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[FarFarAway]

SA, Tinder, Bumble all have people responding to our messages, giving local numbers and texting us to keep us paying membership fee.

I am still getting a couple new girls per week from SA.

I know nothing about those other apps, but I have never ever had any suspicion that was true on SA. I definitely can tell at times I have had guys impersonating girls. Once I enter the #s into my phone, SnapChat looks them up, and I can see avatars that are males.

And it definitely isn't effective at getting me to pay any membership fees. I get SA a month at a time, I get so many POTs I can't follow up on all of them, and then I get off for a few months while I chase them all down.

I am sure you have zero facts supporting that assertion, regarding SA at least.

[StudBucket]

SA, Tinder, Bumble all have people responding to our messages, giving local numbers and texting us to keep us paying membership fee.

I am still getting a couple new girls per week from SA.

Ah, okay, this makes sense. So you just have to weed through tons of these fake profiles, bots, catfish, paid people to pretend to seem real.

[FarFarAway]

Agreed. You would have to hang out without money being involved. As you said, propose to stop being the sd. Going out or doing it without $ what so over. Usually, it's rare and it's advised not to, but it does happen from time to time to have that type of relationship.

Recently, HG posted about there not being any such thing as free pussy. Even someone you are dating, it has a cost.

Supposedly, Charlie Sheen used to say about the escorts he got from Heidi Fleiss, he didn't pay them to come over, he paid them to leave after he banged them.

Someone who has a wife / SO who is trying to get a SB converted to a vanilla date is playing w / fire. There is always an expectation on the part of a girl, of what she is going to get out of a guy who is banging her. You'd better be 100% aware of the cost and be prepared to pay it.

Finally, those of you who have or had a wife know this well. It is some of the most expensive pussy you're ever going to have.

[WowU812]

Okay, I am posting this because I am not sure if it is just me noticing this but lately SA in Los Angeles has been shit, and filled with a high amount of scammers and catfish. My photos are really good. I am younger looking (for my age), muscular and have game so its not for these reasons. But I get these girls who give me numbers and then you cannot get a hold of them after texting. My feeling is this site has tons of scammers looking for dudes to send them money and when you ask to speak to them, video call, they bounce. Or, you call them and they never can answer a call nor reach back out to you.

It was really good last year (2nd half) but now I have trouble getting better girls who are legit. Anyone else notice this?

SA, Tinder, Bumble all have people responding to our messages, giving local numbers and texting us to keep us paying membership fee.

I am still getting a couple new girls per week from SA.

[StudBucket]

Okay, I am posting this because I am not sure if it is just me noticing this but lately SA in Los Angeles has been shit, and filled with a high amount of scammers and catfish. My photos are really good. I am younger looking (for my age), muscular and have game so its not for these reasons. But I get these girls who give me numbers and then you cannot get a hold of them after texting. My feeling is this site has tons of scammers looking for dudes to send them money and when you ask to speak to them, video call, they bounce. Or, you call them and they never can answer a call nor reach back out to you.

It was really good last year (2nd half) but now I have trouble getting better girls who are legit. Anyone else notice this?

[SteveTandberg]

Still in London for another 2 months, but have to say I've had waaaay better luck out here than I did in LA. Still have a few that I can fall back on when I get back, but the quality of girls has been huge difference. I suppose I'm paying for it, at $5 whereas back in LA I was seeing regulars at $4, but definitely not as GPS as it has been.

Suppose to see this one next week. She had me buy some lingerie for her, but it's mailed to my flat so if she doesn't show up, fuck it, return it anyways. If she ghosts me, at least I have 3 other chicks here, all petite and smoking.

Do you use Seeking for your London search?

[FarFarAway]

Agreed. You would have to hang out without money being involved. As you said, propose to stop being the sd. Going out or doing it without $ what so over. Usually, it's rare and it's advised not to, but it does happen from time to time to have that type of relationship.

Yeah, it depends on what you are doing. I saw a long-term SB until about July 2021. When we FCed, she got 300. But there were plenty of times we went for coffee, to a restaurant, to the dog park w / our pooches, and I definitely didn't provide any allowance. IK she was happy in and outside the bedroom w / what we were doing, and I didn't think twice to suggest something she wasn't getting $ for. Every now and then she is back in the area, we get together and cannot keep from rekindling the fire. We agree if she was here, we'd still be meeting up. That is an arrangement that has happened a couple or three times to me in the 6+ years I have been on the site. I might like to find that again, but you can't really seek it, any more than you can be sure you will find your soul mate on match.com.

[JohnDoeTwo]

Yeah, something I have heard periodically on this site, if you really want to see what a girl thinks about you, propose that you stop the sugar and date 'vanilla'.

That will usually bring the issues into clarity. I mean, some of these girls are young and somewhat naive and haven't really contemplated deeply what they are up to. I mean, to some extent, we get to exploit that to bang some fine ass. SO I am not really opposed.

LOL.

Agreed. You would have to hang out without money being involved. As you said, propose to stop being the sd. Going out or doing it without $ what so over. Usually, it's rare and it's advised not to, but it does happen from time to time to have that type of relationship.

[FarFarAway]

She loves that cash more than she loves you, bruh.

Yeah, something I have heard periodically on this site, if you really want to see what a girl thinks about you, propose that you stop the sugar and date 'vanilla'.

That will usually bring the issues into clarity. I mean, some of these girls are young and somewhat naive and haven't really contemplated deeply what they are up to. I mean, to some extent, we get to exploit that to bang some fine ass. SO I am not really opposed.

LOL.

[JackMiles]

Yesterday this girl I've been seeing asked for us to hang out. We have had really good chemistry and I know she's developing feelings for me just by the way her affection towards me has shifted. Prior to yesterday things have been strictly sexual, with me initiating all the meet ups. I've kept it that way to establish the boundaries between us and to not blur our lines and keep her expectations in check. I had a ton of free time though and so I took her out for drinks. After a few she really opened up about her feelings about me and how into me she was. I'm not the type to need or want the fluff for my ego but I could sense the genuineness in what she was saying. Her body language and everything was more in line with a gf rather than a sb. I intended to drop her off but she insisted I come back to her place. So I went and we went to town. She even asked me to sleep over and said "I don't want this to sound weird but I want you to make love to me this time. " My emotions were kind of all over the place because I didn't know where in her mind this was crossing into. After a few hours I had to call it a night. As I'm leaving she goes "oh uhh, do you have the you know?" I was taken back a bit. I didn't have a lot of cash on me so I just hooked her up with what I had and left. It sort of left me puzzled because nothing about the night felt like this was some sb / sd situation. I was mostly giving into her feelings and made the night about her. That's never been the case before. Question is, am I right to feel like maybe payment should not have come up last night? She's acting and saying things in line with a gf but I don't give my gf a lump sum of cash each time I see her. It's a confusing spot for me. Any help or insight in how to handle this would be appreciated. For clarity, I think this girl is awesome. We have great chemistry and I don't mind a fwb situation with her. She has a super high sex drive but I also can't keep up with paying each time just to meet her sexual demands. LOL I almost feel like she should be paying me with the way she's getting handled each time we meet.

She loves that cash more than she loves you, bruh.

[PlutoKiller]

I realize this isn't strictly a sugar question, but a few of us here are definitely older, I hope I might tap into elder knowledge. I am looking for a discreet way to get generic sildenafil. I have a SO, so there can't be any record at all of this. No mail order, no nothing. I had a very accommodating urologist who was selling bottles of it right out of his office, not via a scrip. However, he joined a large bureaucratic hospital, so that gravy train is gone. IK there are veterinary uses for sildenafil, I wondered if this provides a means to get some of it without a conventional prescription. Or if someone has a friendly neighborhood herbalist I could go to. Strictly cash on the barrelhead, no names, and no questions asked.

I do have a guy in OC I have been getting such stuff from in the past, however, he gets it from India, and my sense it that it is less reliable than the real 'good' stuff that you can get from a proper medical professional. You really want to be able to rely on your pills in the sugar game.

I'll take answers here or via PM.

Just do what I did. Go the an urgent care center, ask to see the doctor. Give them a fake address and your burned phone number for their file. They will not ask for an I'd. Tell the doc what you want and voila. Took me not even 5 minutes. Most urgent care have ED meds on site and sell them to you. Pay in cash and have fun.

[ShowMeHow23]

Still in London for another 2 months, but have to say I've had waaaay better luck out here than I did in LA. Still have a few that I can fall back on when I get back, but the quality of girls has been huge difference. I suppose I'm paying for it, at $5 whereas back in LA I was seeing regulars at $4, but definitely not as GPS as it has been.

Suppose to see this one next week. She had me buy some lingerie for her, but it's mailed to my flat so if she doesn't show up, fuck it, return it anyways. If she ghosts me, at least I have 3 other chicks here, all petite and smoking.

[FarFarAway]

You can buy from Canadian pharmacies and have it shipped to your office. My prescriptions are sent to my office in plain packaging. Other than the pharmacy name on the outside, there is no indication as to what medication is inside.

Canadian pharmacies accept prepaid debit cards? That is essential for me. Electronic cash. No way I can have any charges from a pharmacy on my credit card. That sort of paper trail is a clear violation of operational security for the hitched.

[Drooo]

You can buy from Canadian pharmacies and have it shipped to your office. My prescriptions are sent to my office in plain packaging. Other than the pharmacy name on the outside, there is no indication as to what medication is inside.

Open up a mailbox at local UPS / PostAnnex etc, go to ForHims and ship the ED meds of your choice to your mailbox. Done. About the easiest discreet transaction in our hobby.

[FarFarAway]

FCed w / the girl I mentioned earlier. A key thing I left out. She mentioned at the M&G she is adopted. This is a gold mine, you should really thank your lucky stars if you find this. I am close to many mental health professionals. They tell me they can help / treat people w / all sorts of afflictions, but that one of the most intractable situations is those who have been adopted. Folks have great difficulty getting over that in their lives. And I think this applies particularly to adopted girls on sugar dating sites.

For my SB, I would definitely say that is the case. As I mentioned, she has a kink for the age difference (young / old), and in the FC, she was all about calling me daddy. I got into it w / her, afterward she texts 'thank you daddy'. I can see this dynamic persisting. If I want to continue. Yesterday was a good setup, I was quite a ways from home base, the room was cheap, little risk to me. The girls is a bit pudgy as I mentioned, but that 23 year old skin is special. Pretty face, nice mouth / teeth, loves loves loves to kiss. She did get into it, and get off, though she wasn't that easy. Nothing remarkable sexually, but a solid performance. Probably doesn't meet my 'all about fucking high quality pussy' criteria though. I have to wait another couple of weeks for my businesswoman to return.