Strip Club Reports

[Chimil Detin]

The problem is the girls who live for drama. "I'm waiting for someone", "who, buy me a drink, why not." You'll have to experience it to really understand.

Been there. You're right, it's not fun.

It's a complete misunderstanding of why we're in the building when the dancer decides to make the experience unpleasant after us customers make it clear, "Sorry, not interested," as if going against our wishes somehow makes us want to spend more on them. It's not good for the other girls or the club, either, because it makes you less apt to want to go to the club, period.

Thing is, they do prey upon the weak-willed. The more you don't stand up to them, the more you let them sit and talk you into tips or dances or VIPs or whatever, the more they get away with it.

At the end of the day, money talks. If you like the sweeter, nicer, friendlier girls, spend your money on them. If you don't like the pushy bitches, don't spend your money on them. Just remember that: The more pushy she gets with you, the less you should want to support that approach. If you're not going to spend, she's going to get pushier, so you might as well just be stubborn and short back if that starts to happen.

Get to a certain point and they'll do everything from accusing you of being lame to rude to, if she's not the same ethnicity as you, maybe racist. But it's your money and your time at the club. Much the way you can't force her to do anything, she can't force you to do anything.

[Marelobo Mex]

The problem is the girls who live for drama. "I'm waiting for someone", "who, buy me a drink, why not." You'll have to experience it to really understand.

I completely agree. The girls who have other prospects will move right along. But the girls who don't sit down and pester you. The reason they do it is that is works, and percentage of guys will give them $10 or $20 to go away.

There is no problem being direct you won't hurt these girls feelings. They get rejects all day by guys would never be able to get near them if it wasn't for dollar bills.

You can simply say, I don't want you to sit with me please leave.

Then you can be more direct, and say if you are sitting with me the girl I want to join me won't come and sit with me.

MM.

[Pussylicker2]

I just say "I'm waiting on someone" if someone I'm not attracted to comes to sit with me. I have never had someone sit down if they know someone else has "dibs". They don't want that drama.

The problem is the girls who live for drama. "I'm waiting for someone", "who, buy me a drink, why not." You'll have to experience it to really understand.

[SomeDetroitGuy]

Just how will you not let her sit with you? Will you say "don't sit here"? Then she sits down anyway and asks "why not"? What do you do then? Move to a new table? Go outside to make a phone call? Do what you want, it's no sweat off my balls.

I just say "I'm waiting on someone" if someone I'm not attracted to comes to sit with me. I have never had someone sit down if they know someone else has "dibs". They don't want that drama.

[SlyGuy12]

In case anyone is interested, it looks like that Linzee Ryder is performing at Vegas Strip in Battle Creek this Saturday, May 13.

Don't expect extras at Vegas Strip. Fun place to hang out and drink, but the main stage is behind the bar, so not a great view of the girls. You may get a lap dance, but it is pretty tame. However Happy Spa is about a mile north.

[Member #7069]

In case anyone is interested, it looks like that Linzee Ryder is performing at Vegas Strip in Battle Creek this Saturday, May 13.

[Chimil Detin]

Sometimes, you just have to say no and be firm. I've gotten better at that in time.

Her amygdala may take over: She might get upset, call you names, get bitchy, whatever. But it's your money. You don't have to spend it if you don't want to.

This is part of the reason I'm glad I'm a somewhat known commodity at the various clubs I frequent most often. It's good to have a bartender, a manager, a floor host, a front door bouncer, a girl who takes the cover charge, a few dancers, whoever, who know you and know you come back often enough that you aren't a troublemaker. Not only are the plusses little things like often not having to pay cover or getting a drink comped now and then, they also know, if a newer or problem dancer complains about you, they're going to be pretty certain you were within your rights and she's the one who's got a problem.

[Pussylicker2]

And if tattoo face pierce girl is there next time I go in, I just won't let her sit with me in the first place.

Just how will you not let her sit with you? Will you say "don't sit here"? Then she sits down anyway and asks "why not"? What do you do then? Move to a new table? Go outside to make a phone call? Do what you want, it's no sweat off my balls.

[Wleakr]

I could have made a big stink about it, but that's not how I roll. First of all, $24 for her double is nothing, not even couch change. When the waitress said I ordered her a drink, she had sat down and was literally chugging it. I thought about what to do for a moment and decided that silently reminding them that I'm the customer and it's my money was the best way to handle this.

It was funny. Both the waitress & the dancer were shocked. I literally stood up, took out my full wallet with a lot of money visible in it, then counted out exactly $32 & put it on the table. Didn't say a word to either and did not touch my beer. I made my point.

Can't fault you if you feel that was the best way to handle it.

I would think for most, not paying would be considered the best way. It's not even about the amount being "nothing", it's the general principal of letting someone get way with something you didn't agree to.

Showing you have plenty more funds where that came from really doesn't shock anyone. Plenty of folks come in with a wad of cash and don't spent much from it, especially if they don't see what they like.

[SamPerkins420]

I'll just say that like with most of your advice, I'll ignore it. Not going to sexually assault a dancer (which is what you described) to make her so uncomfortable that she would leave. I can get up, I can ask her to leave, or tell her not to sit with me in the first place.

With this particular one, I let her sit with me at first bc she looked good, but I got bad vibes when speaking with her. I tried being nice and dropping hints - "I'm waiting on friends and not doing anything until they're here," "I need a couple drinks in me to get warmed up," "I may have to step outside and do a work call. " She was either too dumb to pick up on them, or smart enough to realize that if she gets up, there were other girls hovering around that would try to sit with me.

I could have made a big stink about it, but that's not how I roll. First of all, $24 for her double is nothing, not even couch change. I was already annoyed that I couldn't get the one hottie there to leave her regular, and was annoyed by tattoo face pierce girl that she was hounding me. When the waitress said I ordered her a drink, she had sat down and was literally chugging it. I thought about what to do for a moment and decided that silently reminding them that I'm the customer and it's my money was the best way to handle this.

It was funny. Both the waitress & the dancer were shocked. I literally stood up, took out my full wallet with a lot of money visible in it, then counted out exactly $32 & put it on the table. Didn't say a word to either and did not touch my beer. I made my point. And if tattoo face pierce girl is there next time I go in, I just won't let her sit with me in the first place.

Absolutely you should not have paid for her double drink. Just refusing to pay for her drink could cause her to avoid you. If she sees you again she'll likely do it again because it worked. A trick I've used when a dancer refuses to leave my table is I start feeling them up, playing with her tits, then move my hand toward the puss. They hate the idea of you getting free feels. They'll avoid you the next time they see you. If you pay her to leave she'll try to collect it every time she sees you in a club.

[SamPerkins420]

The simple solution is for the OP to just say who the dancer is & where from. He literally lists out several dancers and their club in the posts. No idea why he chooses to play this weird game with labelling pics. I'd rather not have to download them to my phone just to read the person's name.

There are reasons to not want those pics on our phones. Among other things, any image I save is automatically added to my cloud account. Would rather not have those uploaded into there.

Save the photo & read the file name. It's what works for me on Android.

[Time Twist]

In this case SC was generic for strip club. Yes the name of the club and dancer are embedded in the photo label.

Unless the dancer name is Daytime Dancer, in this case the dancer name wasn't embedded in the label.

[HugeDk]

Two observations:

The photo references Landing Strip (LS).

SC could stand for strip club or for Silver Criket.

Only speculation, but the photo has a resemblance to Violet, a day time dancer at LS who is slender but very sexy.

In this case SC was generic for strip club. Yes the name of the club and dancer are embedded in the photo label.

[NapataJohn]

SC=Silver Cricket.

Strip Club.

[AgedAngus]

Before she got the bolton's and was at Players she quoted $1 K for a VIP treatment. I did have the funds however I still refused to let go with that amount of cash for her when I could have fun with 8-10 other cute girls for $$.

Kelsey ended up at Penthouse with her GF Anna after her bolton's and never seen her since. Even to this day I do not regret!

Kinda-sorta true, but I also am one to not get on too many other guys for choosing to pay more or less. If she's worth $900 to you, or $1,500, or $15,000, and you have that kind of cash available, I can't fault you for spending it. I do think it's kind of silly to spend that if you know you could spend $300 instead, but I think some rich guys get off on the thought they have the power to put the girl in a new tax bracket if they want to. Their money, their choice.

If enough guys think she's worth that much, then so be it, and so be it for her to set her price consistently at that point. At that point, I'd have to think she's probably not working clubs, though, or looking for a lot of new customers.

Thing is, not all of us have that kind of money in the bank. Some of us have to seek value. The pursuit of cash is not the be-all and end-all for some of us. So yes, we have to turn ladies down or make choices.

It should be respectful in all directions. She should be respectful of her co-workers, as well as her customers, even the ones that can't reach that level. "You can't afford my price? I appreciate your interest, but I have to move on. " "You can get more from someone else elsewhere? Then feel free to do so and good for you & her. " Certainly not to that level of formality, but something with that kind of vibe.

It is what it is.