed the 'fragrance'. She apologized and said it was b / c she had just finished her monthly. I really could offer no rejoinder so I didn't. During foreplay, obviously DATY was off the table, she did blow me. We did get into bed and I banged her covered, and after that we both got in the shower and cleaned up. She ended up staying the night, and I sort of got interested in a BJ in the morning, but I had work and sent her on her way. A couple of days later she texts asking if I wanted to see her. The answer was obvious, silence. After she noted that, she got into a snit and sent a kiss-off text.

Seriously, I have had SBs coming off their period in the FC, and maybe you get a hint of blood, but this was like 100 x worse. If even she knew how much she hated the post-period smell, what the hell was she doing in my room? A responsible SB would tell it like it is and say she was hopeful we could meet on a different night of the trip. I presume she doesn't have smelly fish all the time.

Was her name kim, by any chance?

[FarFarAway]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-80b0ab4e382b

Pic seller.

[HappyJob]

Found an aa "sb", seems more like a pro, maybe 95 lbs, super skinny, and maybe 36 Ds, they are huge, reason I say seems like a pro because she quoted me. 75 an hour, and I did meet her on SA, she took it like a champ as a car date LOL so I met her up and wanted to take her to a hotel and she quoted me. 95 since it was during the day LOL.

[JollyJohnRoger]

So this chick says that she's "in the medical field." She'll tell you feel like it's true love, you're perfect, blah blah blah.

She makes it seem exclusive, but buyer beware, you'll get chewed up and spit out after spending several K on gifts.

And a monthly allowance. Seriously pricey.

You might work something out exclusive, but create another SA profile and check her out, fishing for her next (or concurrent).

Sushi.

She's cute, but not worth several K monthly or weekly, and is constantly live on SA.

You've been warned.

Handle now updated to "NexxtBestThing".

[FarFarAway]

Feels like I've been getting a lot of girls asking for 1 k with a condom lately. Are people actually paying that?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-f2c51beb4f61

1 k quick meet with 1. 5 k if you want dinner. She hosts. Did some digging and it looks like she has done some pro work before but all those adds are down right now.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...a-172fe60fe290

1-1. 2 k depending on distance as she drives to you. Only covered.

Soo much talent out there I just can't rationalize spending that. Have certainly had girls message that their rate is flexible as the 1st comes closing and they need to pay rent so we shall see.

I would ask that much if I were those girls too. That doesn't mean they always get it. Look this is LA and those are model quality and model presentation. They've had smoke blown up their ass forever that they are all that. I skip over profiles like that. There are plenty of girls who don't have profiles like that but when you get the girl between the sheets, they are as good or better.

All that being said, you should never never never negotiate $ by e-communication. Do it in person, things will be vastly different. Online, she has to take into consideration that you are the worst smelling Quasimodo and give you her escort price. And BTW I would seriously contemplate that both of those girls might have done escorting.

Get the girl to meet you and let her feel your BDE. If you want to have a good time in bed and it matters to her. If she is just a paid lay, well, she is just a paid lay, and she may look good, but not perform. There is lots of evidence to say there is an inverse relationship between what you pay and performance. E.