"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[GoneForGood97]

She wants 5 k a month upfront and can only meet for an hour.

For an over 40 woman who is clearly using angles and a corset to hide baby damage or her belly. The fuq?

[GoneForGood97]

Hello my dear friends.

Do some background investigation on this lady. Let me know if she is legit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-0c3040a41813

Got another girl she seems to be legit but I don't want to give my address to her. She does not have place to do.

In this situation how you guys manage to fuck. Do you get a hotel? Or any tricks to play?

Like pick up and drop blind folded? Kidding I don't want to avoid any risk. After booking hotel and all the prices are more than lkatl.

Give me some insights on how should I proceed next.

Motel / Hotel room, you can book it using credit card points or frequent flyer miles if you travel a lot. I use my credit card to pay all my normal expenses every month, and pay off the card every month, then use the points to book rooms for SB dates (I don't tell the SB that, I use the fact that I'm "paying" for a room to negotiate a lower price if they don't host).

The hotels near the airport have "Dayuse" rates that are sometimes a little cheaper than an overnight rate and can be booked before earlier than the normal checkin time of 3pm. dayuse.com to check rates on those. Very early on I considered AirBNB but they've fucked their pricing so much since the pandemic it's cheaper for me to just get a hotel. If you frequent the same hotel enough, you can sometimes earn rewards points through them (I tend to stick with Choice hotels as they are budget friendly but I know the guys who travel a ton for work use their Hilton or Marriot reward points for fun).

My advice with a new girl is to NEVER book a hotel room before you have the girl standing in front of you. Best bet is to setup a meet and greet and meet them for coffee or a drink somewhere. Once they show up, get to know each other, then ask if she's comfortable going somewhere private. If yes, THEN you're usually good to book the room and take them there. For the really efficient you can try and schedule the drink at a hotel bar, then just book a room from your phone before going to check in, though the hotels I tend to use (cheaper) don't usually have bars in them.

Alternatively if it's clear over text she's DTF and you don't want to waste time on a meet and greet then give them the address of the hotel you want to meet them at, then show up about 10-15 minutes early. Let them know you're there and to text you when they arrive. Stay in the car, and park somewhere where you have clear visibility to the main entrance, and just wait in the car until you see them pull up. As soon as I see their face pulling in, I'm opening the app and booking the room. When she texts "I'm here" just tell her you're almost done checking in and will give her the room number in a moment. The main reason to go through all that trouble is you don't want to book the room and then she no-shows.

Once you've seen a girl a few times and trust she's reliable, you may be more comfortable booking the room before she gets there, but I've been burned by the occasional no show before even with girls I thought were "reliable". Fortunately I have a stripper SB and another infrequent SB that I've been lucky enough to get them to come use the room under the guise of "work sent me up here if you want to meet for some fun" if someone bails on me. But I have a pretty deep roster in my stable, and if you're new I wouldn't chance it.

Of course, none of this is necessary if she's willing and able to host. Usually I bring it up during the arrangement part of the discussion over text "I'd love to figure out the arrangement details, before we do there's a few things I'd like to figure out first" then I'll ask things about if they can host, and if previous conversations were flirty I also will move the conversation into what they do and don't do sexually, I. E. If they swallow or if where they want me to finish (if they say pull out or in the condom I usually offer a lower PPM). Most of my SBs this year have hosted, though my current one does not because she only has a twin bed.

[Airmantroy]

I don't have a link because I blocked her, but _Atlanta is crazy and I would highly recommend you avoid her. She was a pain to message with on the site, and several days or weeks would go by before she responded. We did move to WhatsApp at her recommendation and she only wanted to talk on the phone. Again, days between messages and now she is sending me harassing messages saying I scammed her and she is going to report me. I do have a screen shot, but because I blocked her, the report option is no longer available. I usually don't bother reporting them, but this one needs to go.

If anyone does have her profile, I'd love it if you would report her and get her kicked off.

She had messaged with me a couple of times and wanted to do the Whatsapp thing, I flat refused and told her I wasn't adding another app on my company cell phone. She suggested email, told her nope. She gave me her number and a big long apology that she's just trying to be careful but more approachable. I called her, we talked for damn near 2 hours when she had claimed she could only chat for a few minutes. Then chatted a second time for nearly as long, mostly about her ex-bf and how he was stalking her blah blah blah, her health issues blah blah. But honestly it was a pleasant conversation, told her we could meet the following Monday (this was on Saturday) at my office, no expectations on my part, just a face to face and she could try out a piece of med equipment I have. Sent her a text Sunday to tell her I enjoyed our chat, Monday came and went, then she blasted me on Seeking message about wasting her time and pretty much same thing she told you. Bi-polar as a fucking magnet! Paranoid schizto. Blocked and Blocked. Automatically. For those wondering, her profile pic has her in a orange bottom bikini, straight from the front, no face. AVOID her like the plague. She also claims there is a private FB group where the girls discuss the guys and share their pics. For "safety" purposes or prevent scammers.

[LoriTruck]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-7bc071acb3f1

Any info with this one. Been chatting it up and things seem promising.

[LouisHernandez]

I don't have a link because I blocked her, but _Atlanta is crazy and I would highly recommend you avoid her. She was a pain to message with on the site, and several days or weeks would go by before she responded. We did move to WhatsApp at her recommendation and she only wanted to talk on the phone. Again, days between messages and now she is sending me harassing messages saying I scammed her and she is going to report me. I do have a screen shot, but because I blocked her, the report option is no longer available. I usually don't bother reporting them, but this one needs to go.

If anyone does have her profile, I'd love it if you would report her and get her kicked off.

Definitely a Mensa candidate.

[LouisHernandez]

She wants 5 k a month upfront and can only meet for an hour.

I wonder if she knows this is planet earth. Obviously not.

[2me4Looking2]

I don't have a link because I blocked her, but _Atlanta is crazy and I would highly recommend you avoid her. She was a pain to message with on the site, and several days or weeks would go by before she responded. We did move to WhatsApp at her recommendation and she only wanted to talk on the phone. Again, days between messages and now she is sending me harassing messages saying I scammed her and she is going to report me. I do have a screen shot, but because I blocked her, the report option is no longer available. I usually don't bother reporting them, but this one needs to go.

If anyone does have her profile, I'd love it if you would report her and get her kicked off.

[NewAnonymousName]

She wants 5 k a month upfront and can only meet for an hour.

Thanks. That's absurd. I won't waste any more time messaging with her.

[BumbaCloth]

Does anyone have information about Bcharisma19999? I just started chatting with her last night.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-61623d04192b

She wants 5 k a month upfront and can only meet for an hour.

[SuperFlee]

This chick messaged me first a few months ago, and was adamant about coming over to my place before talking about $ or seeing my pictures. She had a terrible attitude and became really annoying after a day or two, so I never pulled the trigger, but almost 100% sure I didn't miss out on anything, outside of somehow being set up or scammed.

Thanks for the feedback. That is exactly what happened to me. Now I'm ignoring her and she won't stop texting me.

[LouisHernandez]

This is already a problem, its not a future issue. There's one that creates new accounts every day with random pictures but the same profile text. Can't find one right now buts it's something like "I'm naughty want to find out more? Text me now" You'll get seemingly real messages, but when you message the various accounts they're just too similar. Using an existing AI model and feeding it new datasets for training is easymode, it's building the model that's hard. Interfacing that with something like seeking's chat system is also trivial. All of this is why you don't pay until the pussy is on the bed in front of you, AI can't replicate that yet. If it could, I would probably fuck that and wouldn't put up with women's bullshit anyway lmao.

All subscription sites will have to require sim card phone number validation and photo validation at minimum otherwise they are being overrun with these AI bots / scammers. It's already happened on seeking. Personally I consider seeking a scam site now, try some other sites.

[DocHolliday35]

I think she's a pro, been hitting me up also, wants to meet same day, I don't even have a picture up.

Anybody who is willing to meet without seeing you in person or multiple pictures of you is not good. I would delete and move on.

[NewAnonymousName]

Does anyone have information about Bcharisma19999? I just started chatting with her last night.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-61623d04192b

[SalvatoreIttup]

MysteriousGirlie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-d5d339657515

Any info? Was really aggressive on meeting today without first discussing price. Unfortunately, I couldn't make it today but would like to get some more info on her first.

This chick messaged me first a few months ago, and was adamant about coming over to my place before talking about $ or seeing my pictures. She had a terrible attitude and became really annoying after a day or two, so I never pulled the trigger, but almost 100% sure I didn't miss out on anything, outside of somehow being set up or scammed.

[SalvatoreIttup]

MixieViolet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-aecf7fa03858

Anyone ever see this this cutie, and if so what was the $ and how was the service?

She was reviewed well here a few years ago, but when I tried to set something up, she was super flakey so I eventually gave up. Didn't want to meet up on weekends, and worked from like early afternoons-midnight during the week. Also, she has never updated her pics from years ago, so she may look completely different in real life now.