"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Thirty3]

That's pretty crazy that she asked for full after doing pretty much nothing.

[LoriTruck]

Moneyprincess.

Wants 200 just for a meet and greet dinner date and 1000 to get intimate.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

Envii.

Meet up with her and thought everything was going well until the very end, she kind of left me hanging. We initially agreed on 200 to hangout and have a little fun. After hitting a couple of spots for drinks, I got a cheap room near by and hopped in the shower to freshen up. She wanted the money upfront but I only had half since I paid for drinks with some of the cash earlier. I had plans to just hit the atm if things went well. She agreed to half now, the rest later. Pants came off for DATY and this clown is on the phone texting. I inserted a couple of fingers and got a few moans but the phone stayed in hand just texting away with who knows who? All of a sudden she had to go, said baby sitter was ready to go so she got up. I'm thinking we can at least finish what we started so after some negotiations, she mounts me bare in cg and rides for what felt like 30 seconds then hops of and says she's got to go. She even helps me quickly get dressed. On the way to drop her off, she has the nerve to ask for the other half. I told her we don't have time to stop because she has to get back. I don't know if any of that baby sitter nonsense was true but I held my ground. You hold up to your end of the deal, I'll hold up to my end.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

[BrownSugaTwo]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=71697141

Figured I would share this one with you guys so you wouldn't waste your time. Said she had a previous arrangement in which she was paid allowance weekly and taken on shopping sprees and given gifts on top of that. Agreed to PPM but wanted $800 to $1,000 per meet. Talk about GPS. She's way too old, way too overweight, and way too delusional to think she's going to get that. But of course that's the state of the world when it comes to most girls today. Even in the real world they think they're going to get some man that makes $500,000 a year to wife them and give them everything including nannies and maids to do everything for them. And all of this after having their backs blown out by Chad's and Tyrone's until they are 28 years old and think there are more valuable and desirable at that age after all of that. Haha.

Wow. I used to smash this one 5-6 years (and 60 pounds) ago when she was in college. Always pulled overnight sessions, multi-pop. No more than $200 per meet. She was a fun bang but no way would I pay $800 for the experience. Crazy.

Here's her SA profile for completeness.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-c9294ed5425d

[Peter Johnson]

Just wondering if anybody has gotten anywhere with this one. All we do is chat. I can't get her to commit to a meet. Just wondering if it the way she is or is it just me. Any input would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-0ce6e74cb7c8

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

I met up with her once, several months ago, but just for meet and greet. We got along well, and she sent me some explicit pics and videos, and planned to get together for real fun, but then she drifted away. She will still respond to texts, every couple of months, but I doubt we will really connect further. We never talked about ppm amount, but she is an ex nude dancer, so I figure she probably has reasonably expensive tastes. But cool chick and I'm sure she would be fun in bed.

[DArrow404]

Just wondering if anybody has gotten anywhere with this one. All we do is chat. I can't get her to commit to a meet. Just wondering if it the way she is or is it just me. Any input would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-0ce6e74cb7c8

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

I've been texting with her on and off for weeks now and haven't been able to meet up with her yet. We'll made plans to meet several times but she'll cancel last minute. I get the feeling she has alot going in her life and maybe already seeing some people. She's very flaky too in that she'll stop responding for days / week at a time.

[Roddee]

The 33 percent still works.

Glhf.

For the Gang, if you haven't gotten the new 33% off code for sub renewals, just popped up in my email, but I'm taking a break from SA.

VWO33 COM.

If you use it and it works say so.

Stay Safe.

JimS2321.

[Ripvan12]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=71697141

Figured I would share this one with you guys so you wouldn't waste your time. Said she had a previous arrangement in which she was paid allowance weekly and taken on shopping sprees and given gifts on top of that. Agreed to PPM but wanted $800 to $1,000 per meet. Talk about GPS. She's way too old, way too overweight, and way too delusional to think she's going to get that. But of course that's the state of the world when it comes to most girls today. Even in the real world they think they're going to get some man that makes $500,000 a year to wife them and give them everything including nannies and maids to do everything for them. And all of this after having their backs blown out by Chad's and Tyrone's until they are 28 years old and think there are more valuable and desirable at that age after all of that. Haha.

Wow. I used to smash this one 5-6 years (and 60 pounds) ago when she was in college. Always pulled overnight sessions, multi-pop. No more than $200 per meet. She was a fun bang but no way would I pay $800 for the experience. Crazy.

[SugarDaddio]

Just wondering if anybody has gotten anywhere with this one. All we do is chat. I can't get her to commit to a meet. Just wondering if it the way she is or is it just me. Any input would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-0ce6e74cb7c8

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

[VladVonK]

I've had good luck treating it as a step up from regular dating. I don't mention money until they do. Same with sex, leave it alone except to ask if they're comfortable being intimate with an older man. I live well outside the city, so I always get a room and mention that. Some of these girls just want to be spoiled a bit. Over coffee, if the conversation is good and she's making lots of eye contact, suggest dinner at an upscale restaurant. Then start working it like a vanilla date.

Thanks for the advice, I'm actually only 3 years older than her. Just obese with a lot of cash and I'd rather do sbsd instead of dating while I'm losing weight.

[BumbaCloth]

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...2-d0c19ac85994

[DArrow404]

I don't think this is the same girl. I also saw Sugarbabyyyy20, and I kept her snap around for a bit, and her neck tattoo is different I think.

If I'm wrong and this is the same girl, the tl; dr is she's boring, mechanical, felt like what I imagine fucking a mannequin would be like, but a cute spinner. She really likes BBC, so if you're black you might get more fun. Here's the nudes I got from her way back when, you can decide for yourself if it's the same girl.

I fucked her for 200 and she hosted, and I feel I spent too much. CFS, BBJ no CIM.

It is, I have a pic of her with the exact same neck tattoo that matches the one on her new profile.

[Hal1957]

Anyone else getting this before logging in to SA? I've seen it for about a week now, the site pauses then moves to the login screen. WTF are they looking for now? BTW I use a separate browser for SA, never save logins and never use it to browse anything but SA. I know for a while last year I was getting blocked when logging onto SA using a browser in Incognito mode.

[Hal1957]

I've had good luck treating it as a step up from regular dating. I don't mention money until they do. Same with sex, leave it alone except to ask if they're comfortable being intimate with an older man. I live well outside the city, so I always get a room and mention that. Some of these girls just want to be spoiled a bit. Over coffee, if the conversation is good and she's making lots of eye contact, suggest dinner at an upscale restaurant. Then start working it like a vanilla date.

Hey guys one more bit of advice if you don't mind.

I have this second prospect, 28 F, used to be thin and cute but now a little chunky and self conscious about it she uploaded and showed me some more recent private cute pics on the site then immediately deleted them. She says she's been on and off the site a while but never met anyone from there yet. At first I thought BS but her profile seems she wants a more organic relationship. I found her fb because I'm good like that and she's definitely not a pro, looks like a lonely dorky cat lady. We've been texting here and there a couple days but she is busy working two jobs and works weekends so we have yet to meet. I think she is legit cause a lot of her fb posts are memes about being broke lonely or working too much haha.

She has yet to bring up anything regarding sexual stuff or arrangements which I think is a positive and is eager to meet for starbucks. I've read stickies here and on eccie for bedding the utr newbs but thought I'd ask for more advice here..

[VladVonK]

Tell her you're fine with 1200/ month, but you'll need her to start with a weekly allowance to build trust with her before you can start paying a month at a time. Pay her 300 a week (300 x4 week=1200 month) and chances are she'll never bring up the monthly again. If she insists on being paid the full 1200 on the first visit then will see you every week avoid like the plague. She'll take your 1200, fuck you once, then you'll never see her again. Old scam. Stick to PPM or weekly (but only cash in person). Even if you feel comfortable enough with them to commit to a month in advance, just think of it this way: would she give you a months work of fucking and not expect an allownce till the end of the month? Of course not, why would she trust someone she's never met? This goes both ways.

Yeah my gut has warned me a few times with this one but she's so hot and the rate seems too good to walk away just now. For one she's tried a few times to get me to send her sugar over cashapp for tease pics, I have ignored yet she sent me a few videos already. She was wanting weekly or bi weekly allowance so I think I can get away with in person cash like you were saying.

I should also add, I have yet to even meet her in person. We were supposed to meet this Monday for coffee but she couldn't wait that long before I got the "what do you want out of this" question. This for me is the biggest red flag after the cash for vids tease.

[VladVonK]

Meet and greet is perfectly fine way to start. Just remember the golden rule: only sugar for sugar, and no sugar means no sugar. In other words, don't pay her any allowance just for dinner or just to go get a coffee (you can pay for the actual dinner or coffee, that's fine, just don't pay her $ until you're both in a bed).

Regarding when to bring up allowance and sex, I usually ask "What are you looking for in an arrangement?" The question is vague enough that the way they answer will tell you a little about who they are and what they are looking for. If they answer immediately with a dollar figure, then you know she's experienced. If she says something about no strings attached or casual and fun, or some other description of the type of relationship, then she's either a little experienced or new but done some research. If they answer in that way ask them what they are looking for from their sugar daddy. Some girls really do just want nice dinners. I had one SB that really just wanted someone to pay for her to get a mani / pedi and a massage once a month, but was willing to meet and fuck every week (didn't last long she moved away after only a few weeks. Still, we fucked every week for a month and I spent maybe $150 total plus took her to dinner a few times. She was also a little older, like early 30's).

Once she answers the "what are you looking for in an arrangement" question, I normally will then tell her I want to make sure we'll have chemistry, and ask her if she's comfortable talking about sex. If she is, then I just go into a few questions about what she enjoys, what her favorite positions are, whether she likes sweet and romantic or rough and dominant, etc etc. If you're pretty good at discussing this it can be really fun, a turn on for both you, and is usually a great time to get some nudes from her.

Thank you gold advice. I'll pm you if things go well haha.