"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[GoneForGood97]

Do any of you playas have intel on this one? She seems eager to meet but we haven't discussed any financial details just yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...5-b9122e512adb

Thanks in advance. Thresh.

Might be real, but the "ONLY DM ME IF YOU WANT TO MEET TODAY" gives off very semi-pro / escort vibes. Probably just an escort not a true SB.

[Peter Johnson]

Seeking I think is case sensitive.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-b5a06e7ffeab

Ok thanks. My mistake there, because apparently I had her profile hidden. I should have searched on my alternate account.

[Thresh]

Do any of you playas have intel on this one? She seems eager to meet but we haven't discussed any financial details just yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...5-b9122e512adb

Thanks in advance. Thresh.

[GoneForGood97]

In the old days, when I wanted to bang a girl in the morning, I got the room the night before.

If my time frame was super limited this makes sense, but girls are just too flakey for me to book a room the night before and they just no show.

[FarFarAway]

I don't know what time of day you hope to have some fun, but if you can't find a girl who will host at her place then you always just rent a normal hotel room and do an early check in. If you're going to be seeing them anytime after 3 pm then you can use a standard check in. If you want to meet a girl for fun much earlier than that, just call the hotel in the morning and ask if they have any availability for an early check in. You may have to call a few different ones, but eventually you'll find one that will let you check in a little earlier, maybe 1 pm or noon.

If you're hoping to have fun in the mornings, I don't know what to tell you. The girls I see can usually host (for instance Nat who I linked has her own place) so it's not something I worry about, and I prefer seeing them after work in the evenings anyway, so early check ins aren't required for me.

If there is are any Hilton brand hotels (Hilton, Doubletree, Hampton Inn, Embassy Suites, Hilton Garden, Tru, Homewood Suites, Home2) those usually have a "day use" rental, you'll just need to call the property, confirm, and book it over the phone I believe.

I often post on this topic. You can use the Hilton website search and just have the same day for check in and check out.

In the old days, when I wanted to bang a girl in the morning, I got the room the night before.

[GoneForGood97]

So you don't bring up birth control until after you have sex, and you are fine with starting out with CFS, if that's what they want. Of course nothing wrong with that, but CFS is not worth the $$$ to me, so I always bring up bc long before I'm in a hotel room with them.

And yes, agree with you that everyone must determine their own acceptable level of risk with BBFS. I've had to take some azithromycin horse pills on a couple of occasions, and also some painful penicillin shots in my butt cheek, but of course just thankful it was not worse than that. But I no longer see escorts, and one can only hope that these SBs are not quite as active and high volume as a many straight up ho's. The alternative is to sit and wank it to camgirls, so I will continue to get out there and try to have some fun, while I still can.

It depends on how the text conversation prior to meeting was going. Sometimes I bring it up very casually. Assuming we get to the point in text where I'm comfortable asking them what they enjoy sexually, once we've gone back and forth and got very flirty / sexting I'll ask what their favorite position is (unless they already said it). They'll usually answer doggie or missionary. "That's great, that's mine too. And where do you want me to finish when I'm behind you, pulling your hair and all the way in. Want me to finish inside you or on your ass?" Believe it or not, they're usually super appreciative that I ask. Of course if they say "Inside me" then at that point I'll ask them what's their birth control and if they're not on any I'll volunteer to bring a plan b. If they say "in the condom" then I'll have the protection conversation: offer recent tests, ask them about their BC, let them know that we can use protection the first time but for this to become a regular / long term thing then we shouldn't need it once we build some trust (remember, most SBs are looking for a longterm regular SD, it's one of the things that separates them from escorts). And of course all this conversation is prior to figuring out the $ details, so when the $ details come up I use their protection requirement to lower their price. "Since we're using protection, we'll need to do $200. Once your comfortable enough to go without it we can revisit" though of course they never bring it up again, but I stop bringing condoms on the 2nd visit, which means we stay to the original rate.

[GoneForGood97]

Link to profile??

Searching for "NattyNat" in 100 mile radius of Atlanta doesn't pull up anyone.

I happened to link to her just a few posts ago in response to someone else asking: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post6451546.

[ReflexZz]

Link to profile??

Searching for "NattyNat" in 100 mile radius of Atlanta doesn't pull up anyone.

Seeking I think is case sensitive.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-b5a06e7ffeab

[Peter Johnson]

Only you know your risk tolerance for bare sex. I view these girls as closer to girlfriends than escorts, so they tend to be lower volume (and oftentimes will be exclusive with just you). I treat it no different than a tinder hookup. Sometimes, especially the first time, protection is fine, but I expect to develop enough trust that we soon no longer need it. I don't normally bring up birth control over text, but the first time I fuck them bare, while I'm still inside them I'll ask them where they want me to cum. If they ask me to pull out I'll ask if they are on birth control (if they are on BC most don't mind you finishing inside), and if they aren't, I'll offer to give them a Plan B if they'll let me finish inside. Most are ok with that. I usually buy a few Plan B off Amazon for like $8 and take one on any sugar date I go on.

So you don't bring up birth control until after you have sex, and you are fine with starting out with CFS, if that's what they want. Of course nothing wrong with that, but CFS is not worth the $$$ to me, so I always bring up bc long before I'm in a hotel room with them.

And yes, agree with you that everyone must determine their own acceptable level of risk with BBFS. I've had to take some azithromycin horse pills on a couple of occasions, and also some painful penicillin shots in my butt cheek, but of course just thankful it was not worse than that. But I no longer see escorts, and one can only hope that these SBs are not quite as active and high volume as a many straight up ho's. The alternative is to sit and wank it to camgirls, so I will continue to get out there and try to have some fun, while I still can.

[Peter Johnson]

I saw Nat last night. Was pretty much as advertised. Nice girl, talks a lot, makes you feel comfortable. She's very open about the sugaring lifestyle and money so you might get caught off guard there.

Looks: skinny, small tits, thick lips, has a tiny bit of a belly.

Service: bare everything, CIP, only thing not available is CIM.

Location: she hosts at her studio in Inman Park. Decent place. She has a little dog that won't get in the way.

Time: I usually can only manage one shot nowadays, and not much of a pillow talk person, so was only there for a little over an hour. I'm sure she'd be ok with longer.

Cost: She asked for $4, I countered $3, and we agreed on $3.5.

Final Assessment: Probably as close of a sure thing as you can get in this hobby. I probably won't repeat since I didn't feel much attraction, but good for other newbies in the biz.

Link to profile??

Searching for "NattyNat" in 100 mile radius of Atlanta doesn't pull up anyone.

[GoneForGood97]

MysticalLover.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-8f89ac04ff73

Standard "I need help I'm in a bind please buy my content" yet even though she really needs help isn't able / willing to meet. Scammer / content seller. Moving on.

[AdmirerSecret]

How to conduct a good verification? Does a girl hold her I'd and take a picture?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-42a75dc73b51

FineJulz.

Refused to provide a verification pic but wanted to send me a vid saying she's real (you know, something that was likely pre-recorded or taken from someone else). Almost certainly a scammer, though her texts came off as genuine to me. Glad I always stick to my rules (never pay in advance, always get a verification pic).

[TheAnswer4]

I saw Nat last night. Was pretty much as advertised. Nice girl, talks a lot, makes you feel comfortable. She's very open about the sugaring lifestyle and money so you might get caught off guard there.

Looks: skinny, small tits, thick lips, has a tiny bit of a belly.

Service: bare everything, CIP, only thing not available is CIM.

Location: she hosts at her studio in Inman Park. Decent place. She has a little dog that won't get in the way.

Time: I usually can only manage one shot nowadays, and not much of a pillow talk person, so was only there for a little over an hour. I'm sure she'd be ok with longer.

Cost: She asked for $4, I countered $3, and we agreed on $3.5.

Final Assessment: Probably as close of a sure thing as you can get in this hobby. I probably won't repeat since I didn't feel much attraction, but good for other newbies in the biz.

[Airmantroy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...f-3d2d2a4a3131

Accepted 3 (and she hosts) and then flaked on me after asking me twice if I could come see her on days I had already told her I was busy.

Rule #3- Always have a backup plan for instances like this if your time to play is limited. I did.

[GoneForGood97]

You are a top notch, thank you. Bare I am scared. Don't you guys scare?

Will go through your every link. Thank you sir.

Only you know your risk tolerance for bare sex. I view these girls as closer to girlfriends than escorts, so they tend to be lower volume (and oftentimes will be exclusive with just you). I treat it no different than a tinder hookup. Sometimes, especially the first time, protection is fine, but I expect to develop enough trust that we soon no longer need it. I don't normally bring up birth control over text, but the first time I fuck them bare, while I'm still inside them I'll ask them where they want me to cum. If they ask me to pull out I'll ask if they are on birth control (if they are on BC most don't mind you finishing inside), and if they aren't, I'll offer to give them a Plan B if they'll let me finish inside. Most are ok with that. I usually buy a few Plan B off Amazon for like $8 and take one on any sugar date I go on.

If they ask me to pull out or cum somewhere on them I always respect their wish (since I'm literally balls deep in them when we have the conversation) but after we finish I usually ask them how they want to manage birth control (the pill, just pull out and stay lucky, Plan B after each date, etc).

If you have the conversation right it should be a pretty hot thing to say during sex.

"Baby you feel so good. Where do you want me to cum?

Possible responses:

"Anywhere you like" (proceed to fill them up).

"On my face" (kinky girl, will likely be a lot of fun on future dates. Will finish as requested).

"Not inside me!" (when I get close I pull out and finish on her ass or stomach depending on the position. Have the birth control conversation during the after glow cuddling).