Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[DonnnyBravo]

A fellow monger fell into a situation that could have lost him some money in an alleged scam. It wasn't me but I saw the full text conversation.

Tldr don't ever advance a girl money. Kristina D aka CheerfulQueen has scammed.

The two worked out an arrangement. Kristina suggested that she get the room with a hookup she has but she has no money, with not meeting previously, the monger advanced her money. Going to the meet, he gets ghosted by the girl. The girl then makes up a story of allegedly being arrested on the way to the hotel for an unrelated traffic violation. CT judicial website has no record of pending or convictions related to this instance, not even a sealed case. The monger then asks for his money back or meet. The girl claims she spent all the ppm including on the room. Monger them disputed the charge and luckily got his money back.

In this whole process, this new "sugar baby" tried to explain her "expertise" on being a sugar baby and what a real sugar daddy is. Basically she's broke and is looking for a rich guy to magically pay all her bills just because. Explained that the website is not supposed to be a place for guys looking for single girls to date even though she reduced her ppm and discussed a more intimate fun time.

When contacting, she inadvertently gives out some personally identifiable info that makes it easier to research her and see her not so innocent or clean background.

So, if you're looking for an old "honda civic" that thinks she's a "Ferrari" and wants only your money, she might be the one for you. A bonus is she'll talk like a seasoned sailor about life's challenges. If not, feel free to contact her and mark her payment apps and seeking acct as scams.

I won't post the texts that I was shown, but she is either a scam or a complete waste of time.

[TopGun9]

If anyone have her digits, PM me please. Thanks.

[TopGun9]

....Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. .....

Block them and move on. Easy!

[DaReal86]

That is unfortunate. I recommend doing as much research on these girls as possible. Good note for iphone users if the girl is using her real number that is also an iphone. Unfortunately, that doesn't help non iphone users, but a search of their number can help identify the person through google, social media, and payment apps to gain additional info to use to gain more background. It is interesting that many girls that don't readily give out their real name fail to use an alias in their cashapp profile.

I will usually put the number into cashapp first to verify. If join date is recent or they don't pop up at all, its a red flag most of the time for me.

[DonnnyBravo]

This is the worst shape I have seen SA in. Bot profiles are getting scary because they are plentiful on the site and they will give you a number to text (iphone users be wary of green text bubbles). Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. The gems are there no doubt, just got to be patient and fast enough to scoop them when they are online.

That is unfortunate. I recommend doing as much research on these girls as possible. Good note for iphone users if the girl is using her real number that is also an iphone. Unfortunately, that doesn't help non iphone users, but a search of their number can help identify the person through google, social media, and payment apps to gain additional info to use to gain more background. It is interesting that many girls that don't readily give out their real name fail to use an alias in their cashapp profile.

[DaReal86]

This is the worst shape I have seen SA in. Bot profiles are getting scary because they are plentiful on the site and they will give you a number to text (iphone users be wary of green text bubbles). Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. The gems are there no doubt, just got to be patient and fast enough to scoop them when they are online.

[EasyGoingJ]

I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.

Happened to me a few years ago, I hit refresh and the profiles opened, not sure if that will help.

[DonnnyBravo]

I can't open the link either. She either disabled her profile or deleted her account. Unlikely she blocked both of us.

Gents, I am a Premium member of Seeking, but whenever I attempt to open a link to a girl, I get 'no profile'. Even links provided (here) on the same day as a post. What am I doing wrong, sirs?

I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.

[Jarred]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

Check DM please and thanks.

[DonnnyBravo]

Is her place safe? Thinking of signing up to message her. She seems like a bit of fun.

She's on the Stratford / Bridgeport line. Could be community housing, but I used to go during the day and didn't see anyone around while there. Her apt is really clean. Another monger tried to set up a meet but apparently she raised her rates quite a bit. I haven't seen her in awhile.

[RallyTime94]

She is good to go and quite attractive. European girl. 40's on Bport / Stratford line. She will record you with her phone on a tripod and aim it as not to get your fac.during the bbbj positioned right on her taking it all in and then from side or behind while doing the deed. No limit on time just an end time depending on when she has to pick up her kids. Used to see her between 3-5p during the week. CFS at start but BBFS can be negotiated. Took a couple meets and extra. She started as a flat out no. She doesnt talk much and its pretty quiet there. She isnt the most engaging TBH. If you like to be in full control then that shouldnt be an issue. She does have a man who likes to watch the vids and is not around when she is avail. If you are into cuckold, she's avail evenings and weekends sometimes when he's home. Never engaged in that. I havent seen her since last year.

Word to the wise. Don't ever mention reviews or where you heard about them.

Is her place safe? Thinking of signing up to message her. She seems like a bit of fun.

[DonnnyBravo]

I am sure she must be texting you every day with every single reason possible asking for money LOL.

She'll go to lengths to get those extra bucks from you every day making reasons like. She has no food. She don't have money to go to work, she's being beaten by her mom blah blah.

To get those extra bucks she might text you for hours.

tldr - only give money during meets. Talk these girls down to 150-200.


I've had the text but she's not the only one. These girls just see $$ Stay in control of your own. Let these girls know that you can only give allowance at the end of meets. I don't care if their story is true or not, youbonly propagate the issue if you send them money. I have in fact given in to girls in the past as an advance for credit later. In my experience, that credit is forgotten about by the girl or they simply delay seeing you bc they only see what their getting the day if the meet. Keep the money for the meet.

And for gods sake talk these girls down from their ask. I've talked girls down from 500 to 200. Some money is better than no money. The market sets the price, don't raise the prices by agreeing to pay obnoxious prices just bc they say that's their value. If they fish for money, then you know they don't have any or much and will take the lower rate. Even if you have to ghost them for a week or so, they'll take it more often than not.

[FireBalls420]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

I am sure she must be texting you every day with every single reason possible asking for money LOL.

She'll go to lengths to get those extra bucks from you every day making reasons like. She has no food. She don't have money to go to work, she's being beaten by her mom blah blah.

To get those extra bucks she might text you for hours.

[MyHobby]

She's back under a new profile name.

Always been a bit too ghetto / hoodrat for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-a46ae4206028

Bareback Becca returns. She was a sassy little spinner when she was 18-19. She's a paunchy hood rat now.

[TopGun9]

She's back under a new profile name.

Always been a bit too ghetto / hoodrat for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-a46ae4206028