Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[DonnnyBravo]

I actually thought she was cute at that time, and went under the name "Alli." I do have her real world info, but I just don't care. Since she would not fuck me for under $200, buh-bye.

Seeking girls don't use the same level of protection as STG girls (on many levels) she used her real number that connected to a real name. That lead to seeing a recent eviction, past arrests, places of work, social media, etc. Always nice to research who you're getting involved with to help set expectations.

There are some diamonds out there but still a lot of coal. Thanks for the responses.

[SR Only]

Wow, at least you got something. Hope you've had better luck with others. This girl needs to go down the drain. Others are more attractive, giving better options, and for less ppm. Her insta looks like she's got a bit of weight on her.

I actually thought she was cute at that time, and went under the name "Alli." I do have her real world info, but I just don't care. Since she would not fuck me for under $200, buh-bye.

[TopGun9]

A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

SD RULE #1: NEVER. NEVER. NEVER advance money to a girl you haven't been fucking regularly.

If you don't have this rule etched in your head, don't enter the game.

I usually get my regular babies to get the room and pay with their own cash and I'll reimburse them later. That's how it should be, not the other way around.

[DonnnyBravo]

I met Kristina in October 2022. Car date. Not a very good BJ. I, being an idiot paid way to much hoping to fuck her. She tried to connect again, but nope, I was not going to repeat.

Wow, at least you got something. Hope you've had better luck with others. This girl needs to go down the drain. Others are more attractive, giving better options, and for less ppm. Her insta looks like she's got a bit of weight on her.

[SR Only]

I met Kristina in October 2022. Car date. Not a very good BJ. I, being an idiot paid way to much hoping to fuck her. She tried to connect again, but nope, I was not going to repeat.

A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

The two worked out an arrangement. Kristina suggested that she get the room with a hookup she has but she has no money, with not meeting previously, the monger advanced her money. Going to the meet, he gets ghosted by the girl. The girl then makes up a story of allegedly being arrested on the way to the hotel for an unrelated traffic violation. CT judicial website has no record of pending or convictions related to this instance, not even a sealed case. The monger then asks for his money back or meet. The girl claims she spent all the ppm including on the room. Monger them disputed the charge and luckily got his money back.

In this whole process, this new "sugar baby" tried to explain her "expertise" on being a sugar baby and what a real sugar daddy is. Basically she's broke and is looking for a rich guy to magically pay all her bills just because. Explained that the website is not supposed to be a place for guys looking for single girls to date even though she reduced her ppm and discussed a more intimate fun time.

When contacting, she inadvertently gives out some personally identifiable info that makes it easier to research her and see her not so innocent or clean background.

So, if you're looking for an old "honda civic" that thinks she's a "Ferrari" and wants only your money, she might be the one for you. A bonus is she'll talk like a seasoned sailor about life's challenges. If not, feel free to contact her and mark her payment apps and seeking acct as scams.

I won't post the texts that I was shown, but she is either a scam or a complete waste of time.

[DonnnyBravo]

A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

The two worked out an arrangement. Kristina suggested that she get the room with a hookup she has but she has no money, with not meeting previously, the monger advanced her money. Going to the meet, he gets ghosted by the girl. The girl then makes up a story of allegedly being arrested on the way to the hotel for an unrelated traffic violation. CT judicial website has no record of pending or convictions related to this instance, not even a sealed case. The monger then asks for his money back or meet. The girl claims she spent all the ppm including on the room. Monger them disputed the charge and luckily got his money back.

In this whole process, this new "sugar baby" tried to explain her "expertise" on being a sugar baby and what a real sugar daddy is. Basically she's broke and is looking for a rich guy to magically pay all her bills just because. Explained that the website is not supposed to be a place for guys looking for single girls to date even though she reduced her ppm and discussed a more intimate fun time.

When contacting, she inadvertently gives out some personally identifiable info that makes it easier to research her and see her not so innocent or clean background.

So, if you're looking for an old "honda civic" that thinks she's a "Ferrari" and wants only your money, she might be the one for you. A bonus is she'll talk like a seasoned sailor about life's challenges. If not, feel free to contact her and mark her payment apps and seeking acct as scams.

I won't post the texts that I was shown, but she is either a scam or a complete waste of time.

[TopGun9]

If anyone have her digits, PM me please. Thanks.

[TopGun9]

....Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. .....

Block them and move on. Easy!

[DaReal86]

That is unfortunate. I recommend doing as much research on these girls as possible. Good note for iphone users if the girl is using her real number that is also an iphone. Unfortunately, that doesn't help non iphone users, but a search of their number can help identify the person through google, social media, and payment apps to gain additional info to use to gain more background. It is interesting that many girls that don't readily give out their real name fail to use an alias in their cashapp profile.

I will usually put the number into cashapp first to verify. If join date is recent or they don't pop up at all, its a red flag most of the time for me.

[DonnnyBravo]

This is the worst shape I have seen SA in. Bot profiles are getting scary because they are plentiful on the site and they will give you a number to text (iphone users be wary of green text bubbles). Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. The gems are there no doubt, just got to be patient and fast enough to scoop them when they are online.

That is unfortunate. I recommend doing as much research on these girls as possible. Good note for iphone users if the girl is using her real number that is also an iphone. Unfortunately, that doesn't help non iphone users, but a search of their number can help identify the person through google, social media, and payment apps to gain additional info to use to gain more background. It is interesting that many girls that don't readily give out their real name fail to use an alias in their cashapp profile.

[DaReal86]

This is the worst shape I have seen SA in. Bot profiles are getting scary because they are plentiful on the site and they will give you a number to text (iphone users be wary of green text bubbles). Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. The gems are there no doubt, just got to be patient and fast enough to scoop them when they are online.

[EasyGoingJ]

I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.

Happened to me a few years ago, I hit refresh and the profiles opened, not sure if that will help.

[DonnnyBravo]

I can't open the link either. She either disabled her profile or deleted her account. Unlikely she blocked both of us.

Gents, I am a Premium member of Seeking, but whenever I attempt to open a link to a girl, I get 'no profile'. Even links provided (here) on the same day as a post. What am I doing wrong, sirs?

I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.

[Jarred]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

Check DM please and thanks.

[DonnnyBravo]

Is her place safe? Thinking of signing up to message her. She seems like a bit of fun.

She's on the Stratford / Bridgeport line. Could be community housing, but I used to go during the day and didn't see anyone around while there. Her apt is really clean. Another monger tried to set up a meet but apparently she raised her rates quite a bit. I haven't seen her in awhile.