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[TrollMahn]

And too many Chevys thinking they're Ferraris.

Hey, there are nice Chevys out there, LOL.

[Marelobo Mex]

She gave him a price for extras. She's a prostitute. She's trying to separate herself as a dancer from prostitutes, but there's no separation, particularly with her setting a price and so many of her fellow dancers setting prices in Detroit. What the price is, how high or low, one dollar or $1 million -- doesn't matter. How long or short she knew the guy, two minutes or 20 years -- doesn't matter. If a customer takes you up, you are as much the p-word as that lady in the hotel on the king-sized bed the original poster talked about. She's flat-out wrong in trying to separate what she does from that lady in the hotel. The only difference is the location. The law would treat them the same way, and in the open market, us mongers should, and do, treat them the same way, too.

It's the "I'm not that kind of girl" BS some girls tell themselves so they can lie to themselves and tell themselves they're not that kind of girl when, in reality, they are that kind of girl. In talking about themselves that way, they're putting down a lot of their co-workers and a lot of other people in the sex work industry. That's a sucky way to talk about the industry she herself is in, along with all the other dancers & providers we all frequent who all do the same stuff she is willing to do for whatever price. She's trying to feel better about herself by putting down other people who are basically doing the exact same thing she's doing, just in a slightly, almost insignificantly, different way. She thinks she's separating herself from the others when she's nowhere near as separate as she wants to think she is.

"I'm not that kind of girl; those girls are prostitutes and I am not. " Yes you are. You're offering a price for the same services. Maybe you don't want to think you are, but the moment you offer a realistic price a customer may accept, you are. Get over yourself.

CD,

Peace, I understand everything you wrote and it makes perfect sense from a logical stand point, and if you force a girl to admit she is something she doesn't want to be that is possible.

What I am trying to say is don't look at it from the monger perspective. Look at it from the girl's perspective. If she thinks there is a difference between dancer and prostitute. Our culture tells us one is better than the other, and she wants to be the better one. There is no harm in indulging her thinking. We are not talking about what makes sense, we are talking about her perceptions of herself.

And if she wants to think of herself differently I am all for that especially, if that means I get her before other guys or a get her at a lower price point. I simply mean I am willing to think like her for our mutual benefit.

I get your point that one guys pays you or one thousand guys pay you it is the same. I don't see life that black and white. I think there is nuance and gray area. I would rather be guy number 2 to pay her than guy number 999. I think there will be a difference and quality and enjoyment for me.

I fully respect others thinking differently, and I appreciate you commenting.

MM.

[HarryDude]

Too many women putting bumper stickers on Ferraris.

And too many Chevys thinking they're Ferraris.

[SomeDetroitGuy]

So I went to grab a couple drinks and do some scouting at Coliseum last night and checked the line up. There were a few very decent dancers plus a bunch of Kardashians LOL.

Lexi, a tall spinner with exotic looks caught my eye, as well as Maya & her friend that are working as a duo on stage.

Winter looked skinnier and hotter than I remember from my last time there.

There was another girl whose name I didn't catch that has a naughty teacher / secretary look with glasses and red lipstick. She has a Michigan map tattooed to her inner left forearm in case anyone knows her name.

Does anyone here know if it's possible to negotiate any extras in this place?

If you want extras, go to Inkster or Dearborn.

[Kliffslp]

Did you talk to any of these dancers or just get their name from when they where called on stage?

Just a brief chit chat when tipping them on stage.

[TrollMahn]

I can't say I'm a fan of tattoos either. I'd like to ask some of these girls what the fuck you were thinking when you got that big ass dumb looking tattoo.

Too many women putting bumper stickers on Ferraris.

[Checkers123]

I favor slender girls, and most of the dancers there both days were a bit on the large side for me. Not fat, but more toward "curvy" with a lot of plastic enhancement.

Years ago the girls would come over to your table and ask you to buy them a drink, now they ask you to buy them something to eat.

[Checkers123]

BC,

I totally agree the Devil is winning with girls thinking a fat ass is beautiful. The possible sliver lining is that girls with smaller asses who I prefer sometimes think they are less attractive and offer discounts because of that.

As for the greatest trick I am not so sure. Some of the Devils other trick are just as devious.

- Girls covering themselves with tattoos look good.

- Girls having so many piercings in their body it looks like they walked away from a car wreck.

- Girls injecting silicone into their breasts, butt, lips looks beautiful.

- Girls having so much make up caked on their faces.

- Girls having really ugly wigs or neon green, pink, blue hair.

Try to find a hot skinny girl with no tattoos, no piercings, no silicone, no body modifications, with limited make up, with her real natural hair. It is like finding a unicorn, yet that used to be normal for young girls in their 20's.

MM.

I can't say I'm a fan of tattoos either. I'd like to ask some of these girls what the fuck you were thinking when you got that big ass dumb looking tattoo.

[Checkers123]

She gave him a price for extras. She's a prostitute. She's trying to separate herself as a dancer from prostitutes, but there's no separation, particularly with her setting a price and so many of her fellow dancers setting prices in Detroit. What the price is, how high or low, one dollar or $1 million -- doesn't matter. How long or short she knew the guy, two minutes or 20 years -- doesn't matter. If a customer takes you up, you are as much the p-word as that lady in the hotel on the king-sized bed the original poster talked about. She's flat-out wrong in trying to separate what she does from that lady in the hotel. The only difference is the location. The law would treat them the same way, and in the open market, us mongers should, and do, treat them the same way, too.

It's the "I'm not that kind of girl" BS some girls tell themselves so they can lie to themselves and tell themselves they're not that kind of girl when, in reality, they are that kind of girl. In talking about themselves that way, they're putting down a lot of their co-workers and a lot of other people in the sex work industry. That's a sucky way to talk about the industry she herself is in, along with all the other dancers & providers we all frequent who all do the same stuff she is willing to do for whatever price. She's trying to feel better about herself by putting down other people who are basically doing the exact same thing she's doing, just in a slightly, almost insignificantly, different way. She thinks she's separating herself from the others when she's nowhere near as separate as she wants to think she is.

"I'm not that kind of girl; those girls are prostitutes and I am not. " Yes you are. You're offering a price for the same services. Maybe you don't want to think you are, but the moment you offer a realistic price a customer may accept, you are. Get over yourself.

Well said.

[Checkers123]

So I went to grab a couple drinks and do some scouting at Coliseum last night and checked the line up. There were a few very decent dancers plus a bunch of Kardashians LOL.

Lexi, a tall spinner with exotic looks caught my eye, as well as Maya & her friend that are working as a duo on stage.

Winter looked skinnier and hotter than I remember from my last time there.

There was another girl whose name I didn't catch that has a naughty teacher / secretary look with glasses and red lipstick. She has a Michigan map tattooed to her inner left forearm in case anyone knows her name.

Does anyone here know if it's possible to negotiate any extras in this place?

Did you talk to any of these dancers or just get their name from when they where called on stage?

[Checkers123]

You can thank Kim Kardashian for this. SMH.

It happened way before her. Sir Mix-a-Lot was one of the first ones to make fat girls think they looked good.

[Dbiz01]

Stripper logic. LOL.

Nope. It's golden pxssy syndrome.

[JackOfClubs]

I have found PL2 information valuable over the years.

While I disagree with his opinion on valet, I do agree with him on IDs. And I am willing to give the benefit of the doubt on valet that he has an experience that makes him wary.

Regardless I think all comments are valuable and better to have the conversation and information.

I appreciate all posts.

MM.

I also appreciate all posts here in the strip club thread whether it be about the valet, the bathroom trolls or the bouncers, the dancers are everything but it is better to be reading even boring posts here rather than nothing at all.

[Chimil Detin]

The difference especially with new girls just starting out is not what they actually do with their bodies but how they seem themselves. They don't see themselves as having experiences with random guys, they convince themselves this is an interesting person they would be with outside of the club. If you can get a girl before she is in the stage where she will go with anyone, those have been some of my best experiences.

She gave him a price for extras. She's a prostitute. She's trying to separate herself as a dancer from prostitutes, but there's no separation, particularly with her setting a price and so many of her fellow dancers setting prices in Detroit. What the price is, how high or low, one dollar or $1 million -- doesn't matter. How long or short she knew the guy, two minutes or 20 years -- doesn't matter. If a customer takes you up, you are as much the p-word as that lady in the hotel on the king-sized bed the original poster talked about. She's flat-out wrong in trying to separate what she does from that lady in the hotel. The only difference is the location. The law would treat them the same way, and in the open market, us mongers should, and do, treat them the same way, too.

It's the "I'm not that kind of girl" BS some girls tell themselves so they can lie to themselves and tell themselves they're not that kind of girl when, in reality, they are that kind of girl. In talking about themselves that way, they're putting down a lot of their co-workers and a lot of other people in the sex work industry. That's a sucky way to talk about the industry she herself is in, along with all the other dancers & providers we all frequent who all do the same stuff she is willing to do for whatever price. She's trying to feel better about herself by putting down other people who are basically doing the exact same thing she's doing, just in a slightly, almost insignificantly, different way. She thinks she's separating herself from the others when she's nowhere near as separate as she wants to think she is.

"I'm not that kind of girl; those girls are prostitutes and I am not. " Yes you are. You're offering a price for the same services. Maybe you don't want to think you are, but the moment you offer a realistic price a customer may accept, you are. Get over yourself.