Seeking Arrangement

[OneExcitingGuy]

What did she ask ppm? Messaged with her a while back and she wanted $600 ppm.

I haven't gotten only 1 reply. She seems to be a game player.

[Member #6254]

I recently had someone send me a text message and threaten to kill me and my family. Listed out my address, etc. Based on the language that was used I could tell it was foreign so I didn't pay it any mind but good point of being careful and discreet. I would imagine this point this person is simply just fucking with you although it's disturbing I'm sure knowing that they know where you live if you'd like you can DM me. Maybe I have some insight on this person as well?

Same is happing to me. Send you a PM.

[RoyalOaker]

Thanks for suggestions. She is threatening me from last 4 days for false allegations, saying her step father is a cop too. Also, send me pictures of her with some cop (HPD).

I recently had someone send me a text message and threaten to kill me and my family. Listed out my address, etc. Based on the language that was used I could tell it was foreign so I didn't pay it any mind but good point of being careful and discreet. I would imagine this point this person is simply just fucking with you although it's disturbing I'm sure knowing that they know where you live if you'd like you can DM me. Maybe I have some insight on this person as well?

[Member #6254]

Depending on how severe it is, reach out to the police. If they're threatening to out you, you can get ahead of it. Depending on the situation you might be fucked regardless but can mitigate it a bit (not much). Usually that's enough to get them to move on. I'm sorry to hear that happened though.

Unfortunately always a bit of risk. Easy to say now but if they're coming to you, always public and / or hotel. If they don't want that, then I move on. Even on the civilian side, I don't invite them over until I'm very comfortable, and use disposable number. I activated mine for just a month and found a couple but only one panned out. The one I thought that would we'd seen each other twice then lost her shit saying she couldn't do it anymore like we were getting married or something. Still lots of scammers and folks trying to arrange massages at random spas. Letting my membership expire until this runs its course.

Best of luck.

Thanks for suggestions. She is threatening me from last 4 days for false allegations, saying her step father is a cop too. Also, send me pictures of her with some cop (HPD).

[ZnonAcct11]

Hey guys,

New to the board but been on SA for a while.

Any recon these? Need a new regular or two.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-536607f51f26

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-59501c478a40

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-fe3ec2cc9846

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-8b61fe1e5703

[ZnonAcct11]

Flight attendant is real too, exchanged live snaps and facetime too. But timing never works.

What did she ask ppm? Messaged with her a while back and she wanted $600 ppm.

[Lsyfier]

She looks hot, but it's better you move on. If she's making up the BDSM story, then who knows what else she has lied to you about. If she's not making up the BDSM story, then psychologically she's damaged goods and would only drain you emotionally and mentally. Cut you losses and consider yourself lucky.

BTW, her pics don't do her justice. She is really strikingly beautiful and sexy in person. Most beautiful woman I've met in some time. Makes this even more difficult. I fell hard for this one.

[Lsyfier]

She looks hot, but it's better you move on. If she's making up the BDSM story, then who knows what else she has lied to you about. If she's not making up the BDSM story, then psychologically she's damaged goods and would only drain you emotionally and mentally. Cut you losses and consider yourself lucky.

Not sure if she was being honest about the Bdsm thing or just using it to break it off with me. Thinking she may just be wanting to explore her sexuality further. She's already done the traditional things (marriage, etc). She's 37, hot, single, no commitments, starting a new life in a new place. Maybe I get it I guess. The thing is that she just doesn't seem the type to want to get tied up, choked and slapped around. Maybe she had some mental thing going on. But then again, maybe that's just her kink (or at least she thinks it's her kink). Been around awhile and still can't figure these women out and probably never will. God knows I love 'them though.

[Lsyfier]

I was communicating with her months ago trying to get something going, but it faded off pretty quickly. She told me the same story that she told you about coming back to Michigan from Colorado. I think she said she was moving to the Romeo area? But sorry about your loss bro.

Thanks. Yeah, she's in Romeo. Bought her grandparents old house and is fixing it up (big job ahead of her). Initially had a coffee date set up with her, she flaked and said she changed her mind. We continued to text and she finally agreed to meet. Think my selling point was that I'm very tall and she wanted a tall guy. She's 5'10". Plus we live like 6 miles from each other. The sex was good. She got off a couple of times every visit, but not enough for her apparently. If she was being honest with me about the Bdsm thing, I guess I get it. She's a hot, 37 yrs old, single woman with no commitments starting a new life in a new town and is looking for new experiences (sexual). She's already done the traditional things (marriage, etc). The traditional stuff is not doing it for her anymore I guess. I'm just disappointed it didn't last longer with us. Like I said, found what I thought was a keeper and then not so much.

[Member #7069]

Added pictures of Jess.

She looks hot, but it's better you move on. If she's making up the BDSM story, then who knows what else she has lied to you about. If she's not making up the BDSM story, then psychologically she's damaged goods and would only drain you emotionally and mentally. Cut you losses and consider yourself lucky.

[RoyalOaker]

Added pictures of Jess.

I was communicating with her months ago trying to get something going, but it faded off pretty quickly. She told me the same story that she told you about coming back to Michigan from Colorado. I think she said she was moving to the Romeo area? But sorry about your loss bro.

[SpartanJoe]

Question: How to get away from one extorting you?

I made a mistake of inviting one at my place in Dec and met few times. In the mean time she deleted her profile and now I am in pain.

Depending on how severe it is, reach out to the police. If they're threatening to out you, you can get ahead of it. Depending on the situation you might be fucked regardless but can mitigate it a bit (not much). Usually that's enough to get them to move on. I'm sorry to hear that happened though.

Unfortunately always a bit of risk. Easy to say now but if they're coming to you, always public and / or hotel. If they don't want that, then I move on. Even on the civilian side, I don't invite them over until I'm very comfortable, and use disposable number. I activated mine for just a month and found a couple but only one panned out. The one I thought that would we'd seen each other twice then lost her shit saying she couldn't do it anymore like we were getting married or something. Still lots of scammers and folks trying to arrange massages at random spas. Letting my membership expire until this runs its course.

Best of luck.

[Lsyfier]

Met a woman on SA about 3 months ago. She is not what I view as typical on the site. 37, gorgeous, long dark hair, tall, intense green eyes that absolutely killed me, great body. She recently moved back to Michigan from Colorado after her dad passed away here. Smart, great job, worked remotely so we had lunchtime visits at her house. Is going to grad school too. We texted and talked on phone. Did everything bare. CIP. PPM was reasonable. She's a military vet. She been married and divorced twice before the age of 27. Both guys were military. Very short term marriages. Also had a bf in Colorado that she left to come to back to Mich (she's originally from the UP). Last meeting couple weeks ago, she is very distracted and disinterested. Not really kissing back. Lackluster BJ. Prior visits had been great. Figure something is up. Not good for me. Text her a week later about getting together she ghosts me. I call her and ask her to text me. She does and says sorry, want to stop visits. Vanilla sex is not what she needs or wants (ouch. Not going to lie. That stung the ego a bit) and is now pursuing the Bdsm lifestyle. WTF? She likes to be tied up, choked, slapped and have rules to abide by outside the bedroom. Never mentioned to me. I would have been happy to oblige her. She is so hot. She apparently had already been claimed by a dom and that was it for me. Like I said. I am very disappointed and pissed. Find a great one and this happens. Notice that she posts tributes to her dad on Facebook and Tik Tok. They were close, but seems excessive to me. Maybe daddy issues? She doesn't seem to maintain relationship with men (the 2 divorces / ex in Colorado). Maybe that's why the move to Bdsm life? Just wild speculation on my part. Anybody else ever meet up with her? Name is Jess. Lives in Macomb County. She is no longer on SA.

Added pictures of Jess.

[AlwaysOnWater]

Who's Erica?

I'm sorry copied the wrong post but the one in the Swartz creek just below your post.

[Persadio222]

Question: How to get away from one extorting you?

I made a mistake of inviting one at my place in Dec and met few times. In the mean time she deleted her profile and now I am in pain.

My biggest fear!