Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Dollersine]

That'd be her!

That is the one I reported on back last summer. Don't feel bad she did it to me and when I reported her on WYP she got pissed. I did a reverse search on her after the fact and knew her address, family so I freaked he out- that was fun to put a fear in her, but I keep seeing her adds with different names. ALL beware of this person. Be safe out there.

[TylerDurden07]

Could it be this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a89c4f9bacec

That'd be her!

[Aafakljgadkg]

Sarah? She was a good fuck for sure. I wish I kept some of those girls on the hook a bit. Now that I have an SO. Hard to go through the meet and greet process with a SO at home.

I believe used to be close friends with this girl. Might try her and then mention if she has any friends: https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-a4cab72542e9.

She's an escort now, or had been for a while.

[South215]

I usually post on the ATL board where I'm from, but I cast a wide net in my sugar search & play in the Carolinas too from time to time.

There is a girl operating out of Gastonia who's running a dine & dash scam that you need to know about. She blocked me before I could put a link to her profile, but she's 5'4" with long blonde hair & a great body too. Has about 10 pics of her in the bio & a couple in a bikini. Very nice.

We texted well for 2-3 weeks before I could get up to Gastonia & meet her, so she made efforts to establish trust & never asked for any advance money, which I wouldn't give anyway. She told me her deal is she wants to meet in a restaurant in Gastonia where I send 200 when I see her & then, once we get to know each other, she'll give me her home address & I send an additional 150 when I get to her place.

Yeah, I'm skeptical, but her pics are really hot. I make the 3 hr drive & see her at the restaurant. I send the 200 mid-lunch & then she excuses herself to the restroom. Yes, I'm highly suspicious at this point. Then she waltzes right out of the restroom & out into the parking lot & into a waiting car. Yep. So I quickly pay the restaurant bill & run out there, only to find a stupid note on my car windshield. I then call her & hear a dude's voice on the line while I'm talking to her, so she's got a POS bf in on this. Cash & dash.

I'm an experienced monger & fell for this, so please spare me the "you're a dumbass" comments. I know I fell for this hook, line & sinker. But I'm trying to do why'all a solid by warning you about her. I'm pissed as hell about it.

Could it be this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-a89c4f9bacec

[PokerJack1]

So I just recently discovered that secret benefits and seeking arraignment are in cohorts. Let me explain.

Last week I met this girl on Seeking Benefits. We were chatting it up and I asked her if she ever picked up a stalker on secret benefits. She proceed to be confused, and stated she isn't on Secret Benefits, but was talking to me through seeking arraignment (which I don't have). We even looked at each other chat logs and sure enough nothing matched up. So there is something odd going on between the two.

I also met up with someone I know from the local strip club who I mentioned the site to her. She mentioned she had deactivated her account last year due to stalkers, but somehow I got notification two days ago she admired my profile and visited. Go figure.

Also have you ever got a message from someone and it sounds like it's more of an answer versus an introduction? That's also due to the site sending ghost messages. Same also when your on the site, and you get these notifications all the same time: visitor, admirer, unlocked photos, unlocked photos request, and message. This is a Bot and you should just ignore it.

Your best bet to have the most luck is stick to verified accounts. But even those are compromised when they are duplicating and spring deactivated accounts. There are a handful of real girls, but majority of the profiles are fake or inactive and Also cross promoted.

Just going to the homepage shows one is like a lead site, secret benefits the actual site.

Click around a bit and you find out.

[TylerDurden07]

I usually post on the ATL board where I'm from, but I cast a wide net in my sugar search & play in the Carolinas too from time to time.

There is a girl operating out of Gastonia who's running a dine & dash scam that you need to know about. She blocked me before I could put a link to her profile, but she's 5'4" with long blonde hair & a great body too. Has about 10 pics of her in the bio & a couple in a bikini. Very nice.

We texted well for 2-3 weeks before I could get up to Gastonia & meet her, so she made efforts to establish trust & never asked for any advance money, which I wouldn't give anyway. She told me her deal is she wants to meet in a restaurant in Gastonia where I send 200 when I see her & then, once we get to know each other, she'll give me her home address & I send an additional 150 when I get to her place.

Yeah, I'm skeptical, but her pics are really hot. I make the 3 hr drive & see her at the restaurant. I send the 200 mid-lunch & then she excuses herself to the restroom. Yes, I'm highly suspicious at this point. Then she waltzes right out of the restroom & out into the parking lot & into a waiting car. Yep. So I quickly pay the restaurant bill & run out there, only to find a stupid note on my car windshield. I then call her & hear a dude's voice on the line while I'm talking to her, so she's got a POS bf in on this. Cash & dash.

I'm an experienced monger & fell for this, so please spare me the "you're a dumbass" comments. I know I fell for this hook, line & sinker. But I'm trying to do why'all a solid by warning you about her. I'm pissed as hell about it.

[South215]

Any info on her? Chatting now. Seems to be a dinner date only kind of arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-9d5b3fd54527

She is a real person. In the CLT area. LMK if you end up meeting!!

[MtnPanda]

I got laid off and have too much time, thinking about having some fun. How's the situation lately? More / less scammer, gps, platonic begger?
I see quite a few girls with profile SA and Whatsyourprice.
There seem to be less dime profiles now. Not sure if thats good or bad, since most of those turns out to be fake.

Im not really looking for a lot. Just some good heads once in a while, and they dont talk.

Side note. Anyone remember that chick in plaza or noda with the blinds dog? Anyone still seeing her?

Whats the deal with this one? https://members.seeking.com/member/614ff47b-a94d-4777-967b-f4b5ff87e7a5
Shes been around for a long time with a bunch of profiles. Any member can share? Maybe in dm if not in public.

I know I dont share much or at all. My experiences were off SA and under the radar. Cant share. Shes out. Sorry

Her apartment was always trashed but man that girl loved getting filled up.

[Member #6771]

Any info on her? Chatting now. Seems to be a dinner date only kind of arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-9d5b3fd54527

Wouldn't trust it. The adjective name and fairly new account.

[DriveHard]

Any info on her? Chatting now. Seems to be a dinner date only kind of arrangement.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-9d5b3fd54527

[PSeries]

Side note. Anyone remember that chick in plaza or noda with the blinds dog? Anyone still seeing her?

Sarah? She was a good fuck for sure. I wish I kept some of those girls on the hook a bit. Now that I have an SO. Hard to go through the meet and greet process with a SO at home.

I believe used to be close friends with this girl. Might try her and then mention if she has any friends: https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-a4cab72542e9.

[Aafakljgadkg]

I think if that's all you're looking for, go get a SW or Asian message. This game is too expensive and time consuming for just some occasional head. Now if you like the chase and don't care about the time it takes, this is your arena. Just know that a lot of thes girls can make a lot from nothing on OF now, so you have to compete with local mongers AND national basement dwellers with no game. Good luck.

Pro quality around here are ghastly.

[GutterMind4]

I too don't like using my pics. I have some that have the same general build as me. I will send pic face pic when I have to but, although not fool proof, it's not until I trust the other person is real and have verified herself. Still could be a scam but less likely by the time they jump through my hoops. When I do send face pics, send one for your social media. Sounds crazy but it just means the "scammer" went on and got photos that anyone has access to. If you send pics nobody else has seen or can get, it means you took them just for the "scammer". The problem is, it makes it easier to find out your real I'd, So there are risks with both but that way is this easier to explain away than things than could have ONLY come from you.

I would definetly never send pictures or use my main number, always use a burner phone and find pictures of a guy that looks similar to you, that's what these girls do anyways. I had an issue back in the day with Asian Hotel, they would send me texts everytime they restocked the shelves. Its very annoying!

[GutterMind4]

I think if that's all you're looking for, go get a SW or Asian message. This game is too expensive and time consuming for just some occasional head. Now if you like the chase and don't care about the time it takes, this is your arena. Just know that a lot of thes girls can make a lot from nothing on OF now, so you have to compete with local mongers AND national basement dwellers with no game. Good luck.

I got laid off and have too much time, thinking about having some fun. How's the situation lately? More / less scammer, gps, platonic begger?
I see quite a few girls with profile SA and Whatsyourprice.
There seem to be less dime profiles now. Not sure if thats good or bad, since most of those turns out to be fake.

Im not really looking for a lot. Just some good heads once in a while, and they dont talk.

Side note. Anyone remember that chick in plaza or noda with the blinds dog? Anyone still seeing her?

Whats the deal with this one? https://members.seeking.com/member/614ff47b-a94d-4777-967b-f4b5ff87e7a5
Shes been around for a long time with a bunch of profiles. Any member can share? Maybe in dm if not in public.

I know I dont share much or at all. My experiences were off SA and under the radar. Cant share. Shes out. Sorry

[Queen City Guy]

I had a burner for years until Tracfone dropped whatever band that was a couple years ago. I worked from a home office for years and my wife was in there printing some things off and heard a little jingle (that phone could not be silenced and I had forgotten to turn it off when I returned from a business trip). She looked in my business backpack and found it but didn't know how to open it because it was an old flip phone. If she had, the jig would have been up as a regular was texting me and it had all the numbers and text threads of my hobbying! I now use an app recommended by one of the mongers on here. If someone wants photos I try and get them to email my monger email. That way I can send pics that are pasted and don't have stamps on them. Also never send any pic that you have online anywhere that could be searched in Google images or anything. I did explain to my wife that the phone was left from when I had a business and used it to communicate with my warehouse guy and it had minutes left on it so I kept it on my travels as a back-up but like any old phone number you get nuisance calls and texts, she's unobservant and accepted it. Closely aligned to this: I did see someone in Shelby a few years back that I wasn't crazy about seeing her again so I ignored her texts and then one day she threatened me saying the hotel had my tag number on their security camera and he uncle (whoever) was LE and had my I'd info. Blah, blah, blah. It was a bluff but since then I sort of avoid hotels because they all have cameras, even the bad notels. Not worth messing my life up at my age (and asset level). I also try to be sure my car is where its not easy for someone to take a photo of the tag with their phone either. But that's just me. And BTY, I avoid Google anything if I can, that's just me. Google already knows wayyyyy more about me than I'm comfortable with and I'm certainly NOT going to do my hobbying through them! And I use a VPN on my computer as well to attempt to shield myself a bit from them.

Sorry to hear this too. It could happen to a lot of guys. But I hope everyone using their real phone for hobby in any way see this. A SEPARATE BURNER PHONE and an alias is the best way. I read guys are concerned the phone will get discovered. So what, I have a console full of phones from upgrades over the years or finding them on the ground at music festivals. Easily explained away. "I found it in the Walmart parking lot. Well what's on it? I don't know, I found it in the Walmart parking lot. " End of discussion and she'll never crack the code unless she's a CIA operative. The fear that a random phone gets discovered vs texts, calls, emails, app data, location data on you actual phone that linked to you. If she does break through the phone access, it linked to your alias name. BTW, don't use new I phone with thumb print access or face recognition for burners. I know they are convenient but nobody said mongering on the low is easy. The extortion is a whole other animal. I'll get back on that.