Sugar Daddy Sites

[Murrican]

Hoping to draw on the collective wisdom of this board.

Are usually seek internationally. Just lined one up locally that I'm pretty stoked about.

Problem is she can't host and I can't have a local hotel on my credit card because I'm married.

Is there a way to stay at a hotel but not with a credit card? I thought about getting a prepaid card, but I'm pretty sure you can't use those for the incidentals run on your credit card.

[HollywoodGuy]

For sure, you don't want to fall in love w / a SB. The fact a lot of us have SOs we are committed to, for whatever reason, tends to prevent that. You can use the excuse of catching feelings to ditch a SB also.

I have a theory about those guys who famously assert here that SBs are no different than hookers. It isn't too flattering, I'll just say. I don't fuck escorts, Korean apartment girls, masseuses, streetwalkers, etc. , but some of you see them as all the same. Too bad if so. I'd prefer those w / that attitude stay away from SA, because a John attitude is the largest risk to the continued existence of the site. I can only find what I want (high quality pussy, ongoing, and ideally an exclusive relationship) on SA, so I don't want anyone to mess it up. I want true NPs. Hard to find, great to keep.

In 16 years of sugaring I have fallen in love 3 times. The first one was a true psycho. But she could only keep up her "normal girl" game for about 6 months. I had the LAPD remove her from my home 3 times after we broke up. She was exclusive to me for about a year and then non-exclusive for another year. Long story.

The second girl we were never a good match in the FC, so it was difficult but necessary to break up (although we are still together in an open relationship 10 years later). And we will always be a out of sync in the FC but I am grateful for what I do get and we do rely on each other emotionally quite a bit (facetime multiple times a day, everyday).

With the third one we had come to a crossroads between me and another guy and another girl she both almost married. She got engaged to the other two but eventually she chose the other guy, then came back to me two years later, but it just wasn't the same. She found her own path as people often do. I am actually still in love with her but my new GF is working very hard to make me forget her. As a single guy I will let myself go because I do not care about the inevitable pain that will pop up at some time in the future. It's just a part of life (mine anyways).

I did have at least 3 other girls that wanted to marry me but I was strictly in the booty call mindset with them. So no issues there. I know that at least two of them did marry right after leaving me, so that was their goal in life. I have never been super lucky in love and have never met my so called soul-mate. Although my second wife and the afore mentioned girls 2 & 3 I had high hopes for. Especially girl three. And my new GF is going all out but she has a couple of flaws I am going to have to accept to stay in the game.

Being a perfectionist in almost everything I do is a battle I have waged my entire life. And makes it especially difficult in relationships. Which is the main reason I have had multiple serious overlapping relationships over the years to try and fill in the gaps.

But to get to your point. These are not the type of relationships you would expect to have with a pro SB or whatever term you wish to use. I have a pro SB girl here in vegas. I tried to up the relationship but she basically laughed it off (more than once). I actually had to stop seeing her a while back as I just could not keep it professional. But we still chat and she is down for a $ anytime I want to see her.

Sidebar... Has anyone purchased Oxytocin online? I got some recently but have not used it yet. I only want to use it with girl 3 (who asked me to buy it) or my new GF when the time is right.

[HollywoodGuy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...2-137a259c34b3

HG, you have said every guy wants a GF who loves to fuck, until he actually gets a GF who loves to fuck.

Well I hope she liked to titty fuck as well. Be a shame to see them go to waste. My new GF (met on tiktok) told me the other day that we needed to limit our fucking to 3 or 4 times a day. LOL.

[FarFarAway]

I appreciate your sharing that. It's a dimension of this game that goes undiscussed.

There's a saying that you should never love things because they can't love you back. The same can be said about people. Don't love people who can't or won't love you back. It's easier said than done of course. But you know it's true. If she is back on the site after a few days you are not having the same experience in the relationships as she is.

For sure, you don't want to fall in love w / a SB. The fact a lot of us have SOs we are committed to, for whatever reason, tends to prevent that. You can use the excuse of catching feelings to ditch a SB also.

I have a theory about those guys who famously assert here that SBs are no different than hookers. It isn't too flattering, I'll just say. I don't fuck escorts, Korean apartment girls, masseuses, streetwalkers, etc. , but some of you see them as all the same. Too bad if so. I'd prefer those w / that attitude stay away from SA, because a John attitude is the largest risk to the continued existence of the site. I can only find what I want (high quality pussy, ongoing, and ideally an exclusive relationship) on SA, so I don't want anyone to mess it up. I want true NPs. Hard to find, great to keep.

[Murrican]

I appreciate your sharing that. It's a dimension of this game that goes undiscussed.

There's a saying that you should never love things because they can't love you back. The same can be said about people. Don't love people who can't or won't love you back. It's easier said than done of course. But you know it's true. If she is back on the site after a few days you are not having the same experience in the relationships as she is.

I had a 3 yr SB, starting when she was 20.

At first, she was just one more in my little black book.

Over time, I basically fell for her to the point I would happily inject her with little RanMan's given the opportunity.

She says I'm the 3rd guy she's been with. . . I know I'm probably naive, but I actually believe her.

Over the last few months she started flaking, leaving early, showing up unshaved, and just generally not attentive.

I made clear that I felt it was on the wane and than I had other things that were working out better.

She did put in more effort, but I knew it was just to keep the arrangement going, so I let her go.

I was just too into her, and it wasn't reciprocated, and I just couldn't deal with that anymore.

She never once logged in during our entire time, now she's back with the same old profile (not too smart I think).

Seeing her back on the site a few days later kinda killing me.

Maybe she meets one of you wonderful gents, but I also know that site can be a bit rough on the ladies.

Not-so-secretly hoping she realizes it's fucked up out there and comes begging back . . . I know I'm kidding myself.

Anyone else been here?

[FarFarAway]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...2-137a259c34b3

HG, you have said every guy wants a GF who loves to fuck, until he actually gets a GF who loves to fuck.

[Chupacabra]

I had a 3 yr SB, starting when she was 20.

At first, she was just one more in my little black book.

Over time, I basically fell for her to the point I would happily inject her with little RanMan's given the opportunity.

She says I'm the 3rd guy she's been with. . . I know I'm probably nave, but I actually believe her.

Over the last few months she started flaking, leaving early, showing up unshaved, and just generally not attentive.

I made clear that I felt it was on the wane and than I had other things that were working out better.

She did put in more effort, but I knew it was just to keep the arrangement going, so I let her go.

I was just too into her, and it wasn't reciprocated, and I just couldn't deal with that anymore.

She never once logged in during our entire time, now she's back with the same old profile (not too smart I think).

Seeing her back on the site a few days later kinda killing me.

Maybe she meets one of you wonderful gents, but I also know that site can be a bit rough on the ladies.

Not-so-secretly hoping she realizes it's fucked up out there and comes begging back . . . I know I'm kidding myself.

Anyone else been here?

Yeah I've been there, but I learned to accept the cold hard facts. Sugar babies are just hookers by another name. Sure, maybe they are a bit more picky about their johns and they stick around longer, but let's not kid ourselves, they're hookers and you can't turn a ho into a housewife. If you want Mama or Mrs. RanMan you meet her in church or at the park or something, not on SA bro. Move on as soon as possible, otherwise you're just wasting your time and energy.

[RanManCan]

I had a 3 yr SB, starting when she was 20.

At first, she was just one more in my little black book.

Over time, I basically fell for her to the point I would happily inject her with little RanMan's given the opportunity.

She says I'm the 3rd guy she's been with. . . I know I'm probably naive, but I actually believe her.

Over the last few months she started flaking, leaving early, showing up unshaved, and just generally not attentive.

I made clear that I felt it was on the wane and than I had other things that were working out better.

She did put in more effort, but I knew it was just to keep the arrangement going, so I let her go.

I was just too into her, and it wasn't reciprocated, and I just couldn't deal with that anymore.

She never once logged in during our entire time, now she's back with the same old profile (not too smart I think).

Seeing her back on the site a few days later kinda killing me.

Maybe she meets one of you wonderful gents, but I also know that site can be a bit rough on the ladies.

Not-so-secretly hoping she realizes it's fucked up out there and comes begging back . . . I know I'm kidding myself.

Anyone else been here?

[HollywoodGuy]

Right-o. But what does it do? What's the benefit of doing it? Like you show up in searches more or something?

I know nothing about international. But domestically? Sometimes they travel, or go to school in one city but live in another. I believe the scammers change their address for obvious reasons or sometimes they just get bored or hope you will fly them in if you like them once you find out they live elsewhere. I have had that happen to me a few times, but I never fly girls in.

I only broke that rule recently because I met a girl on tiktok, so not a SB. No payments.

[Murrican]

The girls do it all the time.

Right-o. But what does it do? What's the benefit of doing it? Like you show up in searches more or something?

[HollywoodGuy]

Just a random poll. Only click on the image you are most interested in. This will count the preferences, and the number of clicks will be displayed when you hover over the image.

[HollywoodGuy]

What does changing your location to the local location do for you? Isn't it just obvious you are not from there when you show up with a different accent and a hotel room?

The girls do it all the time.

[Murrican]

What does changing your location to the local location do for you? Isn't it just obvious you are not from there when you show up with a different accent and a hotel room?

I've had many great experiences with gorgeous girls in UK, France, Germany, Scandinavia, Prague, and Budapest. I like to line up several girls before traveling through, letting POTs know that I'll be in the area at a certain date. Being an American makes you exotic and interesting to these dimes.

You can also set your location to a European city, and enjoy. There's a dedicated international board with forums specific to each country, though with varying levels of activity.

[FirstClass1]

Have any of you CA guys gone to London and found success out there? Sorry, I get it, this is a SoCal board, but I'm going out there for work and will be there for several months. It seems everyone out there has "Passport ready" in their profile and probably messaged at least 100+ girls out there, and barely a nibble from anyone.

Any pointers for across to see potential?

I've had many great experiences with gorgeous girls in UK, France, Germany, Scandinavia, Prague, and Budapest. I like to line up several girls before traveling through, letting POTs know that I'll be in the area at a certain date. Being an American makes you exotic and interesting to these dimes.

You can also set your location to a European city, and enjoy. There's a dedicated international board with forums specific to each country, though with varying levels of activity.

[Murrican]

The pursuit of 'road sugar' has a long history. I have done it successfully in several cases. In Chicago and San Fran, for instance. You can find advice about how to go about it posted in sugar threads. I have never done any international, but one my bowl buddies, Murrican, says that is his major playground.

Your bowl buddy concurs.

Actually the origin of my screen name here is just that. I'm the American (murrican) when I travel seek. In Latin American countries it's pretty amazing how far 500 dollars will go. Yesterday I was planning a trip w a 19 year old. Offered the equivalent of 550 dollars which is quite high for where I'm going. And I know it. But I want service. She accepts and later says that normally she's used to 3-5 hour dates but I want basically a 24 hour stint. I very politely replied that I thought my gift was generous but I totally understand if it's not her thing and I'll take that as a hint to move on. I can't tell you how fast she replied. "No it's ok. I'm happy with it. Of course I can". 3 texts in rapid succession. This is, incidentally, why I pay US prices in non-US markets. I want what I want and I don't want to be made to feel like I'm getting a favor.