Non Pro's

[Mamouna]

There's a promo on What's Your Price for credits right now, don't go for it.

After about 3 weeks, a few hundred credits, and a lot of effort I still have to recommend most people to avoid it as the site has not been a good return on investment. I went on one date in person which wasn't that bad and a couple others didn't work out for no fault of their own. I won't brag but I did very well on seeking in comparison and paid less for a month's subscription. The whole concept of WYP is supposed to be a relatively quick dating set up, but the site and user base work against it at every turn. Not being able to communicate with someone before the offer is their revenue generating model, but it really puts your ability to negotiate and screen at a disadvantage.

Here's are my top complaints:

-Messaging system sucks, so bad. Much worse than seeking. Most replies will be staggered in long intervals due to lag, or site errors, or whatever. It makes screening incredibly frustrating and leads to a lot of dead ends after days of effort with the high level of scammers and fake accounts.

-Low pool of genuine companions. They made a push to bring in more users but it is still a relatively small number of real women available compared to seeking. It's obvious they're just getting drowned in notifications and messages, much worse than the other site. Part of the issue might be that I prefer attractive women under 30, but I don't even bother filtering search results anymore because there are such few options.

[Ame128]

Dumb questions but new to this side, but do those who have had success actually fill out their profile? How much info / what do you put in it? Do you put a personal identifiable picture on?

[Michael1967]

Had me get a hotel, and communicated right to that point. Then ghosted me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-99d72dbe8bec

Oh God. She's still out there. Just so you know. She's not as attractive as her pictures. Not even close.

[CookieGuy]

Had me get a hotel, and communicated right to that point. Then ghosted me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-99d72dbe8bec

Judging by her picture, looks like she was diverted to a "Golden Corral" instead of going to your hotel.

[XyzzyS2]

Had me get a hotel, and communicated right to that point. Then ghosted me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-99d72dbe8bec

[DrtyHarry]

I think if she wants money, she will bring it up. The people that wanted money, I never had to squeeze it out of them. I occasionally have to squeeze the amount out of them once they mention they are looking for money. I personally would not bring it up first and treat it like a date. You'll be surprised at how it will come up, some will mention being a sugar baby, some will talk about how they have some bills due, some will just come out and offer. But some are just looking to date, treat those like dates and ask them to go somewhere after. Like a cool bar. Dress well, be polite, open doors and ask open ended questions and talk about yourself as little as possible. The biggest complaints I hear about previous dates is guys talked about themselves the whole time. If she's older and you act like a gentleman it's almost guaranteed. Younger is more of a crapshoot (but my car BJ's came from younger ones).

Yup this is pretty much the blueprint that I follow. For me though I have almost never met someone on SA who met for the first date completely for free (I. E. A date). It has happened for future visits where we meet, have a nice dinner and wine and then fuck like rabbits without an actual payment. I do agree though that slightly older (40's) women are much more mature and know what they want from the meeting. The really young ones are sometime too immature or just all over the place for me. For those I prefer a price upfront and then just go fuck them (I. E. A more TNA style meetup) rather than dinner and wine (of course there are probably younger girls who are incredible smart and mature, I was not generalizing).

[Lego19]

Anyone seen her yet?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-428d488cad58

I think someone with a location like that (Washington, Washington) , they are mostly fake accounts or scams.

[Baddaddy2021]

Anyone seen her yet?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-428d488cad58

[Lego19]

Took a peek at WYP, recognized half of the profiles from SA. I guess I'll stick to SA for now.

[QuickDip]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...d-23dab17977a2

Not much info I can gather from profile. Is she wearing some fast food joint uniform? Any experience with this one?

It's a restaurant called "Furr's Buffet" and only had restaurants in Texas. I'm guessing the profile is fake.

[Mamouna]

And at that point, figuring out how to get to the goal through charm vs more $.

As he said, it's pretty simple. Present yourself as reliable (pay the offer, date expenses), interesting, and safe. Get to know them, understand their motives and respond accordingly. I doubt any woman wanting compensation will change her mind unless it was George Clooney walking thru the door. But I do believe the opposite. Most women know within minutes if they're open to sex with a guy after meeting. Some will come in with a set price and others willing to hear offers. Others will change their minds at the last minute. That's why it's so YMMV.

[Michael1967]

It's that moment where you're trying to avoid paying money unnecessarily that seems to be the art of the date. Do you willingly pay the date offer up front, or after? Or just don't bring it up at all and wait for them to. And at that point, figuring out how to get to the goal through charm vs more $. I know with seeking, this is always clear in advance. Not knowing if the girl is disguising her requirements for PPM money is that subtle thing with the WYP girls. So this, I'm hoping for more comments on how this has gone for you all. Michael, you've been a real trove for us. Thank you.

I think if she wants money, she will bring it up. The people that wanted money, I never had to squeeze it out of them. I occasionally have to squeeze the amount out of them once they mention they are looking for money. I personally would not bring it up first and treat it like a date. You'll be surprised at how it will come up, some will mention being a sugar baby, some will talk about how they have some bills due, some will just come out and offer. But some are just looking to date, treat those like dates and ask them to go somewhere after. Like a cool bar. Dress well, be polite, open doors and ask open ended questions and talk about yourself as little as possible. The biggest complaints I hear about previous dates is guys talked about themselves the whole time. If she's older and you act like a gentleman it's almost guaranteed. Younger is more of a crapshoot (but my car BJ's came from younger ones).

[KnoxNenters]

Some for money, but most not.

It's that moment where you're trying to avoid paying money unnecessarily that seems to be the art of the date. Do you willingly pay the date offer up front, or after? Or just don't bring it up at all and wait for them to. And at that point, figuring out how to get to the goal through charm vs more $. I know with seeking, this is always clear in advance. Not knowing if the girl is disguising her requirements for PPM money is that subtle thing with the WYP girls. So this, I'm hoping for more comments on how this has gone for you all. Michael, you've been a real trove for us. Thank you.

[Michael1967]

I have five dates coming up this next week. Most of the girls have selected "discreet affairs" as one of their interests. I know we touched on this recently but I'm hoping for more feedback. From your experience, how many of you have converted a $100 offer mid date into a PPM? Versus just, fucking without that. I'm just curious to get a sense of the odds. And yes, I know that the flake factor will probably be higher, but let's just play along for the sake of the question your success, or experience on this issue?

I shouldn't say this, but you'll pretty much be able to tell during the date.My very first WYP date offered to take me to her home in Issaquah for more money (wrote about it here when it happened). I had one that thought the offer included hooking up. Best sex I had since I've been single. I miss her.

As I mentioned before, about 60% of my dates turn into sex. Some for money, but most not. I also take them to a nice restaurant, can make decent, conversation and (probably most important) get a few drinks in them. Coffee dates are always a no for me. I think one very important reason for my success is that I NEVER bring up sex. If they bring up the subject, then it's game on. I just think they are nervous anyway and if you bring up sex, you're going to creep them out.

I did go on a shitty date in Everett. She was the worst conversation ever and never even took off her jacket. When I was walking her back to her car, I saw what was under the jacket and she was hot as fuck. I offered her money. She got in her car and immediately blocked me. So, I probably wouldn't do that again. Could've tried for a second date.

One question I always ask is, "why are you on the site?" Their answer should dictate your next step. If they say they need money, then you ask them if $100 dates once or twice per week will actually make a dent. At that point, use your discretion. Also have a answer ready for when they you the same question. "I'm just looking for horny chicks to bareback" isn't acceptable.

[KnoxNenters]

I have five dates coming up this next week. Most of the girls have selected "discreet affairs" as one of their interests. I know we touched on this recently but I'm hoping for more feedback. From your experience, how many of you have converted a $100 offer mid date into a PPM? Versus just, fucking without that. I'm just curious to get a sense of the odds. And yes, I know that the flake factor will probably be higher, but let's just play along for the sake of the question your success, or experience on this issue?