"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Peter Johnson** · 03-31-23 20:23

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?

If it was me, I would just offer to take her to get the abortion and pay for it. Do you want to take a chance that she's really pregnant and then have to pay child support for 18 years?

$3200 is a bargain if she's really pregnant. And she probably isn't, but it's dangerous to call her bluff.

I had this happen to me, many year ago, with a regular POF girl that I saw a few times. I told her I would take her to the clinic and pay, and then I never heard from her again.

**LikeMike1963** · 03-31-23 19:32

May be too late for this but I would tell her to take that scam somewhere else as you had a vasectomy. Even if you have not.... worse case you can always come back and say the only way you will pay is if you go with her..

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.

**FarFarAway** · 03-31-23 19:12

I am really trying to figure out what I need to do to make my pix anonymous from facial recognition. I ran this profile photo of a POT I have been messaging w /, and the site could not identify a face. So, that is one strategy that doesn't rely on a filter.

I located another means to thwart facial rec, a program called Fawkes. However, what you have to do is run all of your photos through it and then post them. That prevents the different FacRec engines from forming a model they can use to identify your photos. You essentially 'dilute' the data they need with these new cloaked photos. For what is already out there on the web, I have been asking people to take them down, or to substitute a cloaked photo.

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-31-23 17:15

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

Yep, it is.

It is or it isn't her? You said no and then yes in successive posts.

**BobeSugar** · 03-31-23 16:46

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I don't have a link to profile on SA, but I do have pictures I can share. These are the photos that she used on her SA account.

And DM me for the phone number she uses, because I don't think we're allowed to share personal information on this board. She says she works as a nurse.

You have 2 options: cops or lawyer. Giving her money isn't an option because it will be beginning of extortion. You can hire a tech professional who could find her identity and as much information as possible. These dumb girls post their entire life on social media. You can leverage that information and tell her that you're going to the cops for extortion. . And this thing ain't no nurse, she looks like a pro.

**GoneForGood97** · 03-31-23 15:18

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.

If a SB knows enough about you that she can credibly threaten to out you to your family or job, you've done a poor job of hobbying. There are hundreds of post in just his thread, and probably 1000's across the entire board, with tips on how to protect yourself.

Don't use your real phone number. Don't give them your real name. Don't facebook friend them. If you plan on using snapchat make up a fake account name. If you're texting SBs with your real ph# and not a disposable number from dozens of different options (Google voice, tracphone, MySudo just to name a few) then I hate to say it but you fucked up in a major, major way.

If an SB I was seeing came at me with this shit, I would immediately go dark. Delete the ph# from the anonymous app I use, and be done with her. Go back into seeking, unshare any pics I shared, and block her account. She'd have no way to track me down unless she was smart enough to get my license plate down before trying to scam me.

If it were an SB I had been seeing awhile, had developed a trust with, and it felt more like dating than whoring, then I'd offer to take her to the clinic for the procedure, but she wouldn't get dictate to me what type of procedure. That's the doctor's decision, and any money I pay would go directly to the medical practice to pay for the visit, and NOT to her.

**PornRider** · 03-31-23 15:12

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

Is it this chic? I was just chatting with her yesterday if it was.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-27f1a6a68f93

She is a pro, her number brings up lots of hits. I bailed once I found out she was a pro.

https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/s...ncess/51626897

Yep, it is.

**PornRider** · 03-31-23 15:03

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

Is it this chic? I was just chatting with her yesterday if it was.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-27f1a6a68f93

She is a pro, her number brings up lots of hits. I bailed once I found out she was a pro.

https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/s...ncess/51626897

No, that's not her.

**Sgt Soros** · 03-31-23 14:57

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I didn't see any red flags in the beginning other than that she was DTF, but she asked for recent STD results and we were good. We met up like 4 times, maybe 5 times maximum, and the last time was back in the beginning of the month. I didn't even cum in her that time, because she said she had switched birth control. Obviously, it is still possible that she got pregnant, but lower likelihood. But it is possible. She was never a great lay, usually in and out, so I cut her loose.

She kept messaging me to meet, and I dodged her until I finally told her that I found someone else. Then the toxic behavior started to occur with the pregnancy thing over the last few days. If she is really pregnant her behavior has been very suspicious. I hope my story is a cautionary tale for everyone else to be careful. She started texting me photos from a new phone showing me that she found my personal information.

She's probably feeling a bit scorned that you turned her loose. The best way to cut a girl loose, especially if she's very pretty, is to tell her you'll be going out of town for work. Don't EVER tell 'em you've found someone else. Also, always act polite and pretend like you're still interested when she texts but always tell her you're out of town and cannot see her. She'll gradually drift away and find some other dude to fleece.

**Ripvan12** · 03-31-23 14:47

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I don't have a link to profile on SA, but I do have pictures I can share. These are the photos that she used on her SA account.

And DM me for the phone number she uses, because I don't think we're allowed to share personal information on this board. She says she works as a nurse.

Appreciate the share and warning. You are in a tight position since the extortion attempt is ongoing and you still identified her to the board. Good man. I pray one of these white knights don't reach out to her and make your situation worse since she has your personal information. Ripper.

**SoonerFan72** · 03-31-23 13:09

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I don't have a link to profile on SA, but I do have pictures I can share. These are the photos that she used on her SA account.

And DM me for the phone number she uses, because I don't think we're allowed to share personal information on this board. She says she works as a nurse.

Is it this chic? I was just chatting with her yesterday if it was.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-27f1a6a68f93

She is a pro, her number brings up lots of hits. I bailed once I found out she was a pro.

https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/s...ncess/51626897

**NewDude** · 03-31-23 13:02

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I don't have a link to profile on SA, but I do have pictures I can share. These are the photos that she used on her SA account.

And DM me for the phone number she uses, because I don't think we're allowed to share personal information on this board. She says she works as a nurse.

Is that what you're getting on SA regularly. PM some info on her. I'll gladly light that up and chuckle when she calls on that pregnant shit. I'm snipped and tucked bro.

**LouisHernandez** · 03-31-23 12:18

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I don't have a link to profile on SA, but I do have pictures I can share. These are the photos that she used on her SA account.

And DM me for the phone number she uses, because I don't think we're allowed to share personal information on this board. She says she works as a nurse.

Oh man. No wonder. She's smoking hot.

**Gavin1112** · 03-31-23 10:43

Maybe you should let the rest of us know here user name so we stay away.

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-31-23 10:41

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

I didn't see any red flags in the beginning other than that she was DTF, but she asked for recent STD results and we were good. We met up like 4 times, maybe 5 times maximum, and the last time was back in the beginning of the month. I didn't even cum in her that time, because she said she had switched birth control. Obviously, it is still possible that she got pregnant, but lower likelihood. But it is possible. She was never a great lay, usually in and out, so I cut her loose.

She kept messaging me to meet, and I dodged her until I finally told her that I found someone else. Then the toxic behavior started to occur with the pregnancy thing over the last few days. If she is really pregnant her behavior has been very suspicious. I hope my story is a cautionary tale for everyone else to be careful. She started texting me photos from a new phone showing me that she found my personal information.

She may go quiet if you ignore her for a couple days. If she continues, you should consider telling her that what she's doing -- extortion -- is a serious crime, you're saving her threatening texts, and you're going to the cops to have her arrested and prosecuted if she continues down this path.