Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**Masiha1980** · 05-02-23 23:20

Originally Posted by Dollersine [View Original Post]

That is the one I reported on back last summer. Don't feel bad she did it to me and when I reported her on WYP she got pissed. I did a reverse search on her after the fact and knew her address, family so I freaked he out- that was fun to put a fear in her, but I keep seeing her adds with different names. ALL beware of this person. Be safe out there.

She tried to scam me too. Asking for money upfront. After back and forth. I had to block her.

**Dollersine** · 05-02-23 22:28

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

That'd be her!

That is the one I reported on back last summer. Don't feel bad she did it to me and when I reported her on WYP she got pissed. I did a reverse search on her after the fact and knew her address, family so I freaked he out- that was fun to put a fear in her, but I keep seeing her adds with different names. ALL beware of this person. Be safe out there.

**TylerDurden07** · 05-02-23 16:31

Originally Posted by South215 [View Original Post]

Could it be this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a89c4f9bacec

That'd be her!

**Aafakljgadkg** · 05-02-23 11:28

Originally Posted by PSeries [View Original Post]

Sarah? She was a good fuck for sure. I wish I kept some of those girls on the hook a bit. Now that I have an SO. Hard to go through the meet and greet process with a SO at home.

I believe used to be close friends with this girl. Might try her and then mention if she has any friends: https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-a4cab72542e9.

She's an escort now, or had been for a while.

**South215** · 05-01-23 23:08

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

I usually post on the ATL board where I'm from, but I cast a wide net in my sugar search & play in the Carolinas too from time to time.

There is a girl operating out of Gastonia who's running a dine & dash scam that you need to know about. She blocked me before I could put a link to her profile, but she's 5'4" with long blonde hair & a great body too. Has about 10 pics of her in the bio & a couple in a bikini. Very nice.

We texted well for 2-3 weeks before I could get up to Gastonia & meet her, so she made efforts to establish trust & never asked for any advance money, which I wouldn't give anyway. She told me her deal is she wants to meet in a restaurant in Gastonia where I send 200 when I see her & then, once we get to know each other, she'll give me her home address & I send an additional 150 when I get to her place.

Yeah, I'm skeptical, but her pics are really hot. I make the 3 hr drive & see her at the restaurant. I send the 200 mid-lunch & then she excuses herself to the restroom. Yes, I'm highly suspicious at this point. Then she waltzes right out of the restroom & out into the parking lot & into a waiting car. Yep. So I quickly pay the restaurant bill & run out there, only to find a stupid note on my car windshield. I then call her & hear a dude's voice on the line while I'm talking to her, so she's got a POS bf in on this. Cash & dash.

I'm an experienced monger & fell for this, so please spare me the "you're a dumbass" comments. I know I fell for this hook, line & sinker. But I'm trying to do why'all a solid by warning you about her. I'm pissed as hell about it.

Could it be this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a89c4f9bacec

**PokerJack1** · 05-01-23 18:26

Originally Posted by Cracker151 [View Original Post]

So I just recently discovered that secret benefits and seeking arraignment are in cohorts. Let me explain.

Last week I met this girl on Seeking Benefits. We were chatting it up and I asked her if she ever picked up a stalker on secret benefits. She proceed to be confused, and stated she isn't on Secret Benefits, but was talking to me through seeking arraignment (which I don't have). We even looked at each other chat logs and sure enough nothing matched up. So there is something odd going on between the two.

I also met up with someone I know from the local strip club who I mentioned the site to her. She mentioned she had deactivated her account last year due to stalkers, but somehow I got notification two days ago she admired my profile and visited. Go figure.

Also have you ever got a message from someone and it sounds like it's more of an answer versus an introduction? That's also due to the site sending ghost messages. Same also when your on the site, and you get these notifications all the same time: visitor, admirer, unlocked photos, unlocked photos request, and message. This is a Bot and you should just ignore it.

Your best bet to have the most luck is stick to verified accounts. But even those are compromised when they are duplicating and spring deactivated accounts. There are a handful of real girls, but majority of the profiles are fake or inactive and Also cross promoted.

Just going to the homepage shows one is like a lead site, secret benefits the actual site.

Click around a bit and you find out.

**TylerDurden07** · 05-01-23 17:17

I usually post on the ATL board where I'm from, but I cast a wide net in my sugar search & play in the Carolinas too from time to time.

There is a girl operating out of Gastonia who's running a dine & dash scam that you need to know about. She blocked me before I could put a link to her profile, but she's 5'4" with long blonde hair & a great body too. Has about 10 pics of her in the bio & a couple in a bikini. Very nice.

We texted well for 2-3 weeks before I could get up to Gastonia & meet her, so she made efforts to establish trust & never asked for any advance money, which I wouldn't give anyway. She told me her deal is she wants to meet in a restaurant in Gastonia where I send 200 when I see her & then, once we get to know each other, she'll give me her home address & I send an additional 150 when I get to her place.

Yeah, I'm skeptical, but her pics are really hot. I make the 3 hr drive & see her at the restaurant. I send the 200 mid-lunch & then she excuses herself to the restroom. Yes, I'm highly suspicious at this point. Then she waltzes right out of the restroom & out into the parking lot & into a waiting car. Yep. So I quickly pay the restaurant bill & run out there, only to find a stupid note on my car windshield. I then call her & hear a dude's voice on the line while I'm talking to her, so she's got a POS bf in on this. Cash & dash.

I'm an experienced monger & fell for this, so please spare me the "you're a dumbass" comments. I know I fell for this hook, line & sinker. But I'm trying to do why'all a solid by warning you about her. I'm pissed as hell about it.

**South215** · 05-01-23 14:05

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

Any info on her? Chatting now. Seems to be a dinner date only kind of arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-9d5b3fd54527

She is a real person. In the CLT area. LMK if you end up meeting!!

**MtnPanda** · 05-01-23 13:00

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

I got laid off and have too much time, thinking about having some fun. How's the situation lately? More / less scammer, gps, platonic begger?
I see quite a few girls with profile SA and Whatsyourprice.
There seem to be less dime profiles now. Not sure if thats good or bad, since most of those turns out to be fake.

Im not really looking for a lot. Just some good heads once in a while, and they dont talk.

Side note. Anyone remember that chick in plaza or noda with the blinds dog? Anyone still seeing her?

Whats the deal with this one? https://members.seeking.com/member/614ff47b-a94d-4777-967b-f4b5ff87e7a5
Shes been around for a long time with a bunch of profiles. Any member can share? Maybe in dm if not in public.

I know I dont share much or at all. My experiences were off SA and under the radar. Cant share. Shes out. Sorry

Her apartment was always trashed but man that girl loved getting filled up.

**Member #6771** · 05-01-23 10:26

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

Any info on her? Chatting now. Seems to be a dinner date only kind of arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-9d5b3fd54527

Wouldn't trust it. The adjective name and fairly new account.

**DriveHard** · 04-30-23 09:43

Any info on her? Chatting now. Seems to be a dinner date only kind of arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-9d5b3fd54527

**PSeries** · 04-27-23 18:08

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

Side note. Anyone remember that chick in plaza or noda with the blinds dog? Anyone still seeing her?

Sarah? She was a good fuck for sure. I wish I kept some of those girls on the hook a bit. Now that I have an SO. Hard to go through the meet and greet process with a SO at home.

I believe used to be close friends with this girl. Might try her and then mention if she has any friends: https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-a4cab72542e9.

**Aafakljgadkg** · 04-27-23 00:12

Originally Posted by GutterMind4 [View Original Post]

I think if that's all you're looking for, go get a SW or Asian message. This game is too expensive and time consuming for just some occasional head. Now if you like the chase and don't care about the time it takes, this is your arena. Just know that a lot of thes girls can make a lot from nothing on OF now, so you have to compete with local mongers AND national basement dwellers with no game. Good luck.

Pro quality around here are ghastly.

**GutterMind4** · 04-24-23 10:43

I too don't like using my pics. I have some that have the same general build as me. I will send pic face pic when I have to but, although not fool proof, it's not until I trust the other person is real and have verified herself. Still could be a scam but less likely by the time they jump through my hoops. When I do send face pics, send one for your social media. Sounds crazy but it just means the "scammer" went on and got photos that anyone has access to. If you send pics nobody else has seen or can get, it means you took them just for the "scammer". The problem is, it makes it easier to find out your real I'd, So there are risks with both but that way is this easier to explain away than things than could have ONLY come from you.

Originally Posted by Anghar [View Original Post]

I would definetly never send pictures or use my main number, always use a burner phone and find pictures of a guy that looks similar to you, that's what these girls do anyways. I had an issue back in the day with Asian Hotel, they would send me texts everytime they restocked the shelves. Its very annoying!

**GutterMind4** · 04-24-23 10:29

I think if that's all you're looking for, go get a SW or Asian message. This game is too expensive and time consuming for just some occasional head. Now if you like the chase and don't care about the time it takes, this is your arena. Just know that a lot of thes girls can make a lot from nothing on OF now, so you have to compete with local mongers AND national basement dwellers with no game. Good luck.

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

I got laid off and have too much time, thinking about having some fun. How's the situation lately? More / less scammer, gps, platonic begger?
I see quite a few girls with profile SA and Whatsyourprice.
There seem to be less dime profiles now. Not sure if thats good or bad, since most of those turns out to be fake.

Im not really looking for a lot. Just some good heads once in a while, and they dont talk.

Side note. Anyone remember that chick in plaza or noda with the blinds dog? Anyone still seeing her?

Whats the deal with this one? https://members.seeking.com/member/614ff47b-a94d-4777-967b-f4b5ff87e7a5
Shes been around for a long time with a bunch of profiles. Any member can share? Maybe in dm if not in public.

I know I dont share much or at all. My experiences were off SA and under the radar. Cant share. Shes out. Sorry