Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Stickman55]

So I went on Seeking to look at some profiles. I only paid for one month of subscription last year and haven't sent a msg to any girl since October. I did get the original warning and watched the video thingy to get back in, but I haven't met any nee girls since and watched what I said. How does one get banned without sending msg's for over 7 mo? Seems pretty random. I'm currently seeing one girl that I met from there but never had any issues with her and on good terms. A second girl I only got her number bc I didn't have her new number, but I haven't seen her since December and we still talk on the phone. Why would I get flagged many months later?

Ain't that quaint!

You're guilty of something but it's a secret. It's their new way of stealing member funds since they have no balls.

BMD.

In observing the posts of folks who get banned on SA over the years, my initial reaction was like yours, BMD. They are making a quick buck by taking your payment and then not allowing you to use their services. However, when you think about it from a simple business model, it makes no sense. Their bread and butter, outside of advertisers, are the paying Daddys. Why would they want to cut off that revenue stream? There must be something else that factors into their banning practices. Perhaps the risk of having even the faintest whiff of prostitution related content on their site or subscribers who are reported on by Sugars for risky exchanges, far outweighs the loss of monthly subscriber fees. I've never paid to use SA so I have no first hand experience with dealing with their policies. I have a simple login that only allows me to see who's on it.

[Big Mac Daddy]

I tried emailing them. They said I already had a warning and I violated after the warning based on their "evidence". They said that they cannot share the evidence with me and the case is closed. Any further inquiries will not receive a response. Oh well.

Ain't that quaint!

You're guilty of something but it's a secret. It's their new way of stealing member funds since they have no balls.

BMD.

[DonnnyBravo]

E-mail their Support people. They at least owe you a reason. It could be an old grudge from the past or a mistake on their side.

BMD.

I tried emailing them. They said I already had a warning and I violated after the warning based on their "evidence". They said that they cannot share the evidence with me and the case is closed. Any further inquiries will not receive a response. Oh well.

[JDeller]

Cashapp is useless and they crack me up. They tell you to ask for the money back from the person who scammed you. Yeah right. The cc company makes sense and is a bit different. Best thing to do is never use cashapp unless with you are with a long time SB. I got scammed once to help a SB I saw a couple of times but discovered the elaborate and rather convincing scam too late after the money was sent. Could have tried other measures (legal, etc) to get the money back but the best thing to do is just move on and learn from it. Don't think bringing a SB scam to court is in your best interest, especially for a couple of hundred dollars.

I've dealt with cashapp before and they're like. Just work it out with who you sent it to. My buddy disputed with his cc company and they pulled it back right away. Funny bc the girl unblocked him to ***** him out for causing her to overdraft. Sucks to be her. Next time don't scam.

[Big Mac Daddy]

So I went on Seeking to look at some profiles. I only paid for one month of subscription last year and haven't sent a msg to any girl since October. I did get the original warning and watched the video thingy to get back in, but I haven't met any nee girls since and watched what I said. How does one get banned without sending msg's for over 7 mo? Seems pretty random. I'm currently seeing one girl that I met from there but never had any issues with her and on good terms. A second girl I only got her number bc I didn't have her new number, but I haven't seen her since December and we still talk on the phone. Why would I get flagged many months later?

E-mail their Support people. They at least owe you a reason. It could be an old grudge from the past or a mistake on their side.

BMD.

[DonnnyBravo]

So I went on Seeking to look at some profiles. I only paid for one month of subscription last year and haven't sent a msg to any girl since October. I did get the original warning and watched the video thingy to get back in, but I haven't met any nee girls since and watched what I said. How does one get banned without sending msg's for over 7 mo? Seems pretty random. I'm currently seeing one girl that I met from there but never had any issues with her and on good terms. A second girl I only got her number bc I didn't have her new number, but I haven't seen her since December and we still talk on the phone. Why would I get flagged many months later?

[Gamisi]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...3-039c435b9cea

Cute but nothing like the pics. Agreed to three fifty for an hour, which was alarm bell one. Then just wanted to meet there, alarm bell two. Seems a little cracked out, not sure. If I didn't have a discretion need would take the jump. Have fun!

[TopGun9]

Who else in here making videos and taking photos of fucking your babies and hoes?

PM me if you're interested in sharing / exchanging details.

I have stopped posting stuffs on here because of the white knights and pillow whisperers.

[DonnnyBravo]

He was lucky to get his money back. If you don't do it right away, the apps basically say they can't do anything for you. Best to always deal in cash until you really have a long established arrangement.

I've dealt with cashapp before and they're like. Just work it out with who you sent it to. My buddy disputed with his cc company and they pulled it back right away. Funny bc the girl unblocked him to ***** him out for causing her to overdraft. Sucks to be her. Next time don't scam.

[JDeller]

He was lucky to get his money back. If you don't do it right away, the apps basically say they can't do anything for you. Best to always deal in cash until you really have a long established arrangement.

A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

The two worked out an arrangement. Kristina suggested that she get the room with a hookup she has but she has no money, with not meeting previously, the monger advanced her money. Going to the meet, he gets ghosted by the girl. The girl then makes up a story of allegedly being arrested on the way to the hotel for an unrelated traffic violation. CT judicial website has no record of pending or convictions related to this instance, not even a sealed case. The monger then asks for his money back or meet. The girl claims she spent all the ppm including on the room. Monger them disputed the charge and luckily got his money back.

In this whole process, this new "sugar baby" tried to explain her "expertise" on being a sugar baby and what a real sugar daddy is. Basically she's broke and is looking for a rich guy to magically pay all her bills just because. Explained that the website is not supposed to be a place for guys looking for single girls to date even though she reduced her ppm and discussed a more intimate fun time.

When contacting, she inadvertently gives out some personally identifiable info that makes it easier to research her and see her not so innocent or clean background..

[Spaman]

Guys. Has anyone run into "sexy latina 203" saw her on and off for years.

[DonnnyBravo]

I actually thought she was cute at that time, and went under the name "Alli." I do have her real world info, but I just don't care. Since she would not fuck me for under $200, buh-bye.

Seeking girls don't use the same level of protection as STG girls (on many levels) she used her real number that connected to a real name. That lead to seeing a recent eviction, past arrests, places of work, social media, etc. Always nice to research who you're getting involved with to help set expectations.

There are some diamonds out there but still a lot of coal. Thanks for the responses.

[SR Only]

Wow, at least you got something. Hope you've had better luck with others. This girl needs to go down the drain. Others are more attractive, giving better options, and for less ppm. Her insta looks like she's got a bit of weight on her.

I actually thought she was cute at that time, and went under the name "Alli." I do have her real world info, but I just don't care. Since she would not fuck me for under $200, buh-bye.

[TopGun9]

A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

SD RULE #1: NEVER. NEVER. NEVER advance money to a girl you haven't been fucking regularly.

If you don't have this rule etched in your head, don't enter the game.

I usually get my regular babies to get the room and pay with their own cash and I'll reimburse them later. That's how it should be, not the other way around.

[DonnnyBravo]

I met Kristina in October 2022. Car date. Not a very good BJ. I, being an idiot paid way to much hoping to fuck her. She tried to connect again, but nope, I was not going to repeat.

Wow, at least you got something. Hope you've had better luck with others. This girl needs to go down the drain. Others are more attractive, giving better options, and for less ppm. Her insta looks like she's got a bit of weight on her.