Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**DaReal86** · 05-08-23 18:35

This is the worst shape I have seen SA in. Bot profiles are getting scary because they are plentiful on the site and they will give you a number to text (iphone users be wary of green text bubbles). Almost every girl I've talked to has asked for money upfront even before our first meet. I don't know who is giving them this idea but I don't support it. The gems are there no doubt, just got to be patient and fast enough to scoop them when they are online.

**EasyGoingJ** · 05-08-23 12:59

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.

Happened to me a few years ago, I hit refresh and the profiles opened, not sure if that will help.

**DonnnyBravo** · 05-08-23 11:22

Originally Posted by BBFreak [View Original Post]

I can't open the link either. She either disabled her profile or deleted her account. Unlikely she blocked both of us.

Originally Posted by Jarred [View Original Post]

Gents, I am a Premium member of Seeking, but whenever I attempt to open a link to a girl, I get 'no profile'. Even links provided (here) on the same day as a post. What am I doing wrong, sirs?

I see this happen when I'm not logged into seeking and it doesn't redirect me to the login page. Try logging in and then using the link. If it still doesn't work, try clearing out your internet cache (temporarily stored internet pages) then logging in and click the link.

**Jarred** · 05-07-23 16:51

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

Check DM please and thanks.

**DonnnyBravo** · 05-06-23 15:49

Originally Posted by RallyTime94 [View Original Post]

Is her place safe? Thinking of signing up to message her. She seems like a bit of fun.

She's on the Stratford / Bridgeport line. Could be community housing, but I used to go during the day and didn't see anyone around while there. Her apt is really clean. Another monger tried to set up a meet but apparently she raised her rates quite a bit. I haven't seen her in awhile.

**RallyTime94** · 05-06-23 12:18

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

She is good to go and quite attractive. European girl. 40's on Bport / Stratford line. She will record you with her phone on a tripod and aim it as not to get your fac.during the bbbj positioned right on her taking it all in and then from side or behind while doing the deed. No limit on time just an end time depending on when she has to pick up her kids. Used to see her between 3-5p during the week. CFS at start but BBFS can be negotiated. Took a couple meets and extra. She started as a flat out no. She doesnt talk much and its pretty quiet there. She isnt the most engaging TBH. If you like to be in full control then that shouldnt be an issue. She does have a man who likes to watch the vids and is not around when she is avail. If you are into cuckold, she's avail evenings and weekends sometimes when he's home. Never engaged in that. I havent seen her since last year.

Word to the wise. Don't ever mention reviews or where you heard about them.

Is her place safe? Thinking of signing up to message her. She seems like a bit of fun.

**DonnnyBravo** · 05-06-23 09:33

Originally Posted by FireBalls420 [View Original Post]

I am sure she must be texting you every day with every single reason possible asking for money LOL.

She'll go to lengths to get those extra bucks from you every day making reasons like. She has no food. She don't have money to go to work, she's being beaten by her mom blah blah.

To get those extra bucks she might text you for hours.

tldr - only give money during meets. Talk these girls down to 150-200.

I've had the text but she's not the only one. These girls just see $$ Stay in control of your own. Let these girls know that you can only give allowance at the end of meets. I don't care if their story is true or not, youbonly propagate the issue if you send them money. I have in fact given in to girls in the past as an advance for credit later. In my experience, that credit is forgotten about by the girl or they simply delay seeing you bc they only see what their getting the day if the meet. Keep the money for the meet.

And for gods sake talk these girls down from their ask. I've talked girls down from 500 to 200. Some money is better than no money. The market sets the price, don't raise the prices by agreeing to pay obnoxious prices just bc they say that's their value. If they fish for money, then you know they don't have any or much and will take the lower rate. Even if you have to ghost them for a week or so, they'll take it more often than not.

**FireBalls420** · 05-06-23 09:15

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

I am sure she must be texting you every day with every single reason possible asking for money LOL.

She'll go to lengths to get those extra bucks from you every day making reasons like. She has no food. She don't have money to go to work, she's being beaten by her mom blah blah.

To get those extra bucks she might text you for hours.

**MyHobby** · 05-05-23 12:37

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

She's back under a new profile name.

Always been a bit too ghetto / hoodrat for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-a46ae4206028

Bareback Becca returns. She was a sassy little spinner when she was 18-19. She's a paunchy hood rat now.

**TopGun9** · 05-05-23 08:29

She's back under a new profile name.

Always been a bit too ghetto / hoodrat for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-a46ae4206028

**DonnnyBravo** · 05-02-23 23:57

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

So I met this girl but I never banged out with her. She's genuinely a good kid and totally above board but I found her to be too needy and she came across to me as being not just slow but perhaps even developmentally delayed. We hung out like twice and I just could not summon the inner degenerate in me to take her down and I'm pretty fucking degenerate. I hope whoever hangs out with her is nice, to take advantage of her would be akin to kicking a puppy. She kept hitting me up out of the blue and I finally just had to say to her I was not sexually attracted to her and while I felt bad, like I may have hurt her feelings, she finally left me alone after that.

Mind you this was after I had connected with her on the app previously and had to block her because she kept sending me "hey pick me up" or "I'm so hungry but I have no money for food."

If she has demons then that is truly heartbreaking. But it reminds me of something that came up randomly when we were talking and that is she keeps a narcan kit in her backpack and I was like "huh, why do you have that?" and she was like "duh, like you don't? Everyone does." Kinda makes more sense to me now.

Tldr she's sweet and I just couldn't.

I too hit her up. Based or the recommend I got, I sent her money so that she could settle the room before arriving. It wasn't much, so I took the risk before meet. Place that was selected only took cash and apparently no atm. When I got there and looked around, there were a bunch of people roaming around that sketched me out. She walked out of the office so I waves her over and decided this won't be the place today.

We ended up driving around and talking. Just as another said, she speaks in a certain way that seemed a bit awkward. As time went on, we talked about a lot of stuff mostly about her and her experiences on seeking. It truly made me sad to hear the things that others had wanted her to do on potential meets. When you said kick the puppy it seemed way worse. Beyond that and hearing about her life, it seemed tragic some of which could actually be verified. She also talked a lot about the good things and real interests. Once comfortable, she really opened up and had a lot of interesting things to talk about and even shared similar interests.

So 2 hrs later after, a shake later, and a trip to the store, all we did was talk. Yes, everything under the sun was available and as much as she let me know over text beforehand and with out me inquiring. Yes, she is needy and is struggling. Yes she's already hit me up. I just don't think I can with this one.

As far as the narcan, we didn't specifically talk of that, but is likely for those she is unfortunately around and cannot yet move away from.

**Tommy13** · 04-30-23 17:03

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

So I met this girl but I never banged out with her. She's genuinely a good kid and totally above board but I found her to be too needy and she came across to me as being not just slow but perhaps even developmentally delayed. We hung out like twice and I just could not summon the inner degenerate in me to take her down and I'm pretty fucking degenerate. I hope whoever hangs out with her is nice, to take advantage of her would be akin to kicking a puppy. She kept hitting me up out of the blue and I finally just had to say to her I was not sexually attracted to her and while I felt bad, like I may have hurt her feelings, she finally left me alone after that.

Mind you this was after I had connected with her on the app previously and had to block her because she kept sending me "hey pick me up" or "I'm so hungry but I have no money for food."

If she has demons then that is truly heartbreaking. But it reminds me of something that came up randomly when we were talking and that is she keeps a narcan kit in her backpack and I was like "huh, why do you have that?" and she was like "duh, like you don't? Everyone does." Kinda makes more sense to me now.

**Hawg219** · 04-30-23 10:31

Overall I enjoyed this one, but YMMV. I recommended her to a few and they had varying experiences.

My ppm ended up being 200 and I spent about 3 hours with her at a legit hotel room I got. Wide open menu, bbfscip, cim swallow, dfk, daty. She aims to please. Despite her weight, I did appreciate how attentive she was during rounds and took very good direction with adjustments. Her bbj is a lot of tongue and deep throating. She took all of my cim and looked liked she enjoyed it even though I know how bad it taste. She aims to be a people pleaser. Her daty wasn't the best, but I most certainly had worse; it's just the fat smothering it.

She's 40 lbs heavier now than the picture below, but she's a gentle blue-eye ginger who has a very troubled past. Demon usage is evident by covered up track marks on her arms, but she was alert and attentive the entire date. Completely open menu to include BBFS. Her ppm is negotiable, but you have to get a room or help her get one. There are some very shady motels in the area she recommends that are like $30 for 3 hours.

Just be mindful she's a little awkward in how she talks, it's slow and simple. But I don't think she's stupid. It's a turn off for a lot of people including some I recommended to, just be mindful. I enjoyed my time overall and will most likely repeat. She's one of the kindest people I ever dated from this hobby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-db6a66a97eb7

**Roxy2020** · 04-30-23 00:21

Any info on legit profiles in Danbury / Northwest CT area.

**Roxy2020** · 04-29-23 22:31

Originally Posted by Tommy13 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-2e1eb98952fa

Anyone ever have any conversation with this one? She's my ideal type but she's been around since 2016 and definitely not 24 so I wonder if she's a GPS hustler.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-395557670ce8

This one is a married MILF looking for company. Not sure how about it about it she is but I am hopeful.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-7ee9ed691995

Had a date set up with Leah but she ghosted me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-0bc66b6549af

This one has potential but she feels really desperate for $ and kinda needy. Not a great combo.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-efc96ba97994

Agreed to 200, sent me some good pics and defnitely seems legit. Have a date set up with her since Leah turned out to be unreliable.

Fina seems interesting, good luck Tommy!